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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is so hard about starting a conversation with how are you and hope you are ok and had a good day instead of

I'm interested in joining in

Would you like some fun

Let's meet now

As soon as we see conversations along them lines it's instant delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because loads are saying hi how are you msgs are boring lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you can only write 'I'm fine, how are you?' so many times without losing the will to live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you can only write 'I'm fine, how are you?' so many times without losing the will to live. "
so what would the perfect example of a first message be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you can only write 'I'm fine, how are you?' so many times without losing the will to live. "
Yes or maibe the other could continue with a question lol.

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford


"so what would the perfect example of a first message be "

Something along the lines of...

Hi, I've read your profile and I saw that you're into __________. I'd love to explore this as wellwell. Hope you are well and I hope to hear from you soon. Gorgeous picture by the way.

Name xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I don't like the mails starting a conversation with how are you and hope you are ok and had a good day.

Different strokes etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, I like messages that say "Yes, you are so right. Norwich are the best team in the world"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"so what would the perfect example of a first message be

Something along the lines of...

Hi, I've read your profile and I saw that you're into __________. I'd love to explore this as wellwell. Hope you are well and I hope to hear from you soon. Gorgeous picture by the way.

Name xx"

This is a perfect example! I don't mean just say hey how are you spruce it up a little with some flare not just send

"Hey I'd love to have some fun with you if your interested" because I know everyone gets them they are boring and puts us right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something light hearted, with humour.

I always like to send a wink, if they wink back.

A great opener....

Title: Well Hello

You sexy winker, nice to know we're not the only winkers here.

intoduce yourself, say directly and briefly what you're actually looking for and how you wanna play. and a thanks but no thanks is always appreciated if we're not for you.

So much beating around the bush, cuts the wheat from the chaf instantly?!

I should get paid for this shit i tell ya!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also do a spell check too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What will work for one will not work for another.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What will work for one will not work for another."

The example just above by the lady is very decent and would work on everyone I would imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to have some verve to get an answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess for guys, who let's face it have a hard time on here it's easier to just send a quick message to say hi. After all they'll probably not get a reply anyway

I will reply to a hey but not a wink! If the convo doesn't start to flow soon after that then I would consider my position!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What will work for one will not work for another."

Isn't this world meant to be an escape from reality?!

Maybe people should just chill out a bit, be themselves and cut the pretence?!

Here honesty really is the best policy.

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford


"so what would the perfect example of a first message be

Something along the lines of...

Hi, I've read your profile and I saw that you're into __________. I'd love to explore this as wellwell. Hope you are well and I hope to hear from you soon. Gorgeous picture by the way.

Name xx

This is a perfect example! I don't mean just say hey how are you spruce it up a little with some flare not just send

"Hey I'd love to have some fun with you if your interested" because I know everyone gets them they are boring and puts us right off "

I aim to please

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"What will work for one will not work for another."

Each message is tailored to the person/people receiving it. After that, it's simply whether they're interested or not. Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What will work for one will not work for another.

The example just above by the lady is very decent and would work on everyone I would imagine "

Why thank you

This should be fun people?!

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford

I think that on first messages cock pics are a complete nono, as are pussy pics. If you are attaching a pic it doesn't have to be face but something cheeky. I understand that people like to hold them back.

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