FabSwingers.com forum: As a single male or female. Do you wish you have swinging partner ?

By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

As a single male or female. Do you feel left out in the swinging scene as single.for single males it can be tough.As for females meeting with people is easy. that Feelings of emptiness and security.I am speaking as a single guy after splitting up with my Ex.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good god, No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have a certain someone who takes me out to clubs but I will meet up with others on my own. As long as they don't abandon me at the door to get in cheaper I don't think I'm that bothered about having someone to go with

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Maybe not all the time but having someone to go to clubs with and chat to would be nice rather than being one of god knows how many single guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that bothered about getting into the swinging scene. I enjoy the sex i have already, know i can get that sex, and happy with that.

But yeah i'm female, so if i couldn't get what i wanted i'd probably look for something else.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

if the right one comes along.. they come along.... if not i am not going to beat myself up over it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

User nolonger on site - well you can't win em all.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Would be very happy to have a lady accompany me to a club. Any offers?!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Partner in life = no.

Swinging partner/ involved relationship = no= too restrictive.

Swinging fuck buddy, YES!

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

No as i like my freedom too much an feel it would infringe too much on my career etc hence nsa suits me but i dont want a relationship i would like a reg f buddy for safe fun but the guy has to realise i like my own space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

though meeting as a single woman can be hard as I don't drive so any parties, clubs I go to have to be local so I have to pass on a few invites I'd still soon not have a swinging partner to go with

every time I have been to clubs with guys in the past they have just used me to get in so I don't bother anymore

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"no

though meeting as a single woman can be hard as I don't drive so any parties, clubs I go to have to be local so I have to pass on a few invites I'd still soon not have a swinging partner to go with

every time I have been to clubs with guys in the past they have just used me to get in so I don't bother anymore "

But you got a lift out of it though, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

though meeting as a single woman can be hard as I don't drive so any parties, clubs I go to have to be local so I have to pass on a few invites I'd still soon not have a swinging partner to go with

every time I have been to clubs with guys in the past they have just used me to get in so I don't bother anymore

But you got a lift out of it though, surely? "

Oh god yeah how ungrateful of me

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have a club buddy. Me and her tend to go together as its nice to have someone to chat to in between sexual adventures. I also enjoy going to my local club alone as there's always someone to talk to there.

It takes time but if you get known in your area then things come along.

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Swinging for a single fem can be difficult too, some couples will only meet other couples and going to a club or party does make me very nervous and as I can be shy and don't find it easy to initiate play it does make me wish I had one or two confident swinging partners especially another single fem.

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By *orbi24Man
over a year ago

London

"Swinging for a single fem can be difficult too, some couples will only meet other couples and going to a club or party does make me very nervous and as I can be shy and don't find it easy to initiate play it does make me wish I had one or two confident swinging partners especially another single fem."
i love to be one of your swinger partners

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No im very happy meeting on my own .

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

9 out of 10 times I go alone and prefer it. Will only go with someone else if I know them well and plan to spend all or the majority of the evening with them. Hate random requests from single blokes I don't know because they want to get in cheaper, need their Hand holding or think they'll have a guaranteed shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I am just to busy in the gym

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i like going to a club as a single, however, if ive met them socially, had 121 time with them, and we really gel, then its an expansion of that, if its mutually agreeable...

no i don't just meet guys and take them to a club, i respect the couple rules in the clubs and i respect the other couples too much..i dont feel its impeccable..just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single male or female. Do you feel left out in the swinging scene as single.for single males it can be tough.As for females meeting with people is easy. that Feelings of emptiness and security.I am speaking as a single guy after splitting up with my Ex."

I don't feel left out, but sometimes I think it would be cool to meet someone that I share the same values with who would be interested in going to clubs with me.

One of my partners isn't really into clubs at all, and my other partner I don't see that often, and we tend to go to fetish clubs instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like someone to go to parties and clubs with. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea I like having my wingman as its far better socially & he's always a back up to play with alone with if no suitable couples appeal to either of us - we always have a great time either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

though meeting as a single woman can be hard as I don't drive so any parties, clubs I go to have to be local so I have to pass on a few invites I'd still soon not have a swinging partner to go with

every time I have been to clubs with guys in the past they have just used me to get in so I don't bother anymore "

That is shameful!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

actually id quite like to get a female to go with occasionally...hadn't really considered that before..hmmmm ..the possibilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having someone to go to a club with would be nice, an fwb too but other than that, no i wouldn't be interested in becoming a 'couple'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't like male partners to swing with, I've always gone on my own to party's, I drive and very independent and confident anough to approach people to chat to.

If I go with someone it would be with female club buddy's there less hassle lol

prefer to be free as a bird

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

No way; why on Earth would I want to carry excess baggage?

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

I'd love a regular friend to attend clubs & parties with, alas I've given up looking.

On my search I've found shergar, Lord lucan and even a straight politician but not the elusive female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A partner that happily swings as a couple or single and allows me the same freedom would be my dream scenario.

Unfortunately I'm married play a line and haven't yet got quiet the right fuck bud swinging partner who a friend as well as treats me well and with consideration . I'm obviously just expecting too much

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By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

Yes some female don't bother. But I think having a male beside you in any occasion is good because of security. In fact some single female are more vulnerable to aggressive attitude in clubs being single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something i have been thinking about, i have been going to swingers clubs for about 3 years as a single male, i get on with the other single lads and know a few couples as well but recently i have been thinking should i try and meet a single female who wants to go to clubs as a swinging partner? Someone to have a laugh with, swap with couples and if no one wants to play then we can play alone, im in 2 minds pros and cons and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree a regular swing fuckbuddy would be each others protection but as a relationship I bet it can cause a fair few problems. I'm a single guy but would like a regular swing partner

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

too young i have masses of exploration to do.

however if there were regulars... i guess thats a bit different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes some female don't bother. But I think having a male beside you in any occasion is good because of security. In fact some single female are more vulnerable to aggressive attitude in clubs being single. "

not at all clubs and partys are well staffed . I've never felt vulnerable a no means no and if too pushy they know about it as there balls are more vulnerable

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I don't feel any need to find a club or play partner - as a single female finding someone if I want one is no problem, in fact avoiding them is trickier!

But in a longer term I would like a relationship with someone who is open and comfortable with the swinging world since I have so many friends in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like a woman to talk to inbetween the fun, as can get a bit boring on your own if not much is going on, as I am bit shy to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never want to go to a club with a man who felt it was his duty to be my bodyguard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not at all clubs and partys are well staffed . I've never felt vulnerable a no means no and if too pushy they know about it as there balls are more vulnerable

I have noticed how some guys treat you different when they realise your alone

I have had it many times where a guys been talking to me, just sat normal having a chat and after 10 mins or so asked where my partner is and when I have said I didn't come with anybody all of a sudden they get the ....oh your alone are you attitude and the hands start roaming

why can they have a normal conversation when they think I'm waiting for my partner but soon as they realise I'm alone it's ok to start touching me up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not at all clubs and partys are well staffed . I've never felt vulnerable a no means no and if too pushy they know about it as there balls are more vulnerable

I have noticed how some guys treat you different when they realise your alone

why can they have a normal conversation when they think I'm waiting for my partner but soon as they realise I'm alone it's ok to start touching me up?

Because many men believe that women should be owned by other men.

Silly you.

(If it helps, I get this in bars too. If I go with a friend and I get chatting to someone before my friend arrives, as soon as a friend arrives the guy inevitably goes 'oh, I didn't realise you were with him' and slinks off.)

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By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

This not a matter of someone looking for bodyguard as a companion when going to club.Being single can be fun. Having someone beside in some occasions matter because of security. I don't think having a male or female companion is hindrance to anyone freedom if both of you understand each other .i presume most single do feel emptiness when you are in a group of couples. no matter the freedom you crave being single.that sense of companionship is vital in some occasions.

As a man.i can have fun whenever I want. But occasionally I do feel that lonesome and emptiness in the club or party.please I am not in anyway bashing (singles).just expressing feeling of being single in swing scene .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though we are a married couple my hubby does not enjoy clubs so I if I go to any clubs I usually go alone. Majority of the clubs are at least an hour and 30 mins drive from ours. So to find a club buddy to share travel would be great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuk noo

Jesus christ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HELL YESSSSS x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not at all clubs and partys are well staffed . I've never felt vulnerable a no means no and if too pushy they know about it as there balls are more vulnerable

I have noticed how some guys treat you different when they realise your alone

why can they have a normal conversation when they think I'm waiting for my partner but soon as they realise I'm alone it's ok to start touching me up?

Because many men believe that women should be owned by other men.

Silly you.

I've had that a few times, the way they do change realising I'm on my own, I do make it clear if not interested. I'm strong willed, know what I want, I'm not a stroppy mare so do it in a nice way.just firm with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like a regular partner but I'm not bothered about the swinging side of things at all. Plus I only want friendship, not anyone other than a friend to rely on emotionally, I love being single. It is tough for you guys on here, I know.

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

I used to be on here and go to clubs as a couple. Since we've split up I have found it hard to get back into the scene.

I've never been to a club as a single male and I do find it a bit daunting so in that respect yes I would like someone to go with but only as a FB, someone to enjoy the time with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes so hard to get a parner

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

I have a partner but he doesn't swing,works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This not a matter of someone looking for bodyguard as a companion when going to club.Being single can be fun. Having someone beside in some occasions matter because of security. I don't think having a male or female companion is hindrance to anyone freedom if both of you understand each other .i presume most single do feel emptiness when you are in a group of couples. no matter the freedom you crave being single.that sense of companionship is vital in some occasions.

not vital to me or some of my friends, I'm quite comfortable in the company of couples.if a female is confident anough and can hold there own it's all good

in march 2013 my 2nd time with same guy at a club(first times ever at clubs) he got hump left me there.hour and half away from home.after that I never relied on a man to take me or look after me.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

There are 'dives' such as those around???

I wouldn't come within a mile of a 'joint' such as that and if I ever did, I will be out like a shot. I certainly would not be looking for a 'bodyguard' to get physically violent with the other guys there

I can just about imagine the end of such an evening in a Police station with me being asked to provide a witness statement!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I.am look for a lady swinging partner derry area .hard to get.if you there message me

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm not single but I've been out with a wing-man on a few occasions

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Id rather have someone to go to the cinema with

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Id rather have someone to go to the cinema with

When are they coming out with Kill Bill 3? I like the gentle, soppy, romances

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

"Id rather have someone to go to the cinema with

When are they coming out with Kill Bill 3? I like the gentle, soppy, romances"

Is there a kill bill 3? Didn't he die in 2?

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