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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been wondering why some of you won't kiss. For us, not kissing is a deal breaker and we won't meet those who don't. A great kisser is a massive turn on

It just seems a little strange to us that whilst you will put your tongue in every crevice, you will perform oral, but won't kiss on the mouth.

We understand other peoples boundaries, it just has us scratching our head.

What are your thoughts on this?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Been wondering why some of you won't kiss. For us, not kissing is a deal breaker and we won't meet those who don't. A great kisser is a massive turn on

It just seems a little strange to us that whilst you will put your tongue in every crevice, you will perform oral, but won't kiss on the mouth.

We understand other peoples

boundaries, it just has us scratching our

head.

What are your thoughts on this?"

Nits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree, we wouldn't meet non kissers.

In most cases it's just that the couple in question wish to keep something intimate and personal for just themselves in private.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

truly my thoughts are that people don't question why I don't do anal why do they feel it ok to question why I choose not to passionately kiss another man?

You say you understand other people's but that this has you scratching your head, why is this particular boundary so difficult to accept?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Been wondering why some of you won't kiss. For us, not kissing is a deal breaker and we won't meet those who don't. A great kisser is a massive turn on

It just seems a little strange to us that whilst you will put your tongue in every crevice, you will perform oral, but won't kiss on the mouth.

We understand other peoples

boundaries, it just has us scratching our

head.

What are your thoughts on this?

Nits? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"truly my thoughts are that people don't question why I don't do anal why do they feel it ok to question why I choose not to passionately kiss another man?

You say you understand other people's but that this has you scratching your head, why is this particular boundary so difficult to accept?"

I guess we don't understand why people don't. It would feel quite odd to have sex without kissing. But again, if its a boundary for someone, we would respect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"truly my thoughts are that people don't question why I don't do anal why do they feel it ok to question why I choose not to passionately kiss another man?

You say you understand other people's but that this has you scratching your head, why is this particular boundary so difficult to accept?

I guess we don't understand why people don't. It would feel quite odd to have sex without kissing. But again, if its a boundary for someone, we would respect that. "

I spent most of my adult life not kissing at all... No one ever really questioned it and no one till Mr even tried really...

I do kiss now but kissing a guy that isnt my partner is okay but it certainly isnt something I Have to have.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"truly my thoughts are that people don't question why I don't do anal why do they feel it ok to question why I choose not to passionately kiss another man?

You say you understand other people's but that this has you scratching your head, why is this particular boundary so difficult to accept?

I guess we don't understand why people don't. It would feel quite odd to have sex without kissing. But again, if its a boundary for someone, we would respect that. "

You don't need to understand it, just to accept it. I find it quite rude to question somebody's preferences and choices like this describing someone like me as a little strange because I'm not like you.

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By *eckandcarlCouple
over a year ago

leicester

We tried a no kissing rule nowhere near as good in fact it didn't last 5 mins before we scrapped the rule lol but each to their own xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"truly my thoughts are that people don't question why I don't do anal why do they feel it ok to question why I choose not to passionately kiss another man?

You say you understand other people's but that this has you scratching your head, why is this particular boundary so difficult to accept?

I guess we don't understand why people don't. It would feel quite odd to have sex without kissing. But again, if its a boundary for someone, we would respect that.

You don't need to understand it, just to accept it. I find it quite rude to question somebody's preferences and choices like this describing someone like me as a little strange because I'm not like you.

"

Woah.. Its just a question. Nowhere did it say YOU were strange. You don't need to defend yourself. Your first reply was adequate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been wondering why some of you won't kiss. For us, not kissing is a deal breaker and we won't meet those who don't. A great kisser is a massive turn on

It just seems a little strange to us that whilst you will put your tongue in every crevice, you will perform oral, but won't kiss on the mouth.

We understand other peoples boundaries, it just has us scratching our head.

What are your thoughts on this?"

I don't really enjoy the sensation of someones mouth on mine. I don't find it particularly pleasurable.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"truly my thoughts are that people don't question why I don't do anal why do they feel it ok to question why I choose not to passionately kiss another man?

You say you understand other people's but that this has you scratching your head, why is this particular boundary so difficult to accept?

I guess we don't understand why people don't. It would feel quite odd to have sex without kissing. But again, if its a boundary for someone, we would respect that.

You don't need to understand it, just to accept it. I find it quite rude to question somebody's preferences and choices like this describing someone like me as a little strange because I'm not like you.

Woah.. Its just a question. Nowhere did it say YOU were strange. You don't need to defend yourself. Your first reply was adequate "

Oh? My actions seem a little strange to you though. I'm not defending myself I'm giving you my thoughts....you asked for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been wondering why some of you won't kiss. For us, not kissing is a deal breaker and we won't meet those who don't. A great kisser is a massive turn on

It just seems a little strange to us that whilst you will put your tongue in every crevice, you will perform oral, but won't kiss on the mouth.

We understand other peoples boundaries, it just has us scratching our head.

What are your thoughts on this?"

Totally agree

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I've met non kissers but it felt slightly mechanical, maybe due to what I'm used to and I so much prefer kissing, particularly early on as it gets the heart racing and makes me even more horny!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"truly my thoughts are that people don't question why I don't do anal why do they feel it ok to question why I choose not to passionately kiss another man?

You say you understand other people's but that this has you scratching your head, why is this particular boundary so difficult to accept?

I guess we don't understand why people don't. It would feel quite odd to have sex without kissing. But again, if its a boundary for someone, we would respect that.

You don't need to understand it, just to accept it. I find it quite rude to question somebody's preferences and choices like this describing someone like me as a little strange because I'm not like you.

Woah.. Its just a question. Nowhere did it say YOU were strange. You don't need to defend yourself. Your first reply was adequate

Oh? My actions seem a little strange to you though. I'm not defending myself I'm giving you my thoughts....you asked for them."

Yes it is strange to us. Never said is was right or wrong though, it was just something we wondered about. Thank you for your thoughts.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Personally, it just does nothing for me. Nothing to do with it being "too intimate".

I kiss Bradley and get chills, fireworks, go weak at the knees, get instantly wet, the lot.

I kiss anyone else and feel all the excitement of watching paint dry. - It feels like a chore and I can't wait for it to be over.

Hence I prefer not to do it as I don't enjoy it.

If you didn't like anal, you wouldn't do it, would you?

- Amy. x

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

This is something that I cannot get my head round,they will suck your Dick or lick your fanny but won't kiss but each to there own.but enjoy what you do do.

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

A great kisser is a massive turn on.I have played with a certain lady several times but we have only just started kissing.I enjoyed fucking her before but kissing has massively enhanced the sex we have.

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Must admit kissing is for me. Helps me get aroused more quickly and love it when it makes females really wet.

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