FabSwingers.com forum: Scars

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does it put you off if you find out a meet has large scars? Would you ignore it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, because I have scars too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like finding out the history behind them. I think it's a very intimate thing and makes me feel closer to then and less conscious of my own x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, because I have scars too."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some scars, but no adventurous exciting stories behind them , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have scars. It bothers me but never bothered a meet. Not ashamed of how I got them either. It's their problem if they have issues with it.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

I have scars, and I'm not ashamed to say that they are from self harming and some from surgery too.

Doesn't bother me if people ask about them or if they have scars, people are who they are, don't apologise for that.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I like some scars...they often tell stories and add character to a body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have quite a large scar which I keep hidden, it's not because I'm ashamed of it, far from it because without that scar I wouldn't even be here........so in answer to your question no, scars or any other marks/lines wouldn't put me off

Jane xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. One of my meets had a scar down his face and was really good looking.

Maybe if someone had half their face missing it'd freak me out though. I used to be really scared to watch videos of that man who lost the middle of his face and eyes because of an infection, so i do think something like that would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like finding out the history behind them. I think it's a very intimate thing and makes me feel closer to then and less conscious of my own x"

This

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Scars and marks tell tales of a life lived. Every mark has a story.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You guys are all rocking my world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have big scars but dont show them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah don't bother me

i spend all day at work patching people up, when I see a scare i tend to check out how neat the work is

I can't help it it just comes natural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fantastic collection of scars mostly from doing stupid stuff and a few from sport and work ! I must add that most are small apart from the one on my hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a serious motorcycle crash many years ago I spent 3 months in hospital and nearly 2 years learning to walk again. My body looked like a dog had chewed it.

Along with a very noticeable limp I was extremely sensitive about the scars. Luckily I met a really gorgeous girl who reassured me. I laughed when she explained that "chicks love scars".

Anyway years later the limp is gone and the scars faded & in truth apart from my silly embarrassment it has never proven to be an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem for me, an ex had a large scar across his chest and I always made sure I kissed it and I would run my fingers over the scar...

It was a part of him and he was lovely with his scar

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Everyone knows chicks dig scars

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Does it put you off if you find out a meet has large scars? Would you ignore it? "

No...everyone has scars, blemishes, stretch marks.....they are the story of the journey our bodies have taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some scars from my fighting days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have scars not many people notice them and no one has been put off by them

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I have scars,which are covered by the fact I don't shave, an they can only be seen when you get up close to my face.Lots of ladies love to know how I got them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have scars from having 2 c-sections and I'm proud of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree , I love scars and the stories / history behind them

Show them off with pride hun , shows your a survivor

Anita xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's more people with hidden tattoos than bad scars and that doesn't seem to put anyone off so why would a scar or two? Don't we all have scars, birth marks, moles, freckles etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my scars are from saving blind children from ninja pirates and sharks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone has scars - you just cant always see them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all they are part of the person and there life experiences and would just added to the connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got more than my fair share of scars.

early on in fab I had a meet there they'd said they wet wok with them before hand but the during the meet asked me to keep my shirt on because of them.

Made my excuses and left but it knocked my confidence for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got more than my fair share of scars.

early on in fab I had a meet there they'd said they wet wok with them before hand but the during the meet asked me to keep my shirt on because of them.

Made my excuses and left but it knocked my confidence for a while.

I think your scars make you even hotter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fair few scars.. My fave being the one on my knee that looks like an anchor

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

We all have scars be them physical or mental xxx Ive met others with visible scars and ive never been put off anyone who has them xxx

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I've got more than my fair share of scars.

early on in fab I had a meet there they'd said they wet wok with them before hand but the during the meet asked me to keep my shirt on because of them.

Made my excuses and left but it knocked my confidence for a while.

Most scars have a story behind them, I find it interesting to hear about them, if the other person doesn't mind talking about them.

Personally I only have small ones or small burns nothing really noticeable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like looking at scars, each one tells their own story. Besides, I have some too!

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Mine are small too i do have a noticable birthmark on my bum that you can see in my pics xxx But yes i like hearing the stories behind them if the other person doenst mind telling me xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have scars on my leg and also.apendix scar also as a mum i have stretch marks people shudnt judge you on your skin

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"i have scars on my leg and also.apendix scar also as a mum i have stretch marks people shudnt judge you on your skin"

No they shouldnt met women with stretch marks not off putting at all to me women should be proud of them xxx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Does it put you off if you find out a meet has large scars? Would you ignore it? "

I like scars. I'd say 'wow! Look at your big, noticeable scar! Where did you get it?'

I once kissed a ladies scar which I thought was a very nice thing to do then I found out Charles Manson had done the same to someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got more than my fair share of scars.

early on in fab I had a meet there they'd said they wet wok with them before hand but the during the meet asked me to keep my shirt on because of them.

Made my excuses and left but it knocked my confidence for a while.

I think your scars make you even hotter

This

I've never been anything other than intrigued by scars. Definitely never put off

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've got more than my fair share of scars.

early on in fab I had a meet there they'd said they wet wok with them before hand but the during the meet asked me to keep my shirt on because of them.

Made my excuses and left but it

knocked my confidence for a while.

Let's have a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got more than my fair share of scars.

early on in fab I had a meet there they'd said they wet wok with them before hand but the during the meet asked me to keep my shirt on because of them.

Made my excuses and left but it

knocked my confidence for a while.

Let's have a look"

They're not exactly hard to spot in my pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it put you off if you find out a meet has large scars? Would you ignore it?

I like scars. I'd say 'wow! Look at your big, noticeable scar! Where did you get it?'

I once kissed a ladies scar which I thought was a very nice thing to do then I found out Charles Manson had done the same to someone

Surely you should ask how, not where?!

Don't think you can buy them

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"I like finding out the history behind them. I think it's a very intimate thing and makes me feel closer to then and less conscious of my own x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got more than my fair share of scars.

early on in fab I had a meet there they'd said they wet wok with them before hand but the during the meet asked me to keep my shirt on because of them.

Made my excuses and left but it knocked my confidence for a while.

How bloody rude of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love scars. Stories. Memories. I think they're sexy x

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I have a huge laperotomy scar and colostomy bag - I used to mention it, but I'm now at the stage that I've never known anyone mind, so I forget to mention it most of the time. I figure if a meet is at waist height and they are noticing my bag, I'm doing something wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always liked scars, they show that a person has a story to tell. That the person bearing them has overcome something. Major or minor. Very interesting and for me, it makes the person all the more sexy.

I'm hoping the feeling is on the whole mutual.. I'm covered in them. After having my pelvis put back together recently I now have 2 brand new ones, potentially at eye line.. Lol

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

"Does it put you off if you find out a meet has large scars? Would you ignore it? "

Wouldn't ignore no but wouldn't be ignorant and ask what had happened we always look beyond looks if the persons got a good personality then scars are immaterial x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some scars that i used to worry about but a lovely guy on here once said to me....scars are little time stamps of our lives.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Does it put you off if you find out a meet has large scars? Would you ignore it?

Wouldn't ignore no but wouldn't be ignorant and ask what had happened we always look beyond looks if the persons got a good personality then scars are immaterial x

It's interest rather than ignorance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have always liked scars, they show that a person has a story to tell. That the person bearing them has overcome something. Major or minor. Very interesting and for me, it makes the person all the more sexy.

I'm hoping the feeling is on the whole mutual.. I'm covered in them. After having my pelvis put back together recently I now have 2 brand new ones, potentially at eye line.. Lol"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've got more than my fair share of scars.

early on in fab I had a meet there they'd said they wet wok with them before hand but the during the meet asked me to keep my shirt on because of them.

Made my excuses and left but it

knocked my confidence for a while.

Let's have a look

They're not exactly hard to spot in my pics lol"

Oh! Yes. Sorry.

*blind twat alert*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have some scars that i used to worry about but a lovely guy on here once said to me....scars are little time stamps of our lives."

Absolutely... I couldn't agree with him more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My scars remind me I survived cancer , so lets all be loud and proud about them.

They tell some wonderful stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My scars remind me I survived cancer , so lets all be loud and proud about them.

They tell some wonderful stories"

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By *regboy49Man
over a year ago

Sandhurst

Have scars of my own with both hips replaced. It's the person that counts not the scars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At a pub quiz years ago they asked what the top 3 thibgs people found sexy based on some study..

No one got number 1 it was actually scars!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At a pub quiz years ago they asked what the top 3 thibgs people found sexy based on some study..

No one got number 1 it was actually scars!"

I would have thought it.. But it would never have gone on my answer sheet.... Cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

scars are proof you survived

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

I used to apologise for my scars but now I feel they're part of my body and there's no need to explain them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A person is more than a scar no matter how large. I'm pretty certain that the person with the scar is more aware of it than me when I meet them so I wouldn't make it worse for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am due to adopt a LARGE one, so am enlightened to read, such positive replies, to the OPs question.

I myself have no qualms, and would echo must of what everyone, has said, but am still not relishing the idea of having my own.

#mardarse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of scars and eleventy million stretch marks. I love them all, they're part of my story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" scars are proof you survived "

love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" scars are proof you survived "

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I have scars on my legs and tummy don't bother me

had a meet once who had a real nasty scar on his shoulder I kissed it and he cried he said nobody had done that before couldn't get rid of him then!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have several scars ... Doesn't bother me, they are part of me & my life. I'm very thankful I'm here & have such a wonderful life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" scars are proof you survived "

Scars are proof you didn't dodge quick enough

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

" scars are proof you survived

Scars are proof you didn't dodge quick enough

lolol

I personally find them intriguing and I've only ever had one adverse comment about one of mine...said more about him than it did me

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

God I hope not.

I have an awesome one from a sports injury that got me a free (insurance) trip in a helicopter!!!

If anyone gorgeous wants to see it then message me, we'll have a social and take it from there.

James

PS Awaiting tumble...

PPS It's 8 1/2"s.

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

have a cpl of scars and its never botherd me and pretty sure any meets ive had couldnt give a flying fuck either

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"I like finding out the history behind them. I think it's a very intimate thing and makes me feel closer to then and less conscious of my own x

This

I share the same view. We all have imperfect bodies, but there are still imperfect bodies that I would love to have sex with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God I hope not.

I have an awesome one from a sports injury that got me a free (insurance) trip in a helicopter!!!

If anyone gorgeous wants to see it then message me, we'll have a social and take it from there.

James

PS Awaiting tumble...

PPS It's 8 1/2"s."

8 an a half that's only a baby

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

"God I hope not.

I have an awesome one from a sports injury that got me a free (insurance) trip in a helicopter!!!

If anyone gorgeous wants to see it then message me, we'll have a social and take it from there.

James

PS Awaiting tumble...

PPS It's 8 1/2"s.

8 an a half that's only a baby"

I know I know, but it's my baby. It's also growing as they've gone in on 4 separate occasions (over 8 years) at the same spot and it gets longer every time.

How big is yours?

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"everyone has scars - you just cant always see them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God I hope not.

I have an awesome one from a sports injury that got me a free (insurance) trip in a helicopter!!!

If anyone gorgeous wants to see it then message me, we'll have a social and take it from there.

James

PS Awaiting tumble...

PPS It's 8 1/2"s.

8 an a half that's only a baby

I know I know, but it's my baby. It's also growing as they've gone in on 4 separate occasions (over 8 years) at the same spot and it gets longer every time.

How big is yours?

Left hip to right shoulder lol

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

"God I hope not.

I have an awesome one from a sports injury that got me a free (insurance) trip in a helicopter!!!

If anyone gorgeous wants to see it then message me, we'll have a social and take it from there.

James

PS Awaiting tumble...

PPS It's 8 1/2"s.

8 an a half that's only a baby

I know I know, but it's my baby. It's also growing as they've gone in on 4 separate occasions (over 8 years) at the same spot and it gets longer every time.

How big is yours?

Left hip to right shoulder lol"

Awesome. I did that to my Action Man. Did they put a zip in? Like a teddy bear to get the stuffing in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God I hope not.

I have an awesome one from a sports injury that got me a free (insurance) trip in a helicopter!!!

If anyone gorgeous wants to see it then message me, we'll have a social and take it from there.

James

PS Awaiting tumble...

PPS It's 8 1/2"s.

8 an a half that's only a baby

I know I know, but it's my baby. It's also growing as they've gone in on 4 separate occasions (over 8 years) at the same spot and it gets longer every time.

How big is yours?

Left hip to right shoulder lol

Awesome. I did that to my Action Man. Did they put a zip in? Like a teddy bear to get the stuffing in?"

Super glue and manliness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to explore so would be nosey to ask. But doesnt bother me at all x

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By *exylovingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

This is all encouraging to me (him). I have some monster scars having had several back operations and a few knee operations. I also have one across my stomach which is about 16 inches long. They are part of me and who I am.

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I have a scar, but it is top secret how I acquired it. State security and all that.

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