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"Is it just me? A single bloke, I find most of the single women on here are offputting and very hard work, if very promiscuous, more risk and you feel like you are booking time with an escort. My preference is to meet couples as I find the friendship and the social is better, plus I feel a privilege to be allowed into their intimate space. Am I also alone in seeing their loving connnection as they play together, which is on a different level from when I am involved? Just curious.." blimey I'm promiscuous, at risk as portrayed as a escort, I best find me a man to couple up with so I can be accepted by the single men, with no risk and to be innocently be fucked by two men at same time   | |||
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I WANT CHIPS!!!"With curry, vinegar, or neither? I'm leaning towards curry myself. Just to be extra-unhealthy. | |||
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With curry, vinegar, or neither? I'm leaning towards curry myself. Just to be extra-unhealthy. "Hmm, burger sauce please. | |||
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"And... Tbh the problem with the social side on here is that some guys (quite a lot of them actually) think it's ok to just 'chat' when they want a fuck, which some can leave it weeks between chatting and by that time you're already socialising with other guys on here and cba with them any more coz they're kind of forgotten about amongst all the other guys on here. Got over 200 messages in my inbox right now, it's got really busy on here with loads of newbies lately, i'm chatting with hardly anyone. Only spoke to 2 guys today actually, out of all those." I can understand that, it must be like that for single women who are chatting with quite a few ongoing.. its not easy at the other end trying to keep it going either. Can be like that with couples if they are very active, but a lot less so. Someone above has posted that I have probably been looking at the wrong ones. Recent experience would probably suggest that is true. | |||
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"And... Tbh the problem with the social side on here is that some guys (quite a lot of them actually) think it's ok to just 'chat' when they want a fuck, which some can leave it weeks between chatting and by that time you're already socialising with other guys on here and cba with them any more coz they're kind of forgotten about amongst all the other guys on here. Got over 200 messages in my inbox right now, it's got really busy on here with loads of newbies lately, i'm chatting with hardly anyone. Only spoke to 2 guys today actually, out of all those.I can understand that, it must be like that for single women who are chatting with quite a few ongoing.. its not easy at the other end trying to keep it going either. Can be like that with couples if they are very active, but a lot less so. Someone above has posted that I have probably been looking at the wrong ones. Recent experience would probably suggest that is true." Yeah true, you have got to find a way to make this site work for you really. I'm not knocking your choices and can (almost) understand how frustrating it is for guys on here, was just pointing out how some guys make mistakes on here and how easy it is to replace them. Like biscotti says above guys treat us like escorts too, and that really doesn't help, and too many message us, it's just how it is. | |||
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"Tbf if guys didn't treat single women like free escorts then they wouldn't be an issue. I have 1500 emails in my inbox. In just 5 days. How does a man expect me to reply to their shitty pointless message immediately. Of course they have to wait. " not all of us do that, whenever I have tried it, I like to think I can find someone to get aling with and keep some kind of friendship, but as said, maybe tried the wrong ones. All ive tried to say is that my experiences have been different to the couples meets ive had.just wondered if anyone else has had the same. | |||
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"Tbf if guys didn't treat single women like free escorts then they wouldn't be an issue. I have 1500 emails in my inbox. In just 5 days. How does a man expect me to reply to their shitty pointless message immediately. Of course they have to wait. not all of us do that, whenever I have tried it, I like to think I can find someone to get aling with and keep some kind of friendship, but as said, maybe tried the wrong ones. All ive tried to say is that my experiences have been different to the couples meets ive had.just wondered if anyone else has had the same. " I do imagine some women have one in the door then as soon as they're done have another one. I've noticed most women are quite particular with who they meet. Probably just haven't stumbled across the type of female you want yet. | |||
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"Is it just me? A single bloke, I find most of the single women on here are offputting and very hard work, if very promiscuous, more risk and you feel like you are booking time with an escort. My preference is to meet couples as I find the friendship and the social is better, plus I feel a privilege to be allowed into their intimate space. Am I also alone in seeing their loving connnection as they play together, which is on a different level from when I am involved? Just curious.." Take the risk and escort bit out and you make a very good point | |||
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"Tbf if guys didn't treat single women like free escorts then they wouldn't be an issue. I have 1500 emails in my inbox. In just 5 days. How does a man expect me to reply to their shitty pointless message immediately. Of course they have to wait. not all of us do that, whenever I have tried it, I like to think I can find someone to get aling with and keep some kind of friendship, but as said, maybe tried the wrong ones. All ive tried to say is that my experiences have been different to the couples meets ive had.just wondered if anyone else has had the same. I do imagine some women have one in the door then as soon as they're done have another one. I've noticed most women are quite particular with who they meet. Probably just haven't stumbled across the type of female you want yet. " I did meet someone recently, got on ok, had a meet, but she is a newbie and having a few meets per week at the mo with different guys. She wanted BB from me which I stupidly did, and now regret, given her activity.. maybe at the time was ok, but I have no idea what elese she is doing, so decided it best to just move on, so I felt someone if they carry on enjoying so many different and random meets, that friendship would be difficult to maintain, and not last long. | |||
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"Tbf if guys didn't treat single women like free escorts then they wouldn't be an issue. I have 1500 emails in my inbox. In just 5 days. How does a man expect me to reply to their shitty pointless message immediately. Of course they have to wait. not all of us do that, whenever I have tried it, I like to think I can find someone to get aling with and keep some kind of friendship, but as said, maybe tried the wrong ones. All ive tried to say is that my experiences have been different to the couples meets ive had.just wondered if anyone else has had the same. I do imagine some women have one in the door then as soon as they're done have another one. I've noticed most women are quite particular with who they meet. Probably just haven't stumbled across the type of female you want yet. I did meet someone recently, got on ok, had a meet, but she is a newbie and having a few meets per week at the mo with different guys. She wanted BB from me which I stupidly did, and now regret, given her activity.. maybe at the time was ok, but I have no idea what elese she is doing, so decided it best to just move on, so I felt someone if they carry on enjoying so many different and random meets, that friendship would be difficult to maintain, and not last long." after this recent 'confession'..i am in stunned silence .
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"Is it just me? A single bloke, I find most of the single women on here are offputting and very hard work, if very promiscuous, more risk and you feel like you are booking time with an escort. My preference is to meet couples as I find the friendship and the social is better, plus I feel a privilege to be allowed into their intimate space. Am I also alone in seeing their loving connnection as they play together, which is on a different level from when I am involved? Just curious.. Take the risk and escort bit out and you make a very good point "This was my thinking, but the risk and escort bit makes no sense  | |||
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"Tbf if guys didn't treat single women like free escorts then they wouldn't be an issue. I have 1500 emails in my inbox. In just 5 days. How does a man expect me to reply to their shitty pointless message immediately. Of course they have to wait. not all of us do that, whenever I have tried it, I like to think I can find someone to get aling with and keep some kind of friendship, but as said, maybe tried the wrong ones. All ive tried to say is that my experiences have been different to the couples meets ive had.just wondered if anyone else has had the same. I do imagine some women have one in the door then as soon as they're done have another one. I've noticed most women are quite particular with who they meet. Probably just haven't stumbled across the type of female you want yet. I did meet someone recently, got on ok, had a meet, but she is a newbie and having a few meets per week at the mo with different guys. She wanted BB from me which I stupidly did, and now regret, given her activity.. maybe at the time was ok, but I have no idea what elese she is doing, so decided it best to just move on, so I felt someone if they carry on enjoying so many different and random meets, that friendship would be difficult to maintain, and not last long. after this recent 'confession'..i am in stunned silence .
i think ill sit back and go get my popcorn... "Popcorn-a-go-go! | |||
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"You could have had a valid point about the reasons you prefer to meet couples, but I'm really confused about the promiscuity and risk part of the opening post and that makes me not sure you know what the fuck you're talking about, to be honest. " | |||
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" I did meet someone recently, got on ok, had a meet, but she is a newbie and having a few meets per week at the mo with different guys. She wanted BB from me which I stupidly did," Toffee or salted popcorn? | |||
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"You could have had a valid point about the reasons you prefer to meet couples, but I'm really confused about the promiscuity and risk part of the opening post and that makes me not sure you know what the fuck you're talking about, to be honest. " I have already explained my poor choice of wording and opologised to anyone I may have offended, and as for the risk, if I am considering meeting up with anyone single or couple who is having several meets per week with random people, even if a condom is used, unprotected oral is a risk. All im trying to say if I have explained it poorly is that the more you meet the more the risk. If that doesnt explain it and you want to continue being rude and see this as fun then carry on without me, along with the anti BB police who will probably be along just now as well. I am going to get tested and hopefully it was just a warning to be more careful in future and not be talked into doing something. | |||
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"You could have had a valid point about the reasons you prefer to meet couples, but I'm really confused about the promiscuity and risk part of the opening post and that makes me not sure you know what the fuck you're talking about, to be honest. I have already explained my poor choice of wording and opologised to anyone I may have offended, and as for the risk, if I am considering meeting up with anyone single or couple who is having several meets per week with random people, even if a condom is used, unprotected oral is a risk. All im trying to say if I have explained it poorly is that the more you meet the more the risk. If that doesnt explain it and you want to continue being rude and see this as fun then carry on without me, along with the anti BB police who will probably be along just now as well. I am going to get tested and hopefully it was just a warning to be more careful in future and not be talked into doing something." But why is that risk more for a woman than a couple? There are couples who will have multiple meets per night let alone per week, so why single out women for that? I wasn't deliberately being rude, and I'm not the bareback police. But you don't know what you're talking about if you think it's only women who have multiple meets. | |||
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"You could have had a valid point about the reasons you prefer to meet couples, but I'm really confused about the promiscuity and risk part of the opening post and that makes me not sure you know what the fuck you're talking about, to be honest. I have already explained my poor choice of wording and opologised to anyone I may have offended, and as for the risk, if I am considering meeting up with anyone single or couple who is having several meets per week with random people, even if a condom is used, unprotected oral is a risk. All im trying to say if I have explained it poorly is that the more you meet the more the risk. If that doesnt explain it and you want to continue being rude and see this as fun then carry on without me, along with the anti BB police who will probably be along just now as well. I am going to get tested and hopefully it was just a warning to be more careful in future and not be talked into doing something." Now read your opening post again. It sounds like you have had one meet that fits this 'lovely' stereotype you've created, and from that you have determined that most single women on Fab fit it. That is going to offend a lot of people, regardless of how you say you've worded it. | |||
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"Hehe find it so funny, single guy's get bashed on the forum and hardly anyone defends them, now single women our getting a bit of a negative comment and the guys are out in force to defend them ....you boys certainly know which way your bread is buttered lol"Oooops just realised no single guys have commented lol oh urmmm but if they did | |||
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"Is it just me? A single bloke, I find most of the single women on here are offputting and very hard work, if very promiscuous, more risk and you feel like you are booking time with an escort. My preference is to meet couples as I find the friendship and the social is better, plus I feel a privilege to be allowed into their intimate space. Am I also alone in seeing their loving connnection as they play together, which is on a different level from when I am involved? Just curious.. blimey I'm promiscuous, at risk as portrayed as a escort, I best find me a man to couple up with so I can be accepted by the single men, with no risk and to be innocently be fucked by two men at same time " | |||
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"My apologies, poor choice of word... flame me all you want. But with the attention that ladies get on here, it can feel like you are waiting for your turn to see someone, so agin I do apologise as I have insulted people." Not insulted feel free to pay me if you wish | |||
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" But why is that risk more for a woman than a couple" because the type of couples I meet I have or hope to have lasting friendships with and tend to only meet a few times a month, not per night. I certainly dont think that all women on here are more of a risk than couples.. you might think im an idiot, but not that much of one. What i probably meant to say but didn't do well, for me meeting women who have a lot of meets with a lot of people, are more of a risk than the type of couples I meet, but I also realise that even if you only have one meet per year, it is still a risk,but has to be less of one. I tend to find that couples are around on here for longer, therefore it can be easier to strike up a lasting friendship with them. I would be equally cautious of a couple who meet several times a week or night
I dont meet very often, but I am as bigger risk as anyone lol so I am off to the gum clinic.. oh dear! | |||
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"the point is....toffee popcorn please... that you make an opening threada bout single women..being a risk and promiscuous ..fair enough... then you confess to having bareback sex, which you were talked into...apparently.. then you say bare back police are being called... but you just did bare back and the person you did it with you felt she was a risk and promiscuous.. thing is you've just done what you accused her of... maybe this is how you feel about yourself...a contemplative moment maybe?? poking at single women is fine.. if you have a valid point.. to me you have no valid point, but projection and transference over feeling you are stupid for having done it. dont blame other people for what you agree to...its called being a grown up and assuming self responsibility and in this case you are running to the couples or surrogate parents for comforting..asking them to make it all better.. hand goes out to claim the soft ice cold drink, next to the popcorn bowl." I've eaten a bit too much actually, I feel a bit bob n dick | |||
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" What i probably meant to say but didn't do well, for me meeting women who have a lot of meets with a lot of people, are more of a risk than the type of couples I meet " may I suggest you chance the type of women you meet
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"Is it just me? A single bloke, I find most of the single women on here are offputting and very hard work, if very promiscuous, more risk and you feel like you are booking time with an escort. " This makes you sound like a misogynist,judgemental whingey tool. | |||
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" What i probably meant to say but didn't do well, for me meeting women who have a lot of meets with a lot of people, are more of a risk than the type of couples I meet may I suggest you chance the type of women you meet
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"Is it just me? A single bloke, I find most of the single women on here are offputting and very hard work, if very promiscuous, more risk and you feel like you are booking time with an escort. My preference is to meet couples as I find the friendship and the social is better, plus I feel a privilege to be allowed into their intimate space. Am I also alone in seeing their loving connnection as they play together, which is on a different level from when I am involved? Just curious.. blimey I'm promiscuous, at risk as portrayed as a escort, I best find me a man to couple up with so I can be accepted by the single men, with no risk and to be innocently be fucked by two men at same time
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I can see why the op has judged woman on here by his first experience and has found it easier to chat and meet couples.some woman are hard work to get to chat to let alone meet.hopefully one day his luck will change | |||
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" But why is that risk more for a woman than a couplebecause the type of couples I meet I have or hope to have lasting friendships with and tend to only meet a few times a month, not per night. I certainly dont think that all women on here are more of a risk than couples.. you might think im an idiot, but not that much of one. What i probably meant to say but didn't do well, for me meeting women who have a lot of meets with a lot of people, are more of a risk than the type of couples I meet, but I also realise that even if you only have one meet per year, it is still a risk,but has to be less of one. I tend to find that couples are around on here for longer, therefore it can be easier to strike up a lasting friendship with them. I would be equally cautious of a couple who meet several times a week or night
I dont meet very often, but I am as bigger risk as anyone lol so I am off to the gum clinic.. oh dear! "I'm a woman on here and I probably meet less than once a month. I haven't met anyone new for about four months. The point is you've extrapolated from the "kind of couples" you meet or want to meet and the "kind of woman" you met, to make a massive sweeping generalisation about all women and all couples. That's why people are calling bullshit on what you said, not because they're offended. | |||
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"Is it just me? A single bloke, I find most of the single women on here are offputting and very hard work, if very promiscuous, more risk and you feel like you are booking time with an escort. My preference is to meet couples as I find the friendship and the social is better, plus I feel a privilege to be allowed into their intimate space. Am I also alone in seeing their loving connnection as they play together, which is on a different level from when I am involved? Just curious.. blimey I'm promiscuous, at risk as portrayed as a escort, I best find me a man to couple up with so I can be accepted by the single men, with no risk and to be innocently be fucked by two men at same time
I wouldn't really I'm quite happy on my own
I can see why the op has judged woman on here by his first experience and has found it easier to chat and meet couples.some woman are hard work to get to chat to let alone meet.hopefully one day his luck will change"That was actually very nice. Well said. Would you like some chips? -Courtney | |||
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" But why is that risk more for a woman than a couplebecause the type of couples I meet I have or hope to have lasting friendships with and tend to only meet a few times a month, not per night. I certainly dont think that all women on here are more of a risk than couples.. you might think im an idiot, but not that much of one. What i probably meant to say but didn't do well, for me meeting women who have a lot of meets with a lot of people, are more of a risk than the type of couples I meet, but I also realise that even if you only have one meet per year, it is still a risk,but has to be less of one. I tend to find that couples are around on here for longer, therefore it can be easier to strike up a lasting friendship with them. I would be equally cautious of a couple who meet several times a week or night
I dont meet very often, but I am as bigger risk as anyone lol so I am off to the gum clinic.. oh dear!
I'm a woman on here and I probably meet less than once a month. I haven't met anyone new for about four months.
The point is you've extrapolated from the "kind of couples" you meet or want to meet and the "kind of woman" you met, to make a massive sweeping generalisation about all women and all couples. That's why people are calling bullshit on what you said, not because they're offended."I don't even meet as often as once a month, I simply don't have time I pronanly meet once every two to three months unless I book holiday they i have been known to really push the boat out and had two meets in a month I'm such a slut | |||
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"Is it just me? A single bloke, I find most of the single women on here are offputting and very hard work, if very promiscuous, more risk and you feel like you are booking time with an escort. This makes you sound like a misogynist,judgemental whingey tool." I'd rather be a tool than a spanner
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" But why is that risk more for a woman than a couplebecause the type of couples I meet I have or hope to have lasting friendships with and tend to only meet a few times a month, not per night. I certainly dont think that all women on here are more of a risk than couples.. you might think im an idiot, but not that much of one. What i probably meant to say but didn't do well, for me meeting women who have a lot of meets with a lot of people, are more of a risk than the type of couples I meet, but I also realise that even if you only have one meet per year, it is still a risk,but has to be less of one. I tend to find that couples are around on here for longer, therefore it can be easier to strike up a lasting friendship with them. I would be equally cautious of a couple who meet several times a week or night
I dont meet very often, but I am as bigger risk as anyone lol so I am off to the gum clinic.. oh dear!
I'm a woman on here and I probably meet less than once a month. I haven't met anyone new for about four months.
The point is you've extrapolated from the "kind of couples" you meet or want to meet and the "kind of woman" you met, to make a massive sweeping generalisation about all women and all couples. That's why people are calling bullshit on what you said, not because they're offended.
I don't even meet as often as once a month, I simply don't have time I pronanly meet once every two to three months unless I book holiday they i have been known to really push the boat out and had two meets in a month
I'm such a slut "aww well have a holiday to Wales one day and you would understand me, Im a mids ex pat | |||
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"Is it just me? A single bloke, I find most of the single women on here are offputting and very hard work, if very promiscuous, more risk and you feel like you are booking time with an escort. This makes you sound like a misogynist,judgemental whingey tool.I'd rather be a tool than a spanner
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"Is it just me? A single bloke, I find most of the single women on here are offputting and very hard work, if very promiscuous, more risk and you feel like you are booking time with an escort. This makes you sound like a misogynist,judgemental whingey tool.I'd rather be a tool than a spanner
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"Is it just me? A single bloke, I find most of the single women on here are offputting and very hard work, if very promiscuous, more risk and you feel like you are booking time with an escort. My preference is to meet couples as I find the friendship and the social is better, plus I feel a privilege to be allowed into their intimate space. Am I also alone in seeing their loving connnection as they play together, which is on a different level from when I am involved? Just curious.. blimey I'm promiscuous, at risk as portrayed as a escort, I best find me a man to couple up with so I can be accepted by the single men, with no risk and to be innocently be fucked by two men at same time
I wouldn't really I'm quite happy on my own
I can see why the op has judged woman on here by his first experience and has found it easier to chat and meet couples.some woman are hard work to get to chat to let alone meet.hopefully one day his luck will change
That was actually very nice. Well said. Would you like some chips?
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" yes please with some salt and vinagar on "oh you've missed the party, but it could carry on, depends how mischievous I feel but I need to do the washing up.
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" But why is that risk more for a woman than a couplebecause the type of couples I meet I have or hope to have lasting friendships with and tend to only meet a few times a month, not per night. I certainly dont think that all women on here are more of a risk than couples.. you might think im an idiot, but not that much of one. What i probably meant to say but didn't do well, for me meeting women who have a lot of meets with a lot of people, are more of a risk than the type of couples I meet, but I also realise that even if you only have one meet per year, it is still a risk,but has to be less of one. I tend to find that couples are around on here for longer, therefore it can be easier to strike up a lasting friendship with them. I would be equally cautious of a couple who meet several times a week or night
I dont meet very often, but I am as bigger risk as anyone lol so I am off to the gum clinic.. oh dear!
I'm a woman on here and I probably meet less than once a month. I haven't met anyone new for about four months.
The point is you've extrapolated from the "kind of couples" you meet or want to meet and the "kind of woman" you met, to make a massive sweeping generalisation about all women and all couples. That's why people are calling bullshit on what you said, not because they're offended.
I don't even meet as often as once a month, I simply don't have time I pronanly meet once every two to three months unless I book holiday they i have been known to really push the boat out and had two meets in a month
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" But why is that risk more for a woman than a couplebecause the type of couples I meet I have or hope to have lasting friendships with and tend to only meet a few times a month, not per night. I certainly dont think that all women on here are more of a risk than couples.. you might think im an idiot, but not that much of one. What i probably meant to say but didn't do well, for me meeting women who have a lot of meets with a lot of people, are more of a risk than the type of couples I meet, but I also realise that even if you only have one meet per year, it is still a risk,but has to be less of one. I tend to find that couples are around on here for longer, therefore it can be easier to strike up a lasting friendship with them. I would be equally cautious of a couple who meet several times a week or night
I dont meet very often, but I am as bigger risk as anyone lol so I am off to the gum clinic.. oh dear! "ha ha !!! See you there | |||
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" yes please with some salt and vinagar on oh you've missed the party, but it could carry on, depends how mischievous I feel but I need to do the washing up.
Lighten up peeps, its just the forum
did u say party I dont miss partys I went of for a shag "Hey! I offered you chips. The least you could do was invite me to one of these parties 
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" yes please with some salt and vinagar on oh you've missed the party, but it could carry on, depends how mischievous I feel but I need to do the washing up.
Lighten up peeps, its just the forum
did u say party I dont miss partys I went of for a shag "we will try and wait til you've finished next time! | |||
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" But why is that risk more for a woman than a couplebecause the type of couples I meet I have or hope to have lasting friendships with and tend to only meet a few times a month, not per night. I certainly dont think that all women on here are more of a risk than couples.. you might think im an idiot, but not that much of one. What i probably meant to say but didn't do well, for me meeting women who have a lot of meets with a lot of people, are more of a risk than the type of couples I meet, but I also realise that even if you only have one meet per year, it is still a risk,but has to be less of one. I tend to find that couples are around on here for longer, therefore it can be easier to strike up a lasting friendship with them. I would be equally cautious of a couple who meet several times a week or night
I dont meet very often, but I am as bigger risk as anyone lol so I am off to the gum clinic.. oh dear!
I'm a woman on here and I probably meet less than once a month. I haven't met anyone new for about four months.
The point is you've extrapolated from the "kind of couples" you meet or want to meet and the "kind of woman" you met, to make a massive sweeping generalisation about all women and all couples. That's why people are calling bullshit on what you said, not because they're offended.
I don't even meet as often as once a month, I simply don't have time I pronanly meet once every two to three months unless I book holiday they i have been known to really push the boat out and had two meets in a month
I'm such a slut
thats not a slut I've got 5weeks of 5 partys on trot average 10/12 shags in those weeks(one party im not playing that's a slut "And we can probably raise you ....10 / 12 a week is a slow week for us  | |||
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"Is it just me? A single bloke, I find most of the single women on here are offputting and very hard work, if very promiscuous, more risk and you feel like you are booking time with an escort. My preference is to meet couples as I find the friendship and the social is better, plus I feel a privilege to be allowed into their intimate space. Am I also alone in seeing their loving connnection as they play together, which is on a different level from when I am involved? Just curious.." We prefer to meet people who aren't as bitter or judgemental. Be that couples, single males or females | |||
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"Tbf if guys didn't treat single women like free escorts then they wouldn't be an issue. I have 1500 emails in my inbox. In just 5 days. How does a man expect me to reply to their shitty pointless message immediately. Of course they have to wait. not all of us do that, whenever I have tried it, I like to think I can find someone to get aling with and keep some kind of friendship, but as said, maybe tried the wrong ones. All ive tried to say is that my experiences have been different to the couples meets ive had.just wondered if anyone else has had the same. I do imagine some women have one in the door then as soon as they're done have another one. I've noticed most women are quite particular with who they meet. Probably just haven't stumbled across the type of female you want yet. I did meet someone recently, got on ok, had a meet, but she is a newbie and having a few meets per week at the mo with different guys. She wanted BB from me which I stupidly did, and now regret, given her activity.. maybe at the time was ok, but I have no idea what elese she is doing, so decided it best to just move on, so I felt someone if they carry on enjoying so many different and random meets, that friendship would be difficult to maintain, and not last long." So the truth is you're jealous that she's having fun and doesn't have time for you? | |||
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" But why is that risk more for a woman than a couplebecause the type of couples I meet I have or hope to have lasting friendships with and tend to only meet a few times a month, not per night. I certainly dont think that all women on here are more of a risk than couples.. you might think im an idiot, but not that much of one. What i probably meant to say but didn't do well, for me meeting women who have a lot of meets with a lot of people, are more of a risk than the type of couples I meet, but I also realise that even if you only have one meet per year, it is still a risk,but has to be less of one. I tend to find that couples are around on here for longer, therefore it can be easier to strike up a lasting friendship with them. I would be equally cautious of a couple who meet several times a week or night
I dont meet very often, but I am as bigger risk as anyone lol so I am off to the gum clinic.. oh dear!
I'm a woman on here and I probably meet less than once a month. I haven't met anyone new for about four months.
The point is you've extrapolated from the "kind of couples" you meet or want to meet and the "kind of woman" you met, to make a massive sweeping generalisation about all women and all couples. That's why people are calling bullshit on what you said, not because they're offended." | |||
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"Is it just me? A single bloke, I find most of the single women on here are offputting and very hard work, if very promiscuous, more risk and you feel like you are booking time with an escort. My preference is to meet couples as I find the friendship and the social is better, plus I feel a privilege to be allowed into their intimate space. Am I also alone in seeing their loving connnection as they play together, which is on a different level from when I am involved? Just curious.." Maybe it's your attitude towards single women? Waiting your turn to see someone? I don't meet people until I know them well enough to consider them a friend, not until I have an slot in my bookings schedule!?? Plus anyone who would judge me for 'promiscuity' would be waiting a very, very long time! | |||
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" yes please with some salt and vinagar on oh you've missed the party, but it could carry on, depends how mischievous I feel but I need to do the washing up.
Lighten up peeps, its just the forum
did u say party I dont miss partys I went of for a shag
Hey! I offered you chips. The least you could do was invite me to one of these parties
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" But why is that risk more for a woman than a couplebecause the type of couples I meet I have or hope to have lasting friendships with and tend to only meet a few times a month, not per night. I certainly dont think that all women on here are more of a risk than couples.. you might think im an idiot, but not that much of one. What i probably meant to say but didn't do well, for me meeting women who have a lot of meets with a lot of people, are more of a risk than the type of couples I meet, but I also realise that even if you only have one meet per year, it is still a risk,but has to be less of one. I tend to find that couples are around on here for longer, therefore it can be easier to strike up a lasting friendship with them. I would be equally cautious of a couple who meet several times a week or night
I dont meet very often, but I am as bigger risk as anyone lol so I am off to the gum clinic.. oh dear!
I'm a woman on here and I probably meet less than once a month. I haven't met anyone new for about four months.
The point is you've extrapolated from the "kind of couples" you meet or want to meet and the "kind of woman" you met, to make a massive sweeping generalisation about all women and all couples. That's why people are calling bullshit on what you said, not because they're offended.
I don't even meet as often as once a month, I simply don't have time I pronanly meet once every two to three months unless I book holiday they i have been known to really push the boat out and had two meets in a month
I'm such a slut
thats not a slut I've got 5weeks of 5 partys on trot average 10/12 shags in those weeks(one party im not playing that's a slut
And we can probably raise you ....10 / 12 a week is a slow week for us "now your making me sound a I thought us single woman were promiscuous not couples shocking | |||
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"Maybe its because the OP is interested in swinging? Some would say that single plus single isn't swinging after all? "Why not? | |||
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"Maybe its because the OP is interested in swinging? Some would say that single plus single isn't swinging after all? "Totally. But that's really not what he said. And some would also say single plus couple isn't swinging either. | |||
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"Maybe its because the OP is interested in swinging? Some would say that single plus single isn't swinging after all? "That goes for single women to. | |||
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