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"I must confess this thought is always on my mind whenever I meet people in their home for fun.hence I prefer hotel meet..i don't mind splitting the hotel cost.this can happen to anyone.not just single guys both females and couples as well " Yeah it's another very good reason not to go to people's houses | |||
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"I have a fear of this at parties cas there are so many people.....little bit scary!!" We went to a party once where they were snapping away ... I had made it clear before we went that I did not want to be in any photos. A previous verification of theirs had stated that a couple were pleasantly surprised to be given a collection of snaps from the evening at the end of it ... needless to say I did not play and we did not stay there too long. A very presumptuous invasion of privacy | |||
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"I must confess this thought is always on my mind whenever I meet people in their home for fun.hence I prefer hotel meet..i don't mind splitting the hotel cost.this can happen to anyone.not just single guys both females and couples as well " So they couldn't possibly set up a hidden camera in a hotel room? If pure going to be that paranoid then maybe it's best to not meet, or stick to clubs. Or - just turn up at all meets wearing this. A | |||
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"I must confess this thought is always on my mind whenever I meet people in their home for fun.hence I prefer hotel meet..i don't mind splitting the hotel cost.this can happen to anyone.not just single guys both females and couples as well " I must say I am more worried about being murdered so don't visit | |||
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"It's illegal under the voyeurism section (s.67) of the Sexual Offences Act 2003." Things being illegal doesn't stop people doing them...... | |||
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"It's illegal under the voyeurism section (s.67) of the Sexual Offences Act 2003. Things being illegal doesn't stop people doing them......" I'm not suggesting it does, merely that it is possible to take action if you find out they have. Perhaps, also, if more people realised it's illegal, and the potential impact, (it's a sex offence so it's entirely possible those convicted will end up on a register for life), they might reconsider doing it. | |||
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"It's illegal under the voyeurism section (s.67) of the Sexual Offences Act 2003. Things being illegal doesn't stop people doing them...... I'm not suggesting it does, merely that it is possible to take action if you find out they have. Perhaps, also, if more people realised it's illegal, and the potential impact, (it's a sex offence so it's entirely possible those convicted will end up on a register for life), they might reconsider doing it." Good point. | |||
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"Setting up a spy cam in hotel room is unlikely compared to peoples home.Reason. People's homes is more cluttered with hidden object compared to hotel room. A lot of voyeuristic people lurk fab. Believe in your instinct. If you feel uncomfortable with any situation. Walk away. " | |||
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"I had this happen to me - I met a married women off Fab a couple of years ago, and went to meet her at her home while her husband was out. We had a wonderful time, but later she told me that there had been a video camera hidden in the room and she'd recorded the whole thing for her husband to watch. Nothing that you can do about it after the event, and you have no control over what happens to the recording - left me feeling sick and totally used... " You can do something about it after the event, if you're willing to go to the police. It's not legal to film people without their knowledge in situations where they have a reasonable expectation of privacy. Ideally you'd get proof of her telling you about the recording. | |||
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"Oh goodness this had never entered my head before! " you and us obviously led a sheltered life lol we never thought about it either but tbh we wont be bothering too much either no one wants to ogle folks in their 50s shagging lol | |||
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"I had this happen to me - I met a married women off Fab a couple of years ago, and went to meet her at her home while her husband was out. We had a wonderful time, but later she told me that there had been a video camera hidden in the room and she'd recorded the whole thing for her husband to watch. Nothing that you can do about it after the event, and you have no control over what happens to the recording - left me feeling sick and totally used... You can do something about it after the event, if you're willing to go to the police. It's not legal to film people without their knowledge in situations where they have a reasonable expectation of privacy. Ideally you'd get proof of her telling you about the recording." Yes, I think that I would if that happened now - but back then I was still feeling a bit new to all this, and was in a fairly vulnerable state of mind, so I didn't. And I had very little proof - she only told me verbally, in private, the next (and last!!!) time that we met. As is so often the case, it's one thing to say that the law is on your side - it's quite a different issue to actually stand up and invoke those powers. Especially so if you have grown up at a time when violence towards and abuse of women was very much more open and commonplace, and know what it's like to be left in a bleeding mess just for complaining... | |||
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"I must confess this thought is always on my mind whenever I meet people in their home for fun.hence I prefer hotel meet..i don't mind splitting the hotel cost.this can happen to anyone.not just single guys both females and couples as well " Well now I do! going to have to get one of those bug scanner things and check from now on! | |||
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"Oh goodness this had never entered my head before! you and us obviously led a sheltered life lol we never thought about it either but tbh we wont be bothering too much either no one wants to ogle folks in their 50s shagging lol " I do | |||
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"I must confess this thought is always on my mind whenever I meet people in their home for fun.hence I prefer hotel meet..i don't mind splitting the hotel cost.this can happen to anyone.not just single guys both females and couples as well " What and you think that someone couldn't secretly film at a hotel, club or party? | |||
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"Ask for the lights to be turned off and light a candle. At least if you are being filmed it will hopefully be unclear in the poor light." What about night vision..... make sure to check behind large mirrors too!! | |||
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"I must confess this thought is always on my mind whenever I meet people in their home for fun.hence I prefer hotel meet..i don't mind splitting the hotel cost.this can happen to anyone.not just single guys both females and couples as well What and you think that someone couldn't secretly film at a hotel, club or party? " This! Plus as long as you do your normal checks, including turning on the twat detector, use honesty both ways, like to think most of the guys would be upfront. Plus we generally film everything for our own use well stumpy's lol | |||
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"The official stat is that 1 in 12 private meets are secretly filmed." I heard from someone that heard from someone that heard from someone else, that's its actually 1 in 5. But your totally safe if its a hotel meet. | |||
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"The official stat is that 1 in 12 private meets are secretly filmed." phew that's ok then, we've only had 11 | |||
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"The official stat is that 1 in 12 private meets are secretly filmed. phew that's ok then, we've only had 11 " | |||
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"I have thought about this I have to admit. And it's one of the reasons why I like to book hotels myself so I'm the one in the room waiting for them, not the other way round. " https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQQBP-0-OsB5tRhSPtDD4W8BQ7CkUZk0SRVpCx3bE9xobL5s1zWMg | |||
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"If they say lets do it here, face that way, look up, and they keep moving a bag/ clock or any other random object, " Haha nutter this made me | |||
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"I must confess this thought is always on my mind whenever I meet people in their home for fun.hence I prefer hotel meet..i don't mind splitting the hotel cost.this can happen to anyone.not just single guys both females and couples as well " OP your right to worry the dark wed is full of this sort of thing hidden camera sex shows . theirs big money to be made and where's theirs money to be made there are always those looking to exploit others to make it . Hotel meets are by far the safest way to play for all parties involved in my opinion . | |||
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"No I haven't until now... " hehe the twighlight zone nnnna nnnna | |||
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"No I haven't until now... " Same here | |||
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"I must confess this thought is always on my mind whenever I meet people in their home for fun.hence I prefer hotel meet..i don't mind splitting the hotel cost.this can happen to anyone.not just single guys both females and couples as well " That has never crossed my mind and i would never set one up. | |||
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"The official stat is that 1 in 12 private meets are secretly filmed. I heard from someone that heard from someone that heard from someone else, that's its actually 1 in 5. But your totally safe if its a hotel meet. " They have official stats for this??? Who does the counting? And how do you get a job like that?? | |||
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"I must confess this thought is always on my mind whenever I meet people in their home for fun.hence I prefer hotel meet..i don't mind splitting the hotel cost.this can happen to anyone.not just single guys both females and couples as well " We make it quite clear hubby will take pics/film so there's no need for deceits. | |||
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"The official stat is that 1 in 12 private meets are secretly filmed. I heard from someone that heard from someone that heard from someone else, that's its actually 1 in 5. But your totally safe if its a hotel meet. They have official stats for this??? Who does the counting? And how do you get a job like that??" Sidney University of course | |||
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"I must confess this thought is always on my mind whenever I meet people in their home for fun.hence I prefer hotel meet..i don't mind splitting the hotel cost.this can happen to anyone.not just single guys both females and couples as well " Yes that's why I don't meet in peoples houses , I am just paranoid a bit so the closest I can be with someone outside is a Hotel , else Party or Club, but thats just me | |||
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"I had this happen to me - I met a married women off Fab a couple of years ago, and went to meet her at her home while her husband was out. We had a wonderful time, but later she told me that there had been a video camera hidden in the room and she'd recorded the whole thing for her husband to watch. Nothing that you can do about it after the event, and you have no control over what happens to the recording - left me feeling sick and totally used... " That is such a breach of your trust. I can understand the couple enjoying it but it should have had your consent. Sorry to hear this | |||
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"I have thought about this I have to admit. And it's one of the reasons why I like to book hotels myself so I'm the one in the room waiting for them, not the other way round. " I thought this thread seemed familiar. Already answered first time round and the above still applies | |||
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"The official stat is that 1 in 12 private meets are secretly filmed. I heard from someone that heard from someone that heard from someone else, that's its actually 1 in 5. But your totally safe if its a hotel meet. They have official stats for this??? Who does the counting? And how do you get a job like that?? Sidney University of course " | |||
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"I must confess this thought is always on my mind whenever I meet people in their home for fun.hence I prefer hotel meet..i don't mind splitting the hotel cost.this can happen to anyone.not just single guys both females and couples as well " We openly film our meets nothing hidden about it. We dont meet camera shy people | |||
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"A while ago when i was here on a old profile i had a meet. Turned up. Went upstairs got down to buisness 10mins later i heard a crash behind me. Looked and a bloke(her hubby) fell out of the wardrobe with camera in hand. All they had to do was ask before hand " Sometimes you are lucky to make it through the door. You are told that yes they would like to meet, they arrange a date,time,everything and then mysteriously,,they dont answer the door...maybe it isnt their door? | |||
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"The very first time we meet a couple he had this thing you here baby s on in the bed room so he could here everything it really put me off his wife moaning in the next room ." Oh wives are always moaning,should be used to it.. | |||
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"I have a fear of this at parties cas there are so many people.....little bit scary!! We went to a party once where they were snapping away ... I had made it clear before we went that I did not want to be in any photos. A previous verification of theirs had stated that a couple were pleasantly surprised to be given a collection of snaps from the evening at the end of it ... needless to say I did not play and we did not stay there too long. A very presumptuous invasion of privacy " | |||
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"This happened to me. Stumbled across me fucking on xtube!" Link? | |||
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"This happened to me. Stumbled across me fucking on xtube! Link? Luckily got it taken down, although I was pleased with my porn star performance " | |||
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