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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

What percentage of the traffic through your profile (at least, that which isn't hidden) is from other guys?

I've ended up blocking men from contacting me simply so that their profile pics don't take up all my 'whose looked at me list', making scrolling through them all to find any women or couples who might have looked a right pain in the arse..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority! I don't have filters as although I'm straight and no interest in men in happy to talk with anyone and have a lot of good banter.

I get sufficiently few (visible) views of my profile (well under a 100 a week!) that a once a week browse of my viewed list (alright, maybe I look more often than that) will still capture all the females and couples that have taken a look!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all men lol 99 percent, the odd couple and woman maibe. I average about 60 views aday, maibe even more in stealth mode.

I dont block men cos I might chat with few of them on subject from the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do remember that a lot of women have stealth mode on.

I just looked, and you didn't feel a thing

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Do remember that a lot of women have stealth mode on.

I just looked, and you didn't feel a thing "

What a shame...

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

I'm quite happy to have banter occasionally with other guys on here, which I can still do if I message first, however, I just got sick of the endless blokes profiles on my 'who's viewed my profile list'..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably about 70% guys, 20% couples, 10% fems? But I'm guesstimating as cba counting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know, mine doesn't seem too bad - stealth mode covers all sinners anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are always in stealth mode, because we find that men contact us if they know we have looked at them. But I've been to most of the men's profiles on this thread, so don't always believe the "who's looked at me" bit.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly women and couples for me. Though I can't 100% know as I'm not a site supporter yet. And I'm lucky if I get 20 views a week, at best.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"We are always in stealth mode, because we find that men contact us if they know we have looked at them. But I've been to most of the men's profiles on this thread, so don't always believe the "who's looked at me" bit.

-Courtney"

Yes, I'm well aware of that little trick

I don't tend to use stealth mode as I'm quite happy for (and sometimes intentionally want)people to know that I'm checking them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although Im orally bi, I do seem to get mostly males (straight) looking at my profile.

This doesn't bother me too much, but it would be nice to know I have a bit of female interest to mix it up a bit!

I wouldn't mind if some of them were at least bi curious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are always in stealth mode, because we find that men contact us if they know we have looked at them. But I've been to most of the men's profiles on this thread, so don't always believe the "who's looked at me" bit.

-Courtney

Yes, I'm well aware of that little trick

I don't tend to use stealth mode as I'm quite happy for (and sometimes intentionally want)people to know that I'm checking them out "

Haha! I'm watching you

....not to be creepy or anything

-Courtney

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I will talk to almost anyone. i don't bother with filters. People filter themselves with lousy profiles and shit messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has looked at you and they are interested they would contact you.

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By *ales lookingMan
over a year ago

gwynedd

I get a mixture of men, women and couples.All aching for my pumping flesh baguette.Because I get so many messages however I've given up an chasing those who peek.It would take me forever.Yup, that'll do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get a mixture of men, women and couples.All aching for my pumping flesh baguette.Because I get so many messages however I've given up an chasing those who peek.It would take me forever.Yup, that'll do it "

Fantastic!!! Love your way with words!! My juices are a-flowing.

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By *ales lookingMan
over a year ago

gwynedd


"I get a mixture of men, women and couples.All aching for my pumping flesh baguette.Because I get so many messages however I've given up an chasing those who peek.It would take me forever.Yup, that'll do it

Fantastic!!! Love your way with words!! My juices are a-flowing. "

Shhhh don't fight it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no idea of the percentage as I'm not a paid member, but I suspect its high.

I keep my filters open because, like others I enjoy a bit of banter and have been contacted by a couple of guys wanting a 3some with a fuck buddy.

I do also get the odd mail from guys because 'straight cock tastes better'. I just point out that I wouldn't be straight if I allowed that to happen and it wouldn't taste so good. They usually give up. Funnily enough I've only ever had to block one single guy....usually single females or couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get a mixture of men, women and couples.All aching for my pumping flesh baguette.Because I get so many messages however I've given up an chasing those who peek.It would take me forever.Yup, that'll do it

Fantastic!!! Love your way with words!! My juices are a-flowing.

Shhhh don't fight it "

Dirty biscuit. 5alive carton. Ohhhhhh ohhhhh ohhhhhhhhhh lady wank.

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By *ales lookingMan
over a year ago

gwynedd


"I get a mixture of men, women and couples.All aching for my pumping flesh baguette.Because I get so many messages however I've given up an chasing those who peek.It would take me forever.Yup, that'll do it

Fantastic!!! Love your way with words!! My juices are a-flowing.

Shhhh don't fight it

Dirty biscuit. 5alive carton. Ohhhhhh ohhhhh ohhhhhhhhhh lady wank. "

And a lady-thank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do remember that a lot of women have stealth mode on.

I just looked, and you didn't feel a thing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do remember that a lot of women have stealth mode on.

I just looked, and you didn't feel a thing "

I don't know why, but I found that quite sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What percentage of the traffic through your profile (at least, that which isn't hidden) is from other guys?

I've ended up blocking men from contacting me simply so that their profile pics don't take up all my 'whose looked at me list', making scrolling through them all to find any women or couples who might have looked a right pain in the arse..

"

'cos scrolling through is so hard to do!

Oh my, modern day dilemmas

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By *ubicinchMan
over a year ago

Gwynedd

so, I've just blocked single males from messaging me (wish I'd done it years ago), they now dont show in my who's looked list, but does it also mean that they cannot view my profile at all?

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By *ales lookingMan
over a year ago

gwynedd

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I get a lot of views from men, but a fair number too from couples and ladies, some of which have led to further developments....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's odd even when you state your straight not to worry though

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"What percentage of the traffic through your profile (at least, that which isn't hidden) is from other guys?

I've ended up blocking men from contacting me simply so that their profile pics don't take up all my 'whose looked at me list', making scrolling through them all to find any women or couples who might have looked a right pain in the arse..

'cos scrolling through is so hard to do!

Oh my, modern day dilemmas "

Its not that its so hard to do, its just that I don't like opening the list on a regular basis to find it populated by 90% males. I'm not on here looking for men and I don't like scrolling through them each day hunting out the occasional (unhidden) woman and couple...Hence setting the block so I nolonger have to

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys don't show up in my 'who's viewed me' - most probably because of the filters I have in place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so, I've just blocked single males from messaging me (wish I'd done it years ago), they now dont show in my who's looked list, but does it also mean that they cannot view my profile at all?"

Is this a really subtle Look At Me post to get more men looking at your arse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so, I've just blocked single males from messaging me (wish I'd done it years ago), they now dont show in my who's looked list, but does it also mean that they cannot view my profile at all?

Is this a really subtle Look At Me post to get more men looking at your arse? "

Yeah yeah...But did you look?

-Courtney

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"so, I've just blocked single males from messaging me (wish I'd done it years ago), they now dont show in my who's looked list, but does it also mean that they cannot view my profile at all?

Is this a really subtle Look At Me post to get more men looking at your arse?

Yeah yeah...But did you look?

-Courtney"

I certainly have...a fair few times, but I reckon you know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so, I've just blocked single males from messaging me (wish I'd done it years ago), they now dont show in my who's looked list, but does it also mean that they cannot view my profile at all?

Is this a really subtle Look At Me post to get more men looking at your arse?

Yeah yeah...But did you look?

-Courtney

I certainly have...a fair few times, but I reckon you know that "

Thanks! But I meant did he have a good look at your arse??

-Courtney

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I never look at my 'looked at me' list. I figure if they were interested they would have messaged, winked or fabbed if they met my contact criteria. I would if I were interested in them. Hence why I use mode to prevent the 'you looked at me' messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Courtney has a lovely arse add to that a nice figure too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Courtney has a lovely arse add to that a nice figure too "

Thanks...but so does the OP

-Courtney

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Courtney has a lovely arse add to that a nice figure too

Thanks...but so does the OP

-Courtney"

Thanks..you little charmer...or, should that read 'tease'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeppp loads of men but some quality women get through eventually!

You may not see who's looking as lots of women go 'stealth'!

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"so, I've just blocked single males from messaging me (wish I'd done it years ago), they now dont show in my who's looked list, but does it also mean that they cannot view my profile at all?

Is this a really subtle Look At Me post to get more men looking at your arse?

Yeah yeah...But did you look?

-Courtney

I certainly have...a fair few times, but I reckon you know that

Thanks! But I meant did he have a good look at your arse??

-Courtney"

Only special friends get to see my arse on here....I believe you've seen it

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Do remember that a lot of women have stealth mode on.

I just looked, and you didn't feel a thing "

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By *ubicinchMan
over a year ago

Gwynedd


"I never look at my 'looked at me' list. I figure if they were interested they would have messaged, winked or fabbed if they met my contact criteria. I would if I were interested in them. Hence why I use mode to prevent the 'you looked at me' messages."
it can also be a useful tool to indicate what profiles are false/timewasters/just guys wanking over pictures. If someone keeps viewing my profile but never gets in touch, then they are probably waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What percentage of the traffic through your profile (at least, that which isn't hidden) is from other guys?

I've ended up blocking men from contacting me simply so that their profile pics don't take up all my 'whose looked at me list', making scrolling through them all to find any women or couples who might have looked a right pain in the arse..

'cos scrolling through is so hard to do!

Oh my, modern day dilemmas

Its not that its so hard to do, its just that I don't like opening the list on a regular basis to find it populated by 90% males. I'm not on here looking for men and I don't like scrolling through them each day hunting out the occasional (unhidden) woman and couple...Hence setting the block so I nolonger have to "

Why do you need to find them on the list though? If they liked you they would have got in touch.

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