FabSwingers.com forum: Some people's need to reinvent themselves on fab..

By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

I have recently had occasion to message a couple of different women on here only to dicover that in both instances I was introducing myself to people that I already new off here, but under a different guise.

Why do some people feel the need to withdraw from fab only to re-emerge a short time (or in one case I've sited, almost instantly) after shutting down one profile and doing a (faux) disappearing act?

Personally I find it both confusing and a little disconcerting.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Aren't they best placed to answer that?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I was on here briefly with a previous partner and I do find it interesting at the number of people (same people/original profiles) suddenly have totally different careers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left to pursue a relationship. I came back as I missed the forums and needed to fill my time whilst I'm off work. Others will have different reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Illusion and mystery

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"I have recently had occasion to message a couple of different women on here only to dicover that in both instances I was introducing myself to people that I already new off here, but under a different guise.

Why do some people feel the need to withdraw from fab only to re-emerge a short time (or in one case I've sited, almost instantly) after shutting down one profile and doing a (faux) disappearing act?

Personally I find it both confusing and a little disconcerting."

They might be getting bombarded by unwanted nasty messages, or might in fact be men pretending to be women no longer able to keep up the pretence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know but it's really annoying. I've changed my filters now to block newbies as I keep getting messages from guys who I've already said "no thanks" to. They seem to set up a new profile every week. The thing is, they aren't going to be any more successful with a new profile because it's still the same person behind it?!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Often?

Drama.

Either to avoid it or create it.

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Often?

Drama.

Either to avoid it or create it.

...that's kind of how I see it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often?

Drama.

Either to avoid it or create it.

...that's kind of how I see it.."

Yes , this sums it up nicely

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I left to pursue a relationship. I came back as I missed the forums and needed to fill my time whilst I'm off work. Others will have different reasons. "

That is quite different and perfectly understandable. I am talking about people who shut down one profile and very soon or almost instantly there after register a new one with a different persona..

Incidentally, in the case of my experience, I can vouch for the fact that both individuals are authentic and not masquerading as fictious people or genders..

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Often?

Drama.

Either to avoid it or create it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often?

Drama.

Either to avoid it or create it.

Agreed! I disappeared to avoid a malicious 'outer' so they couldn't do any more damage!

Hopefully I'm here for good with this profile - or until I fall madly in love with someone who doesn't want to swing (

) and skip into the sunset with them!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I always avoid these profiles,they make me a little suspicious too .I find blocking newbies can help as some rejoin for a few days only to leave quickly.Its the profiles that leave and constantly come back moaning how fab never changes that amuse me.

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