FabSwingers.com forum: Fab's or Wink's

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which do you prefer? Me both (if I get them)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both a load of bollox

Message people and stop being lazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both a load of bollox

Message people and stop being lazy"

I think recieving a wink or fab is nice. Sometimes you send a nice message and it doesn't get read or deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both is fine lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit I.rarely look to.are.who's fabbed or winked but I like fabs more .... Very flattered that I get any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab or a wink works for me.

Just let's you know someone might be interested in you. But all has to start somewhere and nerves do kick in at times

So come say hi

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I like and appreciate both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are appreciated. But if someone winks, I assume they are interested - if they fab, I think they just like the pic. I didn't realize fabs were used like winks. I guess I've been missing something...

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't they mean different things though

Fab I like your pic

Wink I like your profile check mine and wink if IF interested,

That's how I interpreted them anywhoo

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

we never really check winks but do tend to look at who has fabbed our pics

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

I generally just fab some of the pics. Not a big fan of sending winks. And I'm happy to receive either although if you wink me I sometimes miss them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs. I post a lot of pics, so its nice to know specifically which pics people like the most. A fab means nothing.

Someone fabbing all your pics is attention seeking. Someone fabs a couple of pics, they are the good ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"winks" are there really for two reasons, one to acknowledge what you read in someone's profile and secondly to act as a gentle "soft" hello - as for fabbing pics, pretty much the same as above I guess and a show of admiration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either. Both are very rare so to get any is always a nice surprise and welcomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabs. I post a lot of pics, so its nice to know specifically which pics people like the most. A fab means nothing.

Someone fabbing all your pics is attention seeking. Someone fabs a couple of pics, they are the good ones. "

I've probably fabbed most of your pics because I genuinely think you have very good pics & I want you to know I appreciate them. I'm not attention seeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabs. I post a lot of pics, so its nice to know specifically which pics people like the most. A fab means nothing.

Someone fabbing all your pics is attention seeking. Someone fabs a couple of pics, they are the good ones.

I've probably fabbed most of your pics because I genuinely think you have very good pics & I want you to know I appreciate them. I'm not attention seeking

Fabbed & winked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabs. I post a lot of pics, so its nice to know specifically which pics people like the most. A fab means nothing.

Someone fabbing all your pics is attention seeking. Someone fabs a couple of pics, they are the good ones.

I've probably fabbed most of your pics because I genuinely think you have very good pics & I want you to know I appreciate them. I'm not attention seeking

Fabbed & winked "

Attention seeker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabs. I post a lot of pics, so its nice to know specifically which pics people like the most. A fab means nothing.

Someone fabbing all your pics is attention seeking. Someone fabs a couple of pics, they are the good ones.

I've probably fabbed most of your pics because I genuinely think you have very good pics & I want you to know I appreciate them. I'm not attention seeking

I mean if someone comes on who I've never seen before and just fabs all my pics.

It's normally a local "straight" bloke who can't message me

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I love a winker... Its a none pushy hi we are interested that can either be ignored or responded too.

Love a good wink ??

Mrs _d40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We appreciate both.

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By *usty_n_LustyCouple
over a year ago

Kent

We appreciate both but mainly the fabs!

Winks... we look but don't respond to them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We appreciate both but mainly the fabs!

Winks... we look but don't respond to them x"

Both X

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Really couldn't give a toss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs are flattering but prefer a message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always check out our fabs and winks, we see them as a statement of interest.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Fabs are fun, winks are deleted, messages are answered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs are nice to get but I don't read anything in to them other then they like my picture and if I like a picture I will fab it, I just ignore winks and don't send them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, we don't mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like getting both but don't read too much into either. Occasionally if we like the profile of those that left them we may message back. Then the fab(s) or wink provide a useful opening for the message.

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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable

erm.... how do you see whos fabbed you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find that fabs are often used to try and get round our preferences, so although we look, we don't respond to them. Winks, we check out the profile then wink back if people interest us. Messages, we tend to respond to unless it's clear they haven't read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs C loves fabs on her piks so get gabbing lol xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mrs C loves fabs on her piks so get gabbing lol xxxxxx"

Both x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mrs C loves fabs on her piks so get gabbing lol xxxxxx"

Done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"erm.... how do you see whos fabbed you?

Click on your photo and it should say "fabbed xx times click here to see who" or something remotely along them lines

In answer to op question, for us fabs are flattering, winks we always tend to have a check through but can be a while before we respond as trying to get R to do anything takes nagging, messages are almost always responded to quickly.

I will, as others have said, fab a pic I like, wink a profile I like and am interested to know if they are bothered by us and usually message someone who really gets our attention or in response to a wink.

R tends to bypass winks altogether and either only fabs or messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both I can't choose x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with either, but a message is necessary.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We like both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to fab as I think it shows appreciation for a well takes picture, plus I'm a right perve

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Neither.

We switched off the fabbing facility and don't look at winks.

In the brief time we had fabbing as an option the vast majority were from people filtered out of messaging and there was a trend that they'd fab each and every pic - even the seriously average ones, in what I assume was a hope we'd get in touch.

What should be simply recognition of a good, interesting pic is more often than nothing more than a mechanism to attempt contact via the only means possible.

It would be interesting if filters blocked fabs in the same way they do winks and messages. I imagine the hot pics section would look a hell of a lot different!

There's nothing wrong with showing appreciation of a good image if that's the sole motivation though - it's down to the individual if that floats their boat/massages their ego/gets them off.

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By *usty cazCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

Both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither.

We switched off the fabbing facility and don't look at winks.

What should be simply recognition of a good, interesting pic is more often than nothing more than a mechanism to attempt contact via the only means possible.

It would be interesting if filters blocked fabs in the same way they do winks and messages. I imagine the hot pics section would look a hell of a lot different!

There's nothing wrong with showing appreciation of a good image if that's the sole motivation though - it's down to the individual if that floats their boat/massages their ego/gets them off.

I would fab your pics for absolutely no other reason than that I think they are on the whole extremely good pictures. I have never fabbed pics for any other reason & if someone fabs my pics I'm pleasantly surprised but I don't take it that they want anything further from me.

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