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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Ladies and Gents, I've recently started meeting a woman and she seems to be struggling with her orgasms.

The problem is she can achieve orgasm fine, but after her first big orgasm she cannot stand anymore after that, she described it like an immense pressure inside and she can't bare it.

I'm wondering if any other ladies have experienced anything like this?

Thanks x

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

I had an orgasm once.....

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

MY woman has given me three orgasm that I can only describe as a all over, full body explosion.

Every part of me, from scalp and nose to toes, was tingling.

The first time it happened, I had to make her stop as I thought I was gonna have a heart attack if she continued.

Something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never had an orgasm like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow lucky u !

All my girlfriends have lots !

Im licking and flicking the bean for hours .. Lol

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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton

I think you need to ask is she happy with one massive orgasm? Cos if she is then I think it's you having the problem with her orgasms and not her.

If I have one massive orgasm then I am very very happy. .I won't have another but happy to carry on playing. Ask her if she is happy with one?

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"I think you need to ask is she happy with one massive orgasm? Cos if she is then I think it's you having the problem with her orgasms and not her.

If I have one massive orgasm then I am very very happy. .I won't have another but happy to carry on playing. Ask her if she is happy with one?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually orgasm a few times while having sex. Every once in a while I'll have an orgasm that is really powerful (has only happened with Marc, though). It does feel like a lot of pressure, or something equally hard to explain. I've not had to stop altogether because of it, though. I just need a break from being touched for 5 minutes or so. Usually I just give Marc oral until I'm ready to continue

-Courtney

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

If im lucky...lol! I too will only have one very intense orgasm so understand thats its difficult for another to happen. I'm happy with the one as it really can take it out of me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that feeling before i squirt but hubby keeps goin xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The problem is she climaxes before me and then we have to stop as she feels it's too much and can't carry on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have u tried touching different spots ? It might be because she is still feeling sensation from previous orgasm so if u try and stimulate other areas it might pushc her towards her next one

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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton

Can she not carry on after a rest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is she climaxes before me and then we have to stop as she feels it's too much and can't carry on.. "

Have you tried doing other things, like kissing or her giving you oral, for a little bit while she desensitized?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well youve done your job making her cum so tell her to stop being lazy and sort u out afterwards !

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mayb slow it down x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh I misread so she can't multiple orgasm? I wouldn't push her as like her wanking u off till u cum then carrying on hard and not slowing down it hurts haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or she cud just b greedy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She becomes really sensitive all over, like her clit and gspot are so sensitive to touch she doesn't want anything. She's generally too knackered to do anything else really, rather annoying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She becomes really sensitive all over, like her clit and gspot are so sensitive to touch she doesn't want anything. She's generally too knackered to do anything else really, rather annoying lol "

She sounds fun

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She becomes really sensitive all over, like her clit and gspot are so sensitive to touch she doesn't want anything. She's generally too knackered to do anything else really, rather annoying lol

She sounds fun

-Courtney"

Yeah, you're telling me

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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton

Mmm this is like role reversal .number of times I have met men and they cum and then not interested don't want to be touched. ..

Just plan it that she gets her main pleasure after yours

Or...move on

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By *rwchcpleCouple
over a year ago

norwich

I've been amazed since starting our meets how many of their men can't bring their own partner to orgasm! My partner wouldn't be able to stop til he made me cum...and for the record I'm a bit like your lady. Multiples are extreme for me !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't really enjoy sex unless I can see that the female is really enjoying herself, I get off on the fact she's loving what I'm doing. Otherwise there is no enjoyment in it for me whatsoever.

So its nice to be able to make her climax, but it would be nice if she'd let me cum first for once!

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I can only have one big one, then it's all over for me for at least an hour. Just like a bloke really!

You just need to sort your timing out.

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By *rwchcpleCouple
over a year ago

norwich


"I don't really enjoy sex unless I can see that the female is really enjoying herself, I get off on the fact she's loving what I'm doing. Otherwise there is no enjoyment in it for me whatsoever.

So its nice to be able to make her climax, but it would be nice if she'd let me cum first for once!"

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By *rwchcpleCouple
over a year ago

norwich

We had a couple round once. She was giving him a blow job there wasn't much effort going into it. He said he never really makes her come. I felt sorry for her so got my partner to sort her out. He made sure she came. My partner is like you if I'm wet and enjoying myself he's having a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a couple round once. She was giving him a blow job there wasn't much effort going into it. He said he never really makes her come. I felt sorry for her so got my partner to sort her out. He made sure she came. My partner is like you if I'm wet and enjoying myself he's having a good time "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We had a couple round once. She was giving him a blow job there wasn't much effort going into it. He said he never really makes her come. I felt sorry for her so got my partner to sort her out. He made sure she came. My partner is like you if I'm wet and enjoying myself he's having a good time "

Precisely, it's just boring if she's not screaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi ?? there is no 'typical way',especially given that almost all my girlfriends report regular fakes in amongst the real ones!

I'm a girl who isn't so easy myself - easy peasy diy but for another to bring me off it takes work and proper attention to find the right spots! So when it happens... Wow!! Tearing my hair out scream the windows down f***ing amazing! But, I've met women who give the impression they hav several little orgasms in a session, and they are so gentle I barely knew it had happened. And I have to say, I way prefer to have mine my way!! us ladies are all so different xx

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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton


"Hi ?? there is no 'typical way',especially given that almost all my girlfriends report regular fakes in amongst the real ones!

I'm a girl who isn't so easy myself - easy peasy diy but for another to bring me off it takes work and proper attention to find the right spots! So when it happens... Wow!! Tearing my hair out scream the windows down f***ing amazing! But, I've met women who give the impression they hav several little orgasms in a session, and they are so gentle I barely knew it had happened. And I have to say, I way prefer to have mine my way!! us ladies are all so different xx"

Absolutely!

I think people forget that some women cum quite easily and some find it more difficult but when they do its a big one!!

I take ages to cum and can only cum in one particular way. If I don't orgasm during a session it's no reflection on bloke I am with (well obviously sometimes it is).

Drives me nuts when blokes say 'oh you would definitely cum with me'...oh okay. .cos you definitely know my body better than I do then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi ?? there is no 'typical way',especially given that almost all my girlfriends report regular fakes in amongst the real ones!

I'm a girl who isn't so easy myself - easy peasy diy but for another to bring me off it takes work and proper attention to find the right spots! So when it happens... Wow!! Tearing my hair out scream the windows down f***ing amazing! But, I've met women who give the impression they hav several little orgasms in a session, and they are so gentle I barely knew it had happened. And I have to say, I way prefer to have mine my way!! us ladies are all so different xx

Absolutely!

I think people forget that some women cum quite easily and some find it more difficult but when they do its a big one!!

I take ages to cum and can only cum in one particular way. If I don't orgasm during a session it's no reflection on bloke I am with (well obviously sometimes it is).

Drives me nuts when blokes say 'oh you would definitely cum with me'...oh okay. .cos you definitely know my body better than I do then!

"

this and they then try and make you their "challenge" xx

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Hi Ladies and Gents, I've recently started meeting a woman and she seems to be struggling with her orgasms.

The problem is she can achieve orgasm fine, but after her first big orgasm she cannot stand anymore after that, she described it like an immense pressure inside and she can't bare it.

I'm wondering if any other ladies have experienced anything like this?

Thanks x"

Oh most definitely!!! Though Paul has continued to play with me and the orgasms get more & more intense....it can be overwhelming but absolutely amazing at the same time....

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