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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tell me what's wrong with profile...pics...etc etc....why can't I get any meets? This is gonna hurt!

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"Tell me what's wrong with profile...pics...etc etc....why can't I get any meets? This is gonna hurt!"

Just had a look and to be totally honest it doesn't exactly leave me 'wanting' to know more or meet. Its a bit generic.

A profile is your chance to shine, big yourself up, say what you want, what gets you hot under the collar, to show people you have some passion and oomph.

However based on your pics, if I met you in a club chances are I'd at least say hi

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

To put it simply you don't stand out.

With a rough average of ten women per man you need to.

Do your homework, figure it out, whatever you're doing isn't working so try something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me what's wrong with profile...pics...etc etc....why can't I get any meets? This is gonna hurt!"

The answer lies in your username - genuine AND nice you've got no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience for some it can take years lol.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Tell me what's wrong with profile...pics...etc etc....why can't I get any meets? This is gonna hurt!"

I read and reread your profile, then read it again, and I still can't make any sense of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi mate i know hat you meet about getting a meet . i joined months ago and for a while i got same reply .......... sorry not meeting at min even tho their status and profile stated looking for meet. lot of ppl on here have their own close circle of friends who they only meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi mate i know hat you meet about getting a meet . i joined months ago and for a while i got same reply .......... sorry not meeting at min even tho their status and profile stated looking for meet. lot of ppl on here have their own close circle of friends who they only meet ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In your profile you mention you and your gf....yet it's a single guys profile ...cheating? ...lots don't really like that ...

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

To be honest I didn't understand your profile. Plus you are straight but looking to meet TV/TS (they are men you know!)

Profile definitely needs improvement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me what's wrong with profile...pics...etc etc....why can't I get any meets? This is gonna hurt!

I read and reread your profile, then read it again, and I still can't make any sense of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me what's wrong with profile...pics...etc etc....why can't I get any meets? This is gonna hurt!"

Incomprehensible text and strange unappealing photos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All good feedback. .. The gf thing yes...it makes no sense...no gf...its just how I perceived having someone else come in to a relationship. .

But I think I will have a good look at what I need to do to improve....lots obviously. ..but keep it coming. .at least no one said it's because I'm an ugly fucker.... but now I mentioned that someone will...which is ok

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"at least no one said it's because I'm an ugly fucker.... but now I mentioned that someone will...which is ok"

Sympathy votes will get you nowhere, people are here to have fun.

You don't sound much fun.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Tell me what's wrong with profile...pics...etc etc....why can't I get any meets? This is gonna hurt!

Incomprehensible text and strange unappealing photos."

I found the first photo confusing and a little scary. I don't know why. Lack of normality, I guess.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"at least no one said it's because I'm an ugly fucker.... but now I mentioned that someone will...which is ok

Sympathy votes will get you nowhere, people are here to have fun.

You don't sound much fun. "
do I sound fun?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my point of view, this is the advice I would give you:

-Your pics are a bit rubbish and don't really give me an idea of what your body looks like.

-I agree that the gf thing is confusing. It would make me think you are cheating or insinuating you have a gf to get more interest.

- The bit about being a toy for a couple to play with is off putting. I like to think everyone involved is having a good time and that no one is there for anyone's "use," but that is very subjective and some might like the "toy" language

Hope that helps and good luck.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i started on here i worried about my profile and about how to get meets .

Ive realised now its all bollocks !

I never read profiles that are long and self centered ,and i doubt many do !

My profile is short and sarcastic and im never short of meets .

Stop taking this too seriously and have a laugh . Make your messages witty and not desperate .

And change your name ? No horny lady wants a Nice Guy ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I like your suit pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I have read and trying to take everything in...Yep totally agree in what everyone is commenting on... I will have a good overhaul of Profile and pics.

After I have done it then I may repost and ask again...imagine if we all done it....we would all have the perfect profile. . Watch this space.

Cheers everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers miss innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have read and trying to take everything in...Yep totally agree in what everyone is commenting on... I will have a good overhaul of Profile and pics.

After I have done it then I may repost and ask again...imagine if we all done it....we would all have the perfect profile. . Watch this space.

Cheers everyone "

Well, if you do, then please use a grammar and spell-checker first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ouch..that's the one that hurts most of all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But also point taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But also point taken."

Not everyone has the same priorities. But a well-written profile is likely to appeal to more folk than a badly written one. Your posts are intelligible but your profile is not. Just run the text through a word processor first if you have problems with spelling and grammar. Oh, and try to express your personality. You have to get people to want to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok a few little changes. ..thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok a few little changes. ..thoughts?"

As above. Better but too generic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How about the name.."Better The Devil You Know"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You do have a great profile. I better do some more work on getting mine right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile.

Some will, some won't.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

You are still a 'straight' man looking to meet TS/TVs....a mystery to me but each to their own!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a look at your pics and I'd say you look to ordinary nothing striking so the chances are you will blend in with the thousand other single males on here. Try a good chest shot, your hairy and well built so work with it...maybe a naked side shot of your waist and bum don't think the holiday shots cut it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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