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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it women don't like about single men? Apart from not having a partner what makes them any different to a couple?

I see a lot of women on these forums putting single men down and talking about them in a very negative way, what causes this attitude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like single men

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them too , well some of them.

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By *avid1Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

I have never had any trouble at all in all my time here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some men abuse women

some of these women abuse men

it is the way it is and it ain't going to change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like them too , well some of them. "

I bet they all like you too!

Gorgeous lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly can't remember a thread about single men. I never put them down, I have made some good friendships with single men I've met and love a bit of "bants" with them. I truth, I have more difficulty with meeting couples than single men. I appreciate others may have had different experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like some, I'm indifferent to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had some luck, mostly from cheeky emails and a daft personality! Thank God looks are only face value! Ha ha other wise I would be fucked!! Or not as it where.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said before when this subject has arisen I do think single men don't do themselves any favours. As a single man myself I have been appalled to read some of the comments some guys have made about women because, presumably, they had the temerity to reject them. Op if you feel a woman has overstepped the mark report them, believe me it does work I know from experience having received a very nice apology from a woman re her particularly nasty comments directed at me and single men in general on one occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I like single guys,I wouldn't be on here if there wasn't any

I just don't have enough time in my life to speak or meet with all of those that show an interest

There are good and bad as with all the genders on here,I personally don't have trouble with guys,the majority I speak to are very polite,I've seen some God awful attitudes shown on here by some of them though and the same towards them,it can be cringe worthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its in part due to the percentage of guys who get abusive when declined but also due to the amount of attention couples and single females get which in turn causes some (not all) to have a very elevated _iew of themselves to the point of being quite arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem with single men at all in fact there's loads I'd like to get hold of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like single men,but some of them do give the good ones a bad name, from experience anyway.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Yep to many single guys get abusive and damage the chances for the rest of us i find xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some men abuse women

some of these women abuse men

it is the way it is and it ain't going to change.

"

This

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

I generally like single men, well the ones that take time to read our profile on here opposed to the "Im in your area passing through, fancy a fuck" types and the ones who actually chat at club's rather than following me wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its in part due to the percentage of guys who get abusive when declined but also due to the amount of attention couples and single females get which in turn causes some (not all) to have a very elevated _iew of themselves to the point of being quite arrogant. "

What? You mean, I'm not the most gorgeous woman to walk upon the face of the earth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without the single guys it would be difficult for mfm, mmfm and more besides.

Although your thread is aimed at single women, some still enjoy multiples and without the single males they could be disappointed.

I've only come ever come across a couple of rude women in 16 years. One earlier this week, actually. Usually it is a deleted mail with no reply. Which is fine, not being rude but everyone knows where they are with that.

On the whole I haven't come across many rude single females....or couples for that matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its in part due to the percentage of guys who get abusive when declined but also due to the amount of attention couples and single females get which in turn causes some (not all) to have a very elevated _iew of themselves to the point of being quite arrogant.

What? You mean, I'm not the most gorgeous woman to walk upon the face of the earth? "

pmsl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like them too , well some of them. "

Many love your pics too miss Scarletta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some single men are knobs but then again so are some women and couples. Being a knob is not gender specific.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like single men especially if they try to engage my brain and show that they've read my profile. That's how I found my fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some single men are knobs but then again so are some women and couples. Being a knob is not gender specific."

100% agree

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Don't worry about it OP the guys that act like dick heads just make the good ones stand out more

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Yep to many single guys get abusive and damage the chances for the rest of us i find xxx "

I don't go along with this at all.

You make or ruin your own chances on here. Nobody else does it for you...though if it's easier to blame others then fill your boots..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always going to be brought up in the situation whatever it may be. A single male on a swinging site where usually in an ideal situation couples would meet etc. They are here to enjoy sexual encounters like any other person here.

For example, a liverpool football fan sitting amongst a bunch of manchester united fans will always be questioned; although all there for the same reason to enjoy football. Neverending bullshit of questioning; get on with it and have fun

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Don't worry about it OP the guys that act like dick heads just make the good ones stand out more "

Sadly there are plenty of dickheads who seem to think send messages saying "fancy a fuck" will suffice. Then get abusive if you don't respond or delete their message.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Don't worry about it OP the guys that act like dick heads just make the good ones stand out more

Sadly there are plenty of dickheads who seem to think send messages saying "fancy a fuck" will suffice. Then get abusive if you don't respond or delete their message. "

Use the block button.

Eventually these dickheads will get blocked by everyone ...then they'll start a whining thread about not being able to get meets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As single guys I think all we can do is be ourselves. If that is appealing to others then so be it. If not then they will pass us by.

No point creating a false character just to get someone in to bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry about it OP the guys that act like dick heads just make the good ones stand out more "

The bad ones have no bearing on the good ones & vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry about it OP the guys that act like dick heads just make the good ones stand out more "

This.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We meet single men, of the polite and articulate variety. Not keen on the "wanna fuck?" variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry about it OP the guys that act like dick heads just make the good ones stand out more "

That's reassuring.

Just hope I stand out, and not as a dick head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A small portion of them are rude and arrogant and that overshadows the nice guys for many ladies on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it women don't like about single men? Apart from not having a partner what makes them any different to a couple?

I see a lot of women on these forums putting single men down and talking about them in a very negative way, what causes this attitude? "

Because the vast majority of single guys pics, profiles and communications are shit, they have absolutely no idea what women want, if they even care, and this comes across in volumes, they simply haven't the faintest clue how to talk to women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like everybody.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I like some single men too.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I have never had any problems with single men either on Fab or in the clubs we visit. In fact we avoid clubs on "couples only" nights because I really enjoy the attention from single men.

Some may be a little too insistent or over enthusiastic, but how can you expect otherwise when they generally outnumber couples and single women by probably a factor of at least ten on Fab?

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire


"I have never had any problems with single men either on Fab or in the clubs we visit. In fact we avoid clubs on "couples only" nights because I really enjoy the attention from single men.

Some may be a little too insistent or over enthusiastic, but how can you expect otherwise when they generally outnumber couples and single women by probably a factor of at least ten on Fab?

"

We avoid couple only nights too, but there's a difference between over enthusiasm and someone having to be told more than twice to not wank an inch away from your face

Luckily we have only come across these over enthusiastic guys once or twice and have only had abusive messages a few times, the majority of guys met swinging have been great, people are too quick to tar all guys with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met ladies who like single men xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Over time you see genuine hurt and some anger in people's posts. It must take time to get over past wrongs, for both genders.

Good luck to them.

Some may need and/or are in receipt of professional help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like single men

-Courtney"

We like single guys... And actually have more dodgy stories about guys from couples x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"What is it women don't like about single men? Apart from not having a partner what makes them any different to a couple?

I see a lot of women on these forums putting single men down and talking about them in a very negative way, what causes this attitude? "

The attitude of the vast majority of single men, sadly. I love single men - that's why I am here, but it is very hard work sorting the wheat from the chaff sometimes.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"What is it women don't like about single men? Apart from not having a partner what makes them any different to a couple?

I see a lot of women on these forums putting single men down and talking about them in a very negative way, what causes this attitude?

Because the vast majority of single guys pics, profiles and communications are shit, they have absolutely no idea what women want, if they even care, and this comes across in volumes, they simply haven't the faintest clue how to talk to women."

Absobloodylutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a little bit of " I /We have the power to pick and choose...you single guys are crumbs " .....then again it's partly single guys own faults .

Desperation and neediness will never get you anything....on here or in the real world !

If someone looks appealing on here i send one message ..if they respond then great , if not i move on...simple !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that if I go out and be myself, polite and respectful, people treat me the same way in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I've ever had any greif on here just because I'm single. I can understand women getting annoyed with the endless messages though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love them

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Don't worry about it OP the guys that act like dick heads just make the good ones stand out more

The bad ones have no bearing on the good ones & vice versa."

I quite agree. We are each responsible for our own success on here and can't realistically blame faceless unknown others for how we each fare...

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

We only meet single guys. Some are a pain in the neck and too up themselves mind you when they message and get nasty when told no thanks. But we only play with single guys not fems or couples.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only meet single guys. Some are a pain in the neck and too up themselves mind you when they message and get nasty when told no thanks. But we only play with single guys not fems or couples."

It's a damn shame wales is a little too far for me to travel

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

The decent fella's that know themselves wont & don't worry about it. Just focus on the people that appeal to not those that don't.

Yes there's some here incessantly ranting about single fella's but they've probably got something going on in the background. Why would anyone for good people/real fun spend most of their time here pontificating negative shyt about those they aint into ?

Attention ranting ? Possible anger issues ? Maybe just unlucky in their single m choice and experience. Who knows.

Either way they dont sound the best foundation for good times or funtimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we play with single guys and find 99 per cent are lovely.the rest we just block and move on.?Its no skin off our nose if a random stranger sent an abusive or disrespectful message.we could'nt give a shite what some idiot who we've never met and never will thinks of us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just to clarify no one has offended me or said anything bad to me. It's just when I read profiles of couples and single women a lot say "no single men". I know it's personal preference but when I see it so much it makes me wonder is it all really just that? And also I see a lot of comments on the forums about single men on various threads but especially in the club discussion. I understand some single men can't handle rejection, cannot be trusted or can be aggressive but we're not all like that, promise! It's good to see a lot of people commenting saying they have nothing wrong with single men. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its a little bit of " I /We have the power to pick and choose...you single guys are crumbs " .....then again it's partly single guys own faults .

Desperation and neediness will never get you anything....on here or in the real world !

If someone looks appealing on here i send one message ..if they respond then great , if not i move on...simple ! "

Agree. I do think it works both ways. Women and couples that are rude and disrespectful and think the sun shines out of their fanny's.

Men that get fed up of women and couples being rude and are rude in return to everyone they interact with.

People that have no idea what swinging is and think it's just people desperate to fuck anyone 24/7.

And endless cycle of shittyness.

But then the other people quietly having an absolute blast of a time amongst all the angst... and watching the mayhem wih a quiet smile...

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