FabSwingers.com forum: Club OR Private Meet ?

By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

Some people don't go to swing clubs because of the fact they may come across a member of their families or a work colleague.I won't blame anyone with such fear.. Some females and couples like to meet discreetly.For these who club don't have such degree of discretion.No disrespectful to these that club. Some prefer Private meet to club

So where do you belong? Club or private meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs we love the atmosphere and possibilities

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

"Clubs we love the atmosphere and possibilities "

this ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private, the club thing doesn't appeal to me. I prefer intimate one on one meets. I'd be intrigued to visit a club for purely social aspect to see what it's like.

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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable

Depends on the circumstances, but either are possibilities...

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

tried both and prefer private, especially at ours xx

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Like both but the Zombie Wanking Squad ruins clubs a bit

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

"Like both but the Zombie Wanking Squad ruins clubs a bit

Then I suggest going to a couples/single fems only night instead. The zombie wanking squads happen in most clubs on single guy nights but are rarer than a hens tooth on couples nights

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Like both but the Zombie Wanking Squad ruins clubs a bit

Then I suggest going to a couples/single fems only night instead. The zombie wanking squads happen in most clubs on single guy nights but are rarer than a hens tooth on couples nights

I agree.

We've had some fantastic nights a clubs. You never know who you may meet or how many you might play with.

Plus, Anita really enjoys that people are watching even if we're just playing on our own

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey

"Like both but the Zombie Wanking Squad ruins clubs a bit

Haha!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Private, the club thing doesn't appeal to me. I prefer intimate one on one meets. I'd be intrigued to visit a club for purely social aspect to see what it's like. "

In most clubs intimate one on one meets are possible as most clubs have private rooms.

Some people seem to think clubs only cater for sex with multiple partners nothing is further from the truth.

Good clubs cater for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Private, the club thing doesn't appeal to me. I prefer intimate one on one meets. I'd be intrigued to visit a club for purely social aspect to see what it's like.

In most clubs intimate one on one meets are possible as most clubs have private rooms.

Some people seem to think clubs only cater for sex with multiple partners nothing is further from the truth.

Good clubs cater for everyone"

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

I like both, both have different things to offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure I'm way off the mark for good clubs, but I imagine swarms of fellas who can't attract females in the real world congregating around every female hoping to be invited to a private room, with the rest of them wanking off over whatever is on show in public rooms.

I'm like the ability to take my time and relax with a lady, without expecting a tap on my shoulder asking "you done there yet mate?".

So, private for me thanks.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Always clubs - we find we can satisfy all our needs and fantasies be they threesomes or sevensomes in private or public. We have never had any problems with single men, we never suffer the irritation of no shows, we get to see the people we will play with before committing to play, we can watch and be watched, and no always means no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have their ups and downs. I think it matters what mood we are in. The intimate one on one meets can be steamy and sexy, but they require a lot of time commitment before hand with messages and social meets, etc. Clubs have a more fun, open vibe, and they allow for public play, which is a real turn on, but there are also the problems, sometimes, of really slow nights or lots of single guys.

I think our balance is private meets with people we see regularly and enjoy playing with and club nights when there is a bigger party or special event

-Courtney

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Some people don't go to swing clubs because of the fact they may come across a member of their families or a work colleague.I won't blame anyone with such fear.. Some females and couples like to meet discreetly.For these who club don't have such degree of discretion.No disrespectful to these that club. Some prefer Private meet to club

So where do you belong? Club or private meet"

We only club and have high levels of discretion which is why we travel some distance for this. If meeting individually there would have to be a massive amount of trust involved as they would have personal details so this is why we don't arrange meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure I'm way off the mark for good clubs, but I imagine swarms of fellas who can't attract females in the real world congregating around every female hoping to be invited to a private room, with the rest of them wanking off over whatever is on show in public rooms.

I'm like the ability to take my time and relax with a lady, without expecting a tap on my shoulder asking "you done there yet mate?".

So, private for me thanks. "

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

These days I much prefer clubs as I like the atmosphere and can relax. Going to other people's homes without knowing them to well is somewhat overwhelming and for the same reason I don't accommodate.

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By *ngie1962Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

We like to meet in clubs first plus if you went to a club and there was someone there you know they're not going to say anything unless their friends and family know what they do

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Private, the club thing doesn't appeal to me. I prefer intimate one on one meets. I'd be intrigued to visit a club for purely social aspect to see what it's like.

In most clubs intimate one on one meets are possible as most clubs have private rooms.

Some people seem to think clubs only cater for sex with multiple partners nothing is further from the truth.

Good clubs cater for everyone"

spot on.....

you do get that feeling some people who have never been to clubs think that it is something akin to a roman orgy... and you have to have sex with anyone you make eye contact with, and how dare you say no to people!!!!

all good clubs have a bit of everything for everybody.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the problem with seeing work colleagues at a club.

So what if they see you there? It's not as if they're not doing exactly the same thing!!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"Private, the club thing doesn't appeal to me. I prefer intimate one on one meets. I'd be intrigued to visit a club for purely social aspect to see what it's like.

In most clubs intimate one on one meets are possible as most clubs have private rooms.

Some people seem to think clubs only cater for sex with multiple partners nothing is further from the truth.

Good clubs cater for everyone

spot on.....

all good clubs have a bit of everything for everybody....."

I think that's what the majority none swinger's think of the whole swinging scene

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I don't see the problem with seeing work colleagues at a club.

So what if they see you there? It's not as if they're not doing exactly the same thing!!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Private, don't like to be distracted when I have my attention on someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am deffo a clubs girl as i never felt comfortable with the idea of strangers in my home as a single lady. Clubs offered me a safe fun environment and less pressure to play if i didnt have that spark when meeting in person as i always said it was a social with possibilities not promises as i can think of nothing worse than feeling ohhh you came all this way and sorry i am not into you but mabe i should coz you turned up. At least at a club there were other possibilities for both parties if the sparks didnt fly as they say

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By *andp01Couple
over a year ago

here n there

Private for us, done the club thing a few years ago, wasn't impressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never done a club would say private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see the problem with seeing work colleagues at a club.

So what if they see you there? It's not as if they're not doing exactly the same thing!!

Some people have no idea what discretion is and blab about who they fuck to anyone that will listen. It's those types that people are probably wary of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like club meets because there is no pressure x we rarely have time to meet a couple first for a social although we do enjoy them.

So clubs give us the chance to do that and if not for us then we can still play. Also with us not accommodating a club means we can fuck the pants off each other after too and then chill in the hot tub

We quite like hotel Meets with the right people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to a club as a cpl a few times and thought it was ok .

Went once as a single guy but never again . Felt like a pervert watching a sex show and guys wanking extremely close to me ... Im not that desperate yet but i felt i was !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are great if it's on a couples night, but on a single guy night it's bloody awful! Best to meet a guy first then go as a couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clubs are great if it's on a couples night, but on a single guy night it's bloody awful! Best to meet a guy first then go as a couple!"
funny how everyone likes different as we prefer the mixed nights x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clubs are great if it's on a couples night, but on a single guy night it's bloody awful! Best to meet a guy first then go as a couple!funny how everyone likes different as we prefer the mixed nights x "

It's ok if the ratio is evenly balanced! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer private as I love to give all my attention to the person I'm with and have all of her attention.

More intimate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried both and much prefer private meets. Ive tried just hooking up at a club with people but it doesn't do it for me. I much prefer to get to know people first. There's also that horrible swingers club atmosphere of everyone eyeing up everyone else which I really cant be arsed with, not too mention a closing time which doesn't suit me. If I do go to a club now then it's purely for a social as anything else is too much hassle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been to a club as a cpl a few times and thought it was ok .

Went once as a single guy but never again . Felt like a pervert watching a sex show and guys wanking extremely close to me ... Im not that desperate yet but i felt i was !"

Those are the things that I think make it fun.

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

Spent 4 years going to clubs for socialising, relaxing and meets.

Only done a couple of private meets over that same period. (All great)

For me, clubs are normal relaxed places to go and I enjoy the simple no pressure atmosphere you get in a club.

Sit around naked chatting away to anyone at the bar.

Then if you do end up clicking more with anyone the bonus that it is.

Just less awkward (to me) than turning up meeting someone privately.

Clubs give you that opportunity to go and play privately or as a group or sit around and chat.

Making it much easier to excuse yourself from a situation if you are not happy or don't click.

And as others have mentioned above, you can always pick an evening that doesn't include us single men if you don't want us around.

But in a club you are meeting people on neutral ground (so to speak) and can work out if they are as they described or you expected or just if you like them if you have never met before.

So I will continue to go to clubs and enjoy my time relaxing in great atmosphere with like minded people.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spent 4 years going to clubs for socialising, relaxing and meets.

Only done a couple of private meets over that same period. (All great)

For me, clubs are normal relaxed places to go and I enjoy the simple no pressure atmosphere you get in a club.

Sit around naked chatting away to anyone at the bar.

Then if you do end up clicking more with anyone the bonus that it is.

Just less awkward (to me) than turning up meeting someone privately.

Clubs give you that opportunity to go and play privately or as a group or sit around and chat.

Making it much easier to excuse yourself from a situation if you are not happy or don't click.

And as others have mentioned above, you can always pick an evening that doesn't include us single men if you don't want us around.

But in a club you are meeting people on neutral ground (so to speak) and can work out if they are as they described or you expected or just if you like them if you have never met before.

So I will continue to go to clubs and enjoy my time relaxing in great atmosphere with like minded people.

xxx"

I totally agree, they're great places to feel completely relaxed, with no pressure what so ever. I wasn't having a dig at single guys, I actually felt sorry for them. It seems they pay a lot more to get in, and most don't see any action. It must be quite daunting if you go on your own. I've been clubbing for over 4 years now, and would say that I've only ever had 1 or 2 bad nights. The people you meet are so lovely and normal & I've made some good life long friends. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer private meets but I find them so hard to arrange so I tend to use clubs more

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