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By *luttyslut34 OP   Couple
over a year ago

cumbria

We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Been there, done that.

Not my cup of piss, ta.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Depends on my mood...sometimes a little, sometimes a lot, sometimes even vanilla hits the right spot

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Mmmmmmmx absolutely x in all its glorious forms x

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By *luttyslut34 OP   Couple
over a year ago

cumbria


"Been there, done that.

Not my cup of piss, ta. "

Flowery boxxers n panama aint for us either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The garden variety, get your stuff from B&Q type, not my thing at all. Love the psychological side of it all though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we enjoy it.

We also enjoy Vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy mild bdsm it's finding like minded who want to push it that little bit further for me. want to try more

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Not something I indulge through fab, but yes BDSM is a big part of my life... but my submission is currently gifted, and I only have headspace for one dominant at a time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BDSM yes or no ?

Nonopleaseno

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

It's a yes from me

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By *quirell2015Man
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

A little yes

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Been there, done that.

Not my cup of piss, ta.

Flowery boxxers n panama aint for us either"

Ohh!

Get her!

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Definitely

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

There was this one time with a guy, a blindfold, some restraints, a cigar and a blowtorch lighter...

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Yus.

Have tended to keep my vanilla and BDSM worlds separate (former pro Domme) but starting to see a possible merge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The erotic end of it rather than the sadistic and painful side does something for me.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"There was this one time with a guy, a blindfold, some restraints, a cigar and a blowtorch lighter...

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I only went that far as he was extremely fit... mad as a box of frogs...

The things I used to do!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

It's not something we are interested in at the moment, but never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yh bdsm, a woman with a strap on and me tied up and blind folded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do like our sessions where Mrs is completely submissive

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By *ummersun99Woman
over a year ago

North Yorkshire by the Sea


"Depends on my mood...sometimes a little, sometimes a lot, sometimes even vanilla hits the right spot "

This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're a Dom/sub couple so yes for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mrs is a switch and loves mild BDSM(giving or recieving)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes yes and YES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes

Lately th I've been craving a bit of relaxed lazy cozy sec rather than a performance tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep...love it as some of my comments on the forum show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New to it....love it so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New to it in reality, not new to it in my head though.....loving every step of the journey so far - actually makes the vanilla a welcome bit of simplicity too, m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "

Nope

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By *aster n subCouple
over a year ago

pickering

Love it

We live it 24/7

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By *lue-greenMan
over a year ago

Taunton

Yes, as long as it doesn't hurt

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By *laction manMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Absolutely

There's something about finding the right sub though. I've met a few on here that say they're submissive but then you dig deeper they are just lazy and want someone to do everything

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We are into BDSM, we live a D/s lifestyle 24/7, doesn't,t work for some people but we have done so for a number of years and it works very well for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The garden variety, get your stuff from B&Q type, not my thing at all. Love the psychological side of it all though. "

Yep...this is me. I love the mind fuck. Do like some gentle physical bdsm too

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We enjoy it very much, but definitely the psychologically erotic aspects, rather than just getting a paddle out! Firm instructions whispered hotly into the ear of someone who knows their place is the sort of thing we like.

There is something intoxicating about power play and humiliation when it is done with finesse. We also like the switching aspects...C is very submissive when it's the two of us, but we have had a couple of meets with women who wanted C to play as their femdom mistress, and they were fantastic.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Not into just a bit of bum smacking, has to be holistic as in mind and physical play, that takes time which some are not willing to put in unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "

Do you sell your radiator on your first picture please? I can collect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

third*

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Yes please.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

There is an event on in Bristol this weekend called SWAMP which is for kinksters, we've never been but thought we might go down and take a look. Has anyone been there before?

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By *ratFrancescaWoman
over a year ago

trowbridge

Yeßssssssssssssss

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I got a little taste n would luv to try it out I've found it a big turn on to b dominated bye a lady .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "

We have been known to dabble

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By *luttyslut34 OP   Couple
over a year ago

cumbria


"Yeßssssssssssssss "

I take it thats a yes lol

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By *ratFrancescaWoman
over a year ago

trowbridge


"Yeßssssssssssssss

I take it thats a yes lol"

Yeah lol a deffo Yes haha normal sex bores me

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think I need to move away from the dark side before it devours me for good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a fetish club a few years back with a couple I knew.

We stripped my friends wife naked and offered her around the club whilst bound and in a blindfold.

Even although she was a gorgeous, petite stunning female we were surprised we had very few takers.

In fact we got a few negative comments as actual "sex" was rather disapproved of by the bdsm community!

Prefer the swinging community.

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By *ulia BellTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Have done this many times. Sometimes just being tied and gagged, other times whipped and caned, and sometimes being fucked or having to suck cock while tied and helpless. Love it all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Alot.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's something I would like to explore with the right guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much yes, love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went to a fetish club a few years back with a couple I knew.

We stripped my friends wife naked and offered her around the club whilst bound and in a blindfold.

Even although she was a gorgeous, petite stunning female we were surprised we had very few takers.

In fact we got a few negative comments as actual "sex" was rather disapproved of by the bdsm community!

Prefer the swinging community."

Going to the wrong club nights and parties - there's a couple I go to that have that kind of behaviour as the focus.

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Done some light stuff, I need more practice as I'm not particularly Dom or Sub. Fun though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dying to try it just hard finding a couple/female that wants to dominate me at theres or my home as not to comfortable with a club just yet

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Definite yes especially at my local Fetish Events 1

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

My F nick is BDnotSM

says it all really

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset

Yes love it but can only truly submit to one

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

It does depend on my mood, because great vanilla is great.....but I do enjoy BDSM. I switch, and can get very into it when the mood takes me.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"I went to a fetish club a few years back with a couple I knew.

We stripped my friends wife naked and offered her around the club whilst bound and in a blindfold.

Even although she was a gorgeous, petite stunning female we were surprised we had very few takers.

In fact we got a few negative comments as actual "sex" was rather disapproved of by the bdsm community!

Prefer the swinging community."

Many fetish/BDSM clubs don't allow (or frown upon) penetrative sex taking place. Some are held in licensed premises such as the basements of pubs or in night clubs. They could lose their license for nudity, let alone penetration.

Hence they hold fetish nights, for people to dress in fetish gear and to do BDSM.

If you want to do some BDSM and have sex try a swingers club which also has a dungeon such as Kestrels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Yes.......please

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Yes.......please "

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up. "

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?"

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

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By *luttyslut34 OP   Couple
over a year ago

cumbria


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?"

We would def make it an offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it a little too much... BDSM pushed my mind to limits I didn't know existed..... You find your true demons

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Love it tied helpless spanked mmmmmmmm

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Certain types ..... Yes !!

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By *ratFrancescaWoman
over a year ago

trowbridge


"I went to a fetish club a few years back with a couple I knew.

We stripped my friends wife naked and offered her around the club whilst bound and in a blindfold.

Even although she was a gorgeous, petite stunning female we were surprised we had very few takers.

In fact we got a few negative comments as actual "sex" was rather disapproved of by the bdsm community!

Prefer the swinging community.

Going to the wrong club nights and parties - there's a couple I go to that have that kind of behaviour as the focus."

What clubs are they I want to go to one that is a full on mixture of play with deffo no frowning on the sex side lol

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

We're both Shibari students but keep this seperate from meets...for now.

The gentleman we're learning from is completely against the swinging world and BDSM worlds colliding. I guess there are those that are orthodox and a few that aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're both Shibari students but keep this seperate from meets...for now.

The gentleman we're learning from is completely against the swinging world and BDSM worlds colliding. I guess there are those that are orthodox and a few that aren't."

Ah yes, I've met a few of them.

I wouldn't say they're 'orthodox' at all. Kink and sex have always been combined. They're just a loud voice, who happen to be louder than other voices.

Student of shibari... you mean you're learning to tie people up in a faux-Japanese way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes enjoy it and love to be kinky

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes. "

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations "

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Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.

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By *6and93Couple
over a year ago

Taunton

Sir and I like it ALOT


"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "

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By *6and93Couple
over a year ago

Taunton


"I enjoy mild bdsm it's finding like minded who want to push it that little bit further for me. want to try more "

if only you were closer....

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By *6and93Couple
over a year ago

Taunton

Perfect.


"Not something I indulge through fab, but yes BDSM is a big part of my life... but my submission is currently gifted, and I only have headspace for one dominant at a time..."

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By *6and93Couple
over a year ago

Taunton


"Yeßssssssssssssss "

Hmmmmm..FF bdsm

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By *6and93Couple
over a year ago

Taunton


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations "

Like anything on a hook.......it should wriggle!!! Lol!

I'm sub to my dom Sir, we don't live it 24/7......wouldn't go down well in my profession to turn up in bdsm gear and a hook up my butt!!!....but we definitely need it in our lives.

We don't exhibit at clubs unless there's a bdsm style room .

h

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .

Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own. "

Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Er........no.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .

Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.

Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens "

Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We may indulge in some mild play occasionally.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .

Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.

Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens

Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke. "

Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Always some time for a bit of slap n tickle x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .

Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.

Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens

Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.

Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love "

He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .

Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.

Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens

Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.

Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love

He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase. "

Deal!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .

Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.

Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens

Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.

Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love

He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.

Deal!"

Forget the flogger I think this might be cane work - lady.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .

Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.

Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens

Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.

Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love

He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.

Deal!

Forget the flogger I think this might be cane work - lady. "

I have got one of those too.....makes lovely bruises on my bottom

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .

Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.

Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens

Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.

Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love

He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.

Deal!

Forget the flogger I think this might be cane work - lady.

I have got one of those too.....makes lovely bruises on my bottom "

Yes it will - lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "

Not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm

"

We dabble, biggest challenge is getting enough child free time to dig out the naughty suitcase lol

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .

Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.

Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens

Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.

Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love

He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.

Deal!

Forget the flogger I think this might be cane work - lady.

I have got one of those too.....makes lovely bruises on my bottom

Yes it will - lady. "

Good! No point using one unless I am going to feel it for days afterwards

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .

Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.

Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens

Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.

Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love

He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.

Deal!

Forget the flogger I think this might be cane work - lady.

I have got one of those too.....makes lovely bruises on my bottom

Yes it will - lady.

Good! No point using one unless I am going to feel it for days afterwards "

Now lets see, stripes or diamond patterns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it. Love tight decorative tying and I crave impact play.

I even get aroused when I see the chain reels in a diy store

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely

There's something about finding the right sub though. I've met a few on here that say they're submissive but then you dig deeper they are just lazy and want someone to do everything "

Me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it when done right...But leave us alone with 50-53 shades of rubbish and other "fantasy" rubbish

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .

Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.

Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens

Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.

Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love

He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.

Deal!

Forget the flogger I think this might be cane work - lady.

I have got one of those too.....makes lovely bruises on my bottom

Yes it will - lady.

Good! No point using one unless I am going to feel it for days afterwards

Now lets see, stripes or diamond patterns. "

Are you allowing me to choose?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Yes.......please

Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.

I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?

If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.

I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .

Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.

Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens

Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.

Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love

He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.

Deal!

Forget the flogger I think this might be cane work - lady.

I have got one of those too.....makes lovely bruises on my bottom

Yes it will - lady.

Good! No point using one unless I am going to feel it for days afterwards

Now lets see, stripes or diamond patterns.

Are you allowing me to choose?"

Ha, what do you think - Lady?

Just thinking out loud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate canes though.

Unfortunately my Domme loves them and has quite a few she likes to work through.

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By *oBananas78Couple
over a year ago

London

We would like to try it. More the erotic side would love to see an experienced male Dom discipline my Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me

I simply don't get the attraction

I do appreciate we all like different though

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

How many of you kinksters like to play with a collar and lead too? We started a thread about it a while back, it didn't seem too popular...maybe there are more people here though into that kind of fun!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"How many of you kinksters like to play with a collar and lead too? We started a thread about it a while back, it didn't seem too popular...maybe there are more people here though into that kind of fun! "

I love my collar and lead.....love being pulled round by it and love being forced into positions using it.....especially love it being looped through my anal hook so I can't move

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, we know you are a fan. You were one of the few people in our other thread who wasn't totally dismissive of it, iirc!

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester


"We're both Shibari students but keep this seperate from meets...for now.

The gentleman we're learning from is completely against the swinging world and BDSM worlds colliding. I guess there are those that are orthodox and a few that aren't.

Ah yes, I've met a few of them.

I wouldn't say they're 'orthodox' at all. Kink and sex have always been combined. They're just a loud voice, who happen to be louder than other voices.

Student of shibari... you mean you're learning to tie people up in a faux-Japanese way?"

Yes, we're "learning to tie people up in a faux-Japanese way" how pernickety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "

I used to have a lovely Dom/sub relationship with a fem sub. Unfortunately she had to migrate with her husbands job so yes.

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

Yes with the right people BDSM can be fun,

We are finding it hard to find the right girl or couple to join in.

We / I (male) is Dom .

so finding a true sub is very hard

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"We do like our sessions where Mrs is completely submissive

H"

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Yes, we know you are a fan. You were one of the few people in our other thread who wasn't totally dismissive of it, iirc! "

Sorry.....I get a bit excited when I find people who play like me

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Yes, we know you are a fan. You were one of the few people in our other thread who wasn't totally dismissive of it, iirc!

Sorry.....I get a bit excited when I find people who play like me "

And what happens when you meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely yes. I'm into it. Quite extreme too. I'd love to find someone close to me to play more often though.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I have noticed that a lot of sub's are prone to direct hypnosis, that's how they find the zone so quickly.

The ultimate thrill for me would be to take a potential submissive lady, on a journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely yes. I'm into it. Quite extreme too. I'd love to find someone close to me to play more often though. "

Yes me too. Hard to find people you click with though AND live locally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very interested in this lifestyle,where do you begin any good websites for beginners

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Absolutely yes. I'm into it. Quite extreme too. I'd love to find someone close to me to play more often though.

Yes me too. Hard to find people you click with though AND live locally."

I suspect you play different to some - lady

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Yes, we know you are a fan. You were one of the few people in our other thread who wasn't totally dismissive of it, iirc!

Sorry.....I get a bit excited when I find people who play like me

And what happens when you meet them. "

We play

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Feel some straps coming out.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I like this. But nothing extreme. It's more the power play/psychology of it. But have got a collar and lead etc which I'll use with someone I trust. I like the idea of being resistant but then seduced.

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

Yes I enjoy it..would like to be pushed to my limits..

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

made for pleasure not pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of you kinksters like to play with a collar and lead too? We started a thread about it a while back, it didn't seem too popular...maybe there are more people here though into that kind of fun! "

Collar - check, lead - check, blinfold - check, handcuffs - check.....all ready for another fun session, love it! m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm

We dabble, biggest challenge is getting enough child free time to dig out the naughty suitcase lol"

ahhh the naughty case- I'm not the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wonders how many would play in a BDSM situation

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By *atexbound_scotMan
over a year ago

Livingston

A big yes from me ??

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By *rShinyKnickersMan
over a year ago

BARRY

YES!!!

That is all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it ^_^

I attend regular bdsm club events every month as well as swingers events too

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "

We enjoy a dabble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to play bdsm. I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we want to try i little bdsm ,mrs crackers turned on at thought ,but me mr crackers can not get turned on at thought ,,wondering what it is ,advice by nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we want to try i little bdsm ,mrs crackers turned on at thought ,but me mr crackers can not get turned on at thought ,,wondering what it is ,advice by nice "

If one person is interested in the other person is not, surely it makes sense for the person who is interested to go and try it with someone else?

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"we want to try i little bdsm ,mrs crackers turned on at thought ,but me mr crackers can not get turned on at thought ,,wondering what it is ,advice by nice "
Is Mrs Crackers looking to play the Dom or sub role? Is there something that you just don't like about it or any particular elements that are not for you? J

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Just wonders how many would play in a BDSM situation "

Have and do.......when I get the chance

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"How many of you kinksters like to play with a collar and lead too? We started a thread about it a while back, it didn't seem too popular...maybe there are more people here though into that kind of fun!

Collar - check, lead - check, blinfold - check, handcuffs - check.....all ready for another fun session, love it! m x"

Restraints, paddle, flogger, canes, pinwheel, candles, eggs, plugs, clamps - check, drat need some more batteries for the electro - pulse machine.

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

Been a Dom for a long time now and it's something I indulge in with people from another site as I've found the submissive women I've met from here usually got into it because of 50 shades of shite which isn't a true reflection of the scene or lifestyle so They've been let downs on both sides I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not for me.

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By *picycplCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Yes from us.

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By *loise5TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow-ish

Yes from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yessss

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By *heeky boy2015Man
over a year ago

grays thurrock essex

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By *heeky boy2015Man
over a year ago

grays thurrock essex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love bdsm and learnt a lot about myself, because I love pleasure pain and finding someone who can get into your head and push you boundaries and limits. Which is why I have started going back to a great club in Norfolk, but yet to find a man who I can connect with again in this scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the BDSM side of our sex life. But it's not 24/7 for us. But when we have time to prepare and build each other into character it can be a crazy mind blowing experience. We probably don't practice as much as we used to due to our work patterns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the fet scene, yes.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "

A bit of spanking is fine.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

BDSM, Yes please!

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

Life without a little BDSM would be like bread without butter for me, I have been doing if for over 20 years and not stopping anytime soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried it im more of a plain vanilla cake with a hint of cherry pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, i used to be into it but now depends on how i feel and who I'm with

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By *ilver FoxMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm more tickle than slap

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Damn, I wish this thread would go away, another sleepless night.

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We are a BDSM couple, can,t imagine my life without it.

karen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I'm feeling

Or

We enjoy aspects of it but aren't serious bdsm players

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely yes! Something about giving over the control that really does it for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh YES, whipping my slaves balls with my horse whip while his cock is caged.....nice. Then when its released slipping a sounding rod down the length and milking him.....oooohhh drool....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh YES, whipping my slaves balls with my horse whip while his cock is caged.....nice. Then when its released slipping a sounding rod down the length and milking him.....oooohhh drool.... "

would love you to introduce me Miss

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Not for me xx

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

Def YES PlEASE from me ...

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By *panker53Man
over a year ago

leeds

would love to tie up mrs crackers sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh YES, whipping my slaves balls with my horse whip while his cock is caged.....nice. Then when its released slipping a sounding rod down the length and milking him.....oooohhh drool.... "

Well HELLO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh YES, whipping my slaves balls with my horse whip while his cock is caged.....nice. Then when its released slipping a sounding rod down the length and milking him.....oooohhh drool....

Well HELLO! "

Oh yes, I do like to see a good pair of restrained balls. Either tied with my cord, bamboo robs or caged with the key at my disposal. To see them wriggle and quiver to my whims and desires is a sheer delight. I'm willing to be a key master if any one would like to join me. Mistress S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's got a sub side)) more hidden.. or less)

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

I don't have a sub side at all. I don't understand switching. Jack/y of all trades, master/mistress of none x im Domme all the way though (and there's quite a bit of me) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a sub side at all. I don't understand switching. Jack/y of all trades, master/mistress of none x im Domme all the way though (and there's quite a bit of me) x "

Now you don't. But when you've strated? You were mistress from the first day??never been a sub?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I thought I was sub until about seven years ago. My then Mistress rewarded me for a weekend of complete compliance by allowing me to top her. I discovered my inner dom and went on to take on a sub for five years.

now I identify as switch.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

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By *oc-robMan
over a year ago

Sunderland

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By *oc-robMan
over a year ago

Sunderland

Love it

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