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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

So when we started, didn't fancy a person & they asked why, we told them & they'd get pissy.

Now we don't reply & just block.

Would you like to know why? We would xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you say why?

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"How can you say why?"

Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"How can you say why?

Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)"

As a bisexual man I find it very odd that you choose who to have sex with and have standards and choices and preferences. Not.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

we get it all the time there's got to be a bit of something there not just a cock

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"we get it all the time there's got to be a bit of something there not just a cock "

Yes, but do you tell them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can you say why?

Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)"

Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth

Why would you want to know why?

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

lets play yes when they turn funny

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"How can you say why?

Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)

Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth

Why would you want to know why?"

Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"lets play yes when they turn funny"

No idea what your saying?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can you say why?

Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)

Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth

Why would you want to know why?

Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world

But the next couple might say they like a bit of a beer belly

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"How can you say why?

Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)

Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth

Why would you want to know why?

Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world

But the next couple might say they like a bit of a beer belly"

Haven't had that yet lol Prefer it without now, I'm happy they said something, I didn't even noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can you say why?

Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)

Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth

Why would you want to know why?

Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world

But the next couple might say they like a bit of a beer belly

Haven't had that yet lol Prefer it without now, I'm happy they said something, I didn't even noticed"

Fair enough, but what if the'd said its cuz you've got an ugly face?

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"How can you say why?

Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)

Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth

Why would you want to know why?

Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world

But the next couple might say they like a bit of a beer belly

Haven't had that yet lol Prefer it without now, I'm happy they said something, I didn't even noticed

Fair enough, but what if the'd said its cuz you've got an ugly face?"

At least I'd know what they thought instead of wondering. Don't you ever wonder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually give my standard-'Sorry not what I'm looking for. Have fun' spiel. Mostly get a polite thank you and occasionally a 'why not' Ask the question then they get an answer tho it may not be one they want to hear. That's the risk they take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can you say why?

Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)

Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth

Why would you want to know why?

Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world

But the next couple might say they like a bit of a beer belly

Haven't had that yet lol Prefer it without now, I'm happy they said something, I didn't even noticed

Fair enough, but what if the'd said its cuz you've got an ugly face?

At least I'd know what they thought instead of wondering. Don't you ever wonder?"

No, no point and I know my faults anyway and wouldn't change for anybody, I like me

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"I usually give my standard-'Sorry not what I'm looking for. Have fun' spiel. Mostly get a polite thank you and occasionally a 'why not' Ask the question then they get an answer tho it may not be one they want to hear. That's the risk they take. "

So you tell them if they insist?

May I ask what sort of things? Xx

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"How can you say why?

Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)

Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth

Why would you want to know why?

Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world

But the next couple might say they like a bit of a beer belly

Haven't had that yet lol Prefer it without now, I'm happy they said something, I didn't even noticed

Fair enough, but what if the'd said its cuz you've got an ugly face?

At least I'd know what they thought instead of wondering. Don't you ever wonder?

No, no point and I know my faults anyway and wouldn't change for anybody, I like me

Fair enough, thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bothered why.... If someone doesn't fancy us that's fine, we don't get nasty about it. Not everybody is our cuppa tea either. Would rather be told that they don't want to meet us, rather than be ignored though. Saves us messaging them another time eh? We don't tell people why unless they ask. I usually just say thanks but no thanks... If they do ask I just hit em with a not my type... I wouldn't want to be cruel. x

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"I'm not bothered why.... If someone doesn't fancy us that's fine, we don't get nasty about it. Not everybody is our cuppa tea either. Would rather be told that they don't want to meet us, rather than be ignored though. Saves us messaging them another time eh? We don't tell people why unless they ask. I usually just say thanks but no thanks... If they do ask I just hit em with a not my type... I wouldn't want to be cruel. x"

Seems nice. We're never cruel, but when we've asked we've had some ass hole answers

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

People are under no obligation to give any reason to anyone why they don't want sex with someone. If you choose to give them a reason, you can choose the manner in which you do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed but you can't choose the manner in which they'll react... That's why I tend not to say why... x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Agreed but you can't choose the manner in which they'll react... That's why I tend not to say why... x"
yeah...who needs the drama?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A simple no thanks (or words to that point) is sufficient. No need for a report on the why and nots. you can't be everyone's cuppa of tea..... Unless you are moi ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can you say why?

Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)

Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth

Why would you want to know why?

Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world

But the next couple might say they like a bit of a beer belly

Haven't had that yet lol Prefer it without now, I'm happy they said something, I didn't even noticed

Fair enough, but what if the'd said its cuz you've got an ugly face?

At least I'd know what they thought instead of wondering. Don't you ever wonder?

No, no point and I know my faults anyway and wouldn't change for anybody, I like me

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"A simple no thanks (or words to that point) is sufficient. No need for a report on the why and nots. you can't be everyone's cuppa of tea..... Unless you are moi ??"

Your not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A simple no thanks (or words to that point) is sufficient. No need for a report on the why and nots. you can't be everyone's cuppa of tea..... Unless you are moi ??

Your not

I take it you won't be inviting me to your meet today....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like being asked why Ive turned someone down. The truth hurts, im not going to tell someone I dont like the way I look, so I usually use the distance or another incompatability we have and there usually is one

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