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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I arranged to meet a girl from Fab on Saturday evening. A lad i know fom here has got a flat in the City Centre, and we arranged for us all to have some fun at his apartment. I swapped numbers with the girl, and we texted and arranged a time and place to meet in town. I was gonna meet her in town, have a few drinks, and then go back to this lad's apartment.

An hour or so before the meet, I texted her to check all was still ok and got no answer. I decided to go ahead with the arranged time of the meet though, even though I began having doubts as to whether she'd turn up. Sure enough, when the meet time came there was no show. I texted her to advise i was at the location, and asked her to text to let me know if she wasn gonna show or not. After getting no reply, i made my way to this lad's flat. About half an hour later she made contact and asked me to ring her. She said she'd been running late, but that she was still planning on coming over.

We agreed that i'd meet her at another location in town, but due to apparant transport issues she was a lot later than expected, resulting in me hanging around the city centre for a good hour or so. She eventually turned up, and so we got a taxi to this lad's place. We had a few drinks that i'd bought on the way in, and then proceeded with some playtime.

She'd not made any plans for her journey home, so we both offered to accomodate her for the night, even though this hadnt been discussed in the original arrangement. To be honest it felt like she expected one of us to accomodate her, so in the end she stayed at mine as my flat was closer to where she lives. Everything was above board, and she stayed the night at mine, and then i walked her to the tram stop in the morning.

I've left her a nice veri, and was hoping to receive one, just to verify that i was genuine. Unfortunately although she'd accepted my veri and posted it on her profile, she's decided not to verify me or my mate, which has left us both feeling a little peeved! lol. We're not expecting to be praised for our sexual prowess (lol) but we just thought it would be courteous of her to verify us.

Are we being unreasonable, or should we just be grateful that we managed to get a meet! lol.. All thoughts appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry that's happened I can only put it down to out and out rudeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think she mucked you around enough, and took what she could, sorry mate but move on

Proberly playing the game, with others all night too.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd forget about the veri and forget about this girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps she was so overwhelmed by the experience, she just could not find the words to express her joy.

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By *anie1000Woman
over a year ago

Staffs

- Or perhaps she was seeing someone else that night too, which was why she was so late and not texting you back . . . . ?

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She didn't do a veri..........oh well. They're not the be all n end all. Most only use them to verify someone is actually a real person and turned up for their meet that time. That's no guarantee they will the next or that you'll get as good a time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you emailed her and asked her to do one back? She sounds very greedy that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could block her and remove your veri?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did she catch you having a swatch at the other guys boaby ? maybe she seen things and doesnt want to veri you as straight ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plain rude

You sound respectful. .accommodating etc..

I would block her..why should she have a glowing verie

All the best with future meets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you join this site to amass numbers of verifications,or to meet ladies for sexual liaisons?

So she didn't verify you,has that lessened your evening with the lady?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'd forget about the veri and forget about this girl.

"

This. You got messed about too much. Lack of communication on her part. If she reads this thread - keep in contact!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you join this site to amass numbers of verifications,or to meet ladies for sexual liaisons?

So she didn't verify you,has that lessened your evening with the lady?"

It seems some are more worried about getting a veri than the actual meet these days but agree with others, bit rude not to send one. I'd block her then she can't show yours but then some don't send one straight away, I've taken over a week before to send one as I have a life off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She sounds like hard work but in the end, was the verification you gave her truthful or did you just give it in order to receive one yourself? If it was true and an accurate reflection of your meet, why would you then block and remove it? That just seems petty and childish...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just plain rude - I can't believe you waited an hour for her (she must have been hot or you were just way too horny to let it go lol), but at least you and your mate also had fun and the verification is no big deal. Ps you should have kept her up all night by having your wicked way with her instead of her using your house as a bed and breakfast. #ThreeInABed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, having read your post again, you've only given her a day to send it. She might not have got around to doing it and you have been, in my opinion, somewhat indiscreet giving a detailed account of the meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the comments I did leave her a veri, as she was a nice girl and I think its nice to leave a veri when someone's arranged to meet you. I was just disappointed that she didnt have the same opinion, and it just seemed a bit rude, particularly after the shenanigans we went through to meet up!

As some have suggested on this thread, I did have my suspicions that her lateness was due to her meeting someone else on Fab, and a simple text explaining that she was running late would have sufficed. It's a lesson learnt though on my part, and i'll be a bit more choosey next time when it comes to a meet! Maybe I was just bowled over that she agreed to meet! lol.

I don't feel i've been indiscreet in my post, as has been suggested, and although i've given a fairly detailed account of how the night panned out, i've not mentioned any names or indicated who the persons concerned were, so I think its a bit unfair to suggest this.

Cheers for all your comments though. It's nice to know that the majority agreed with my sentiments!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the comments I did leave her a veri, as she was a nice girl and I think its nice to leave a veri when someone's arranged to meet you. I was just disappointed that she didnt have the same opinion, and it just seemed a bit rude, particularly after the shenanigans we went through to meet up!

As some have suggested on this thread, I did have my suspicions that her lateness was due to her meeting someone else on Fab, and a simple text explaining that she was running late would have sufficed. It's a lesson learnt though on my part, and i'll be a bit more choosey next time when it comes to a meet! Maybe I was just bowled over that she agreed to meet! lol.

I don't feel i've been indiscreet in my post, as has been suggested, and although i've given a fairly detailed account of how the night panned out, i've not mentioned any names or indicated who the persons concerned were, so I think its a bit unfair to suggest this.

Cheers for all your comments though. It's nice to know that the majority agreed with my sentiments! "

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I think you are worrying too much about a veri and forgetting that you got to have a sexy time with a sexy lady. I assume you enjoyed yourself so why are people telling you to forget it and move on. The lateness thing is poor, bit she turned up in the end. Also I would just ask her for a veri if you want one so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you are worrying too much about a veri and forgetting that you got to have a sexy time with a sexy lady. I assume you enjoyed yourself so why are people telling you to forget it and move on. The lateness thing is poor, bit she turned up in the end. Also I would just ask her for a veri if you want one so much."

Don't meet for a veri, meet for a good time.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"I arranged to meet a girl from Fab on Saturday evening. A lad i know fom here has got a flat in the City Centre, and we arranged for us all to have some fun at his apartment. I swapped numbers with the girl, and we texted and arranged a time and place to meet in town. I was gonna meet her in town, have a few drinks, and then go back to this lad's apartment.

An hour or so before the meet, I texted her to check all was still ok and got no answer. I decided to go ahead with the arranged time of the meet though, even though I began having doubts as to whether she'd turn up. Sure enough, when the meet time came there was no show. I texted her to advise i was at the location, and asked her to text to let me know if she wasn gonna show or not. After getting no reply, i made my way to this lad's flat. About half an hour later she made contact and asked me to ring her. She said she'd been running late, but that she was still planning on coming over.

We agreed that i'd meet her at another location in town, but due to apparant transport issues she was a lot later than expected, resulting in me hanging around the city centre for a good hour or so. She eventually turned up, and so we got a taxi to this lad's place. We had a few drinks that i'd bought on the way in, and then proceeded with some playtime.

She'd not made any plans for her journey home, so we both offered to accomodate her for the night, even though this hadnt been discussed in the original arrangement. To be honest it felt like she expected one of us to accomodate her, so in the end she stayed at mine as my flat was closer to where she lives. Everything was above board, and she stayed the night at mine, and then i walked her to the tram stop in the morning.

I've left her a nice veri, and was hoping to receive one, just to verify that i was genuine. Unfortunately although she'd accepted my veri and posted it on her profile, she's decided not to verify me or my mate, which has left us both feeling a little peeved! lol. We're not expecting to be praised for our sexual prowess (lol) but we just thought it would be courteous of her to verify us.

Are we being unreasonable, or should we just be grateful that we managed to get a meet! lol.. All thoughts appreciated! "
maybe now you've detailed what happened she's read this and it's even more unlikely you'll receive a verification from her. Chalk it up to experience op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"- Or perhaps she was seeing someone else that night too, which was why she was so late and not texting you back . . . . ?

J x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what they say? If youve nothing nice to say, say nothing at all. Maybe this was her feeling.

Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know what they say? If youve nothing nice to say, say nothing at all. Maybe this was her feeling.

Just saying. "

Maybe she was thinking of what to write then saw this thread?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck the veri, I'd have sacked her off because of the lateness without letting you know. That's rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always leave a veri,but some ppl just dont do them.its nice to have one. u cud block her tho,then she cant display it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The girl in question has done veri's for other guys, so i'm guessing I was a shit shag! lol Cheers for all the comments!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The girl in question has done veri's for other guys, so i'm guessing I was a shit shag! lol Cheers for all the comments! "

Seriously, she could have seen this thread and not wanted her name associated with your profile?

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