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approched by couple.. all's great then...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They just block you.. how rude haha.. even after good banter.. (not rude) time wasters.. crazy

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Clearly you weren't for them. How does that make them timewasters?

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By *lowstick66Man
over a year ago

m

but do you know if they were actually real?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

They changed their mind

It happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clearly you weren't for them. How does that make them timewasters?"

Exactly. I'd say they changed their mind and did the exact opposite of waste your time. Odd why some people block when you're seemingly getting on but that's life on here, just move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well i agree with "its upto them" code and not for them.. but as they/she was dead keen.. just annoys me lol.. not a problem with their choice.. simple no thanks would be cool..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! If I had a quid for every time this happens.......

....I'd have about £5. Life changing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow! If I had a quid for every time this happens.......

....I'd have about £5. Life changing. "

pmsl

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"Clearly you weren't for them. How does that make them timewasters?

Exactly. I'd say they changed their mind and did the exact opposite of waste your time. Odd why some people block when you're seemingly getting on but that's life on here, just move on. "

We block people because we forget why we didn't want to meet and instead of go through the process again we just block and move on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They just block you.. how rude haha.. even after good banter.. (not rude) time wasters.. crazy"

You only have one pic that's public and the flash hides most of it. We wouldn't contact you because we don't like to have to ask for pics. So maybe they chatted and for whatever reason they didn't like something you said or you just weren't their type, or they simply changed their mind.

Don't read too much into it, it's par for the course, Julia surprises the hell out of me who she finds attractive, some James Bond type lad with super abs she doesn't like and then some bald guy with a broke nose she practically wets herself. Given up trying to second guess it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"They just block you.. how rude haha.. even after good banter.. (not rude) time wasters.. crazy

You only have one pic that's public and the flash hides most of it. We wouldn't contact you because we don't like to have to ask for pics. So maybe they chatted and for whatever reason they didn't like something you said or you

just weren't their type, or they simply

changed their mind.

Don't read too much into it, it's par for the course, Julia surprises the hell out of me who she finds attractive, some James Bond type lad with super abs she doesn't like and then some bald guy with a broke nose she practically wets herself. Given up trying to second guess it."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sorry. I didn't actually say anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They just block you.. how rude haha.. even after good banter.. (not rude) time wasters.. crazy"

Maybe your banter wasn;t as good as you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They just block you.. how rude haha.. even after good banter.. (not rude) time wasters.. crazy

Maybe your banter wasn;t as good as you think?"

Or maybe they took your banter the wrong way. Very difficult to get playful banter across in written text sometimes as there is no eye contact, facial expressions or tone of voice. Some can be offended because of this.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

They came....

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I struggle to get my head round the idea that talking/messaging someone and deciding not to meet makes someone a time waster. Surely it'll be much worse to meet and then find you're not compatible. ..

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A timewaster to me is a no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple from southport agree to meet went to southport was messaging them they was like were on are way there should be another guy there an hour later I messaged again when they blocked me no sorry were not coming are anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They just block you.. how rude haha.. even after good banter.. (not rude) time wasters.. crazy

You only have one pic that's public and the flash hides most of it. We wouldn't contact you because we don't like to have to ask for pics. So maybe they chatted and for whatever reason they didn't like something you said or you just weren't their type, or they simply changed their mind.

Don't read too much into it, it's par for the course, Julia surprises the hell out of me who she finds attractive, some James Bond type lad with super abs she doesn't like and then some bald guy with a broke nose she practically wets herself. Given up trying to second guess it."

Was added as friends and complime ts given.. as a polite and well mannered guy id of just said your not for me/us

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Not moaning about just some folks are odd hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was added as friends and complime ts given.. as a polite and well mannered guy id of just said your not for me/us

.

Not moaning about just some folks are odd hey"

We say you're not for us if face pics not our type but I firmly believe some people daren't say that (don't know why, not the end of the world is it) and don't know how to extricate themselves. So maybe they were one of those and didn't find you attractive but didn't know how to say it, and as the meet got closer they didn't know what to do so blocked you.

Just a theory. So long as you're not taking it personal is all, it's just how some people are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No doubt someone else will come along and block you,and you will forget all about the original couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A timewaster to me is a no show "

Absolutely agree !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They came...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple contact me but when I read their profile I noted that I ticked several of their " definite no's " I complimented their profile but pointed out our differences......to which they replied, " sorry, you are not for us then " and blocked me.

Simple, straightforward.... No harm done, no need to reply, all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to get my head round the idea that talking/messaging someone and deciding not to meet makes someone a time waster. Surely it'll be much worse to meet and then find you're not compatible. ..

Cal"

Not really time-wasters.....just a bit rude.

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