FabSwingers.com forum: First time foursome

By *auraAndy OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

In the next few weeks we're gonna be meeting with another couple for their first meet and our first swap, we've only done ffm before.

One idea we had was for us two girls to play and then blindfold both the men while we play with them, I guess this kind of takes the pressure off a bit and then they won't feel at all jealous and can just enjoy the feeling.

Are there any other ways we could start off to relieve the pressure a bit while everyone gets comfortable?

Also what do people think about videoing it for both couples to take a copy, bad idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the next few weeks we're gonna be meeting with another couple for their first meet and our first swap, we've only done ffm before.

Are there any other ways we could start off to relieve the pressure a bit while everyone gets comfortable?

Also what do people think about videoing it for both couples to take a copy, bad idea?"

Definitely bad idea re: videoing.

We always go into meets with an open mind/no pressure mindset. That way everyone's relaxed and just goes with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone is going to feel jealous are you sure your ready? Just asking not making any presumptions.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Slightest concern about jealousy should be enough for you to see it isn't the right time yet....and videoing would certainly be a no - no for a first time meeting with anyone! Good luck, but think carefully. This sounds like an ill thought out realisation of a fantasy

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By *auraAndy OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Nobody on our end will get jealous, but I think we've all done enough to know that it's possible in any circumstance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate starting with just the girls.. To be honest I like to start with my own partner... and then they start too... its close so obviously the ladies will touch... and the guys will touch the other ladies.. and it seems to flow and swap easily...

For me though the hardest part is when to start play..... I am terrible at moving from socializing to play..

Luckily for me.. Mr is so good at moving things along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and as for videos.. If that is what everyone likes.. the I am sure it wouldnt be a problem.

I often end up taking photos for other couples etc x

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By *auraAndy OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

I think that is the hardest step, when we were at a club it was fine because they just asked if we wanted to play, but at someones house I can imagine that would be awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that is the hardest step, when we were at a club it was fine because they just asked if we wanted to play, but at someones house I can imagine that would be awkward"

See if find itn hard at a club too x as at least at someone's home I know they kinda have an interest in us x

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By *icolWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Did this on holiday with a couple we met....back to their room few drinks etc and they had a Jacuzzi which they suggested we all jump into and admire the view from their baloney lights went out and we all went in our underware at first then we soon lost the bra's soon after the knickers. Hands were and feet going everywhere...i went to the loo and my white butt was there for all to see lol When i came back we all changed places and it all kicked off xx

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