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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My wife wants to try flogging. Do you have any tips or ideas ?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Join the 18th century navy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife wants to try flogging. Do you have any tips or ideas ? "

There are videos on YouTube that give basic techniques.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I very often do it with a dead horse ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you have discussed it properly, do's and song's and have safe words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you flogging ?

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Ebay?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Join the 18th century navy"
is that how you found out about it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I very often do it with a dead horse ..

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who enjoys it most you or the horse ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Make sure you have discussed it properly, do's and song's and have safe words"
what are some things we should go over ? This is completely new to us I will look on you tube as suggested as well.she wants to flogg me as well ?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Acuity and feedback as things change as you develop, there is no fixed one size fits all in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure you have discussed it properly, do's and song's and have safe wordswhat are some things we should go over ? This is completely new to us I will look on you tube as suggested as well.she wants to flogg me as well ?"

It's a good idea for her to try it on you too. That way you will get an appreciation of how it feels.

Whenever we play with a new toy, we always do a practice session so it's not a scene or there is no roleplay. It's literally him trying something on me and me feeding back how it feels and what level of pain I'm currently at.

There are so many guides online of how to flog and where to make impact.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Join the 18th century navy is that how you found out about it ?"

"Rum, sodomy and the lash", as Churchill memorably put it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Make sure you have discussed it properly, do's and song's and have safe wordswhat are some things we should go over ? This is completely new to us I will look on you tube as suggested as well.she wants to flogg me as well ?

It's a good idea for her to try it on you too. That way you will get an appreciation of how it feels.

Whenever we play with a new toy, we always do a practice session so it's not a scene or there is no roleplay. It's literally him trying something on me and me feeding back how it feels and what level of pain I'm currently at.

There are so many guides online of how to flog and where to make impact. "
thank you she wants to flogg me as well and im game thank you

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Make sure you have discussed it properly, do's and song's and have safe words"

There are songs?

Start off with a nice soft lambs leather one. Stuff online might be cheaper but always worth testing them yourself

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

Get a leather one, not a rubber strand one. A rubber one will have her crying

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at a party once and someone took out a flogger - Jesus no one going near me with that but it worked its way round the room every body trying then it came to me.

Wow unbelievable - it's all just down to the person - it was so soft and gentle heightened the arousal sensors

But guess it's all down to the person using it - would I like to experience it again HELL YES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use a flogger, and no one has ever said it hurt, perhaps they didn't dare!!! lol flogging goes well with a little telling off, i.e. you are a very naughty boy for wanting an old lady, that sort of thing, apparently that is "hot"

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

Start off by practising on a cushion to get your accuracy right then ask your Vic.... Lady to scale how hard your hitting 1-10 try to keep it between 5-7 and she will enjoy it .make sure she is comfortable before you start then build up slowly as above start with a soft lambs skin flogger remember flick her with the tips stings land with the main body of the flogger thuds lots of thud little sting a happy vict... Sorry lady makes . And don't forget your after care lots of hugs and cuddles whilst she comes down from the experiance

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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Barbados


"Start off by practising on a cushion to get your accuracy right then ask your Vic.... Lady to scale how hard your hitting 1-10 try to keep it between 5-7 and she will enjoy it .make sure she is comfortable before you start then build up slowly as above start with a soft lambs skin flogger remember flick her with the tips stings land with the main body of the flogger thuds lots of thud little sting a happy vict... Sorry lady makes . And don't forget your after care lots of hugs and cuddles whilst she comes down from the experiance "

Also, there is a great book called 'Flogging' by Greenery Press. They publish a lot of BDSM and sex books. This book in particular is great as talks a bit about what is happening physically to your body being flogged which helps you to understand what works and what doesn't.

-Matt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a leather one, not a rubber strand one. A rubber one will have her crying

*Her*"

Get the rubber one

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By *omewhat_kinkyCouple
over a year ago

reigate

start practising on a cushion first. areas to avoid hitting are backs of knees, kidneys and the back of the neck, when starting out with a live target get her to wear a corset so any misses will not impact the kidneys, start slow and soft using a figure 8 pattern and move around so impacts do not land constantly on the same area, or she will safeword out before you get into the swing or she gets in the zone. a soft suede flogger 18 to 24 inches long is the best to start with. when the target arera is pinky red then you can add vigour to the action but stop occasionaly and run fingertips over the area plus gentle nail scratching will heighten the sensation. when she is in the zone, have sweet drinks, a blanket and lots of hugs and cuddles as aftercare to allow her to start recovering.

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By *lieneWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Soft suede floggers feel wonderful. I would absolutely recommend them.

Ensure though that you understand where is safe to flog someone (avoid the kidney area of the back) and that you have agreed a safe word beforehand.

It really can be very enjoyable and sexy.

Have fun. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Soft suede floggers feel wonderful. I would absolutely recommend them.

Ensure though that you understand where is safe to flog someone (avoid the kidney area of the back) and that you have agreed a safe word beforehand.

It really can be very enjoyable and sexy. Thank you I did get a suede one. We have been reading on it. We have a safe word its not more but thats what she keeps saying. What a turn on for both of us. She is shocked that she likes it so much. She has been doing me as well. Thank you for your input have a great day and happy flogging !

Have fun. X"

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

From my perspective all floggers work , the difference is in the person holding it

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