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By *hattyman80 OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

By no stretch of the imagination am I the fittest guy in the world. I've got a bit of a belly (not ridiculously big) I would say I'm chunky. However there doesn't seem to be much call for a chunkier guy nowadays it appears everyone is looking for gym fit toned guys which fair play why wouldn't you!!

So my question is... Is a chunkier guy with a personality an appealing prospect anymore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By no stretch of the imagination am I the fittest guy in the world. I've got a bit of a belly (not ridiculously big) I would say I'm chunky. However there doesn't seem to be much call for a chunkier guy nowadays it appears everyone is looking for gym fit toned guys which fair play why wouldn't you!!

So my question is... Is a chunkier guy with a personality an appealing prospect anymore?

"

I have two male partners at the moment.

One is incredibly gym fit with not an ounce of fat on his body. I date him almost entirely for sex and physical reasons.

One is quite overweight (although he's trying to lose weight). I live with him. He provides me with something more than just sex.

On a website that is mostly about looking for casual sex, why would I care a huge amount about someones personality? As long as I can get on with them for a few hours that's enough. And most guys with gym-fit bodies that I've met also have lovely personalities. So really, for me, it's not that much of a hard choice.

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By *hattyman80 OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

Not sure where I said gym fit guys don't have lovely personalities??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us chubby guys rock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simplest answer.

They appeal to some,

They don't appeal to others.

Embrace what you are, be it gym bunny or BHM and roll with it.

As I said on another thread, Mrs N is tiny while I'm a big fella but we both get equal amounts of interest from other parties which I feel boils down to confidence and assuredness that I am what I am. If someone random from an Internet networking site doesn't like it, who the fuck cares. Certainly not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got lots of veri's so I guess you're doing something right and shows that there are people that will meet

I guess the whole supply v demand thing on here can mean that the ladies / couples can pick and choose more. If it's just for sex then of course most (not all!) will choose the 'superior' (for want of a better word!) specimen. Us mere mortals just need to accept that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure where I said gym fit guys don't have lovely personalities?? "

You didn't.

But given the change between two guys with equal personalities, I'm going to go with the one I find easier on the eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By no stretch of the imagination am I the fittest guy in the world. I've got a bit of a belly (not ridiculously big) I would say I'm chunky. However there doesn't seem to be much call for a chunkier guy nowadays it appears everyone is looking for gym fit toned guys which fair play why wouldn't you!!

So my question is... Is a chunkier guy with a personality an appealing prospect anymore?

I have two male partners at the moment.

One is incredibly gym fit with not an ounce of fat on his body. I date him almost entirely for sex and physical reasons.

One is quite overweight (although he's trying to lose weight). I live with him. He provides me with something more than just sex.

On a website that is mostly about looking for casual sex, why would I care a huge amount about someones personality? As long as I can get on with them for a few hours that's enough. And most guys with gym-fit bodies that I've met also have lovely personalities. So really, for me, it's not that much of a hard choice."

Nice to know you're more interested in a few globs of muscle than a mans brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By no stretch of the imagination am I the fittest guy in the world. I've got a bit of a belly (not ridiculously big) I would say I'm chunky. However there doesn't seem to be much call for a chunkier guy nowadays it appears everyone is looking for gym fit toned guys which fair play why wouldn't you!!

So my question is... Is a chunkier guy with a personality an appealing prospect anymore?

I have two male partners at the moment.

One is incredibly gym fit with not an ounce of fat on his body. I date him almost entirely for sex and physical reasons.

One is quite overweight (although he's trying to lose weight). I live with him. He provides me with something more than just sex.

On a website that is mostly about looking for casual sex, why would I care a huge amount about someones personality? As long as I can get on with them for a few hours that's enough. And most guys with gym-fit bodies that I've met also have lovely personalities. So really, for me, it's not that much of a hard choice.

Nice to know you're more interested in a few globs of muscle than a mans brain"

Ah, I see what you did there.

Firstly though - you can't really call muscle 'globs'. When I called breasts 'globs of fat' in that other thread it's because fat is a semi-liquid substance and therefore it's accurate. Muscle however is not a semi-liquid substance and therefore it's the wrong word.

Secondly, I didn't say that I'd talk to a man's muscles instead of his face - which is what you said about breasts.

I said that for casual sex, personality was not as important to me (although, still important) as looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By no stretch of the imagination am I the fittest guy in the world. I've got a bit of a belly (not ridiculously big) I would say I'm chunky. However there doesn't seem to be much call for a chunkier guy nowadays it appears everyone is looking for gym fit toned guys which fair play why wouldn't you!!

So my question is... Is a chunkier guy with a personality an appealing prospect anymore?

I have two male partners at the moment.

One is incredibly gym fit with not an ounce of fat on his body. I date him almost entirely for sex and physical reasons.

One is quite overweight (although he's trying to lose weight). I live with him. He provides me with something more than just sex.

On a website that is mostly about looking for casual sex, why would I care a huge amount about someones personality? As long as I can get on with them for a few hours that's enough. And most guys with gym-fit bodies that I've met also have lovely personalities. So really, for me, it's not that much of a hard choice.

Nice to know you're more interested in a few globs of muscle than a mans brain

Ah, I see what you did there.

Firstly though - you can't really call muscle 'globs'. When I called breasts 'globs of fat' in that other thread it's because fat is a semi-liquid substance and therefore it's accurate. Muscle however is not a semi-liquid substance and therefore it's the wrong word.

Secondly, I didn't say that I'd talk to a man's muscles instead of his face - which is what you said about breasts.

I said that for casual sex, personality was not as important to me (although, still important) as looks."

Nice that you think so highly of the people you want to have sex with.

(And you know my comment about breasts was a joke?) X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By no stretch of the imagination am I the fittest guy in the world. I've got a bit of a belly (not ridiculously big) I would say I'm chunky. However there doesn't seem to be much call for a chunkier guy nowadays it appears everyone is looking for gym fit toned guys which fair play why wouldn't you!!

So my question is... Is a chunkier guy with a personality an appealing prospect anymore?

I have two male partners at the moment.

One is incredibly gym fit with not an ounce of fat on his body. I date him almost entirely for sex and physical reasons.

One is quite overweight (although he's trying to lose weight). I live with him. He provides me with something more than just sex.

On a website that is mostly about looking for casual sex, why would I care a huge amount about someones personality? As long as I can get on with them for a few hours that's enough. And most guys with gym-fit bodies that I've met also have lovely personalities. So really, for me, it's not that much of a hard choice.

Nice to know you're more interested in a few globs of muscle than a mans brain"

I don't think that is fair. She is saying for the purposes of sex on this site, appearance matters to her. That isn't unreasonable and she isn't the only one who feels this way (male or female). No need to boil it down to a slightly offensive over-simplistic statement, surely?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being chubby implies you don't look after yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By no stretch of the imagination am I the fittest guy in the world. I've got a bit of a belly (not ridiculously big) I would say I'm chunky. However there doesn't seem to be much call for a chunkier guy nowadays it appears everyone is looking for gym fit toned guys which fair play why wouldn't you!!

So my question is... Is a chunkier guy with a personality an appealing prospect anymore?

I have two male partners at the moment.

One is incredibly gym fit with not an ounce of fat on his body. I date him almost entirely for sex and physical reasons.

One is quite overweight (although he's trying to lose weight). I live with him. He provides me with something more than just sex.

On a website that is mostly about looking for casual sex, why would I care a huge amount about someones personality? As long as I can get on with them for a few hours that's enough. And most guys with gym-fit bodies that I've met also have lovely personalities. So really, for me, it's not that much of a hard choice.

Nice to know you're more interested in a few globs of muscle than a mans brain

Ah, I see what you did there.

Firstly though - you can't really call muscle 'globs'. When I called breasts 'globs of fat' in that other thread it's because fat is a semi-liquid substance and therefore it's accurate. Muscle however is not a semi-liquid substance and therefore it's the wrong word.

Secondly, I didn't say that I'd talk to a man's muscles instead of his face - which is what you said about breasts.

I said that for casual sex, personality was not as important to me (although, still important) as looks.

Nice that you think so highly of the people you want to have sex with.

(And you know my comment about breasts was a joke?) X"

I think *extraordinarily* highly of the people I have sex with. They are fantastic people who usually have both great bodies *and* great brains.

You were saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For purposes of having comfortable sex I will choose the fittest,strongest man and explain that they can't lean on my body or stretch my legs wide to accommodate their waist/stomach. I want to enjoy sex,not be struggling with a heavy body on me. Two fat stomachs can be a problem for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By no stretch of the imagination am I the fittest guy in the world. I've got a bit of a belly (not ridiculously big) I would say I'm chunky. However there doesn't seem to be much call for a chunkier guy nowadays it appears everyone is looking for gym fit toned guys which fair play why wouldn't you!!

So my question is... Is a chunkier guy with a personality an appealing prospect anymore?

I have two male partners at the moment.

One is incredibly gym fit with not an ounce of fat on his body. I date him almost entirely for sex and physical reasons.

One is quite overweight (although he's trying to lose weight). I live with him. He provides me with something more than just sex.

On a website that is mostly about looking for casual sex, why would I care a huge amount about someones personality? As long as I can get on with them for a few hours that's enough. And most guys with gym-fit bodies that I've met also have lovely personalities. So really, for me, it's not that much of a hard choice.

Nice to know you're more interested in a few globs of muscle than a mans brain

Ah, I see what you did there.

Firstly though - you can't really call muscle 'globs'. When I called breasts 'globs of fat' in that other thread it's because fat is a semi-liquid substance and therefore it's accurate. Muscle however is not a semi-liquid substance and therefore it's the wrong word.

Secondly, I didn't say that I'd talk to a man's muscles instead of his face - which is what you said about breasts.

I said that for casual sex, personality was not as important to me (although, still important) as looks.

Nice that you think so highly of the people you want to have sex with.

(And you know my comment about breasts was a joke?) X

I think *extraordinarily* highly of the people I have sex with. They are fantastic people who usually have both great bodies *and* great brains.

You were saying?"

Nowt. You were saying you don't care a huge amount about their personalities though and if 'getting along with them for a few hours' is thinking extraordinarily highly of them then good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer a guy I can grab and play with without breaking him I'm a strong rugby player so I'm not that gentle lol but personality and drama free rules for me big men rock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being chubby implies you don't look after yourself "

Certainly not true I take great care of one's self I play rugby I'm fit but I have a belly and a fat ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont meet the body perfect as when i have they seem to act like they are in a porno and on show instead of just enjoying the sex. Also (not all but many) men who have a body like an adonis seem to have a huge amount of arrogance to go with it and thats my biggest turn off.

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By *parklesglitzWoman
over a year ago

Mancs

No issue here with chubbier gents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being chubby implies you don't look after yourself

Certainly not true I take great care of one's self I play rugby I'm fit but I have a belly and a fat ass "

I stand corrected

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By *hattyman80 OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport


"Being chubby implies you don't look after yourself

Certainly not true I take great care of one's self I play rugby I'm fit but I have a belly and a fat ass "

I play football twice a week so I'm not really unfit just a little chunky so I know I look after myself to a degree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being on top,which I can't do with larger men. It's not that I'm not attracted to them,I can't do what I want to do and they end up just fucking me from behind.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I have always been a chunky monkey but used also do a lot of sport like boxing, rugby & 100 metres where my power was at its best, I'm scared to wear a suit when i go out as people automatically think I'm a bouncer lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat but I am more attracted to the slimmer guy and by that I mean slimmer/average and not extremely defined gym ripped.

Mr is slim but lucky for me he likes my size and shape.

Size/shape are not deal breakers for us as its the person as a whole that counts however, neither of us are physically attracted to the extremes of size both ways if that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By no stretch of the imagination am I the fittest guy in the world. I've got a bit of a belly (not ridiculously big) I would say I'm chunky. However there doesn't seem to be much call for a chunkier guy nowadays it appears everyone is looking for gym fit toned guys which fair play why wouldn't you!!

So my question is... Is a chunkier guy with a personality an appealing prospect anymore?

I have two male partners at the moment.

One is incredibly gym fit with not an ounce of fat on his body. I date him almost entirely for sex and physical reasons.

One is quite overweight (although he's trying to lose weight). I live with him. He provides me with something more than just sex.

On a website that is mostly about looking for casual sex, why would I care a huge amount about someones personality? As long as I can get on with them for a few hours that's enough. And most guys with gym-fit bodies that I've met also have lovely personalities. So really, for me, it's not that much of a hard choice.

Nice to know you're more interested in a few globs of muscle than a mans brain

Ah, I see what you did there.

Firstly though - you can't really call muscle 'globs'. When I called breasts 'globs of fat' in that other thread it's because fat is a semi-liquid substance and therefore it's accurate. Muscle however is not a semi-liquid substance and therefore it's the wrong word.

Secondly, I didn't say that I'd talk to a man's muscles instead of his face - which is what you said about breasts.

I said that for casual sex, personality was not as important to me (although, still important) as looks.

Nice that you think so highly of the people you want to have sex with.

(And you know my comment about breasts was a joke?) X

I think *extraordinarily* highly of the people I have sex with. They are fantastic people who usually have both great bodies *and* great brains.

You were saying?

Nowt. You were saying you don't care a huge amount about their personalities though and if 'getting along with them for a few hours' is thinking extraordinarily highly of them then good for you "

A few hours ?

Fuck that , twenty minutes to half an hour is plenty of time thanks

Then if their personality is below par it really doesn't matter does it ?

We aren't in the slightest bit interested in thinking extraordinarily highly of a meet , but they do have be aesthetically pleasing . It's not like we want to discuss anything in any detail , it's about enjoying sex and experiencing the lust and highly charged euphoria associated with having fun with someone . If that someone isn't physically attractive to us , then how on earth are we supposed to get these feelings ?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'm not really into ripped fellas. My experience with them has not been something to endear them to me.

I'm not body perfect, and don't seek that in others. I do not pick people by any single physical characteristic (as said on another thread, I do avoid WE/VWE as its painful - but thats my limitation, not theirs)

Have been with all sizes and shapes of guys - and its about the chemistry and some connection, not their size.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

You don't hammer nails in with toffee hammers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us bigger lads don't really get much of a look in well I haven't yet but I wont give up finding a meet

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i think some people latch onto what they think the reason why for why they don't get the meets they think they should....

sometimes its age... i'm too old/young

sometimes its colour... i'm black/white/asian

sometimes its height.. i'm too tall/short

sometimes its sexuality... im straight/bi

sometimes its status... i'm single/married

but most of the time its just a "coincidence" it happens to be the thing that excludes them..... funny that!

too many people look at themselves as a stereotype and not enough as an individual....

I try to be the best "me" I can be, and sell myself on "me"... I can only control what I do......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a bit of chunk (fem)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bigger guys. Someone I'm not afraid of breaking who could easily take charge. Plus there great for cuddles (those who like to cuddle anyway lol) but personality is a factor for me. If there's not a good match on personality I don't enjoy the meet as much, even if it is just about sex.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"i think some people latch onto what they think the reason why for why they don't get the meets they think they should....

sometimes its age... i'm too old/young

sometimes its colour... i'm black/white/asian

sometimes its height.. i'm too tall/short

sometimes its sexuality... im straight/bi

sometimes its status... i'm single/married

but most of the time its just a "coincidence" it happens to be the thing that excludes them..... funny that!

too many people look at themselves as a stereotype and not enough as an individual....

I try to be the best "me" I can be, and sell myself on "me"... I can only control what I do......"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Nowt. You were saying you don't care a huge amount about their personalities though and if 'getting along with them for a few hours' is thinking extraordinarily highly of them then good for you "

It takes an awful lot for me to think someone is interesting enough to go to bed with them. A few hours is a long time when you're interested in chatting about more than the weather.

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

To be perfectly honest, I don't care if a guy is 'ripped or rippled', I simply love MEN!

I have made rash judgements about guys before and ended up being very wrong. I came into this scene thinking that every guy was a ripped stallion... That's porn for you!! My last FB was of large build, and I loved it, my boyfriend is large too. And hey, I'm a bit large, and I get plenty of attention.

The reality is people LIKE people, regardless of lumps and bumps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Nowt. You were saying you don't care a huge amount about their personalities though and if 'getting along with them for a few hours' is thinking extraordinarily highly of them then good for you

It takes an awful lot for me to think someone is interesting enough to go to bed with them. A few hours is a long time when you're interested in chatting about more than the weather."

Can you not see that you are contradicting yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Nowt. You were saying you don't care a huge amount about their personalities though and if 'getting along with them for a few hours' is thinking extraordinarily highly of them then good for you

It takes an awful lot for me to think someone is interesting enough to go to bed with them. A few hours is a long time when you're interested in chatting about more than the weather.

Can you not see that you are contradicting yourself?"

I'm not contradicting myself.

- I place more importance on a guys body than his personality while I'm having sex with them.

- They must have a decent enough personality and brain that I can get on with them for a few hours - but I have really quite high standards here.

- Body and personality/brain are both very important to me. But body is more important for casual sex meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Nowt. You were saying you don't care a huge amount about their personalities though and if 'getting along with them for a few hours' is thinking extraordinarily highly of them then good for you

It takes an awful lot for me to think someone is interesting enough to go to bed with them. A few hours is a long time when you're interested in chatting about more than the weather.

Can you not see that you are contradicting yourself?

I'm not contradicting myself.

- I place more importance on a guys body than his personality while I'm having sex with them.

- They must have a decent enough personality and brain that I can get on with them for a few hours - but I have really quite high standards here.

- Body and personality/brain are both very important to me. But body is more important for casual sex meets."

You have really quite high standards there but you said earlier you don't care a huge amount about a guys personality. But now its important

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By no stretch of the imagination am I the fittest guy in the world. I've got a bit of a belly (not ridiculously big) I would say I'm chunky. However there doesn't seem to be much call for a chunkier guy nowadays it appears everyone is looking for gym fit toned guys which fair play why wouldn't you!!

So my question is... Is a chunkier guy with a personality an appealing prospect anymore?

I have two male partners at the moment.

One is incredibly gym fit with not an ounce of fat on his body. I date him almost entirely for sex and physical reasons.

One is quite overweight (although he's trying to lose weight). I live with him. He provides me with something more than just sex.

On a website that is mostly about looking for casual sex, why would I care a huge amount about someones personality? As long as I can get on with them for a few hours that's enough. And most guys with gym-fit bodies that I've met also have lovely personalities. So really, for me, it's not that much of a hard choice."

No matter what your chubby partner says, he's fucking dying inside everytime you meet gym boy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a man with a bit of meat on his bones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a fuck. I don't really care about personality. Unless the guy is an utter knobhead, then I'm not interested.

As long as I fancy them and they want to fuck me, I don't care. They don't even have to fancy me back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just a fuck. I don't really care about personality. Unless the guy is an utter knobhead, then I'm not interested.

As long as I fancy them and they want to fuck me, I don't care. They don't even have to fancy me back. "

Hiya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I much prefer a guy I can grab and play with without breaking him I'm a strong rugby player so I'm not that gentle lol but personality and drama free rules for me big men rock "

Rugby player you say! Oh hello Maiden

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By *parklesglitzWoman
over a year ago

Mancs

its simple

if i like them i meet and fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with us chubby lads, give us a try

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By *ony HardcockMan
over a year ago

Shepperton


"Being chubby implies you don't look after yourself "

That's bollocks I go to the gym at least 3 times a week play rugby for my local team. I have a good diet. I am still a big lad!

I do eat at stupid hours and have a few drinks.

But it does not mean I don't look after my body!

Ps ( I have a degree in diets and nutrition Bath Uni)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just a fuck. I don't really care about personality. Unless the guy is an utter knobhead, then I'm not interested.

As long as I fancy them and they want to fuck me, I don't care. They don't even have to fancy me back.

Hiya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I have always gone for chubby men cos my mum said i was too fat to attract anyone better (her words ) so that is why my preference on here is for gym fit guys and im not doing too badly so screeeeeeew u mother

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"Being chubby implies you don't look after yourself "

I'm a size 18/20, walk approx 10-12 miles per day, eat non processed foods and lots of fruit and veg. I take care of myself, unfortunately my body doesn't look after me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By no stretch of the imagination am I the fittest guy in the world. I've got a bit of a belly (not ridiculously big) I would say I'm chunky. However there doesn't seem to be much call for a chunkier guy nowadays it appears everyone is looking for gym fit toned guys which fair play why wouldn't you!!

So my question is... Is a chunkier guy with a personality an appealing prospect anymore?

I have two male partners at the moment.

One is incredibly gym fit with not an ounce of fat on his body. I date him almost entirely for sex and physical reasons.

One is quite overweight (although he's trying to lose weight). I live with him. He provides me with something more than just sex.

On a website that is mostly about looking for casual sex, why would I care a huge amount about someones personality? As long as I can get on with them for a few hours that's enough. And most guys with gym-fit bodies that I've met also have lovely personalities. So really, for me, it's not that much of a hard choice.

Nice to know you're more interested in a few globs of muscle than a mans brain

Ah, I see what you did there.

Firstly though - you can't really call muscle 'globs'. When I called breasts 'globs of fat' in that other thread it's because fat is a semi-liquid substance and therefore it's accurate. Muscle however is not a semi-liquid substance and therefore it's the wrong word.

Secondly, I didn't say that I'd talk to a man's muscles instead of his face - which is what you said about breasts.

I said that for casual sex, personality was not as important to me (although, still important) as looks."

I agree totally looks rule ova personality on here as its looks we see first and then hopefully a reasonable personality will follow x

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