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Blocked and deleted after meet....your thoughts please?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I met a couple from here this afternoon for an outside meet. The male wanted me to come and lick his wife's pussy out in the back of his car. We arranged a meeting point, but when we arrived we realised that it wasn't as secluded as we'd thought, so we decided to walk into a nearby secluded area where there was a bit of greenery and a few trees that provided cover.

The meet seemed to go well, and I enjoyed the excitement of licking this mans wife's pussy while he watched. He then took over and made his wife cum, and she then took him into her mouth and he shot his load over her. As this was my first 'dogging' experience i was a bit apprehensive and so when I was encouraged to get my cock out and start wanking, I opted to just watch, as I think performance anxiety had set in, and I was concerned I wouldnt be able to get hard.

The meet ended when he came over his wife, and then we went our seperate ways. Not long after I got a text from the male saying 'cheers', but he then asked me to delete his number. At the time I thought that this was fair enough, as I understand that some people want privacy, and don't want their private lives exposed. When I got home and checked on Fab however, I found that i'd been blocked from viewing there profile, and our messages had all been deleted. I was planning on giving them a good veri, and was hoping to get one myself! lol.

I'm guessing that they thought I wasn't any good, which is fair enough, but does anyone else think that this was a bit rude of them? It seems a bit harsh to block someone, even though I may not have performed aswell as they were expecting. I'd be interested in your thoughts on this. Has this happened to anyone else, and have other couples on here done the same thing? I'd be interested to know the possible reasons for this, apart from the obvious one which is that i'm a shit swinger! lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just enjoy the spur of the moment meet but put it down to an unfortunate end to an experience and don't worry

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I met a couple from here this afternoon for an outside meet. The male wanted me to come and lick his wife's pussy out in the back of his car. We arranged a meeting point, but when we arrived we realised that it wasn't as secluded as we'd thought, so we decided to walk into a nearby secluded area where there was a bit of greenery and a few trees that provided cover.

The meet seemed to go well, and I enjoyed the excitement of licking this mans wife's pussy while he watched. He then took over and made his wife cum, and she then took him into her mouth and he shot his load over her. As this was my first 'dogging' experience i was a bit apprehensive and so when I was encouraged to get my cock out and start wanking, I opted to just watch, as I think performance anxiety had set in, and I was concerned I wouldnt be able to get hard.

The meet ended when he came over his wife, and then we went our seperate ways. Not long after I got a text from the male saying 'cheers', but he then asked me to delete his number. At the time I thought that this was fair enough, as I understand that some people want privacy, and don't want their private lives exposed. When I got home and checked on Fab however, I found that i'd been blocked from viewing there profile, and our messages had all been deleted. I was planning on giving them a good veri, and was hoping to get one myself! lol.

I'm guessing that they thought I wasn't any good, which is fair enough, but does anyone else think that this was a bit rude of them? It seems a bit harsh to block someone, even though I may not have performed aswell as they were expecting. I'd be interested in your thoughts on this. Has this happened to anyone else, and have other couples on here done the same thing? I'd be interested to know the possible reasons for this, apart from the obvious one which is that i'm a shit swinger! lol... "

You will never know their reasons, and you will only assume the worst, so try to forget it and take whatever enjoyment you can from the memory of the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. If i don't have fun on a meet of any kind i block and delete. Most guys don't like being told they weren't what the persons looking for so why bring that drama upon myself?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Just put it down to experience, some people are what I call 'vampires' i.e. always seeking new blood.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Some people only want one off meets, you may have said something, not done something that upset them...who knows, only them.

You had a good afternoon, it's casual sex...why the angst?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of meets who haven't blocked me , just ignored contact since , wouldn't leave me veris even though I left them. I wouldn't worry about it . X

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

Sounds like they've left the site if there messages have gone

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Sounds like they've left the site if there messages have gone"

*Hijack*

I really do love your user name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be they weren't actually married?! Who knows. Their problem, not yours, if they treat people like that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you were the best but they do this with everybody. Not everyone wants other people to know who they've been with and how many

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Expect some knobhead wierdo behavior on this scene at times. Simple as that really.

There's many diamonds and more but more frequently than it once was some strange pre-meet and post meet behavior comes out've some people.

Experience it, hmmmm, grin and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for all the comments! It just seemed a bit strange, but there could be a whole host of reasons as to why, so thanks for all your comments and feedback. Its appreciated! x

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

I wouldn't worry!

People do thing for their own reasons whatever they are.

All meets outside of clubs where one party can politely walk away, are in my experience frault with unintended consequences, outside of your control.

Don't forget this site is full of pep's who big-up stuff, but are often insecure in their actions.

Just accept it wasn't right for them /ignore it, and move on. Others you will meet will enjoy the experience.

Just Keep going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. If i don't have fun on a meet of any kind i block and delete. Most guys don't like being told they weren't what the persons looking for so why bring that drama upon myself?"

This is kinda why I like long distance meets whatever happens it's easy for you both to find a polite excuse if you didn't like it and stay civil or its a nice bit of tension to build up for the next meet because they can't happen often so it doesn't get boring too quick.

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