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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!" Somebody posted a similar thread to this a couple of weeks ago and it did not go well at all! ![]() | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing! Somebody posted a similar thread to this a couple of weeks ago and it did not go well at all! ![]() I best hunt that thread down then! | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!" Nope. I'd never meet anyone unless I found them attractive, single guys can be choosey too - a fact that seems to shock a surprising amount of couples and single women, who think I should be flattered that they winked at me. | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!" Never. I chat to the people I meet and there is always something I like about them otherwise the conversation dries up and there won't be a meet. If you mean physically, then that doesn't really come into the equation for me. | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example. | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!" Lol! Never, can see how it might happen though. During periods of conspicuous consumption? ![]() | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() Fair comment, ill re-state it to 99% of ALL people on here have no standards | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!" Why did you message them? Did you think that because they were somehow below your 'normal' standard that they would be desparate for a meet? What was the outcome? | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() How does that mean those women don't have standards? | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing! Nope. I'd never meet anyone unless I found them attractive, single guys can be choosey too - a fact that seems to shock a surprising amount of couples and single women, who think I should be flattered that they winked at me." ![]() | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() Was thinking that myself.. | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing! Never. I chat to the people I meet and there is always something I like about them otherwise the conversation dries up and there won't be a meet. If you mean physically, then that doesn't really come into the equation for me." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() Me too! | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!" .yeah but the other way round I approach people on here who in real life I wouldn't even walk up to cause I'd think they wouldn't look twice at me. | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing! .yeah but the other way round I approach people on here who in real life I wouldn't even walk up to cause I'd think they wouldn't look twice at me." I doubt that! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() ME THREE. it does my tits in when people judge what others do with their swingstyle lives...i've met plenty of posh successful people..who like gangbangs/bukkakes etc etc...I'll slag off their 'standards' as I fuck them in their massive mansions will I? ![]() | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!" It's not lowering standards for me. If anything, I find I get further with more attractive people that I would be confident enough to speak to day to day, in person. I think people are just more open to sexual preferences, experiences, chemistry on here than face to face physical attraction. And I agree, I've had some brilliant sexual experiences and BDSM experiences with people I wasn't particularly physically attracted to. | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() ![]() Some people on this site are so much more judgmental than people I know who live a vanilla lifestyle. | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() If you have to ask ......... | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() Yup we do... As how does a gg = not picky... | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() Women who like gangbangs will still vet the men. | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing! .yeah but the other way round I approach people on here who in real life I wouldn't even walk up to cause I'd think they wouldn't look twice at me." Maybe you should try in reality too, you may be pleasantly surprised. ![]() | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() Yes so what's your answer? | |||
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"It really depends on how much info you're given before meeting if the info is outdated or ancient you're likely to be dissapointed I always try to maintain a certain standard and be realistic and the same time coz I don't think there's anyone perfect on this planet, its why I prefer quick meets not necessarily a quick fuck but just to meet up for a drink and take things from there, marathon conversations can be a waste of time, it may work for others x" ![]() | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() Yes I do, stop being so bloody judgmental. Being covered in piss is OK but being covered in cum isn't? Look at your interests if you don't know what I'm talking about.... | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() Do you mean the kind of gang bang where the women have no idea who is going to turn up/pay the fee and let everyone have a go? | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() Not all of them will but that's what they like at the time. Doesn't mean at some point they won't say no. | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing! .yeah but the other way round I approach people on here who in real life I wouldn't even walk up to cause I'd think they wouldn't look twice at me. Maybe you should try in reality too, you may be pleasantly surprised. ![]() In "normal" situations I'm very shy like fumble my words speaking to a waitress etc, but put me in unusual situation where most people are nervous and cause rim used to it I become quite confident lol. But mainly I prefer 1on1 when I'm alone with a person I'm very relaxed and open. Groups I tend to be more awkward. Yeahhh I'm quite broken really :p | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing! .yeah but the other way round I approach people on here who in real life I wouldn't even walk up to cause I'd think they wouldn't look twice at me. Maybe you should try in reality too, you may be pleasantly surprised. ![]() You're a lovely guy xxxx | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing! .yeah but the other way round I approach people on here who in real life I wouldn't even walk up to cause I'd think they wouldn't look twice at me." Jesus, I wish you'd approach me. | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() How on earth does me being covered in cum by 6 handsome buff guys = no standards? I swear, the judgement on here is strong sometimes. | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing! .yeah but the other way round I approach people on here who in real life I wouldn't even walk up to cause I'd think they wouldn't look twice at me." I think we are all a little guilty of that I have winked a few really hot guys and waited to see if they respond and I've had a few good meets by doing that with guys I would never approach in real life for fear of rejection but on here I think what they hell they will either mail or they won't ![]() | |||
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"judging by the amount of guys who tell me I'm fat and ugly anyway when I say no thanks I'd say a great deal do must be a real kick in the nuts when even woman your don't fancy anyway are turning you down ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"judging by the amount of guys who tell me I'm fat and ugly anyway when I say no thanks I'd say a great deal do must be a real kick in the nuts when even woman your don't fancy anyway are turning you down ![]() ![]() ![]() Lol ![]() | |||
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"You didn't have to contact me ![]() My attempt at humour. Lost on here. | |||
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"For The Time Being.. I Would Still Think Us White feckers Still Had A Choice !!! ![]() What does that mean? | |||
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"For The Time Being.. I Would Still Think Us White feckers Still Had A Choice !!! ![]() Guessing maybe meant for the BBC thread? | |||
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"I'd never lower my standards. I would never meet anyone from here that I wouldn't feel comfortable with out in public or that I didn't really fancy just for a shag. I'm not desperate. Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice. I see no reason to lower standards. Even if it is just a shag at the end of the day. " Disappointed in you ![]() | |||
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"I'd never lower my standards. I would never meet anyone from here that I wouldn't feel comfortable with out in public or that I didn't really fancy just for a shag. I'm not desperate. Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice. I see no reason to lower standards. Even if it is just a shag at the end of the day. Disappointed in you ![]() Why? | |||
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"I'd never lower my standards. I would never meet anyone from here that I wouldn't feel comfortable with out in public or that I didn't really fancy just for a shag. I'm not desperate. Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice. I see no reason to lower standards. Even if it is just a shag at the end of the day. Disappointed in you ![]() This bit right here Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice. I am sure that is not the case ![]() | |||
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"I'd never lower my standards. I would never meet anyone from here that I wouldn't feel comfortable with out in public or that I didn't really fancy just for a shag. I'm not desperate. Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice. I see no reason to lower standards. Even if it is just a shag at the end of the day. Disappointed in you ![]() ![]() Not in all cases of course. They're are a lot of people that find me attractive and have no problems going out etc. Though I'm sure there have been some that have met me for an easy lay. I don't mind too much though. I get to fuck a hot man haha | |||
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"I'd never lower my standards. I would never meet anyone from here that I wouldn't feel comfortable with out in public or that I didn't really fancy just for a shag. I'm not desperate. Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice. I see no reason to lower standards. Even if it is just a shag at the end of the day. Disappointed in you ![]() ![]() Go get em ![]() | |||
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"For The Time Being.. I Would Still Think Us White feckers Still Had A Choice !!! ![]() Are you saying you lower your standards because the black men get all the rest? | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!" Yes but not because I am a massaoganist stuck up my own ass. You get talking to people on here because it's onlime and you start to find them sexy, there personality inviting, intreaging possibility. You may if it was in a vanilla situation not be able to meet them or talk to them for whatever reason, maybe your too shy or the situation to talk ti them just has not arised. | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Maybe those guys are easy and too desperate for a shag. | |||
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"For guys Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought. Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!" Desperation is never an attractive quality ![]() | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() And the stink of desperation is such an unpleasant smell. | |||
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" Yes but not because I am a massaoganist stuck up my own ass. You get talking to people on here because it's onlime and you start to find them sexy, there personality inviting, intreaging possibility. You may if it was in a vanilla situation not be able to meet them or talk to them for whatever reason, maybe your too shy or the situation to talk ti them just has not arised. " Makes good sense. Some people I chat to, not because we want to play , but we have shared interests and the same sense of humour. ![]() | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() haha to true. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() Yes I recently went to what I thought was going to be a 3sum. It was only when I got there I found six guys already there and swarming all over a very d*unk lady and her husband egging them on to abuse her. I quickly made my feeling known and left only to be told "no problem as others were arriving soon" | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() Yeah but lets be honest here, are they really 'handsome buff guys'? Ive seen some pics, especially in clubs and its clear standards were on the floor. I think thats what the guys point was | |||
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"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read ![]() Beauty is in the eye of the beholder I look at some of the people my best girl mate has fucked and thought 'what on earth"I don't know why but she seems to be attracted to older (in the 40-50's)or give the appearance of them being older, hench lads | |||
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