FabSwingers.com forum: Racist

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A guy has been messeging me and although i have made it clear i don't want to meet him he has continued to send messeges as if chatting, he has now said that i am possible racist cus i say i only meet white guys !

I have told him to report me to admin and lets see what they think lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He also sent some rather odd messeges including one talking about rape !

He said he is joking but seems odd to me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy has been messeging me and although i have made it clear i don't want to meet him he has continued to send messeges as if chatting, he has now said that i am possible racist cus i say i only meet white guys !

I have told him to report me to admin and lets see what they think lol

It might be easier just to block him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are sick of someone messaging, go to their profile and block.

If someone sends abuse, report the message.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

I have told him to report me to admin and lets see what they think lol

personally we would just block and move on but the rape talk needs to be reported we feel

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you think about the racist comment thou ? Surely its just a preference ?

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Yes it's a preference and its up to the individual who they meet.

Best reporting and blocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think about the racist comment thou ? Surely its just a preference ? "

You are free to meet who you want to meet.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Playing the race card to get a meet is a fairly low blow, I'd report him for attempted blackmail followed by the use of your block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, definitely a racist

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Sounds like a controlling idiot to me, block and report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block !

Its what the block button is there for

Dont give him another thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why let him keep message you? Just block report for abuse and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your body your choice nothing racist in that. Block the fool!!

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

I have told him to report me to admin and lets see what they think lol

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Nothing racist at all just a sexual preference,block him snd report him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He was blocked when i started this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people play the race card, I am Asian and its quite simple if I see a profile with a preference against Asians I do not

1/. Send an email

2/. Ask them why

3/. Harass them

Its the same I have a preference not do be contacted by guys does that mean I am homophobic ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have told him to report me to admin and lets see what they think lol

Well as it looks like he started getting nasty , before you met ,I would say you had a lucky escape, just think what he is like in person

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"What do you think about the racist comment thou ? Surely its just a preference ? "

his perception..

if your not then why worry..?

why bother starting a thread about something that is your preference and someone's else's opinion of that which you don't intend to change..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What do you think about the racist comment thou ? Surely its just a preference ?

his perception..

if your not then why worry..?

why bother starting a thread about something that is your preference and someone's else's opinion of that which you don't intend to change.."

I started a thread cus i am interested in what other people think

I didn't know there was a rule about what type of threads i can start ha ha

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Just report any abuse and block or just block if you don't want to talk to them.

No dramas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did block

There is no drama, well not from me anyway lol

I was bored and thought i had a long wait till andy murray came on court so i thought i would see what people thought lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if someone wants to meet the same sex as themselves, do we call them sexist.

If someone only wants slim people, are they sizist.

No, it is personal choice. That is why we are all different, there is something for everyone.

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

its sad but there are dick heads in all walks of life, block him,, best way

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

"What do you think about the racist comment thou ? Surely its just a preference ?

his perception..

if your not then why worry..?

why bother starting a thread about something that is your preference and someone's else's opinion of that which you don't intend to change..

I started a thread cus i am interested in what other people think

I didn't know there was a rule about what type of threads i can start ha ha"

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

"I did block

There is no drama, well not from me anyway lol

I was bored and thought i had a long wait till andy murray came on court so i thought i would see what people thought lol"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Just block !

Its what the block button is there for

Dont give him another thought"

Exactly: some people like drama I feel.

Going by some of the threads there's an alarming sense of entitlement displayed by some. Anyone who won't take no as an answer is blocked and forgotten: I could give a flying one for what they thought let alone start a thread.

My body, I decide who enters it: end of discussion!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"What do you think about the racist comment thou ? Surely its just a preference ?

his perception..

if your not then why worry..?

why bother starting a thread about something that is your preference and someone's else's opinyion of that which you don't intend to change.."

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

If people continue to write when you say no thanks, or hassle you, or question any decision you have made, then best to say bye for good...

I don't get much unsolicited mail though, so my lock button hardly ever gets used!

Good luck and take care

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just block !

Its what the block button is there for

Dont give him another thought

Exactly: some people like drama I feel.

My body, I decide who enters it: end of discussion! "

Oh dear !

All i did was start a thread while i was bored and waiting for Andy Murray to be on court !

I thought it was ok the start a thread about something that interests me ... eg other peoples behaviour here ...

I already knew what to do about him and had done that before i started the thread lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If people continue to write when you say no thanks, or hassle you, or question any decision you have made, then best to say bye for good...

I don't get much unsolicited mail though, so my lock button hardly ever gets used!

Good luck and take care"

Thank you

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Just block !

Its what the block button is there for

Dont give him another thought

Exactly: some people like drama I feel.

My body, I decide who enters it: end of discussion!

Oh dear !

All i did was start a thread while i was bored and waiting for Andy Murray to be on court !

I thought it was ok the start a thread about something that interests me ... eg other peoples behaviour here ...

I already knew what to do about him and had done that before i started the thread lol"

The forums are here for anyone to start a thread : you did asking for comments. Didn't realise we didn't really want our opinion...my bad!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hoped for comments about the subject not the fact that i started a thread lol

Oh well

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I hoped for comments about the subject not the fact that i started a thread lol

Oh well

But we've answered you: your body, your choice. What I and some others have said is simply we wouldn't have given a second thought to what someone we had no intention of meeting thought.

If they want to throw toys out the pram with "racist" leave them and their sense of entitlement to it, not that you shouldn't post.

You know how forums work, right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you so much for your contributions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you got about 30 bites there..well done...

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Remember Racist do hide under preference and choice as well.

I am a strong believer of preference and choice.because as for me l like white European and English women because they attract me. just my preference. That doesn't mean I hate others race.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you got about 30 bites there..well done...

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"you got about 30 bites there..well done...

Lol. Gotta love these type of threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a crime to be racist,but it is one to to practice it,he should have just called you a racist suspect instead of saying you are a racist

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