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Personality can affect how attractive on unattractive someone is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes or no? anecdotes welcome but no names obviously.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes.......... thank god.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Physically... no.

Mentally... yes.

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By *emjoCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Used that phrase in my photo thread.

The answer is massively.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Used that phrase in my photo thread.

The answer is massively. "

yep jemo, nicked it

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By *emjoCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Deeply honoured it was worth nicking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hit a note with me, so I though I'd pick up on it.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

The best looking people can be rendered totally unatractive (to me) if they have no personality, it's important to me as I don't think that looks are the be all and end all. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personality 85% looks 15%

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By *teph_NaturallyTV/TS
over a year ago

Kettering

In the Tgirl world the most beautiful can also be the most vile in my experience ..looks are secondary ..as is age...the best meets i've had are with older, sorted ppl...not someone on some ego trip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction certainly helps but in the end I rely on the personality and my own gut instinct. How we get on in a social setting is very important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hypothetically: No

If a very attractive person wanted a quick shag but had no personality would I?

yes

does that make me shallow?

hmm..thought so

that's an unlikely scenario so

In reality: yes

that's why we don't go dogging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are you saying doggers are ugly lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, Most certainly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are you saying doggers are ugly lol."

no. but i may have cause to question their personality

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"are you saying doggers are ugly lol.

no. but i may have cause to question their personality "

In what way?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

We'd draw the line if someone looked like the Hunchback of Notre-Dame

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"We'd draw the line if someone looked like the Hunchback of Notre-Dame "

Even if he had fallen through the charm tree, hitting every branch on the way down and landing in a pile of fluffy manners?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"We'd draw the line if someone looked like the Hunchback of Notre-Dame

Even if he had fallen through the charm tree, hitting every branch on the way down and landing in a pile of fluffy manners?"

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, one can have a fantastic personality and be lovely with it or an arrogant person. That goes the same with a plain jane/john, huge personality with loads of confidence wins every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet with someone based on personality alone....never saw a face or cock pic and even when he turned up I didn't have a clue who he was until he sat down and introduced hisself. We chatted like we had been for weeks and he became more appealing as the night went on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality counts every time. EVERY time. It's more important than looks by far for me ....... of paramount importance is hygiene. Simply couldn't fuck a stinky fucker no matter how ebullient ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, personality definitely counts every time, and someone who makes me laugh and someone I can gossip and chat with and not feel self conscious with will be someone who I will feel confident playing with. Hygiene definitely equally as important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a good job I'm soooo gawjuss cos I am a bitch!

Yup personality counts but there still has to be some physical attraction, or chemistry, for me to proceed to biology and physics

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By *LLSEXEDUPMan
over a year ago

Reading

I think personality can play a huge diffrence for me for sure, I'd have to be attracted to them in some way but whats more attractive for me is somebody who I click with.

Looking at it from another _iew, I don't see myself as a good looking guy, I have my flaws naturally but I do have a personality which people have commented on several times, so I treat people in the same way i'd like to be treated in return.

some of us we only have a personality to fall back on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank feck I have a reasonable personality- else I'd be snookered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having both is a burden I bear......sigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How on earth do you cope? Is it not just awful?

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

Mmmmmmmm? I don't have much of a personality and I'm not a great looked either. I'm honest but I'm not sure that's enough?

It would explain a lot though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, personality wins every time! Much rather have a man who most would probably pass by in the street without a second glance but who is friendly, sincere and very naughty, rather than a gorgeous looking but shallow and selfish individual.

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Having both is a burden I bear......sigh "

ahhhhhh you poor thing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a reference to a scene from Pulp Fiction is required here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and no lol

a bad personality would put me off someone i was attrctewd to but a good personality would not make me play with someone i wasnt attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes and no lol

a bad personality would put me off someone i was attrctewd to but a good personality would not make me play with someone i wasnt attracted to"

fascinating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people are people we are not perfect but the worst are the one's who pretend to have a nice personality when they dont no what one is?.in a perfect world we would want both but WE DONT live in fairyland some of us.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes and no lol

a bad personality would put me off someone i was attrctewd to but a good personality would not make me play with someone i wasnt attracted to"

Nicely said, that goes for us too.

Like my old mam used to say "Pretty is as pretty does!".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and i have no idea at all what attrctewd means lol

i really shouldnt post after heavy night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and i have no idea at all what attrctewd means lol

i really shouldnt post after heavy night lol"

Don't worry,we knew what you meant!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and i have no idea at all what attrctewd means lol

i really shouldnt post after heavy night lol"

mistake that.but understood nymp xxxxx

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By *pecial bbCouple
over a year ago

london

Totally agree - personality has a huge effect on whether i find someone attractive

Confidence and a sense of fun is very attractive - arrogance and an attitude is not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are you saying doggers are ugly lol."

in our opinion yes...they dont even invite each other over...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are you saying doggers are ugly lol.

in our opinion yes...they dont even invite each other over...lol"

ooohhhhh I'm ugly then....as I go dogging lol

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By *havenangel1Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Personality is very very important to us but some form of attraction is good too.

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By *havenangel1Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"ooohhhhh I'm ugly then....as I go dogging lol "

Do you still go in the winter? (just curious lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not naming any names but a good looking guy recently got all affronted with me as I refused to add him as a friend.

I had sent him a pic of me but his comment about wanting to get to know me better by ading me as a friend, and my subsequent refusal, got me comments about acting like I was 'all that'!

Suddenly he was a Lot less attractive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to me vanity is the biggest turn off

I remember meeting a guy once and i thought id died and gone to heaven when i first saw him, really good looking guy, really good body but all he did was talk about himself all night, i spend two hours in a pub with him going thro his daily gym routine, how much he could bench press, how all the girls in the pub fall at his feet etc etc etc i mean i know you have to talk about yourself to some extent when you meet someone but he took the piss, he loved himself

Than after two hours of his dribble he asked me if i wanted to go back to his hotel so i declined, i told him i didnt really feel there was a connection and i was going home, i honestly think by his rection i was the first women ever to turn him down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good on you girl some men have no fucking idea,glad you turned him down and even better he got fucked nice.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cpl on cpl meet its the 80 - 20 rule

(personality winning)

but in clubs - its the other way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality 80% looks 20%

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Personality 80% looks 20%"

I've got 80% of a personality and I'm 20% good looking. We're so well matched!

*goes to PM Ms Chatter*

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

so us ugly eeps with no personality don't stand a chance then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah ..... out with the eeps !

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