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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

your thoughts on swingers who has had cancer or got cancer.

why do people reject others that have been through this illness, treat them like there from another world, why do people message then say nasty things or refuse a meet after you tell them of my wife's condition, yes she had cancer and still under treatment and still has fun, when she don't have nasty comments thrown at us by message, there are a lot of heartless people on here, think yourselves lucky

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By *arymore1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

some people are just nasty,, block them and forget about them, don't let it get to you

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By *azndaveCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Hey stay strong and fuck them people. Men and women that go through that are real heroes

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By *azndaveCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Hey stay strong and fuck them people. Men and women that go through that are real heroes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just horrible, we would block them.

Stay strong and know there are nice genuine people on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to you and your wife good for her for carrying on and sod those who send such messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block the wankers and report them to admin . Good luck and best wishes to your good lady .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Narrow minded pricks block them. No place for them here. Stay strong folks and enjoy the real folks on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people are just scared of things they don't understand. It may be even ignorance as well that they think by meeting a playing with the female they will get it. However there is no excuse for being rude or nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck em.

I met with a lovely lady from here many years ago who, unbeknown to me had previously had breast cancer. I felt so embarrassed as I kept trying to get at her breasts and she'd had one removed. She explained (with my cock in her mouth!) and we had a giggle and that was the last we spoke of it.

She was lovely, didn't let it stop her or make things awkward, and I respect her 100% more because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One guy actually had pics of him on his profile going through cancer treatment and it did put me off, drips and everything.

I didn't send him a nasty message though, just blocked his account and his new one he made a few months later (which didn't have those pics on but he looked really ill still).

I think i have a right to reject anyone really, although i wouldn't be a dick about it. Just block or ignore.

They pretty much are from 'another world' for some people, some of us have been incredibly fortunate to never have had cancer affect any of our family or our lives at all.

Hope none of that was offensive, just saying from the other point of _iew.

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I had breast cancer late last year. I have had some hurtful comnents but mainly good ones. Now gained my confidence again. Ignore the idiots who can't cope with someone who is fighting cancer or won the battle. Pm me if you want a chat

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

I'm an above knee amputee and have numerous health issues that can restrict some areas of a good sex life, I make sure people read my profile and haven't met anyone who has had issues in messages or once face to face.

The places I've found where people have issues are the dating sites, i'm guessing I've been fortunate on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your thoughts on swingers who has had cancer or got cancer.

why do people reject others that have been through this illness, treat them like there from another world, why do people message then say nasty things or refuse a meet after you tell them of my wife's condition, yes she had cancer and still under treatment and still has fun, when she don't have nasty comments thrown at us by message, there are a lot of heartless people on here, think yourselves lucky "

people send abusive messages to you for having cancer?

even for on here I find that hard to believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got abuse from one guy off here because of a photo I had up showing a scar. 2 years ago I had my left ovary and a cyst the size of a grapefruit removed so have a fairly big scar running across. When I said I didn't have any kids he turned round and said that I must've done due to the fact I have a massive c section scar on my stomach. He called me a liar amongst other things. Block and move on is all you can do

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By *thicalslutx69Couple
over a year ago

lincoln

Totally agree with what everyone's saying in this thread.

Enjoy yourselves, enjoy life and try your best to rise above narrow minded comments people may make as the are in the minority.

Good luck to you both and hope you have lots of sexy fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say if you're fit enough to be having sex.....good on ya. Balls to the haters

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Been there got the scare to prove it, if they are like that with you then sadly they are not worth it.

The block button is there for a reason.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"your thoughts on swingers who has had cancer or got cancer.

why do people reject others that have been through this illness, treat them like there from another world, why do people message then say nasty things or refuse a meet after you tell them of my wife's condition, yes she had cancer and still under treatment and still has fun, when she don't have nasty comments thrown at us by message, there are a lot of heartless people on here, think yourselves lucky "

That's shocking that people would be so unkind. I lost both parents to cancer; my sympathies and I hope the treatment is going well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you for your messages, maybe we might get a meet, with decent and understanding people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thank you for your messages, maybe we might get a meet, with decent and understanding people.

"

Are they rejecting you because of the cancer or are they rejecting you because they don't want to meet you? While I sympathise, this is a site for swingers looking for often casual one off sex with strangers, cancer itself and all of the treatments can often come with all sorts of problems and baggage that people seeking that aren't really interested in taking on, or maybe they just don't fancy either of you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

always one

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"always one "

I don't see anything wrong with what the poster above said, you seem to be hurting and that is understandable if people have caused upset.

You seems to be reacting, that won't help.

good luck with your treatment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely gobsmacked how some people can be so heartless, although I'm not surprised in this fucked up world. I applaud anyone who has/is going through serious illness. My best wishes to you and hope you continue to have fun on fab.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Quite simply it's fear & ignorance. I won't say anymore but those with cancer deserve a little love too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a cancer survivor myself, I say 'fuck em' (but not literally)

There are 2 kinds of people in the world. Those that enhance your life and make you happy, and those that bring negativity to you. Dump the latter. There are more than enough people here that will love and support you and bring you some form of happiness or joy. There is a lot of good feelings from the majority on this thread. I am adding my sincerest wishes for a full and speedy recovery.

Hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your thoughts on swingers who has had cancer or got cancer.

why do people reject others that have been through this illness, treat them like there from another world, why do people message then say nasty things or refuse a meet after you tell them of my wife's condition, yes she had cancer and still under treatment and still has fun, when she don't have nasty comments thrown at us by message, there are a lot of heartless people on here, think yourselves lucky

That's shocking that people would be so unkind. I lost both parents to cancer; my sympathies and I hope the treatment is going well."

Off topic but I love your profile x

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"As a cancer survivor myself, I say 'fuck em' (but not literally)

There are 2 kinds of people in the world. Those that enhance your life and make you happy, and those that bring negativity to you. Dump the latter. There are more than enough people here that will love and support you and bring you some form of happiness or joy. There is a lot of good feelings from the majority on this thread. I am adding my sincerest wishes for a full and speedy recovery.

Hugs x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi guys...Firstly fair play for getting on and enjoying fun.. thjs isnt a rehearsal.

block and or name n shame any narrow minded fuck wits ...

have fun xxxxxxx

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By *andy57TV/TS
over a year ago

york

My wife past away 2 years ago this weekend we had a Couples profile before she got I'll and all we got was nice supportive messages best of luck just think positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your thoughts on swingers who has had cancer or got cancer.

why do people reject others that have been through this illness, treat them like there from another world, why do people message then say nasty things or refuse a meet after you tell them of my wife's condition, yes she had cancer and still under treatment and still has fun, when she don't have nasty comments thrown at us by message, there are a lot of heartless people on here, think yourselves lucky "

Chin up hun and I know it's easier said than done but ignore the nasty comments. Not everyone are like that. I to last year battled cancer, and I was shocked at just how much support I got from the good people of fab. I am lucky enough to have made some great friends on this site, and each one of them supported and helped me trough it

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

They are just nasty people obviously .. I have been fortunate people were very supportive to me when I was dealing with my blip ...

Lots of ladies here had radical surgery an meet still. . Ignore the bad ones and enjoy /share with the kind ones..

hope your Mrs gets on top of the cancer soon and feels much better.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I was diagnosed 30 years ago today. Got scars, some physical, some psychological but still alive and kicking.

It CAN be overcome.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

The human race has a proportion of nasty people, wankers etc, the fab population is no different I'm afraid

Just like in real life you'd avoid people like that just do the same on here, the site features give you the tools

Unfortunately in any social setting whether it's real life or here you can't avoid these people totally so just be prepared they're around and know how to deal with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even know how you'd begin to word a message to abuse someone about having cancer.

Weird folks.

Hope things improve, if you don't mind me asking though how do they know she's had/has cancer?

If it's cause there's scars I've found there's some people on here who are very judgemental about scars but equally lots of people who like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The human race has a proportion of nasty people, wankers etc, the fab population is no different I'm afraid

Just like in real life you'd avoid people like that just do the same on here, the site features give you the tools

Unfortunately in any social setting whether it's real life or here you can't avoid these people totally so just be prepared they're around and know how to deal with them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The human race has a proportion of nasty people, wankers etc, the fab population is no different I'm afraid

Just like in real life you'd avoid people like that just do the same on here, the site features give you the tools

Unfortunately in any social setting whether it's real life or here you can't avoid these people totally so just be prepared they're around and know how to deal with them "

Pointy sticks tend to be an excellent preparative measure

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

I am confused. cancer is not a transmit able decease .why should people be scared? Totally bizarre, I don't get it.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Don,t think people mean to be rude were all very scared of it when my end comes i want it quick. Once read were a guy as got it he said cancer has a good side you have time to say good bye to your friends and the ones you love,takes some balls to say that God bless him

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We have a couple of friends on here fighting or recovering from reconstruction so we understand and can sympathise on what you are going through, how do people know you have or are recovering from cancer as your profile don't mention it.

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By *rrycatMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

I'm 15 years into recovery the mental scars are still there but I'm here and loving life enjoying being a fabber

Ignore the morons OP and enjoy life to the full

One life live it

Keep on trucking or should say keep on fucking lol

Hugs x

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By *rrycatMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

I'm 15 years into recovery the mental scars are still there but I'm here and loving life enjoying being a fabber

Ignore the morons OP and enjoy life to the full

One life live it

Keep on trucking or should say keep on fucking lol

Hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My love to the people that have or going through this. It would never cross my mind not to meet someone with cancer. More to the point be nice to put a smile on there face .

Good luck all x have a great time x

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