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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We posted a thread about a month ago entitled something along the lines of "we're shit in clubs". Lots of other people said that they also struggle. Well we were in a club the other day and saw a roll of sticky labels and I thought. I wonder what people would think if I wrote "we're shy, come say Hi" on it and stuck it to my shirt.

So what do you think? Endearing or desperate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Endearing , great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I go to a club I could do with a sticker on my back lol

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"Whenever I go to a club I could do with a sticker on my back lol "

... saying kick me? LOL!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I'm surprised people don't already come and say hello.

The stickers are a good idea.

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I'm surprised people don't already come and say hello.

The stickers are a good idea. "

It's hard to go up to someone and start talking. We struggle and from the thread mentioned above, it's clear other couples do too.

People generally fall into 3 categories. 1) We don't want to play with them. 2) we like them, they might like us. 3) we like them, but they are way out of our league and wouldn't want to play with us.

But you never really know what the other couple is thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr is great at talking to people.... I'm great at talking to people but crap at gettin it past the social stage.

I think the idea would be great but we always talk to the quiet people too

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

What does anyone else think?

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Guess I try it then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it! What's the worst that can happen?

People start chatting to you... win!

People think you're a nutter, doesn't matter because you'll probably never see them again and you wouldn't want to chat to someone that thought it was a bad idea anyway... win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find clubs much easier than on here, it's simple go to a club meet chat to people if there is a connection play, here is what we find difficult

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"We posted a thread about a month ago entitled something along the lines of "we're shit in clubs". Lots of other people said that they also struggle. Well we were in a club the other day and saw a roll of sticky labels and I thought. I wonder what people would think if I wrote "we're shy, come say Hi" on it and stuck it to my shirt.

So what do you think? Endearing or desperate? "

I think it's a brilliant idea - it will result in people coming to chat with you even if it's just about the idea of the stickers.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write in tiny writing "if you can read this please suck my cock".

Put the sticker on your y-fronts.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Write in tiny writing "if you can read this please suck my cock".

Put the sticker on your y-fronts.

"

Now that would make me laugh....sure fire ice breaker

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering


"What does anyone else think?"

Hi CLCC. You are not so shy as you make out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't some clubs have a colour band scheme like red for just looking, amber for maybe up for soft play & green for hell yeah lets party.

once again there is a likelihood that it's just a random thought in my head!

Still I think some kind of 'system' to make people feel comfortable can only be a good thing.

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