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By *4STY OP   Woman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola

Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i love porn "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

"

Not the porn industry per se, but the ease of access to it via the Internet.

Young people are exposed to it, with such ease at such an early age now, before they've had a chance to mature and experience any thing like the real thing - that their views on women/sex/relationships are somewhat distorted

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Fuelled by excess testosterone, young men have vivid imaginations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its just the porn industry, its magazines such as FHM and Loaded etc sexual exploitation is everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tbf to young men, we really like porn-the harder the better-people like what they like. Porn has allowed many ladies to embrace being promiscuous and enjoying being the object of multiples male attention.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like porn too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so the sex they do in porn isnt the right way to do it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the sex they do in porn isnt the right way to do it?? "

For me, it just lacks imagination. Same old thing over and over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

porn is ok so long as the guys watching it realise it's a fantasy and most women don't like being treated like women on porn

I can't be doing with porn start shaggers

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

"

How is sex suppose to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a porn star! Well ok not technically but I wouldn't be surprised if the odd video of me ain't on a homemade pornsite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the sex they do in porn isnt the right way to do it?? "

No your not sticking your bare cock up my arse then expecting me to suck it after and no I'm not licking you cum off my glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the sex they do in porn isnt the right way to do it??

For me, it just lacks imagination. Same old thing over and over. "

Kiss touch lick suck, Stick it in and pull it out, Do it one way then another and Yes do it over an over,

So repetitive but I love watching and doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

How is sex suppose to be? "

more give and take

most mainstream porn is to cater for the male ego, women being used for man's pleasure

is real sex for you like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the sex they do in porn isnt the right way to do it??

For me, it just lacks imagination. Same old thing over and over.

Kiss touch lick suck, Stick it in and pull it out, Do it one way then another and Yes do it over an over,

So repetitive but I love watching and doing it

"

Like I said, lacks imagination, but if you've found something you love keep on loving it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn made my ex a really good fuck actually. Met him a virgin but he had loads of tricks to try out (oral ones especially).

Mainstream porn tends to be boring, to me, and so do the porn that catches onto 'new trends' but doesn't really understand them. I prefer amateur where the people making them are actually into the stuff they're performing. I watch it mainly to get ideas for roleplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the sex they do in porn isnt the right way to do it??

For me, it just lacks imagination. Same old thing over and over.

Kiss touch lick suck, Stick it in and pull it out, Do it one way then another and Yes do it over an over,

So repetitive but I love watching and doing it

Like I said, lacks imagination, but if you've found something you love keep on loving it "

To be honest I find the build up to sex

like flirting kissing seduction more of a turn then the actual sex, But it has to lead somewhere

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

How is sex suppose to be?

more give and take

most mainstream porn is to cater for the male ego, women being used for man's pleasure

is real sex for you like that?"

so it is not the young person rather male perception of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't confuse the two...it's nice to take an innocent young lady home to find out she fucks just like a porn star

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't confuse the two...it's nice to take an innocent young lady home to find out she fucks just like a porn star

"

Does that include the fake orgasms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the sex they do in porn isnt the right way to do it??

No your not sticking your bare cock up my arse then expecting me to suck it after and no I'm not licking you cum off my glasses "

Prude

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Quite good discussion, yes my generation have grown up to easy access to hardcore porn and yes I do think it has an effect on relationships and expectations from sex.

there was a good BBC3 documentary presented by Tyger Drew-Honney the son of the porn star Bendover. who looked in to how different modern phenomena effect younger generations.

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By *ackdd72Man
over a year ago

the valleys

ooh I do like the ones with a story or the parody ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the sex they do in porn isnt the right way to do it??

No your not sticking your bare cock up my arse then expecting me to suck it after and no I'm not licking you cum off my glasses

Prude "

Oh ok but if I'm sucking it I'm douching first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making of a porn film....

Girl says to her mate wish he would hurry up and get hard l need some new shoes.

eventually the guy comes out to the kitchen table and starts humping away shouting yeah baby, yeah baby but shes not there.

eventually she comes out and gets on the table while the guy takes a pee, shes heard to shout yeah fuck me, fuck me harder but there's no guy there. then the guy comes back sticks it up her for 30 seconds wiggles it about a bit before he whips it out to cum on her, she wipes herself with a towel and her mate go for new shoes while the bloke goes to the pub before they make another film.

and that would turn you on ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like porn and quite a lot of other adult entertainment too. It's taught me to like full-on bi threesomes so it can't have done me any harm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking with a woman last week and she said that to many young men are growing up watching porn and think that every woman wants to be fucked like a train!

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"Porn made my ex a really good fuck actually. Met him a virgin but he had loads of tricks to try out (oral ones especially).

Mainstream porn tends to be boring, to me, and so do the porn that catches onto 'new trends' but doesn't really understand them. I prefer amateur where the people making them are actually into the stuff they're performing. I watch it mainly to get ideas for roleplay."

The reason for trends is that it helps newbie producers stick out among the 1000's in the UK, a lot of it is sick shit with a shock factor which fucks up the industry more than it is already.

Girls vomiting over each other, puching girls and rough and violent sex only strengthens the government's case to ban it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Porn made my ex a really good fuck actually. Met him a virgin but he had loads of tricks to try out (oral ones especially).

Mainstream porn tends to be boring, to me, and so do the porn that catches onto 'new trends' but doesn't really understand them. I prefer amateur where the people making them are actually into the stuff they're performing. I watch it mainly to get ideas for roleplay.

The reason for trends is that it helps newbie producers stick out among the 1000's in the UK, a lot of it is sick shit with a shock factor which fucks up the industry more than it is already.

Girls vomiting over each other, puching girls and rough and violent sex only strengthens the government's case to ban it.

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I don't watch that stuff.

If i'm honest i don't know who directs or produces anything, don't think i know any stars names either.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

The same dozen guys more or less including me have been around decades producing run of the mill amateur porn which is still as popular now as it was then, the rest come and go.

The main core industry polices itself but the new wannabe's will always be out there with extreme stuff.

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By *4STY OP   Woman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola


"so the sex they do in porn isnt the right way to do it?? "

I never said that. What im trying to say is that not every woman is like some of the porn stars. Not all of us are into anal, not all can squirt (big demand), not all into gangbangs and so on. Most messages I get is 'oh I saw it in a porn movie so I wanna tried'.

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By *4STY OP   Woman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola


"Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

How is sex suppose to be?

more give and take

most mainstream porn is to cater for the male ego, women being used for man's pleasure

is real sex for you like that?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the sex they do in porn isnt the right way to do it??

No your not sticking your bare cock up my arse then expecting me to suck it after and no I'm not licking you cum off my glasses

Prude

Oh ok but if I'm sucking it I'm douching first "

Why spoil the fun? - we like to call it the 'guess-my-breakfast' game

In all seriousness (from now) porn is heavily edited to make such acts seem more spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the sex they do in porn isnt the right way to do it??

No your not sticking your bare cock up my arse then expecting me to suck it after and no I'm not licking you cum off my glasses

Prude

Oh ok but if I'm sucking it I'm douching first

Why spoil the fun? - we like to call it the 'guess-my-breakfast' game

In all seriousness (from now) porn is heavily edited to make such acts seem more spontaneous "

never heard if enema's then ladies and gents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

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porn has done much damage to peoples perception of sex and women. Many young men are corrupted by it...and I think its sad and very worrying. As a prev poster said...its also about access and esp to young people. I have two young sons and I dread the image they may end up having. Im pretty libral...not a prude...enjoy some porn...but all things need a place...and there us no place for porn..it is everywhere...and that is sadly a bad state of affairs for the future.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

The days of looking at the underwear section in Kay's catalogue are a distant memory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I'm not really into porn that much (which is maybe a bit weird for someone my age lol). I probably only watch porn a few times a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The days of looking at the underwear section in Kay's catalogue are a distant memory"
love the comment and so so true....so fucking true....I remember it so well....god was I.....7...8..years old. But that slow soft introduction is a good thing...not bad I think.

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By *maz.Man
over a year ago

Southampton / iford

Does anyone not feel that porn has educated them to think of trying different things !

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

Pornhub do have a section called female friendly and a softcore section.

How is sex suppose to be?

more give and take

most mainstream porn is to cater for the male ego, women being used for man's pleasure

is real sex for you like that?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone not feel that porn has educated them to think of trying different things ! "

Me!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

As long as the viewer doesn't expect everyone to have sex like they do in porn it's ok.

Caveat: I know a few porn stars and the industry is horrid.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

"

Probably. Probably done the same to women too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn has absolutely ruined me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a conflicting relationship with porn. It has shaped my appetite and attitudes towards sex, and it probably showed me how to lick pussy well (got a real kick out of lesbian porn in my teens). But i think I've been able to view it sensibly, as I'm able to separate porn fantasy from reality.

However, I hate the more violent looking types of porn out there, and I do worry about how both boys' and girls' expectations of sex are being shaped.

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By *anDare70Man
over a year ago

kirkby


"The days of looking at the underwear section in Kay's catalogue are a distant memory"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a strange coincidence years ago, before the current mania for making women squirt, I went out with two women in a row who automatically squirted during sex. They were both recently divorced after long marriages. They both thought something was wrong with them for squirting. I was able to show them porn where women squirted and because there was a whole area of porn on squiring they realised they were not unusual.

I think the good thing about porn is that it can normalise sexual activities. However some may view this as a bad thing. But given the estimated size of the market it is appealing to a lot of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn is shite unless it's genuinely home made and 'real'.

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

"

How is sex `supposed to be` ?

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By *ilk n SteelCouple
over a year ago

Croydon


"Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

"

Jane,

It works both ways. Women now expect all men they meet to be at least eight inches with serious girth

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone not feel that porn has educated them to think of trying different things ! "

Yeah for me it has. Only reason i watch it now is to get ideas for role play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the time I find porn very fake, and I never expected a woman to act like a pornstar, like guys come on

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

There is no way sex is supposed to be, surly sex is sex.

How is sex `supposed to be` ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone not feel that porn has educated them to think of trying different things ! "

I was thinking of doing different things before the internet became public.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

I blame Tim Burners Lee for allowing people to exploit the internet via WWW. lol

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By *4STY OP   Woman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola


"Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

Jane,

It works both ways. Women now expect all men they meet to be at least eight inches with serious girth

Xx "

I don't my pussy cat too small for big sausages

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

Corect me If I am wrong but I thought all women were able ot accommodate, depending on size.

Jane,

It works both ways. Women now expect all men they meet to be at least eight inches with serious girth

Xx

I don't my pussy cat too small for big sausages "

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"As long as the viewer doesn't expect everyone to have sex like they do in porn it's ok.

Caveat: I know a few porn stars and the industry is horrid."

I know 100's and the industry is a good well run industry, everyone looks after each other & the ladies are totally at ease with their safety, you get the new rouge producer wanting extreme stuff from the girls but word circulates and these are soon black listed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally only watch it cause I want to see hot women getting fucked. I won't watch a video until I have some attraction to the woman then imagine myself fucking her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's just a problem with young guys. My ex who is now 40 had some peculiar ideas about sex from watching porn. Such as spitting into my mouth as he was pinning me on the bed...I don't see what on earth could be erotic about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the sex they do in porn isnt the right way to do it??

No your not sticking your bare cock up my arse then expecting me to suck it after and no I'm not licking you cum off my glasses "

Ass to mouth seriously what is that about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just recently I have had sex that was like porn,had a girl finger my mouth and wouldn't take it out unless it went in her snatch and then back in my cakehole.

Oh and stuff her rhinestone panties in there too while I was tied up haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the sex they do in porn isnt the right way to do it??

No your not sticking your bare cock up my arse then expecting me to suck it after and no I'm not licking you cum off my glasses

Ass to mouth seriously what is that about "

Someone fucks you up the butt then you suck them off. It doesn't taste of anything lol, but i'm not into anal so not that into it.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Arse to Mouth -

I cut the scene and edit to look like this happens anf the guys / guys wash first, its quite dangerous in the fact you can catch some nasty infections.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i enjoy some porn,but i think its really worrying what pops up in the side ads when on xhamster or similar.really rough,nasty clips..i really dont think its a coincidence there's a sharp rise in sexual violence being reported against women,one of the very few areas there is a rise in crime, and the young age of the perpetrators...i think for me porn was quite educational when i was younger, but i really fear for young men who are watching that kind of stuff and see it as normal, not a niche,taste...

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By *icurguycovMan
over a year ago

Leeds

agree that most porn aimed at men gets boring. I do enjoy watching porn aimed at women - Erika Lust's films are beautiful and very erotic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you guys think the porn industry did helped or kind of spoiled the idea of how sex is suppose to be? I got this feeling specially for the younger generation (from the messages I get on here).

They all fantasise that every woman that is on Fab is here cause they "porn stars" in the bedroom.

"

I think it may have warped the idea and what they actually think goes on when meeting people. But I am sure a few of the older generation would have a better idea on how it works if you opened up your age range a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People watch porn to get ideas/techniques aswell as pleasure that's for men and women the more I open minded the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna be a porno star. 2 of my worse Vice's. Money+Sex

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"I was talking with a woman last week and she said that to many young men are growing up watching porn and think that every woman wants to be fucked like a train! "

In the buffet car or shunted up a siding?

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"i enjoy some porn,but i think its really worrying what pops up in the side ads when on xhamster or similar.really rough,nasty clips..i really dont think its a coincidence there's a sharp rise in sexual violence being reported against women,one of the very few areas there is a rise in crime, and the young age of the perpetrators...i think for me porn was quite educational when i was younger, but i really fear for young men who are watching that kind of stuff and see it as normal, not a niche,taste... "

People are more likely to report this sort of crime than in the past.

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