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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Couples after you have had a threesome either in a hotel room or in your own house do you like to sleep together, Is your bed big enough ? does your meet sleep in another bed ? or do you like him/her to leave after the sex is over ?

I do like the idea of her waking up in the morning/during the night and having sex while he is still sleeping

(as long as he is OK with it of course)

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We have had a few threesomes and moresomes and they have never resulted in a sleepover - either at a hotel, their house or our house. It's arrive, play, go home

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

We came close to doing this last summer, on a rare, child-free week, and yes, our bed is a super-king, so plenty of room for four.

But we'd need to know the other people well.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never stay overnight with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We came close to doing this last summer, on a rare, child-free week, and yes, our bed is a super-king, so plenty of room for four.

But we'd need to know the other people well.

Mr ddc"

I was thinking people you have become friends with rather then a first meet

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I was thinking people you have become friends with rather then a first meet"

We have friends we met on here, have known for well over a year and meet up every few weeks for fun. Spend time with them in the real world too, shopping, meals, cinema, know each other's families - we still go home at the end of the night......I want to sleep with my husband after I have been having sex with someone else - if I stayed with them then that becomes a relationship and I already have one of those

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was thinking people you have become friends with rather then a first meet

We have friends we met on here, have known for well over a year and meet up every few weeks for fun. Spend time with them in the real world too, shopping, meals, cinema, know each other's families - we still go home at the end of the night......I want to sleep with my husband after I have been having sex with someone else - if I stayed with them then that becomes a relationship and I already have one of those "

I understand where you're coming from, But for others sleeping over won't mean it's some kind of relationship just continuing with what you started from the night before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had a few threesomes and moresomes and they have never resulted in a sleepover - either at a hotel, their house or our house. It's arrive, play, go home "

absolutely spot on with us. We have had men over and they've stayed all night, but never any sleeping involved.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"We came close to doing this last summer, on a rare, child-free week, and yes, our bed is a super-king, so plenty of room for four.

But we'd need to know the other people well.

Mr ddc

I was thinking people you have become friends with rather then a first meet"

The couple we had in mind we'd been chatting with a lot on-line and on cam. We used to regularly do a pub-style quiz with them on the sister site to this, so we knew each other well and shared a sense of humour and daring, but they lived the other side of the country

Having them up to stay for a few days seemed win-win, but fate conspired against us that week

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I was thinking people you have become friends with rather then a first meet

We have friends we met on here, have known for well over a year and meet up every few weeks for fun. Spend time with them in the real world too, shopping, meals, cinema, know each other's families - we still go home at the end of the night......I want to sleep with my husband after I have been having sex with someone else - if I stayed with them then that becomes a relationship and I already have one of those

I understand where you're coming from, But for others sleeping over won't mean it's some kind of relationship just continuing with what you started from the night before "

I guess so.....I think in my world there is the fun and then the back to the real world and that's the way that works for me......it would be a very boring world if we were all the same though

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Once the sex is done, Bitches can fuck off.

We'd probably let them stay if we knew them well enough and genuine reasons meant that they were stuck/couldn't get home, but it still wouldn't be in our bed.

Cuddling up and sleeping is something we prefer to do only with eachother. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i've had sex with someone they always sleep over. Couples or singles. I like morning sex and none of them seem to want to leave anyway so suits me fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I've joined a couple in the past, or they've joined me, theres never been any sleepovers after! Because my threesomes have either been at a party, or at mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If i've had sex with someone they always sleep over. Couples or singles. I like morning sex and none of them seem to want to leave anyway so suits me fine! "

Its something I would prefer as well with singles or couples, Having morning sex to do things you didn't have time to do the night before or just repeat the you liked doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never stayed over, always drove home afterwards. if id known them long enough then maybe id consider staying over but only in a spare room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally only do sleepovers one on one.

Have had a couple stay over 3 to a bed some time back.

Last weekend my non-fab friend stayed over with a friend (lady). All 3 in a bed just seemed natural....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As 90% of my potential meets are over a 2 hour drive away I wouldn't want to drive back home straight after meeting them, So its either a stay over or a hotel for the night for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i've had sex with someone they always sleep over. Couples or singles. I like morning sex and none of them seem to want to leave anyway so suits me fine! "

I can't blame them!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Nope!

When the meets over and we or they leave then it's back to our time. We give plenty of hours to our meet but to continue with that process mentally, limitlessley isn't for us, we like a cut off point to return to our life. It'd feel like an outsayed welcome for us regardless of venue/place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't do sleepovers afterwards but can see where you are coming from!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe its just me then, The only meets I have had was at clubs and I even stayed the night at both of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I do like the idea of her waking up in the morning/during the night and having sex while he is still sleeping

(as long as he is OK with it of course)"

Sounds pretty horny being woken up to see a continuation of the night before. Might have to be something we think about doing with the right person of course

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

I have meets stay over for the night, but not on a first meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always have a cut off point And neither would spend the night with another x

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

I used to meet a couple

He used to sleep on the couch after play and us girls would spoon and go to sleep...He would get back in in the morning when he brought up a cuppa..

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

When we have sleep-over home 4somes and moresomes we often sleep swapped. Nice to wake up in the night and hear a bed banging in the next room, then get your bed banging too! We always all get together in the king-size bed before breakfast for a lovely group session, that's a must!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we have sleep-over home 4somes and moresomes we often sleep swapped. Nice to wake up in the night and hear a bed banging in the next room, then get your bed banging too! We always all get together in the king-size bed before breakfast for a lovely group session, that's a must!"

That sounds so horny...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a regular female fb who sleeps with us overnight but not sure it would be the same with a guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a regular female fb who sleeps with us overnight but not sure it would be the same with a guy? "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had a few threesomes and moresomes and they have never resulted in a sleepover - either at a hotel, their house or our house. It's arrive, play, go home "

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

I suppose it is different for me as I am not in a relationship,but a few times that I have slept over with a friend and another couple, we tend to drift back to our partners....besides, not many can put up with my snoring.

The last time that I shared a hotel room with a friend and another couple, they were also just friends and we kept swapping.

I accept that it is not the same so that the only pearl of wisdom that I can offer is that it is up to each individual couple as to how they want to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sleepovers ever. No way.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We have a young lad that stays the night nothing better than to wake up of the rythem of the bed moving as your wife is getting fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the reasons I'm not into meeting established couples. I don't want to be the one getting up, getting dressed and going home on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done it once at a hotel in a mfm situation and felt a little uncomfortable, think it would need to be a cpl I had met several times and relaxed with for it not to feel uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my space to much to share my bed with one person let alone two

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Only done this once and was good waking in morning for even more fun x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I snore badly, I doubt anyone would stay long after I'm asleep lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to have our time after a meet to cuddle up and reflect on what disgusting perverts we are haha having said that, i get excited by the thought of going to sleep and being woken up by two cocks! Or a cock and a pussy!

Peach

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By *exy_HornyCouple
over a year ago

Leigh

We did this once with another couple in our old caravan 6'6" by 6'6" bed. The two ladies slept in the middle but with opposite partners. It was so horny waking the other lady with a slow good morning fuck

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