FabSwingers.com forum: Bull behaviour..

By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

I hope this question won't cause any offence, it is not meant to, nor am I seeking to pass comment or critism, however;

After attending a very quiet club night last night, so quiet that I didn't see anybody that even remotely tickled my own fancy, I was intrigued to observe the behaviour of one particular guy...I guess he's what might be termed a 'bull'.

In the short space of time that I was there, I observed (not closely) that he 'serviced' the ladies of two couples in pretty quick succession.

Whilst this is not the kind of sex that I would enjoy, I also realize that I simply wouldn't be capable of performing. Without significant physical attraction and the arousal which results, I'd be no use at this kind of 'servicing' at all.

My question is two fold; do some guys litterally find the possibility of fucking just about any woman sufficiently arousing for them to get wood and perform?

Also, does the level of arousal required for a man to become erect vary significantly from one man to the next?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I dont really do clubs but I know where you are coming from. He may have been horny, at the thought of striking gold for the evening or there may have been viagra talking.

For me, I need that interaction with a woman - I need to tease and go a little bit villan with her before anything goes any further..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the guy was attracted to the women he shagged, don't mean to state the obvious but all because none of the women appealed to you that does not mean any guy who has sex with her is a member of the any holes a goal brigade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excuse me if this is considered a hijack but I believe I have a related question. Is it considered poor etiquette to leave the club after "servicing" one woman? Is one expected to hang around for a while after to at least socialise for example?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i don't even think that sort of behaviour is one that could or should be counted as a bull...

i hate that term anyway because i think probably 95 % of people use the term probably use it becuase they think it will help their chances, as opposed to having an idea of what it entails.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a female, if I am at a club and see a guy behaving like that, he is not going to get a thing! I prefer to have at least some social interaction with someone I am going to play with. These guys are usually arrogant and not that good.

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I hope this question won't cause any offence, it is not meant to, nor am I seeking to pass comment or critism, however;

In the short space of time that I was there, I observed (not closely) that he 'serviced' the ladies of two couples in pretty quick succession.

My question is two fold; do some guys litterally find the possibility of fucking just about any woman sufficiently arousing for them to get wood and perform?

Also, does the level of arousal required for a man to become erect vary significantly from one man to the next?"

I'm not an expert but my bf is a bull and if he is playing with couples it usually takes on more of a cuckolding roleplay with interaction, flirting, some dominance of the hotwife and the cuck if required. I've not explained that too well but It's more than stamina and servicing.

If you go to a club on a greedy girl night or couples night you can see what I call greedy boys. Usually lots of stamina and quick repeaters but it seems to be just physical sex and move on to the next.

I would say though that he is constantly 'switched on' and in alert mode. And sometimes, It baffles me as he seems to be able to find something attractive within most females. I'm sure it's pheromones with him rather than physical attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Excuse me if this is considered a hijack but I believe I have a related question. Is it considered poor etiquette to leave the club after "servicing" one woman? Is one expected to hang around for a while after to at least socialise for example?"

Depends on the person. For me i don't have problem with people not socialising before or after, i also enjoy socialising with them as well so either way i'm not fussed. Supose you have to get a feel for the person themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs we been to are pretty laid back. If we someone we have played with in the bar afterwards we might say hi. If they are gone we don't give it a second thought. Don't think there is much convention to be honest

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