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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

disregard the club events!!!

But when someone says they require gents for a gangbang at there home or hotel & a contribution to costs is required!!!

What's would you think a reasonable contribution should be?

Should the organiser make money out of it?

When does Contribution become Prostitution?

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

If it is at somebody's home why would they want a contribution to costs? There aren't any.

If in a hotel then split the cost of the room between all who attend.

Once a profit is made from sex it becomes prostitution and not swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it is at somebody's home why would they want a contribution to costs? ."

That's what I thought when I've been looking at this sort of fun over the last couple of months to join in with!!

A lot of it looks a little to commercial for my taste..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they provide food, drink, shower, then yes you should contribute, they may even be saving you money than if the meet was to be held at a hotel or club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they provide food, drink, shower, then yes you should contribute, they may even be saving you money than if the meet was to be held at a hotel or club"

I can see the logic in that but then how much is a reasonable contribution ?

When does it stop being a contribution & seem more like prostitution?

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

If someone makes a genuine effort , like booking a hotel or providing food and drink then why not I say

If they want a £50 contribution for a bag of Nobbys nuts then I'd say that's pushing it a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never play with those looking for a 'contribution'. To me that's not what swinging is all about. I would offer, however to share costs if i was meeting a couple or single female in a hotel. Not sure why you would need to contribute if it's in a private house. There is a bukkake advertised on here with two girls. They want a £50 'contribution' from each of those attending. It doesn't take a lot of working out, does it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah £50 per person smacks of something a little more than a contribution !!!!!

As somebody said if someone has provided all the Amenities how much is reasonable £10 or £20 times that by the number of guys turning up & it could be a fare bit of cash!!!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

party I went to once it was £5 per person, and she laid on food.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"party I went to once it was £5 per person, and she laid on food. "

Now that seems damn reasonable

But I've seen one where only the single guys were being asked to contribute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As and when we get round to sorting gangbang fun in hotel will be our decision to hold it and we will stand cost not expecting other to contribute at all just be genuine and turn up if invited

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By *hloeTheTVCumSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

essex/london

The 2 girls mentioned actually have to pay for a private venue, not just a hotel room, they also have the costs of professional security, they often lay on drinks, condoms etc... All of this costs money. If you don't like the cost you don't attend, simples really

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I'd expect a small charge to cover the cleaning.. I've had (normal) parties and the mess some people make is ridiculous. One beer and some people can't aim straight for a start..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"y. If you don't like the cost you don't attend, simples really "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As and when we get round to sorting gangbang fun in hotel will be our decision to hold it and we will stand cost not expecting other to contribute at all just be genuine and turn up if invited "

The last couple I met in a hotel for some fun, I offered to share costs. The reply I got was....that's not necessary as we are staying the night and having a night away from home.

I would always offer in those circumstances though.

Good luck with your gb!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The 2 girls mentioned actually have to pay for a private venue, not just a hotel room, they also have the costs of professional security, they often lay on drinks, condoms etc... All of this costs money. If you don't like the cost you don't attend, simples really "

Sounds more like a commercial venture !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"y. If you don't like the cost you don't attend, simples really "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they provide food, drink, shower, then yes you should contribute, they may even be saving you money than if the meet was to be held at a hotel or club

I can see the logic in that but then how much is a reasonable contribution ?

When does it stop being a contribution & seem more like prostitution?"

I guess thats hard to set a price as one person may spend a lot more money on food/drinks condoms. lube than the next person, at the end of the day if you disagree with whatever they are asking then just don't go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What'w wrong with paying a small fee to cover hotel and travel costs for a sexy lady??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What'w wrong with paying a small fee to cover hotel and travel costs for a sexy lady??"

Now there's another thing " travel costs" !!!!

If they are the person wanting the gangbang why should you all be required to cover there travel costs ?

Splitting the price of the room yes but even then should the person wanting the gangbang make money out of the guys if there's a few of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What'w wrong with paying a small fee to cover hotel and travel costs for a sexy lady??

Now there's another thing " travel costs" !!!!

If they are the person wanting the gangbang why should you all be required to cover there travel costs ?

Splitting the price of the room yes but even then should the person wanting the gangbang make money out of the guys if there's a few of them?"

Great attitude. No doub this sort of approach will land you many many meets with attarctive ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they provide food, drink, shower, then yes you should contribute, they may even be saving you money than if the meet was to be held at a hotel or club"

Agreed. I'm also shocked that some men aren't willing to share hotel costs. Tight asses (and not in the way mine is)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they provide food, drink, shower, then yes you should contribute, they may even be saving you money than if the meet was to be held at a hotel or club

Agreed. I'm also shocked that some men aren't willing to share hotel costs. Tight asses (and not in the way mine is)!"

The something for nothing culture stalks fab it seems.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"What'w wrong with paying a small fee to cover hotel and travel costs for a sexy lady??

Now there's another thing " travel costs" !!!!

If they are the person wanting the gangbang why should you all be required to cover there travel costs ?

Splitting the price of the room yes but even then should the person wanting the gangbang make money out of the guys if there's a few of them?

Great attitude. No doub this sort of approach will land you many many meets with attarctive ladies."

And I hope he does get loads of meets with those attractive ladies who dont think that guys are there just to do them a favour and that they should also fork out for the privilege

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"disregard the club events!!!

But when someone says they require gents for a gangbang at there home or hotel & a contribution to costs is required!!!

What's would you think a reasonable contribution should be?

Should the organiser make money out of it?

When does Contribution become Prostitution?

"

ABOVE IS THE QUESTIONS I ASKED..

There's no need for anybody to fall out with anybody else & be rude..

I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What'w wrong with paying a small fee to cover hotel and travel costs for a sexy lady??

Now there's another thing " travel costs" !!!!

If they are the person wanting the gangbang why should you all be required to cover there travel costs ?

Splitting the price of the room yes but even then should the person wanting the gangbang make money out of the guys if there's a few of them?

Great attitude. No doub this sort of approach will land you many many meets with attarctive ladies."

As opposed to your attitude which will get you.................... ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What'w wrong with paying a small fee to cover hotel and travel costs for a sexy lady??

Now there's another thing " travel costs" !!!!

If they are the person wanting the gangbang why should you all be required to cover there travel costs ?

Splitting the price of the room yes but even then should the person wanting the gangbang make money out of the guys if there's a few of them?

Great attitude. No doub this sort of approach will land you many many meets with attarctive ladies.

And I hope he does get loads of meets with those attractive ladies who dont think that guys are there just to do them a favour and that they should also fork out for the privilege"

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I once offered her to some guys and they freeeking expected me to buy the condoms ffs.

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

We play for our pleasure. Why should the guy pay our expenses.

Shared hotel costs if we are not staying the night yes, i agree. But if we are staying then it is our room and we pay for it.

Do single guys have to be so grateful for a meet that they have to pay for it?

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester


"What'w wrong with paying a small fee to cover hotel and travel costs for a sexy lady??"

The something for nothing culture pervades fab i think.

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester


"What'w wrong with paying a small fee to cover hotel and travel costs for a sexy lady??"

The something for nothing culture pervades fab i think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What'w wrong with paying a small fee to cover hotel and travel costs for a sexy lady??

The something for nothing culture pervades fab i think."

This thread was never about not contributing it was about what's a reasonable contribution ?

When someone puts up they require single guys for a gangbang then says contributions are required that's fine ..

But should the ppl attending foot the bill for everything?

Should the person asking for the contribution make money out of the ppl attending?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never charged anything for my gangbang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a gangbang at a private house,,, when I arrived the woman was watching daytime TV totally uninterested in what was about to happen. The men waited in the lounge and when she stood up and said "come on let's get it over" .. Them asked each man for £25 .. I walked out.. But no one else did

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I went to a gangbang at a private house,,, when I arrived the woman was watching daytime TV totally uninterested in what was about to happen. The men waited in the lounge and when she stood up and said "come on let's get it over" .. Them asked each man for £25 .. I walked out.. But no one else did"

Good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never play with those looking for a 'contribution'. To me that's not what swinging is all about. I would offer, however to share costs if i was meeting a couple or single female in a hotel. Not sure why you would need to contribute if it's in a private house. There is a bukkake advertised on here with two girls. They want a £50 'contribution' from each of those attending. It doesn't take a lot of working out, does it?"

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"If they provide food, drink, shower, then yes you should contribute, they may even be saving you money than if the meet was to be held at a hotel or club

I can see the logic in that but then how much is a reasonable contribution ?

When does it stop being a contribution & seem more like prostitution?"
when there is an exhorbitant "fee" or "contribution" Iwould say

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

If you don't want to pay don't go. Simple really. We wouldn't hold a party but if we ever did we wouldn't charge as we would only invite friends and not randoms. Personally however, I Fi find 'tight' people very off putting. I'm happy to pay my own way so expect people to do the same(except with hubby, he pays for everything) xxxxxxxx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"If you don't want to pay don't go. Simple really. We wouldn't hold a party but if we ever did we wouldn't charge as we would only invite friends and not randoms. Personally however, I Fi find 'tight' people very off putting. I'm happy to pay my own way so expect people to do the same(except with hubby, he pays for everything) xxxxxxxx"
I dont think the op is tight there are alot of folk who try to make money out of males when there is anything sexy about an event.the clubs are proof of this alone. perhaps the op is like me and wants the person to find stimulation in himself and not how far his wallet stretches.

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

If he doesn't want to pay he doesn't go simple. Look for an alternative - clubs etc. You will have to pay to get in though and possibly buy your own drinks! Just a thought.

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

Or try dogging. But then again you would have to have a car. Then there is tax and insurance, the obligatory air freshener. Petrol, oil - the list is endless!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If he doesn't want to pay he doesn't go simple. Look for an alternative - clubs etc. You will have to pay to get in though and possibly buy your own drinks! Just a thought."

This was never about not contributing it was about what's a reasonable contribution?

As someone pointed out they were going to be charged £20 odd pound to attend in a private house!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or try dogging. But then again you would have to have a car. Then there is tax and insurance, the obligatory air freshener. Petrol, oil - the list is endless!"

I do go dogging but the car isn't exclusively used for that so that argument is mute really!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't want to pay don't go. Simple really. We wouldn't hold a party but if we ever did we wouldn't charge as we would only invite friends and not randoms. Personally however, I Fi find 'tight' people very off putting. I'm happy to pay my own way so expect people to do the same(except with hubby, he pays for everything) xxxxxxxx"

How is this being tight?

There's a huge difference between paying for a hotel room, to get into a club, to use commercial facilities and paying for the sake of it. One thing shouldn't be dressed up as the other. If it's a money-making enterprise that's fine, but it shouldn't be dressed up as something else.

I'd personally be more put off by someone who was desperate enough to pay for it rather than someone who said no thanks, I'm not paying £50 for a 3 minute shot at a sloppy hole.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you don't want to pay don't go. Simple really. We wouldn't hold a party but if we ever did we wouldn't charge as we would only invite friends and not randoms. Personally however, I Fi find 'tight' people very off putting. I'm happy to pay my own way so expect people to do the same(except with hubby, he pays for everything) xxxxxxxx

How is this being tight?

There's a huge difference between paying for a hotel room, to get into a club, to use commercial facilities and paying for the sake of it. One thing shouldn't be dressed up as the other. If it's a money-making enterprise that's fine, but it shouldn't be dressed up as something else.

I'd personally be more put off by someone who was desperate enough to pay for it rather than someone who said no thanks, I'm not paying £50 for a 3 minute shot at a sloppy hole. "

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Surely if they are having to purchase condoms and lube, then they haven't visited the GUM clinic recently?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely if they are having to purchase condoms and lube, then they haven't visited the GUM clinic recently? "

Shouldn't we all practice SAFE SEX?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think condoms should be supplied by the gents themselves. Otherwise you're bound to get a chancer claiming the brand you have give him a nasty rash...

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By *icole33Woman
over a year ago

north norfolk. nearish to sherringham

I would say if it's in a hotel room then no more than £10 each,

if it's in private home with nothing laid on then it should be free.

If however they provide food drink showers condoms lube then. £20 is very reasonable. And it they offer you to stay over then more.

Enjoy your GB.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say if it's in a hotel room then no more than £10 each,

if it's in private home with nothing laid on then it should be free.

If however they provide food drink showers condoms lube then. £20 is very reasonable. And it they offer you to stay over then more.

Enjoy your GB. "

I think yours is the defining answer _icole33

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think condoms should be supplied by the gents themselves. Otherwise you're bound to get a chancer claiming the brand you have give him a nasty rash... "

It's always a good idea to turn up with your own condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if they are having to purchase condoms and lube, then they haven't visited the GUM clinic recently? "

Not all clinics give out free condoms.

I buy my own, I won't used anyone else's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely if they are having to purchase condoms and lube, then they haven't visited the GUM clinic recently?

Not all clinics give out free condoms.

I buy my own, I won't used anyone else's."

I was more worried he was advocating a " bare back gangbang'!!!!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Surely if they are having to purchase condoms and lube, then they haven't visited the GUM clinic recently?

Not all clinics give out free condoms.

I buy my own, I won't used anyone else's."

Me neither, even if you turned them inside out wouldn't feel right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 2 girls mentioned actually have to pay for a private venue, not just a hotel room, they also have the costs of professional security, they often lay on drinks, condoms etc... All of this costs money. If you don't like the cost you don't attend, simples really "

That's a point a proper legal bouncer is going to be a fair expense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The 2 girls mentioned actually have to pay for a private venue, not just a hotel room, they also have the costs of professional security, they often lay on drinks, condoms etc... All of this costs money. If you don't like the cost you don't attend, simples really

That's a point a proper legal bouncer is going to be a fair expense. "

Then you have to ask yourself is this two girls who are just in it for the money but there's security & the such it's more like a commercial venture!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 2 girls mentioned actually have to pay for a private venue, not just a hotel room, they also have the costs of professional security, they often lay on drinks, condoms etc... All of this costs money. If you don't like the cost you don't attend, simples really

That's a point a proper legal bouncer is going to be a fair expense.

Then you have to ask yourself is this two girls who are just in it for the money but there's security & the such it's more like a commercial venture!!"

Orthey don't want to get raped?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 2 girls mentioned actually have to pay for a private venue, not just a hotel room, they also have the costs of professional security, they often lay on drinks, condoms etc... All of this costs money. If you don't like the cost you don't attend, simples really

That's a point a proper legal bouncer is going to be a fair expense. "

Not really. £50 x 80 men in a pub with no shower facilities and a couple of doormen. I bet on a good night they make a fair bit of profit. But,if everyone is happy in the end who cares I wouldn't charge anything for a gang bang if I wanted one. It would be at my place with men I have vetted and have gotten to know well. It's prostitution when you are soliciting strangers to pay for the privilege of fucking you,where you make a profit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The 2 girls mentioned actually have to pay for a private venue, not just a hotel room, they also have the costs of professional security, they often lay on drinks, condoms etc... All of this costs money. If you don't like the cost you don't attend, simples really

That's a point a proper legal bouncer is going to be a fair expense.

Then you have to ask yourself is this two girls who are just in it for the money but there's security & the such it's more like a commercial venture!!

Orthey don't want to get raped? "

You could be right by that answer but £50 a person sounds like a commercial venture to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not allowed on here to message people to invite them to events or meets. So what happens is they take you off site to Kik and then mention the payment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 2 girls mentioned actually have to pay for a private venue, not just a hotel room, they also have the costs of professional security, they often lay on drinks, condoms etc... All of this costs money. If you don't like the cost you don't attend, simples really

That's a point a proper legal bouncer is going to be a fair expense.

Then you have to ask yourself is this two girls who are just in it for the money but there's security & the such it's more like a commercial venture!!

Orthey don't want to get raped?

You could be right by that answer but £50 a person sounds like a commercial venture to me."

You shouldn't concern yourself,look for gang bangs where you don't have to pay a hefty fee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

It's prostitution when you are soliciting strangers to pay for the privilege of fucking you,where you make a profit. "

Very true... but if people want to do that and other people want to attend, I don't see a problem with it at all. Gangbangs, parties, hotel rooms, whatever.

I do find it odd when they seriously try to claim it's *not* prostitution though. Bless 'em.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I hosted a gangbang in a hotel. I booked the hotel, provided drinks and snacks, extra towels and shower gel, condoms and lube.

I put a money box on the side where the snacks were and told everyone who attended that if.they wanted to contribute to the costs then all would be gratefully received.

Noone was forced or pestered or charged in any way but most did put something into the pot. When I counted it later it nearly but not quite covered the costs.

So I can fully understand people who ask for up to 20 quid per head, especially if they've booked an apartment or house. But more.than that is taking the mick. And for that I'd expect it to be a pleasant choice of venue with refreshments, condoms and plenty plenty of washing facilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 2 girls mentioned actually have to pay for a private venue, not just a hotel room, they also have the costs of professional security, they often lay on drinks, condoms etc... All of this costs money. If you don't like the cost you don't attend, simples really

That's a point a proper legal bouncer is going to be a fair expense.

Then you have to ask yourself is this two girls who are just in it for the money but there's security & the such it's more like a commercial venture!!

Orthey don't want to get raped?

You could be right by that answer but £50 a person sounds like a commercial venture to me."

You could always set one up yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hosted a gangbang in a hotel. I booked the hotel, provided drinks and snacks, extra towels and shower gel, condoms and lube.

I put a money box on the side where the snacks were and told everyone who attended that if.they wanted to contribute to the costs then all would be gratefully received.

Noone was forced or pestered or charged in any way but most did put something into the pot. When I counted it later it nearly but not quite covered the costs.

So I can fully understand people who ask for up to 20 quid per head, especially if they've booked an apartment or house. But more.than that is taking the mick. And for that I'd expect it to be a pleasant choice of venue with refreshments, condoms and plenty plenty of washing facilities."

A payment to cover cleaning and snacks if people want them is more than acceptable for me. You may have to throw bedding away or replace something broken in an accident. I wouldn't allow alcohol if I had one but people get peckish

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"What'w wrong with paying a small fee to cover hotel and travel costs for a sexy lady??

Now there's another thing " travel costs" !!!!

If they are the person wanting the gangbang why should you all be required to cover there travel costs ?

Splitting the price of the room yes but even then should the person wanting the gangbang make money out of the guys if there's a few of them?

Great attitude. No doub this sort of approach will land you many many meets with attarctive ladies."

Really?

We have been to loads (over 24) of private parties full of attractive, genuine, fun people, and lots of other types of meets too, and we have NEVER paid any sort of contribution.

We have, on occasion, bought a plate of food to put towards the buffet, and obviously we buy our own booze and condoms.

We see a few on here, one in particular near to us, who regularly (once, sometimes twice a week) have "meets" up, and guys attending are expected to pay £40 a time to attend, one lady who played at the meet didn't know the guys were being charged, she reckons that there were at least 8 guys there, and her, another lady and a Cpl to play with.

So, the Cpl organising it get a minimum of 320 quid for a basic hotel room????

Sounds like a tidy second income to be had!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I hosted a gangbang in a hotel. I booked the hotel, provided drinks and snacks, extra towels and shower gel, condoms and lube.

I put a money box on the side where the snacks were and told everyone who attended that if.they wanted to contribute to the costs then all would be gratefully received.

Noone was forced or pestered or charged in any way but most did put something into the pot. When I counted it later it nearly but not quite covered the costs.

So I can fully understand people who ask for up to 20 quid per head, especially if they've booked an apartment or house. But more.than that is taking the mick. And for that I'd expect it to be a pleasant choice of venue with refreshments, condoms and plenty plenty of washing facilities.

A payment to cover cleaning and snacks if people want them is more than acceptable for me. You may have to throw bedding away or replace something broken in an accident. I wouldn't allow alcohol if I had one but people get peckish "

I'd got a couple of flats of bottled water which went. And a stack of towels - you can't complain about hygiene if you don't offer the chance to freshen upand hotels only provide a couple of towels.

There were nibbles and tea and coffee as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The 2 girls mentioned actually have to pay for a private venue, not just a hotel room, they also have the costs of professional security, they often lay on drinks, condoms etc... All of this costs money. If you don't like the cost you don't attend, simples really

That's a point a proper legal bouncer is going to be a fair expense.

Then you have to ask yourself is this two girls who are just in it for the money but there's security & the such it's more like a commercial venture!!

Orthey don't want to get raped?

You could be right by that answer but £50 a person sounds like a commercial venture to me.

You could always set one up yourself?"

I suppose I could if I get to know ppl on here!!

But the aim of this post was to ask what is acceptable as a contribution & when does a contribution become prostitution?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 2 girls mentioned actually have to pay for a private venue, not just a hotel room, they also have the costs of professional security, they often lay on drinks, condoms etc... All of this costs money. If you don't like the cost you don't attend, simples really

That's a point a proper legal bouncer is going to be a fair expense.

Then you have to ask yourself is this two girls who are just in it for the money but there's security & the such it's more like a commercial venture!!

Orthey don't want to get raped?

You could be right by that answer but £50 a person sounds like a commercial venture to me.

You could always set one up yourself?

I suppose I could if I get to know ppl on here!!

But the aim of this post was to ask what is acceptable as a contribution & when does a contribution become prostitution?"

Well the answer to the first is whatever people are willing to pay and the later is when a profit is intentionally turned.

You could charge a 100 quid a head but hold it in a luxury spa and barely break even for instance.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Well the answer to the first is whatever people are willing to pay and the later is when a profit is intentionally turned.

You could charge a 100 quid a head but hold it in a luxury spa and barely break even for instance.

"

That's the thing should they be so glad they have got on the list there happily fork out more cash than is reasonable?

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

If you don't want to pay then don't go. Simple!

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I hosted a gangbang in a hotel. I booked the hotel, provided drinks and snacks, extra towels and shower gel, condoms and lube.

I put a money box on the side where the snacks were and told everyone who attended that if.they wanted to contribute to the costs then all would be gratefully received.

Noone was forced or pestered or charged in any way but most did put something into the pot. When I counted it later it nearly but not quite covered the costs.

So I can fully understand people who ask for up to 20 quid per head, especially if they've booked an apartment or house. But more.than that is taking the mick. And for that I'd expect it to be a pleasant choice of venue with refreshments, condoms and plenty plenty of washing facilities."

But you're the one who wanted the gang bang. You're the one who organised it for your own pleasure. These men came to fuck you because you made yourself available to them, then you ask them to contribute. Why? It was your idea, you wanted it.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

£50 is a money making venture. House party contribution should be £5 for couples and £10 single guys maximum. Trust me if you organised house-party. Your carpet will never be same again due to spillage.

I prefer house party to club scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you could ask for a projected income and expenditure summary before you decide and then a set of audited accounts afterwards?

What is reasonable to some is exorbitant to others.

If asked to contribute, as what you are contributing towards. If you think it's too much then don't go. If you think it's profiteering and prostituion then same, don't go, at the same time why judge?

Live and let live, only do what you feel comfortable with and will therefore (hopefully) enjoy.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I hosted a gangbang in a hotel. I booked the hotel, provided drinks and snacks, extra towels and shower gel, condoms and lube.

I put a money box on the side where the snacks were and told everyone who attended that if.they wanted to contribute to the costs then all would be gratefully received.

Noone was forced or pestered or charged in any way but most did put something into the pot. When I counted it later it nearly but not quite covered the costs.

So I can fully understand people who ask for up to 20 quid per head, especially if they've booked an apartment or house. But more.than that is taking the mick. And for that I'd expect it to be a pleasant choice of venue with refreshments, condoms and plenty plenty of washing facilities.

But you're the one who wanted the gang bang. You're the one who organised it for your own pleasure. These men came to fuck you because you made yourself available to them, then you ask them to contribute. Why? It was your idea, you wanted it."

Yes. And it was a voluntary contribution. I didn't hold my hand out, I put the suggestion out there and left a money box so any contributions were discreet and private. Not everyone put money in, some put in a couple of quid. If noone had contributed that would have been fine since it was VOLUNTARY.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hosted a gangbang in a hotel. I booked the hotel, provided drinks and snacks, extra towels and shower gel, condoms and lube.

I put a money box on the side where the snacks were and told everyone who attended that if.they wanted to contribute to the costs then all would be gratefully received.

Noone was forced or pestered or charged in any way but most did put something into the pot. When I counted it later it nearly but not quite covered the costs.

So I can fully understand people who ask for up to 20 quid per head, especially if they've booked an apartment or house. But more.than that is taking the mick. And for that I'd expect it to be a pleasant choice of venue with refreshments, condoms and plenty plenty of washing facilities.

But you're the one who wanted the gang bang. You're the one who organised it for your own pleasure. These men came to fuck you because you made yourself available to them, then you ask them to contribute. Why? It was your idea, you wanted it.

Yes. And it was a voluntary contribution. I didn't hold my hand out, I put the suggestion out there and left a money box so any contributions were discreet and private. Not everyone put money in, some put in a couple of quid. If noone had contributed that would have been fine since it was VOLUNTARY."

"You organised it for your own pleasure." The guys that attended didn't ...? Hope you made it clear when you invited them.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I hosted a gangbang in a hotel. I booked the hotel, provided drinks and snacks, extra towels and shower gel, condoms and lube.

I put a money box on the side where the snacks were and told everyone who attended that if.they wanted to contribute to the costs then all would be gratefully received.

Noone was forced or pestered or charged in any way but most did put something into the pot. When I counted it later it nearly but not quite covered the costs.

So I can fully understand people who ask for up to 20 quid per head, especially if they've booked an apartment or house. But more.than that is taking the mick. And for that I'd expect it to be a pleasant choice of venue with refreshments, condoms and plenty plenty of washing facilities.

But you're the one who wanted the gang bang. You're the one who organised it for your own pleasure. These men came to fuck you because you made yourself available to them, then you ask them to contribute. Why? It was your idea, you wanted it.

Yes. And it was a voluntary contribution. I didn't hold my hand out, I put the suggestion out there and left a money box so any contributions were discreet and private. Not everyone put money in, some put in a couple of quid. If noone had contributed that would have been fine since it was VOLUNTARY."

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 2 girls mentioned actually have to pay for a private venue, not just a hotel room, they also have the costs of professional security, they often lay on drinks, condoms etc... All of this costs money. If you don't like the cost you don't attend, simples really "

Professional security is barely above minimum wage per hour so thats more than covered for by one contributer, the venue id guess a couple of hundred of pounds at max - why would you run the risk of hiring a more expensive venue which obviously would require you to pay a deposit and then have no one attend? Condoms you can easily pick up for free, I got given 20 from the health clinic just by asking.

So, in my opinion, its a pure commercial money making if as described in the above comment

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I hosted a gangbang in a hotel. I booked the hotel, provided drinks and snacks, extra towels and shower gel, condoms and lube.

I put a money box on the side where the snacks were and told everyone who attended that if.they wanted to contribute to the costs then all would be gratefully received.

Noone was forced or pestered or charged in any way but most did put something into the pot. When I counted it later it nearly but not quite covered the costs.

So I can fully understand people who ask for up to 20 quid per head, especially if they've booked an apartment or house. But more.than that is taking the mick. And for that I'd expect it to be a pleasant choice of venue with refreshments, condoms and plenty plenty of washing facilities.

But you're the one who wanted the gang bang. You're the one who organised it for your own pleasure. These men came to fuck you because you made yourself available to them, then you ask them to contribute. Why? It was your idea, you wanted it.

Yes. And it was a voluntary contribution. I didn't hold my hand out, I put the suggestion out there and left a money box so any contributions were discreet and private. Not everyone put money in, some put in a couple of quid. If noone had contributed that would have been fine since it was VOLUNTARY.

"You organised it for your own pleasure." The guys that attended didn't ...? Hope you made it clear when you invited them. "

I concede my initial response would have been better aimed at someone other than Tempting Devil.

However, the point I'm trying to put across is it is the gang bang organiser's fantasy/need/want that is being met. The men that are invited are merely props who are jumping at the chance of 'free' pussy. Does anyone ask about their expenses to get to the venue?

If it's your fantasy, no matter what it may be, you shouldn't expect others to pay for it.

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By *aycee70Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"We play for our pleasure. Why should the guy pay our expenses.

Shared hotel costs if we are not staying the night yes, i agree. But if we are staying then it is our room and we pay for it.

Do single guys have to be so grateful for a meet that they have to pay for it? "

That's what we do, think some couples give the poor single guys a hard time. If you find a good one you need to look after them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We play for our pleasure. Why should the guy pay our expenses.

Shared hotel costs if we are not staying the night yes, i agree. But if we are staying then it is our room and we pay for it.

Do single guys have to be so grateful for a meet that they have to pay for it?

That's what we do, think some couples give the poor single guys a hard time. If you find a good one you need to look after them.

"

We have found plenty of good ones, and they never mind assisting with the costs of having fun with a sexy and slutty woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hosted a gangbang in a hotel. I booked the hotel, provided drinks and snacks, extra towels and shower gel, condoms and lube.

I put a money box on the side where the snacks were and told everyone who attended that if.they wanted to contribute to the costs then all would be gratefully received.

Noone was forced or pestered or charged in any way but most did put something into the pot. When I counted it later it nearly but not quite covered the costs.

So I can fully understand people who ask for up to 20 quid per head, especially if they've booked an apartment or house. But more.than that is taking the mick. And for that I'd expect it to be a pleasant choice of venue with refreshments, condoms and plenty plenty of washing facilities.

But you're the one who wanted the gang bang. You're the one who organised it for your own pleasure. These men came to fuck you because you made yourself available to them, then you ask them to contribute. Why? It was your idea, you wanted it."

You make it sound like the men are having to do it not that they want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"£50 is a money making venture. House party contribution should be £5 for couples and £10 single guys maximum. Trust me if you organised house-party. Your carpet will never be same again due to spillage.

I prefer house party to club scene "

Wait if your complaining of money making why should two people get in for £5 and another get in for £10 for just one person.

The first two will consume twice the amount of drinks/food etc.

Seems like charging more for single guys is a "money making venture"

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By *inky karen 2Woman
over a year ago

East sussex

I've had a few greedy gang bangs. Im the one that's wants it so I pay for everything. I do ask that they bring some condoms, but I do on every meet.

I get really embarrassed if they offer me money, even to cover costs.

If it's a joint venture, then it's split, but all money is sorted before xx

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"I hosted a gangbang in a hotel. I booked the hotel, provided drinks and snacks, extra towels and shower gel, condoms and lube.

I put a money box on the side where the snacks were and told everyone who attended that if.they wanted to contribute to the costs then all would be gratefully received.

Noone was forced or pestered or charged in any way but most did put something into the pot. When I counted it later it nearly but not quite covered the costs.

So I can fully understand people who ask for up to 20 quid per head, especially if they've booked an apartment or house. But more.than that is taking the mick. And for that I'd expect it to be a pleasant choice of venue with refreshments, condoms and plenty plenty of washing facilities.

But you're the one who wanted the gang bang. You're the one who organised it for your own pleasure. These men came to fuck you because you made yourself available to them, then you ask them to contribute. Why? It was your idea, you wanted it.

Yes. And it was a voluntary contribution. I didn't hold my hand out, I put the suggestion out there and left a money box so any contributions were discreet and private. Not everyone put money in, some put in a couple of quid. If noone had contributed that would have been fine since it was VOLUNTARY.

"You organised it for your own pleasure." The guys that attended didn't ...? Hope you made it clear when you invited them.

I concede my initial response would have been better aimed at someone other than Tempting Devil.

However, the point I'm trying to put across is it is the gang bang organiser's fantasy/need/want that is being met. The men that are invited are merely props who are jumping at the chance of 'free' pussy. Does anyone ask about their expenses to get to the venue?

If it's your fantasy, no matter what it may be, you shouldn't expect others to pay for it."

Turn it around...you're making it out like the organisers put guns to men's heads to participate in their fantasy! Are the men who you refer to as 'props' not, maybe, just maybe, acting out their own fantasies and having their wants/needs met? Are the organisers and men attending not all getting some kind of gratification from the gang bang itself? As for being asked about the expenses of getting to the venue, the men have a choice of whether or not to attend therefore they also have the choice of deciding whether or not they want to travel. It's really very simple! It's their choice to decide if that expense actually exists or not! Nobody is being forced to go anywhere and nobody is being forced to attend, I don't see the logic behind your comment!

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By *onnyladfun33Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

I've noticed a few working girls on this site..... I can just imagine turning up for a "meet" and they ask for some cash.... No thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed a few working girls on this site..... I can just imagine turning up for a "meet" and they ask for some cash.... No thanks lol"

Most working girls wouldn't do that as it's a massive waste of their time because enough could just walk away or worse still you could be come violent or attract a lot of unwanted attention.

If they wanted clients they'd be looking on their work sites.

Most working girls are on here to unwind a bit I know a few who don't long in on here when they're wanting to work as most guys who look for escorts are also on here and will always chance their arm if they see them on line here hoping for a freebie

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Nobody is being forced to go anywhere and nobody is being forced to attend, I don't see the logic behind your comment!"

As long as you continue to collect 'expenses' from the men fucking you I wouldn't expect you to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hosted a gangbang in a hotel. I booked the hotel, provided drinks and snacks, extra towels and shower gel, condoms and lube.

I put a money box on the side where the snacks were and told everyone who attended that if.they wanted to contribute to the costs then all would be gratefully received.

Noone was forced or pestered or charged in any way but most did put something into the pot. When I counted it later it nearly but not quite covered the costs.

So I can fully understand people who ask for up to 20 quid per head, especially if they've booked an apartment or house. But more.than that is taking the mick. And for that I'd expect it to be a pleasant choice of venue with refreshments, condoms and plenty plenty of washing facilities.

But you're the one who wanted the gang bang. You're the one who organised it for your own pleasure. These men came to fuck you because you made yourself available to them, then you ask them to contribute. Why? It was your idea, you wanted it.

Yes. And it was a voluntary contribution. I didn't hold my hand out, I put the suggestion out there and left a money box so any contributions were discreet and private. Not everyone put money in, some put in a couple of quid. If noone had contributed that would have been fine since it was VOLUNTARY.

"You organised it for your own pleasure." The guys that attended didn't ...? Hope you made it clear when you invited them.

I concede my initial response would have been better aimed at someone other than Tempting Devil.

However, the point I'm trying to put across is it is the gang bang organiser's fantasy/need/want that is being met. The men that are invited are merely props who are jumping at the chance of 'free' pussy. Does anyone ask about their expenses to get to the venue?

If it's your fantasy, no matter what it may be, you shouldn't expect others to pay for it."

What do you mean it would have been better aimed at someone else? The men that attend do so because they want to. If they get asked for a contribution it's up to them whether they pay it.

I really don't see how it's one person's fantasy. Are you implying the guys go along out of the goodness of their hearts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody is being forced to go anywhere and nobody is being forced to attend, I don't see the logic behind your comment!

As long as you continue to collect 'expenses' from the men fucking you I wouldn't expect you to."

Does this mean I have to stop expecting dinner to be provided on a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hosted a gangbang in a hotel. I booked the hotel, provided drinks and snacks, extra towels and shower gel, condoms and lube.

I put a money box on the side where the snacks were and told everyone who attended that if.they wanted to contribute to the costs then all would be gratefully received.

Noone was forced or pestered or charged in any way but most did put something into the pot. When I counted it later it nearly but not quite covered the costs.

So I can fully understand people who ask for up to 20 quid per head, especially if they've booked an apartment or house. But more.than that is taking the mick. And for that I'd expect it to be a pleasant choice of venue with refreshments, condoms and plenty plenty of washing facilities.

But you're the one who wanted the gang bang. You're the one who organised it for your own pleasure. These men came to fuck you because you made yourself available to them, then you ask them to contribute. Why? It was your idea, you wanted it.

Yes. And it was a voluntary contribution. I didn't hold my hand out, I put the suggestion out there and left a money box so any contributions were discreet and private. Not everyone put money in, some put in a couple of quid. If noone had contributed that would have been fine since it was VOLUNTARY.

"You organised it for your own pleasure." The guys that attended didn't ...? Hope you made it clear when you invited them.

I concede my initial response would have been better aimed at someone other than Tempting Devil.

However, the point I'm trying to put across is it is the gang bang organiser's fantasy/need/want that is being met. The men that are invited are merely props who are jumping at the chance of 'free' pussy. Does anyone ask about their expenses to get to the venue?

If it's your fantasy, no matter what it may be, you shouldn't expect others to pay for it.

Turn it around...you're making it out like the organisers put guns to men's heads to participate in their fantasy! Are the men who you refer to as 'props' not, maybe, just maybe, acting out their own fantasies and having their wants/needs met? Are the organisers and men attending not all getting some kind of gratification from the gang bang itself? As for being asked about the expenses of getting to the venue, the men have a choice of whether or not to attend therefore they also have the choice of deciding whether or not they want to travel. It's really very simple! It's their choice to decide if that expense actually exists or not! Nobody is being forced to go anywhere and nobody is being forced to attend, I don't see the logic behind your comment!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dnt wanna pay then dnt go .jeez some tight asses n here .sorri I read this killing me buzz where did all the fun go?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People getting together in a commercial property incur costs for the organiser, so a reasonable, non-profit, contribution is justifiable imo. It should not be about milking the single male tribe. If someone was asking for a high figure, and promoting via fab, then consider reporting it to Admin, to let them review it.

A hotel room can be booked for £30 or so, at lowest rates - sometimes less. Whilst someone may be staying in seemingly expensive hotel rooms, it doesn't mean that they've paid £hundreds for the room. If a figure sounds high, then ask the organiser to justify it.

If food or other refreshments are provided, then that's another reason to add cost - but it would seem reasonable for the refreshments and accommodation charges to be itemised separately. Then, if you attend and all refreshments have run out, it's reasonable to just pay the accom charge part. And unreasonable for them to knock a token element of the fee off what you're paying, on the day when you get there and the booze has disappeared or was never there etc.

Ask in advance how many people will be attending. Ask what fee adjustments will be made, if more people attend than the organiser initially stated. 20 people only need to pay £5 for a £100 room, so there's no need for exorbitant costs.

And ultimately the organiser is doing it for their fun, not as a commercial venture, so it's reasonable for them to be paying too. Likewise, refreshments could be brought by attendees, the organiser is not mandated to provide any at all. With many hotel rooms cancelable without charge until about 4pm on the day, there may not be any financial risk involved for the organiser at all.

It would seem reasonable to expect to see a printed receipt type outline of costs, such as a printed hotel invoice, given at check-in - allowing attendees to verify that they're not being milked financially, as well as sexually.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"disregard the club events!!!

But when someone says they require gents for a gangbang at there home or hotel & a contribution to costs is required!!!

What's would you think a reasonable contribution should be?

Should the organiser make money out of it?

When does Contribution become Prostitution?

"

The reasonable contribution all depends on where the gangbang is taking place, how many people are attending, whether the organisers are supplying things like condoms, lube, food, drinks, towels etc...if in a private home and nothing is being provided then just a cleaning charge if they state that they would like a contribution towards it, as things can get messy and that should be equally paid by everyone involved, including the organisers...if at a hotel, the organisers provide everything and it's totalled to £200 and 10 people including the organisers themselves are attending, then split it 10 ways and everyone pays equally...basically the total cost of everything, divided by the number of people is my idea of what a reasonable contribution should be! Which I definitely think has to be stated right from the start, giving people honest prices of what is needing to be paid for by all involved including themselves.

The organiser shouldn't make any money out of it, absolutely not...if desperate folk are willing and stupid enough to be ripped off for something that in essence they all should want to participate in rather than be used for, then more fool them...I'd say thanks but no thanks personally!

And finally, a contribution, I believe, becomes prostitution when the organisers are making money out of it as they're receiving money in exchange for sexual acts! I'm inexperienced and uneducated on gangbangs and the expense of them but that's my opinion on how I think it should be!

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"People getting together in a commercial property incur costs for the organiser, so a reasonable, non-profit, contribution is justifiable imo. It should not be about milking the single male tribe. If someone was asking for a high figure, and promoting via fab, then consider reporting it to Admin, to let them review it.

A hotel room can be booked for £30 or so, at lowest rates - sometimes less. Whilst someone may be staying in seemingly expensive hotel rooms, it doesn't mean that they've paid £hundreds for the room. If a figure sounds high, then ask the organiser to justify it.

If food or other refreshments are provided, then that's another reason to add cost - but it would seem reasonable for the refreshments and accommodation charges to be itemised separately. Then, if you attend and all refreshments have run out, it's reasonable to just pay the accom charge part. And unreasonable for them to knock a token element of the fee off what you're paying, on the day when you get there and the booze has disappeared or was never there etc.

Ask in advance how many people will be attending. Ask what fee adjustments will be made, if more people attend than the organiser initially stated. 20 people only need to pay £5 for a £100 room, so there's no need for exorbitant costs.

And ultimately the organiser is doing it for their fun, not as a commercial venture, so it's reasonable for them to be paying too. Likewise, refreshments could be brought by attendees, the organiser is not mandated to provide any at all. With many hotel rooms cancelable without charge until about 4pm on the day, there may not be any financial risk involved for the organiser at all.

It would seem reasonable to expect to see a printed receipt type outline of costs, such as a printed hotel invoice, given at check-in - allowing attendees to verify that they're not being milked financially, as well as sexually."

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"Nobody is being forced to go anywhere and nobody is being forced to attend, I don't see the logic behind your comment!

As long as you continue to collect 'expenses' from the men fucking you I wouldn't expect you to."

You made out that gangbangs are a one sided fantasy, I made a point about them not being so, why get personal and aim your comment at me? Can other people not think differently to you?

I actually can't be arsed replying to your silly comment when you know nothing about me and how I arrange or pay for the costings of my meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what if people want a contribution we go to house party's they ask for 20 or 30 pound we pay it no problem and have a good time . Some people make you laff . There the sort off person that look at a price and it says 50 pound and turn up ring the bell on the door and say what can I have for 20

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dnt wanna pay then dnt go .jeez some tight asses n here .sorri I read this killing me buzz where did all the fun go? "

Less of the coming in & throwing insults !!!

The question was WHAT IS A REASONABLE CONTRIBUTION?

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

seen a person hire a club for private partys no payment up front nothing to lose classed as vip partys do nothing but turn up club staff do every and take a wage end of night a right heft 1 at that to the vips think was good night but dont nar how much put in some ones pocket for doing zilch ,imo clubs there for the bizz but organizers of swing partys shoudnt be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"party I went to once it was £5 per person, and she laid on food. "

I hold parties....I put on hot n cold food. Provide plenty soft drinks and usually a fridge full of beer etc. I never charge directly but someone usually starts a "voluntary contributions" pot. Can honestly say I have only once possibly made any profit...had over £100 quid...but normally have maybe £30 which doesn't cover costs...but hey...I enjoy it!

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I concede my initial response would have been better aimed at someone other than Tempting Devil.

However, the point I'm trying to put across is it is the gang bang organiser's fantasy/need/want that is being met. The men that are invited are merely props who are jumping at the chance of 'free' pussy. Does anyone ask about their expenses to get to the venue?

If it's your fantasy, no matter what it may be, you shouldn't expect others to pay for it.

What do you mean it would have been better aimed at someone else? The men that attend do so because they want to. If they get asked for a contribution it's up to them whether they pay it.

I really don't see how it's one person's fantasy. Are you implying the guys go along out of the goodness of their hearts? "

I mean Tempting Devil's contributions are on a purely voluntary basis. My comment is aimed at those who organise their gangbangs with a fee as a prerequisite to entry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dnt wanna pay then dnt go .jeez some tight asses n here .sorri I read this killing me buzz where did all the fun go?

Less of the coming in & throwing insults !!!

The question was WHAT IS A REASONABLE CONTRIBUTION?"

Whatever you think is reasonable to pay.

I know some girls who have clients that spend a grand a week on them. To them that's reasonable. To some people 30 quid to get into a club is unreasonable it's down to the buyer not the seller to determine what's reasonable.

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