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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont consider myself good luck but the missus is. Is it a bit hypocritical to only want attractive couples to get in touch? Feel a bit vein putting that on my status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's who you want go for it ! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractive to you may not be to me. It's all subjective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the limited number of crotch and belly shots you have available to judge from my first though would be

"Slim and "athletic" really?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From the limited number of crotch and belly shots you have available to judge from my first though would be

"Slim and "athletic" really? "

Got tattoos that cant go on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From the limited number of crotch and belly shots you have available to judge from my first though would be

"Slim and "athletic" really?

Got tattoos that cant go on this site. "

O dear lol. Can imagine what they are. I'd be hiding on cam if I was you. Re your question. Who decides who is attractive? Let couples message and you vet them accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From the limited number of crotch and belly shots you have available to judge from my first though would be

"Slim and "athletic" really? "

Ooooh, meow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive changed it to both average as the "6 pack police" may give me a dirty look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its your profile, you can put what you want.

We, however, would never message people who say they want "attractive couples only" - even if they are gorgeous.

Do you think a couple is really likely to look at that status and think, "gosh, we are super ugly. Better skip these people."

Just my thoughts...

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats not the question. Read it again then reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats not the question. Read it again then reply. "

Wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From the limited number of crotch and belly shots you have available to judge from my first though would be

"Slim and "athletic" really?

Got tattoos that cant go on this site. "

Then blur the tats out lol But its up to you what you put on your profile,you dont really need anyone elses thoughts/believes on how a profile should be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its kinda like, what do you class as old?

So on. Guess just see who messages us, like i said i aint no greek god so dont wana come across judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats not the question. Read it again then reply. "

Huh. Apologies. I'll stay out of this one then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wasnt aimed at you, apologises.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Was this to get people to look at your photos? It's impossible to tell if either of you are attractive from them but you will be contacted by many types of people some you will find attractive some you won't. What you have on your profile will have no bearing on that you just need to make your own decision and they theirs.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Wondering now what the tattoos could be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondering now what the tattoos could be "

Butterflies? Ooo I hope they're butterflies. I luuurve butterflies. Especially on attractive couples

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Wondering now what the tattoos could be

Butterflies? Ooo I hope they're butterflies. I luuurve butterflies. Especially on attractive couples "

If course! Now why didn't I think of that.

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No need to specify on your profile and risk putting some people off. Just decide who you find 'attractive' from your messages.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

You can run your profile any way you choose, that's the beauty of this site

Personally we wouldn't contact a profile claiming to be attractive people wanting attractive people because it would look to us like you were one dimensional and lacking in personality - basically the only thing you had going for you were your (wife's) good looks. We want to meet people we can spend time with - having a giggle and getting naughty

There will be lots of people who will contact you and you will still have to sort out the lookers from the others because, as others have said, attractiveness is a matter of opinion

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Maybe some form of brief description of what you actually consider attractive as well as how you think you are also attractive may help since your photos don't really give anyone (attractive or not) much to go on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you only want attractive couples then say that ..if anyone doesn't like it they don't have to contact you..say it like it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is attractive? some people might find us attractive and you might find us ugly? or we might find ourselves attractive and message you and then you say no thanks,

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I dont consider myself good luck but the missus is. Is it a bit hypocritical to only want attractive couples to get in touch? Feel a bit vein putting that on my status."

You can 'want' whatever you like - it won't necessarily happen though.

It's not hypocritical if it's what your preference is, whether you have a face that would launch a thousand ships or one only a mother could love and a body of a god - Apollo or Bhudda.

What I find ironic is only requesting contact from attractive people when there's no way in hell they can make a similar judgement about you from your pics and as such will lelypass you by.

I have several large tattoos. I manage to hide them either is pic editing or by simply wearing clothes!

If you want to attract certain people you need to be attractive to them. Blurry body part pics just won't cut the mustard I'm afraid.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't see the need to write on the profile that I'll only meet attractive people. I would think that most people only meet those they find attractive so in my view it's a bit redundant. I wouldn't contact someone who had it on their profile as I would assume im not the "attractive" they are looking for.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

OP, on here it's fine to specify you won't see smokers, people under a certain height, folk that are married or attached, those that play bareback with others, people that aren't a certain ethnicity, along with a myriad of other choices.

But don't ever ever say you won't see fugly, or even worse, fat fugly people because they have personalities and should never be judged on aesthetics alone.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I personally don't see the need to write on the profile that I'll only meet attractive people. I would think that most people only meet those they find attractive so in my view it's a bit redundant. I wouldn't contact someone who had it on their profile as I would assume im not the "attractive" they are looking for."

Throwing the elephant in the room........

There are some that don't need attraction in order to meet.

There are some that don't need attraction to fuck.

A

*of both genders.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bit sorry i started the post. See loads writing it about attractive couples.

Like i say in no brad pitt. Still learning on the site and new to this. Thanks everyone for there input.

Last thing i wana be is judgemental.

Have a nice day x

P.S

hopefully some of you may be lucky enough to see the tattoos on my girl one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - How do you bring bad luck to a meet? I don't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem listing that as a preference but you may limit the amount of people who are willing to contact you.

If you have specific requirements you can may find it beneficial to be the searcher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont consider myself good luck but the missus is. Is it a bit hypocritical to only want attractive couples to get in touch? Feel a bit vein putting that on my status."

Putting "attractive" as a requirement is a total waste of time in my opinion - attraction is subjective, you need to judge for yourself whether you find the person messaging you attractive - they fact they think they are is not very relevant at all! I am attracted to a variety of features - lucky me, different body types, regional accents, faces full of character, sense of humour, sense of adventure, dominatory tendancies.....attraction is a complex blend of factors that make me want to fuck a unique individual person not a stereotype m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally don't see the need to write on the profile that I'll only meet attractive people. I would think that most people only meet those they find attractive so in my view it's a bit redundant. I wouldn't contact someone who had it on their profile as I would assume im not the "attractive" they are looking for.

Throwing the elephant in the room........

There are some that don't need attraction in order to meet.

There are some that don't need attraction to fuck.

A

*of both genders. "

Oh I agree entirely.....those profiles are fairly obvious that they will meet anyone

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I dont consider myself good luck but the missus is. Is it a bit hypocritical to only want attractive couples to get in touch? Feel a bit vein putting that on my status."

You can put/ask for what you like on your profile. Whether you get it, is another matter. But what's attractive is very subjective. Your just as likely to put off some of the people that you seek. They may wonder if they match up to your standard of attractive and then rule themselves out.

If you only find a certain type/look attractive then state it politely in your profile, least people will have some idea of what YOU find attractive. Will also save others that don't match from contacting you.

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