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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where do u meet if u nor the person wanting to meet u cant accommodate?

And not spending a fortune on hotels etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't afford a hotel and you both can't accommodate you need to start looking at back alleys

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Club or party?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels aren't a fortune if you both split the costs.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

If neither accommodate, then there needs to be a discussion about where suits both people.

Some of the chain hotels are not that expensive and split two ways are very affordable.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Some cheap hotels out there just need to look & if possible book in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally don't meet guys that can't accomodate....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accommodate as I don't agree with having meets in my family home...and it doesn't bother me if guys can't. ..cheap hotel with planning or after a social a club is always an idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you can't afford a hotel and you both can't accommodate you need to start looking at back alleys"

against the bins please...classy eh!

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By *rc83Man
over a year ago

warrington


"I generally don't meet guys that can't accomodate...."

Not everyone is able to accommodate for one reason or another. I can't due to living with a friend. But I would be more than willing to get a hotel if the need arises. But if not I'd meet at a club. Neither would bother me in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Car?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotels aren't a fortune if you both split the costs. "

true

There are a couple of hotels near me that are good, if you book them through booking.com you can get them for £40 a night, £20 isnt going to break anybodies budget really is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Club or party?"

As a couple clubs can be more expensive than some hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotels aren't a fortune if you both split the costs.

true

There are a couple of hotels near me that are good, if you book them through booking.com you can get them for £40 a night, £20 isnt going to break anybodies budget really is it "

Completely agree...

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Club or party?

As a couple clubs can be more expensive than some hotels "

OP wanted an alternative to a hotel....if he doesn't like the club or party suggestion he can look into the car or alley options.....personally we are more than happy to pay halves for a hotel

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By *orshamcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

Renting an apartment for the night can be cheaper than a hotel. Try AirBnB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just try to remember what the under age me used to do before he was allowed to check into hotels as I can't accom- parks, alleys,cars, somewhere quiet up on the moors near where I live or somewhere I just know nobody ever goes. To be honest if you can't accom / hotel it then a club really is going to be your only other option really for indoors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still to buy a pop up tent

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By *anie1000Woman
over a year ago

Staffs

Get a motorhome !

Janie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accommodate. I wouldn't message someone who didn't accommodate either unless I had the money to pay for a hotel room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just try to remember what the under age me used to do before he was allowed to check into hotels as I can't accom- parks, alleys,cars, somewhere quiet up on the moors near where I live or somewhere I just know nobody ever goes. To be honest if you can't accom / hotel it then a club really is going to be your only other option really for indoors. "

A club entry fee would be the same as a hotel I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do u meet if u nor the person wanting to meet u cant accommodate?

And not spending a fortune on hotels etc"

If you can't afford the hotel , don't have sex.

I'm not knocking you , but asking couples and females to meet in a car , alleyways, and parks is childish.

Disclaimer: I'M NOT JUDGING PEOPLE THAT GO DOGGING OR HAVE OUTDOOR SEX.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Camping?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotels aren't a fortune if you both split the costs.

true

There are a couple of hotels near me that are good, if you book them through booking.com you can get them for £40 a night, £20 isnt going to break anybodies budget really is it

Completely agree... "

Plus hotels can be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotels aren't a fortune if you both split the costs.

true

There are a couple of hotels near me that are good, if you book them through booking.com you can get them for £40 a night, £20 isnt going to break anybodies budget really is it

Completely agree...

Plus hotels can be fun "

And it's neutral ground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotels aren't a fortune if you both split the costs.

true

There are a couple of hotels near me that are good, if you book them through booking.com you can get them for £40 a night, £20 isnt going to break anybodies budget really is it

Completely agree...

Plus hotels can be fun "

Yep it's the only way I meet seeing as finding someone that meets my preference and is local and can accommodate is rarer than a single bi female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotels aren't a fortune if you both split the costs.

true

There are a couple of hotels near me that are good, if you book them through booking.com you can get them for £40 a night, £20 isnt going to break anybodies budget really is it

Completely agree...

Plus hotels can be fun

And it's neutral ground "

I feel much safer in a hotel than someone's home. I'm sure statistically I'd be just as likely to be murdered in a travelodge but I feel uncomfortable when I don't know the turf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotels aren't a fortune if you both split the costs.

true

There are a couple of hotels near me that are good, if you book them through booking.com you can get them for £40 a night, £20 isnt going to break anybodies budget really is it

Completely agree...

Plus hotels can be fun

Yep it's the only way I meet seeing as finding someone that meets my preference and is local and can accommodate is rarer than a single bi female "

You mean unicorns are real??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Club or party?

As a couple clubs can be more expensive than some hotels "

Partners is £20 for a couple, far better than a hotel, jaccuzi, pool sauna, plays rooms, you don't get that in budget hotels x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean unicorns are real?? "
I've seen evidence to support them...

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By *thicalslutx69Couple
over a year ago

lincoln

As most people have said the obvious options are clubs or hotels. We have said we don't accommodate on our profile as we would want to know and trust people before inviting them back to our home but would consider inviting them in time.

The key thing is to read people's profiles properly which we all maybe guilty of not doing from time to time as to establish these things and have the conversation early in chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate but choose not to .

Well first few meets anyway .

I find hotels very reasonable or clubs have private rooms but there a little smelly .

If its a classy lady then get a hotel there cheaper than u think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly book premier inn rooms for thirty or forty pounds. I've booked one near Hyde park for £35 for the radio 2 festival in a day.

Hotels don't have to be expensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would opt for a club unless you've already met socially. We don't accommodate because it's our house and where we spend time with each other not other people - I always think unless you've met the person in the flesh that a hotel is a big too forward. If you're wanting a hotel go to trivago or lodgeo and sort by price they can be much cheaper than club entry prices anyway.

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