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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We've been going to clubs for some years now. Yet we still struggle to initiate conversation with others or even show were interested. We've had lots of fun at clubs with others, but it's always been through them initiating some level of interaction with us first.

We are certainly not socially inept, but really can't figure out what holds us back.

Does anyone else struggle with the same, or have overcome such issues?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have this problem a lot! We have to agree with eachother before we go into a club that we will go and talk to people if we both fancy them. It's the only way we can make ourselves do it! But we are trying our best to be more outgoing and have been having way more fun in clubs as a result.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just us then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not just you. I'm happy to chat to people, but never initiate play. Think I'll stick to private meets. So much easier.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

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I feel a bit inhibited in clubs from initiating contact as a single guy but not when I've been as a couple

I think it's the single guy thing in clubs that you sort of think they've already had lots of single guys chatting to them!

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