FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Relationship with a sex worker

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not not starting an argument, nor do I look down on sex workers. But would you ever willingly begin a romantic relationship with one?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never unwillingly start a relationship with someone.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

Lol! Brilliant.... is there any other answer?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ammykingMan
over a year ago

Lisburn


"I'm not not starting an argument, nor do I look down on sex workers. But would you ever willingly begin a romantic relationship with one?"

I honestly couldn't answer that I've never met one and I dunno how they'd act if they did get into a relationship. Would they give it up during the relationship?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have. He was a straight male escort. He told me all about his work, who his clients were, where he went and for how long. No gory details though. He said they were work, I was because I turned him on. It was just work for him.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

If you love the person then you have to try to see it as just a job and deal with it. As long as you had a good relationship then surely the job doesn't matter.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not not starting an argument, nor do I look down on sex workers. But would you ever willingly begin a romantic relationship with one?

I honestly couldn't answer that I've never met one and I dunno how they'd act if they did get into a relationship. Would they give it up during the relationship?"

Do you go unemployed every time you start dating someone?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering that this is a swinging website, and for more promiscuous people, I think it would be very judgemental, if I had a an open relationship, I would be happy with someone escorting aslong as they wore condoms.... cause the would be no difference if it was a punter or a random person at pub.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No....

just because I don't have relationships.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know a few on here but i do know one that told me if they offer her 25 quid on top of the normal rate she will shag without a condom. That might be a bit worrying but their choice

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not not starting an argument, nor do I look down on sex workers. But would you ever willingly begin a romantic relationship with one?"

There's an interesting documentary on netflix called "after porn" that gives an insight into the lives of (post) sex workers.

Whilst I (husband) have absolutely no moral problem with sex workers, I think most jobs favour certain types of personality. I think the type of personality sex worker favours is not one that I would personally get on with, but then they wouldn't like me either and I'm not saying there's anything wrong with their personality - it's just not for me. Of course there can be exceptions to the rule bla bla bla

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not not starting an argument, nor do I look down on sex workers. But would you ever willingly begin a romantic relationship with one?

There's an interesting documentary on netflix called "after porn" that gives an insight into the lives of (post) sex workers.

Whilst I (husband) have absolutely no moral problem with sex workers, I think most jobs favour certain types of personality. I think the type of personality sex worker favours is not one that I would personally get on with, but then they wouldn't like me either and I'm not saying there's anything wrong with their personality - it's just not for me. Of course there can be exceptions to the rule bla bla bla "

Brilliant point, I like that.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not not starting an argument, nor do I look down on sex workers. But would you ever willingly begin a romantic relationship with one?

There's an interesting documentary on netflix called "after porn" that gives an insight into the lives of (post) sex workers.

Whilst I (husband) have absolutely no moral problem with sex workers, I think most jobs favour certain types of personality. I think the type of personality sex worker favours is not one that I would personally get on with, but then they wouldn't like me either and I'm not saying there's anything wrong with their personality - it's just not for me. Of course there can be exceptions to the rule bla bla bla "

May I ask, as I'm in a question asking mood, how many escorts/sex workers you know? Just wondering where you get your idea of what a prostitute is like.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am also very curious as to what personality as escort has, considering everyone is different?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and no

somebody who is a sex worker wouldn't bother me so long as it was a side line and they had an everyday job too, i wouldn't want to be with somebody where selling their body was their life you need other things too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago I slept with a friend of my brother's who was a high class call girl. She lived a bit too far away to have a relationship with but we chatted regularly.

She didn't know that I knew until one day after a few drinks I told her that I didn't have a problem with her profession. Sadly she got really cross that my brother had told me, however, he said I had a right to know. If we were going to start something.

It ended up putting a strain on the friendship and it fizzled out before it got started.

I saw her at my brothers a couple of years later but nothing happened as she was going through some personal stuff which I won't divulge.

Sadly he and her don't speak anymore and so I have lost contact completely.

As for her personality, she was just like you and me. Her being a sex worker didn't have anything bearing on that part of her life.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not not starting an argument, nor do I look down on sex workers. But would you ever willingly begin a romantic relationship with one?

There's an interesting documentary on netflix called "after porn" that gives an insight into the lives of (post) sex workers.

Whilst I (husband) have absolutely no moral problem with sex workers, I think most jobs favour certain types of personality. I think the type of personality sex worker favours is not one that I would personally get on with, but then they wouldn't like me either and I'm not saying there's anything wrong with their personality - it's just not for me. Of course there can be exceptions to the rule bla bla bla

May I ask, as I'm in a question asking mood, how many escorts/sex workers you know? Just wondering where you get your idea of what a prostitute is like. "

Not claiming to be an expert at all but have seen a few documentaries, did a house share with a sex worker for a year when I was a student and had my fair share of conversations with strippers.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

These threads, which seems to reflect a fascination with sex workers, seem to me to be based on an idealised notion of the sex industry in this country. Most people (women) who are prostitutes don't choose to be: they're either trafficked into the country or funding drug addiction. Worth remembering.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not not starting an argument, nor do I look down on sex workers. But would you ever willingly begin a romantic relationship with one?

There's an interesting documentary on netflix called "after porn" that gives an insight into the lives of (post) sex workers.

Whilst I (husband) have absolutely no moral problem with sex workers, I think most jobs favour certain types of personality. I think the type of personality sex worker favours is not one that I would personally get on with, but then they wouldn't like me either and I'm not saying there's anything wrong with their personality - it's just not for me. Of course there can be exceptions to the rule bla bla bla

May I ask, as I'm in a question asking mood, how many escorts/sex workers you know? Just wondering where you get your idea of what a prostitute is like.

Not claiming to be an expert at all but have seen a few documentaries, did a house share with a sex worker for a year when I was a student and had my fair share of conversations with strippers."

Ok.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ickthemiller2Man
over a year ago

brighton

I dated a girl a few years ago after a month or so she told me she was a working girl

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 21/06/15 12:48:23]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

I had a relationship with a pro dom and it was fine,no problem.It was her job at something she enjoyed.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I'm not not starting an argument, nor do I look down on sex workers. But would you ever willingly begin a romantic relationship with one?"

I guess it depends on what you call 'sex workers'. A good few years ago now I was briefly involved with a girl who worked as an 'actress' (lol) in the porn industry. She also occasionally attended sex parties where the girls were paid to provide a 'service'.

I found it very difficult to handle, but, then I have never been in an open relationship or a relationship with a swinging partner either....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am also very curious as to what personality as escort has, considering everyone is different?"

If you met 10 bankers, 10 nurses, 10 software developers, 10 teachers and 10 sex workers, would you expect any correlations between the personalities of those who did the same job or not?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I am also very curious as to what personality as escort has, considering everyone is different?

If you met 10 bankers, 10 nurses, 10 software developers, 10 teachers and 10 sex workers, would you expect any correlations between the personalities of those who did the same job or not? "

Yes, a bit of a correlation...especially in the case of bankers..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

The thing is are there any that do it willingly. Most I think are doing it to pay for their drug habit

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"The thing is are there any that do it willingly. Most I think are doing it to pay for their drug habit"

Sorry, but that is worryingly naïve....street girls turning tricks to fund a habit represent a tiny proportion of the total industry

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads, which seems to reflect a fascination with sex workers, seem to me to be based on an idealised notion of the sex industry in this country. Most people (women) who are prostitutes don't choose to be: they're either trafficked into the country or funding drug addiction. Worth remembering. "

right I've got to jump in here

no prostitute is trafficked into the country and forced to have sex

prostitution is selling your body for your own fanatical gain, being forced to sell your body though fear or drug addiction for somebody else's fanatical gain is not prostitution I believe now days it's called modern day slavery these women are victims of abuse and should not be classed as prostitutes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I'm not not starting an argument, nor do I look down on sex workers. But would you ever willingly begin a romantic relationship with one?"

its a bit like asking those in vanilla land if they would every start a romantic relationship with a swinger...

i'm always tempted to say you can't help who you fall for.... we all have a history so yours got you to where you are now, thats not for me to judge...

i have had a relationship with an escort.. it was her that originally got me into swinging... it didn't bother me

when i go into my relationships now, i am honest from the beginning about what i've done.. and leave it up to them to decide if they want to continue it or not... some have, a lot havent

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is are there any that do it willingly. Most I think are doing it to pay for their drug habit"

I'm a fully qualified nurse I do community nursing I have a well paid job and I don't take drugs

I also work in sex clubs, I honestly do not do it because I need the money though extra money is always nice I do it because I enjoy it, if I stopped working clubs tomorrow my nursing job would still pay my bills and I still wouldn't be on drugs

I'm single and have no pimp so nobody is forcing me I purely do it off my own back because I genuinely enjoy it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall


"The thing is are there any that do it willingly. Most I think are doing it to pay for their drug habit

Sorry, but that is worryingly naïve....street girls turning tricks to fund a habit represent a tiny proportion of the total industry"

sorry but up here that is the csse

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"The thing is are there any that do it willingly. Most I think are doing it to pay for their drug habit

Sorry, but that is worryingly naïve....street girls turning tricks to fund a habit represent a tiny proportion of the total industry

sorry but up here that is the csse"

Then, that is very sad...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am also very curious as to what personality as escort has, considering everyone is different?

If you met 10 bankers, 10 nurses, 10 software developers, 10 teachers and 10 sex workers, would you expect any correlations between the personalities of those who did the same job or not?

Yes, a bit of a correlation...especially in the case of bankers.. "

I worked with hundreds of teachers, they had vastly different personalities and outlooks on life. I have met two doctors, they are totally opposite ends of the personality spectrum but both like a bit of not of the norm sex. Are all doctors dirty buggers??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Tis the season of the whore it would seem

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Quite simply yes..........

How they make their living is irrelevant if theres a connection i,d have little hang up on that....

The countless number of ladies who you see outand about who do it on the side or have done it....... most fellas would be non the wiser...

Though not sure if was not honest at the start and discovered some way into relationship..

Also coyld ask... would you ladies still date that drop dead geogous fella who makes your knees go wobbly knowing that he had paid for sex???

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite simply yes..........

How they make their living is irrelevant if theres a connection i,d have little hang up on that....

The countless number of ladies who you see outand about who do it on the side or have done it....... most fellas would be non the wiser...

Though not sure if was not honest at the start and discovered some way into relationship..

Also coyld ask... would you ladies still date that drop dead geogous fella who makes your knees go wobbly knowing that he had paid for sex??? "

I would date an ugly man if he had paid for sex and I liked him.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I used to know two sex workers,and you could not meet two nicer ladies if you tried,I fell in love with one but she was married.i knew them out of there work I was not a customer.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I would I have met lots back in Manchester. There just same as us just. Got to make money like us some how

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"Quite simply yes..........

How they make their living is irrelevant if theres a connection i,d have little hang up on that....

The countless number of ladies who you see outand about who do it on the side or have done it....... most fellas would be non the wiser...

Though not sure if was not honest at the start and discovered some way into relationship..

Also coyld ask... would you ladies still date that drop dead geogous fella who makes your knees go wobbly knowing that he had paid for sex???

I would date an ugly man if he had paid for sex and I liked him."

How much will u charge me lol x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads, which seems to reflect a fascination with sex workers, seem to me to be based on an idealised notion of the sex industry in this country. Most people (women) who are prostitutes don't choose to be: they're either trafficked into the country or funding drug addiction. Worth remembering.

right I've got to jump in here

no prostitute is trafficked into the country and forced to have sex

prostitution is selling your body for your own fanatical gain, being forced to sell your body though fear or drug addiction for somebody else's fanatical gain is not prostitution I believe now days it's called modern day slavery these women are victims of abuse and should not be classed as prostitutes

"

Do the men who have sex with sex slaves know their predicament?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they did it because they enjoyed it, and told me all about it when they came home... preferably whilst giving me a hand job! I think it's hot, they are having sex with loads of people (I'm sure there are none on this site guilty of that) and getting paid for something they enjoy (lucky them).

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BUT HOW MANY OF YOU M F CPLS. WOULD GO THAT WAY TO WORK

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is are there any that do it willingly. Most I think are doing it to pay for their drug habit"

Lots do it willingly.. There is a huge difference between a prostitute on the streets and an escort who does not always have sex.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm currently dating a lap dancer who has also done soft porn. She's beautiful and extremely well educated and from a very good family.

She has a masters degree and is earning very good money!

It actually turns me on and I never thought I'd think that way.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have paid massage parlour an also tvts for fun one I have seen on here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I wouldn't ever have a relationship with a sex-worker

But then again, I wouldn't ever have a relationship with anyone else either

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads, which seems to reflect a fascination with sex workers, seem to me to be based on an idealised notion of the sex industry in this country. Most people (women) who are prostitutes don't choose to be: they're either trafficked into the country or funding drug addiction. Worth remembering.

right I've got to jump in here

no prostitute is trafficked into the country and forced to have sex

prostitution is selling your body for your own fanatical gain, being forced to sell your body though fear or drug addiction for somebody else's fanatical gain is not prostitution I believe now days it's called modern day slavery these women are victims of abuse and should not be classed as prostitutes

Do the men who have sex with sex slaves know their predicament?"

I seriously can not answer that though I would suspect some do and don't care

if I took an educated guess I'm guessing many men who hand money over to a guy to be shown into a woman would suspect something not right was going on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll happly have one hell I will even join in aswell hehe

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll happly have one hell I will even join in aswell hehe "

Snap! Could be fun and better than my current job

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Also coyld ask... would you ladies still date that drop dead geogous fella who makes your knees go wobbly knowing that he had paid for sex??? "

who somebody has sex with before they meet me is really none of my business

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads, which seems to reflect a fascination with sex workers, seem to me to be based on an idealised notion of the sex industry in this country. Most people (women) who are prostitutes don't choose to be: they're either trafficked into the country or funding drug addiction. Worth remembering.

right I've got to jump in here

no prostitute is trafficked into the country and forced to have sex

prostitution is selling your body for your own fanatical gain, being forced to sell your body though fear or drug addiction for somebody else's fanatical gain is not prostitution I believe now days it's called modern day slavery these women are victims of abuse and should not be classed as prostitutes

Do the men who have sex with sex slaves know their predicament?

I seriously can not answer that though I would suspect some do and don't care

if I took an educated guess I'm guessing many men who hand money over to a guy to be shown into a woman would suspect something not right was going on "

we read about these sex slaves but not where they are taken to work. I imagine it's locked in rooms in back streets in cities but I could be wrong. Are they drugged and locked in or just afraid to run away.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose its all down to the non sex worker partner being able to separate mechanical sex from love and or emotion.

Many MF couples on here can make that distinction in so far as having sex with another is _iewed as an enhancement to their physical and emotional relationship.

Mechanical sex is often purveyed on FAB and can be the source of great pleasure so if one partner in a relationship does this for money I don't see a problem. The issues arise when jealousy raises its head?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Also coyld ask... would you ladies still date that drop dead geogous fella who makes your knees go wobbly knowing that he had paid for sex???

who somebody has sex with before they meet me is really none of my business "
Well sais that woman! What has gone is of no concern to the future.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not not starting an argument, nor do I look down on sex workers. But would you ever willingly begin a romantic relationship with one?"

No I wouldn't. I couldn't bring her to my Christmas party because my co-workers would probably know her very well

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads, which seems to reflect a fascination with sex workers, seem to me to be based on an idealised notion of the sex industry in this country. Most people (women) who are prostitutes don't choose to be: they're either trafficked into the country or funding drug addiction. Worth remembering.

right I've got to jump in here

no prostitute is trafficked into the country and forced to have sex

prostitution is selling your body for your own fanatical gain, being forced to sell your body though fear or drug addiction for somebody else's fanatical gain is not prostitution I believe now days it's called modern day slavery these women are victims of abuse and should not be classed as prostitutes

Do the men who have sex with sex slaves know their predicament?

I seriously can not answer that though I would suspect some do and don't care

if I took an educated guess I'm guessing many men who hand money over to a guy to be shown into a woman would suspect something not right was going on

we read about these sex slaves but not where they are taken to work. I imagine it's locked in rooms in back streets in cities but I could be wrong. Are they drugged and locked in or just afraid to run away. "

I really have no idea, don't know any to answer first hand I only know what like you I read and see on the TV

I would imagine it's hard to run away in a country you don't know when you have no money or anywhere to stay

Maybe it's a case of better the devil you know, maybe they feel its best to just cooperate and have food and a roof than live on the street where they may well be exploited by somebody else

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not not starting an argument, nor do I look down on sex workers. But would you ever willingly begin a romantic relationship with one?"

Yes, quite happily.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how it affected their lifestyle. If it meant they were working funny hours and not free weekends or something then no I wouldn't get involved. I work a 9 to 5 (ish) and it suits me to have a relationship with someone with a similar lifestyle and stable income. So I'd also struggle to have a relationship with a musician or someone who ran nightclubs, because when the hell would I spend time with them?

There is something in the personality thing stated above too. I don't think it's as clear cut as teachers have such and such personality, doctors have another and sex workers have another. But I need to be with someone with the same sort of goals and aspirations as mine and I can't imagine that being someone who chose to make money from sex. Not because I think that it's wrong, I don't, but I just don't think I'd be compatible with them, in the same way I can't see myself being compatible with a circus clown or a lead guitarist in a rock band or a struggling artist.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 21/06/15 14:44:01]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am also very curious as to what personality as escort has, considering everyone is different?

If you met 10 bankers, 10 nurses, 10 software developers, 10 teachers and 10 sex workers, would you expect any correlations between the personalities of those who did the same job or not?

Yes, a bit of a correlation...especially in the case of bankers..

I worked with hundreds of teachers, they had vastly different personalities and outlooks on life. I have met two doctors, they are totally opposite ends of the personality spectrum but both like a bit of not of the norm sex. Are all doctors dirty buggers??"

I was very careful with my wording. I said certain jobs "favour" certain personalities. I'm talking about "correlations", not absolutes and there are always exceptions to the rule.

If you want to believe that spending 40-ish hours a week in a certain organisational culture, doing certain tasks for a specific pay that enables a specific lifestyle has no impact on how the person behaves when they leave work then you're free to have you own opinion. That opinion does however, fart in the face of modern science though. But so did copernicus so good luck to you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am also very curious as to what personality as escort has, considering everyone is different?

If you met 10 bankers, 10 nurses, 10 software developers, 10 teachers and 10 sex workers, would you expect any correlations between the personalities of those who did the same job or not?

Yes, a bit of a correlation...especially in the case of bankers..

I worked with hundreds of teachers, they had vastly different personalities and outlooks on life. I have met two doctors, they are totally opposite ends of the personality spectrum but both like a bit of not of the norm sex. Are all doctors dirty buggers??

I was very careful with my wording. I said certain jobs "favour" certain personalities. I'm talking about "correlations", not absolutes and there are always exceptions to the rule.

If you want to believe that spending 40-ish hours a week in a certain organisational culture, doing certain tasks for a specific pay that enables a specific lifestyle has no impact on how the person behaves when they leave work then you're free to have you own opinion. That opinion does however, fart in the face of modern science though. But so did copernicus so good luck to you "

When I was studying my professional accountancy qualification we did personality assessments in one module and with the exception of maybe 2 people out of 20, we were all incredibly similar.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am also very curious as to what personality as escort has, considering everyone is different?

If you met 10 bankers, 10 nurses, 10 software developers, 10 teachers and 10 sex workers, would you expect any correlations between the personalities of those who did the same job or not?

Yes, a bit of a correlation...especially in the case of bankers..

I worked with hundreds of teachers, they had vastly different personalities and outlooks on life. I have met two doctors, they are totally opposite ends of the personality spectrum but both like a bit of not of the norm sex. Are all doctors dirty buggers??

I was very careful with my wording. I said certain jobs "favour" certain personalities. I'm talking about "correlations", not absolutes and there are always exceptions to the rule.

If you want to believe that spending 40-ish hours a week in a certain organisational culture, doing certain tasks for a specific pay that enables a specific lifestyle has no impact on how the person behaves when they leave work then you're free to have you own opinion. That opinion does however, fart in the face of modern science though. But so did copernicus so good luck to you

When I was studying my professional accountancy qualification we did personality assessments in one module and with the exception of maybe 2 people out of 20, we were all incredibly similar."

Lots of companies have psychometric testing as part of their recruitment process for this reason. In the USA Asda / Wal-Mart have been known to reject people who answer 'agree' to the statement "I believe there's a place in every team for an out of the box thinker". It's not that there's a right and wrong answer as such, it's just that if you agree with that statement you are statistically significantly more likely to get frustrated with their culture and leave.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *entleman_PerveMan
over a year ago

peterborough

I worked in amateur porn for 6 years, my photos and DVDs are all over, although I've long since finished it will continue to follow me for the rest of my life. However much I want it I will never be able to have a 'normal' relationship. Would you date a sex worker yes I know you can separate sex and love and it would be nice to be in a relationship with someone who I can share my experiences with.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I would never unwillingly start a relationship with someone. "

this answer should be only one needed lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I worked in amateur porn for 6 years, my photos and DVDs are all over, although I've long since finished it will continue to follow me for the rest of my life. However much I want it I will never be able to have a 'normal' relationship. Would you date a sex worker yes I know you can separate sex and love and it would be nice to be in a relationship with someone who I can share my experiences with."

Amazed you don't have better pics on your profile with a history like that? Fair play

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *entleman_PerveMan
over a year ago

peterborough


"

Amazed you don't have better pics on your profile with a history like that? Fair play "

I did but there are site restrictions and it also feels a bit like misrepresentation showing pics supposedly swinging when they have been taken in a professional capacity. I have plenty I can show in private etc if someone were to ask.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to see them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a couple of female friends who have been sex workers.

One of them was in a relationship for 7 years, but he used to kind of get off on what she did. He also slept with prostitutes himself when they were together, using the same argument that it was just meaningless sex.

Another friend only worked for about 6 months when she was very young, but 15 years later it still affects her. She is always terrified when she gets together with someone, in case they find out what she used to do. She tends to go out with people who treat her like shit but she puts up with it because she doesn't seem to think she's worth any more than that, it's really sad.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top