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By *4STY OP   Woman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola

Have this guy contacting me and he has a user name that doesn't sound nice to me. Does the user name make you wonder if the person is really like their username?

Eg: pussy-destroyer, bully_guy, anal-stretcher, psychodude.

He's cute but last thing I need is a bully, psycho or whatever in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm totally put of by user names like that, anything with dom in or similar and I'm not interested. Shouldn't judge someone on this but I can't help it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm totally put of by user names like that, anything with dom in or similar and I'm not interested. Shouldn't judge someone on this but I can't help it!"
snap ....lets face it they pick thier name surely some are not dft enoughto know most people would be put off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have this guy contacting me and he has a user name that doesn't sound nice to me. Does the user name make you wonder if the person is really like their username?

Eg: pussy-destroyer, bully_guy, anal-stretcher, psychodude.

He's cute but last thing I need is a bully, psycho or whatever in the bedroom "

Names like that make me think someone has been spending to many hours watching aggresive mysoginistic porn. I dissmiss people with names like that immediatly as being fakes who have created an online character with stolen pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm totally put of by user names like that, anything with dom in or similar and I'm not interested. Shouldn't judge someone on this but I can't help it!"

I disagree you should definitly judge on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have this guy contacting me and he has a user name that doesn't sound nice to me. Does the user name make you wonder if the person is really like their username?

Eg: pussy-destroyer, bully_guy, anal-stretcher, psychodude.

He's cute but last thing I need is a bully, psycho or whatever in the bedroom "

Id run a mile to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm totally put of by user names like that, anything with dom in or similar and I'm not interested. Shouldn't judge someone on this but I can't help it!"

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can never understand why a guy would want to 'destroy' a pussy. Same as the 'I'm going to ruin you' e mails.

Really?

Do make me lol though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have this guy contacting me and he has a user name that doesn't sound nice to me. Does the user name make you wonder if the person is really like their username?

Eg: pussy-destroyer, bully_guy, anal-stretcher, psychodude.

He's cute but last thing I need is a bully, psycho or whatever in the bedroom "

Have you spoken to him on here? Does he come across as aggressive or a psycho? Why not try & get to know him first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally put off by aggressive or obscene usernames

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can never understand why a guy would want to 'destroy' a pussy. Same as the 'I'm going to ruin you' e mails.

Really?

Do make me lol though "

Last guy who said he wanted to destroy my pussy I said I'd report to the RSPCA!! Hate macho immature crap like that. I can't believe some guys would think any woman would be impressed with terminology like that from a complete stranger. Any similar stuff like that in status updates and I just block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can never understand why a guy would want to 'destroy' a pussy. Same as the 'I'm going to ruin you' e mails.

Really?

Do make me lol though

Last guy who said he wanted to destroy my pussy I said I'd report to the RSPCA!! Hate macho immature crap like that. I can't believe some guys would think any woman would be impressed with terminology like that from a complete stranger. Any similar stuff like that in status updates and I just block."

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By *4STY OP   Woman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola


"Can never understand why a guy would want to 'destroy' a pussy. Same as the 'I'm going to ruin you' e mails.

Really?

Do make me lol though "

Oh I get plenty of those emails. I blame it on the porn some of this guys watch too much doodoo porn and than after they think we all like the porn starts

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By *4STY OP   Woman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola


"Have this guy contacting me and he has a user name that doesn't sound nice to me. Does the user name make you wonder if the person is really like their username?

Eg: pussy-destroyer, bully_guy, anal-stretcher, psychodude.

He's cute but last thing I need is a bully, psycho or whatever in the bedroom

Have you spoken to him on here? Does he come across as aggressive or a psycho? Why not try & get to know him first?"

He did send a message back saying please do not judge me by my username as I'm a really nice guy. Send a message back asking than why the username. No reply so far

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Names like these can be off putting, but we also find names like "sexyhotstuff" and "prettylady" off putting too - these are, or should be, how other people describe you not how you describe yourself - we find a lack of modesty not very attractive!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I spent a while coming up with my username... and its pretty dull.

But I agree, some usernames are a major turn off or come across as boastful and big headed. Neither of which are appealing characteristics in someone I am looking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is crap but it's me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A name is only a name but I agree with many of you that some are very off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shhh.

Let's keep it our secret. It's one of the things we use to pre-screen people before we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Names like these can be off putting, but we also find names like "sexyhotstuff" and "prettylady" off putting too - these are, or should be, how other people describe you not how you describe yourself - we find a lack of modesty not very attractive! "

Agree, the problem is that even when they are as hot as the name suggests, it renders compliments ineffective, since the best the compliment could achieve is to confirm what the person has already declared. Far better to save your compliments for someone who will at least feign modesty!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Aggressive porny macho names turn me right off. But then so does anyone who uses 'lol'.

Different strokes etc

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"Aggressive porny macho names turn me right off. But then so does anyone who uses 'lol'.

Different strokes etc "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't be put of if a woman had cocksucker as name lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I judge based on names allllll the time. If it's offputting I don't usually get past the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I judge people on their user names!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if u fancy the guy or woman, wouldn't u go there just cos the username?.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"So if u fancy the guy or woman, wouldn't u go there just cos the username?."

Everything on someone's profile - name, text, photos, likes and dislikes - tell you something about that person and their attitudes. So, no - if their name or anything else puts me off I wouldn't go there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of discretion would be clever we think....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of discretion would be clever we think....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Usernames are a great filter.

Anything mentioning size, race, alleged performance ability or sexual activities tends to go down like the Titanic with us.

So if there's anyone out there called 'hungblackwhiteasianlastsallnightcanbreathethroughearsandguaranteedtomakeyousquirtlikeabustedgardenhose'.......

You're heading for an instant delete I'm afraid!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm totally put of by user names like that, anything with dom in or similar and I'm not interested. Shouldn't judge someone on this but I can't help it!"

It's not judging them people pick names to reflect their personality, if somebody picks the nqeaey psychodude surely they will expect people will be weary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think peoples usernames do say alot about them and their intelligence or in some cases lack of, and should be judged especially if its being looked at by a woman's perspective not being sexist but men think differently so don't say yes or no to a username, if someone was to message with a name like pussy puncher or referring to women as slags or whores in their name then judge away.

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