FabSwingers.com forum: firsttime emails

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

when emailing somebody first time what are the best things to say?

By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

well the idea of it is that the person or people you are contacting appeal to you, so look at what they are looking for, sexuality age etc and make sure you fit the bill.

also we always yes always insist on face and body shots before we get any further than a second email.

Tell them as much info as you can that will help them decide yes or no.

By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

I think the best thing is to be honest and to show genuine interest, if that's the case. Also good to refer to something that's stated in their profile text so they know you've actually read it.

However there is still no guarantee that you'll get a response, so don't be surprised. Just be prepared to keep sending out emails to people and if they respond then you can take it further.

By *erekduvallCouple
over a year ago

swansea

I think a bit more than "I am able to meet this afternoon" or similar that seem to be the norm.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The simplest thing to do with this one is to stop and think for a few minutes.

You are a couple looking to meet others, if someone mails you what information would you like the mail to contain ?

Dates available perhaps ?

Why they contacted you in particular ?

What they are looking for ie social meet, play on first date, 4 some fun, soft play, full play etc.

If thier profile doesn't have pictures would you like them to be attached to the first mail ?

We are all different in what we seek so the best person to answer your question is you since the type of people you are hoping will mail you are like minded with yourselves not with others.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hae the first message so normaly keep it simple.if they are interested in me and reply then we can take it further.

seems to work for me.