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"So I use this site to meet some gorgeous men and with my current life situation, no strings fun suits me perfectly... Obviously meeting regulars, you find out more about them and i found something out today about someone that I just had to get this off my chest. This guy has a long term gf. We've slept together twice. He's been sleeping with men regularly. He had a lads holiday and slept with 3 girls and is now on a romantic holiday with his mrs.... I feel really sorry for her and just makes me think that in this day and age love doesn't exist. What do you think?" Not sure why you would think that one mans actions means that love doesn't exist in this day and age. | |||
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"It doesn't mean he doesn't love her. Sex is not love. Why do so many people think that someone having sex with someone else mean they don't love their partner? Love is so much more than sex." It's doing it behind her back constantly that makes me feel this way. Also this is just one case of many men I've met over the years. | |||
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"It doesn't mean he doesn't love her. Sex is not love. Why do so many people think that someone having sex with someone else mean they don't love their partner? Love is so much more than sex. It's doing it behind her back constantly that makes me feel this way. Also this is just one case of many men I've met over the years. " Deceiving someone who loves you is wrong I agree but it still doesn't mean that love doesn't exist | |||
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"So I use this site to meet some gorgeous men and with my current life situation, no strings fun suits me perfectly... Obviously meeting regulars, you find out more about them and i found something out today about someone that I just had to get this off my chest. This guy has a long term gf. We've slept together twice. He's been sleeping with men regularly. He had a lads holiday and slept with 3 girls and is now on a romantic holiday with his mrs.... I feel really sorry for her and just makes me think that in this day and age love doesn't exist. What do you think? Not sure why you would think that one mans actions means that love doesn't exist in this day and age. " This is one man of many others I've met. When I say this day and age, I mean because there are so many options in front of us that why wouldn't we be tempted to just do whatever with whoever. Times were very different in the 50s. | |||
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"It doesn't mean he doesn't love her. Sex is not love. Why do so many people think that someone having sex with someone else mean they don't love their partner? Love is so much more than sex." I agree with this. Sex just fulfils my need for sex and cumming. Love is something way more than sex, in fact i don't even feel like i have loving sex with people i've loved, it's all just animalistic fucking and enjoying his cock up me. The love is everything else, the bond, the history we have and good times, the fact he cares about me and i care about him. | |||
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"It doesn't mean he doesn't love her. Sex is not love. Why do so many people think that someone having sex with someone else mean they don't love their partner? Love is so much more than sex." Totally agree | |||
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"Sure love exists...it's just 'sophisticated cum sluts' as you define yourself, prob won't get to see it too often." Lol, oooh harsh! | |||
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"It doesn't mean he doesn't love her. Sex is not love. Why do so many people think that someone having sex with someone else mean they don't love their partner? Love is so much more than sex." Very true, and who's to say she doesn't get off on hearing about his 'adventures'? | |||
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"It doesn't mean he doesn't love her. Sex is not love. Why do so many people think that someone having sex with someone else mean they don't love their partner? Love is so much more than sex. Very true, and who's to say she doesn't get off on hearing about his 'adventures'?" | |||
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"Or maybe he is an alpha male swinger who lives the way he has chosen ? Janie x" Alpha male? selfish twat? | |||
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"It doesn't mean he doesn't love her. Sex is not love. Why do so many people think that someone having sex with someone else mean they don't love their partner? Love is so much more than sex." Wise words and so true! Having sex with other people seems to complement and strengthen our married love - so far anyway it has all been positive. Allowing one's partner to act out their fantasies and to have the pleasure of multiple orgasms with multiple partners is a very generous, loving gesture. | |||
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"So I use this site to meet some gorgeous men and with my current life situation, no strings fun suits me perfectly... Obviously meeting regulars, you find out more about them and i found something out today about someone that I just had to get this off my chest. This guy has a long term gf. We've slept together twice. He's been sleeping with men regularly. He had a lads holiday and slept with 3 girls and is now on a romantic holiday with his mrs.... I feel really sorry for her and just makes me think that in this day and age love doesn't exist. What do you think? Not sure why you would think that one mans actions means that love doesn't exist in this day and age. This is one man of many others I've met. When I say this day and age, I mean because there are so many options in front of us that why wouldn't we be tempted to just do whatever with whoever. Times were very different in the 50s. " You reckon? It wasn't different - things are just out in the open now | |||
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"It doesn't mean he doesn't love her. Sex is not love. Why do so many people think that someone having sex with someone else mean they don't love their partner? Love is so much more than sex. Wise words and so true! Having sex with other people seems to complement and strengthen our married love - so far anyway it has all been positive. Allowing one's partner to act out their fantasies and to have the pleasure of multiple orgasms with multiple partners is a very generous, loving gesture. " I was assuming he was being deceptive and cheating. I (personally) feel that love is a choice as well as a feeling. You can lust someone, feel really attracted to them, but for me, love is all of that and more, and inherently part of love (for me) is a choice, every day, to try and respect my partner, to not hurt him. For me, I couldn't cheat on a guy, lie and sneak around behind his back and still say I love him. However, I do have a couples profile on here and husband and I play solo and together. That's totally different. There is no deception, guilt and hurt floating about. That isn't love to me. | |||
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"That doesn't mean love doesn't exist. It just means that he doesn't love her. Sad story though. " It doesn't mean he doesn't love her, he may well love her very deeply. What it does mean is that he's a selfish twat who has no respect for her. Two very different things | |||
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"Yes. Love exists. Maybe not for everybody, but certainly for many.....and it isn't the same for everybody either so you can't possibly look at another couple and even begin to understand the complexities of their relationship. " This makes complete sense - thank you. m x | |||
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"Sure love exists...it's just 'sophisticated cum sluts' as you define yourself, prob won't get to see it too often." I guess I didn't make myself clear. I'm not looking for it. I'm happy sleeping around. The question related to when my life slows down to accommodate a relationship. I'm just trying to figure out what the consensus is on how others lead their lives with a partner. The fact that most of you agree that sex and love are two different things tells me it's okay to sleep around in a relationship. | |||
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"It doesn't mean he doesn't love her. Sex is not love. Why do so many people think that someone having sex with someone else mean they don't love their partner? Love is so much more than sex." Love is an emotion, sex is a physical act, by doing the act it can strengthen the emotion But they are two separate things and anyone with a long term loving relationship will tell you, love, real love, is there even when the sex isn't And When the love has developed and grown outside of sex, it's that that keeps people together | |||
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"I (personally) feel that love is a choice as well as a feeling. You can lust someone, feel really attracted to them, but for me, love is all of that and more, and inherently part of love (for me) is a choice, every day, to try and respect my partner, to not hurt him. For me, I couldn't cheat on a guy, lie and sneak around behind his back and still say I love him. However, I do have a couples profile on here and husband and I play solo and together. That's totally different. There is no deception, guilt and hurt floating about. That isn't love to me." | |||
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"It doesn't mean he doesn't love her. Sex is not love. Why do so many people think that someone having sex with someone else mean they don't love their partner? Love is so much more than sex." I think it means he doesn't love her. Fact he is decieving and lying and not revealling his actions. If you love someone then you don't do that. Love and sex are not the same thing. Love involves trust and truth. | |||
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"There seems to be more than one sort of love people talk about. But romantic love is a crock " In your opinion. Which is your right, couldn't disagree more tho. | |||
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"There seems to be more than one sort of love people talk about. But romantic love is a crock In your opinion. Which is your right, couldn't disagree more tho. " if you loved me you wouldnt disagree | |||
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"There seems to be more than one sort of love people talk about. But romantic love is a crock In your opinion. Which is your right, couldn't disagree more tho. if you loved me you wouldnt disagree " I would, but then give you a cuddle. | |||
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"Love does exist between true soulmates xxx The reason why so many relationships end is because they were not true soulmates xxx. I believe that xxx" What do you mean by soul mate? | |||
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"The problem isn't with love it's with the word....it means 'nothing' these days, we love our gadgets, love certain foods, love holidays, the word is banded around willynilly so it has no meaning and feels totally detached from the act of actually loving 'someone' in an exclusive devoted way so when it's said, there's no real deep attachment to the word like there is with hate, I think a lot of us ironically 'love the idea of love' but unfortunately the word love doesn't cover what its intentions and achievements should be... just my tuppence worth Lots of love.x" Exactly. It's over used. The ancient Greeks had multiple words for love. Each love being different. I refused to tell bunny I loved when it was simply lust and romance. It was hard to do when she got to loving me before I loved her. But it was important to me. It brought with it a level of trust. Beyond I just like the look of you and want to fuck. | |||
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"Love does exist between true soulmates xxx The reason why so many relationships end is because they were not true soulmates xxx. I believe that xxx What do you mean by soul mate?" These reasons are what make a soulmate 1. Your soul mate is endlessly loyal to you. 2. Your soul mate is always supportive of you. 3. Your soul mate has a similar guiding compass. 4. Your soul mate sparks an intense passion in you. 5. You can communicate comfortably with your soul mate. 6. Your soul mate makes you feel special. 7. Your soulmate transcends spiritual boundaries with you. 8. Your soul mate appreciates your affection. 9. Your soul mate thinks you’re just irresistible. 10. Your soul mate helps you feel safe. 11. You feel like you can completely trust your soul mate. 12. You don’t just experience their endless love, you feel it. 13. You’re spiritually connected more so to your soul mate than anyone else. 14. You can spend time sitting in silence but know what your soul mate is thinking. 15. Even in times of tragedy, you find strength in your soul mate. 16. Your soul mate turns to you with all their secrets, hopes and dreams. 17. Your soul mate has the same ideas about raising children as you. 18. Your soul mate always includes you in major and minor life decisions. 19. Your soul mate pushes you to be better and you return that favor. 20. As people, in terms of being happy and successful, you and your soul mate thrive together. | |||
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