FabSwingers.com forum: Social meet or?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get quite a few men contact me and when I say I rarely meet and when I decide I want to, I would like a social meet first. They get annoyed and behave like the expect to meet and have sex immediately. Is that what others experience or is it me who attracts people like that?!

I really do want to meet someone who could become a regular FB but I just can't bear the thought of meeting right away with the intention of sex immediately, it's just not my thing.

Are there any men out there who can understand this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social first ...

Then make your mind up afterwards if u wanna take it further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recon mostly all men want sex straight away, it would narrow your search down to those who want a social lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get quite a few men contact me and when I say I rarely meet and when I decide I want to, I would like a social meet first. They get annoyed and behave like the expect to meet and have sex immediately. Is that what others experience or is it me who attracts people like that?!

I really do want to meet someone who could become a regular FB but I just can't bear the thought of meeting right away with the intention of sex immediately, it's just not my thing.

Are there any men out there who can understand this?

I will only meet for a social first, I have to feel that there is a connection between whoever I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm exactly the same as you. If guys get funny about it then I know they're not the type of people I want to meet. You do whatever you feel is right for you and if someone else doesn't like it then they can simply respect that and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are very few and far between.

I even have it on my profile. You have to be clear from the off.

Unfortunately I've found that having a social first still doesn't always work. They spend most of the time hinting that they want to play there and then.

And saying "I don't play on a first meet" makes them endure the excruciating awfulness of having to have a social and then they feel they paid their dues and you then owe them sex.

I (unfortunately) get turned on by guys who aren't demanding sex. The second they start pestering, it kills it dead for me.

I'd far rather meet and get to that point of desperately wanting his hands on my body, physical aching to be touched by him... and then suddenly neither can hold back any longer and you're ripping each other's clothes off.

I'm not here because I have a high sex drive. I'm here to wake up my sex drive.

I think there are women who meet and play straight off and guys think (and hope) we are all like that.

Unfortunately some of us are hard work.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

In my years of being here, I've learned it's fairly standard. They'd prefer not even to have to send a fancy a fuck message and just get you to open your door, as their cock gets inserted into your orifices.

It can be overwhelming finding the few matches you want, if you're selective. I go at my pace, and if others need it differently, then at least taking your time allows you the luxury of losing them from your interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP don't be afraid to ask for what you want and wait for it.

In fact, I do a lot better when I search for it. Guys I contact first tend to be the more refined, slow burner types. You can often tell from a profile.

Mostly the ones who contact me are just orifice hunters.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

There are men that are cool with having a social first. If they're not then I know they are not my kind of man!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some who want to fuck straight away & some who will meet for a social first.

And I know the ones who get a no thanks from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really do want to meet someone who could become a regular FB but I just can't bear the thought of meeting right away with the intention of sex immediately, it's just not my thing.

Are there any men out there who can understand this?

Simple..If they don't want a social first then they can bugger off. Lots have a mardy and say they 'don't have time for socials' fair enough...NEXT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP don't be afraid to ask for what you want and wait for it.

In fact, I do a lot better when I search for it. Guys I contact first tend to be the more refined, slow burner types. You can often tell from a profile.

Mostly the ones who contact me are just orifice hunters."

Orifice hunters lol love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since i opened up my filters to allow older guys than 40 to message me i've noticed most guys tend to presume that i'll just meet and fuck them, even if i've never spoken to them. I think that attitude stinks, and i'm really starting to hate presumptuous people and thinking of lowering my filters agian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed most guys tend to presume that i'll just meet and fuck them, even if i've never spoken to them. I think that attitude stinks, and i'm really starting to hate presumptuous people."

Are these the same guys with sod all profile and no pics I wonder??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one social meet and one play meet off here. Social was an absolute disaster, waste of my time. Not because I didn't get dirty. Just I waited around for ages and got a 20 minute meet. Play meet I got a night out thrown in and had a great time. I think the key is see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since i opened up my filters to allow older guys than 40 to message me i've noticed most guys tend to presume that i'll just meet and fuck them, even if i've never spoken to them. I think that attitude stinks, and i'm really starting to hate presumptuous people and thinking of lowering my filters agian."

I got called a sad fat deluded attention seeker today because I insisted on a social..he was an older chap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of men message ya assuming because your single & on this site course your gonna fuck em & if you don't then your a time Waster. I prefer socials 1st as I've found some pics don't quite look like them or there's just no conversation at all.

I've started going to a swingers club & that's far easier & safer for me & less pressure I feel. May be my way going forward plus I had so much fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm exactly the same as you. If guys get funny about it then I know they're not the type of people I want to meet. You do whatever you feel is right for you and if someone else doesn't like it then they can simply respect that and move on. "

Lots of people (not just men) won't do socials and just want to meet and fuck. It doesn't mean they are wrong. It just means you're not compatible.

Respect should work both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called a sad fat deluded attention seeker today because I insisted on a social..he was an older chap"

I hope you thanked him for showing his true colours so you never wasted your time??! I've been called a timewaster for it before but I don't want to agree to fun with someone based on a few photos and exchanged messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed most guys tend to presume that i'll just meet and fuck them, even if i've never spoken to them. I think that attitude stinks, and i'm really starting to hate presumptuous people.

Are these the same guys with sod all profile and no pics I wonder??!"

Had a quick check and most seem to have decent profiles, might be why they presume? Because they get meets no problem usually?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called a sad fat deluded attention seeker today because I insisted on a social..he was an older chap"

Shit isn't it? If i get much more of the crap i'm getting then my filters are going back on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed most guys tend to presume that i'll just meet and fuck them, even if i've never spoken to them. I think that attitude stinks, and i'm really starting to hate presumptuous people.

Are these the same guys with sod all profile and no pics I wonder??!

Had a quick check and most seem to have decent profiles, might be why they presume? Because they get meets no problem usually?"

Possibly. I hate presumptuous people on here and in life in general. No one is at liberty to do anything with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called a sad fat deluded attention seeker today because I insisted on a social..he was an older chap

I did have a few choice words for him,and like you say he showed his true colours which was probably a blessing!

I'm the same as you I can't just go off some photos and words on a screen..there has to be spark before I want to get jiggy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called a sad fat deluded attention seeker today because I insisted on a social..he was an older chap

Shit isn't it? If i get much more of the crap i'm getting then my filters are going back on."

Very shit! Filters are a god send its not worth the grief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had one social meet and one play meet off here. Social was an absolute disaster, waste of my time. Not because I didn't get dirty. Just I waited around for ages and got a 20 minute meet. Play meet I got a night out thrown in and had a great time. I think the key is see how it goes.

20 minutes? I drink my coffee & go. 5 mins at the most for a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called a sad fat deluded attention seeker today because I insisted on a social..he was an older chap

Shit isn't it? If i get much more of the crap i'm getting then my filters are going back on.

Very shit! Filters are a god send its not worth the grief."

I've mentioned on my profile that i report and block guys who can't take rejection. Seems to have calmed down a bit since then, but yeah filters are great for being able to use this site.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

A sex meet is never a guarantee with me, I take my time getting to know someone, if they get pushy? Then I move on and don't look back!

Stick to what makes you comfortable and if they get shirty with you, just say, sorry you've just blown it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed most guys tend to presume that i'll just meet and fuck them, even if i've never spoken to them. I think that attitude stinks, and i'm really starting to hate presumptuous people.

Are these the same guys with sod all profile and no pics I wonder??!

Had a quick check and most seem to have decent profiles, might be why they presume? Because they get meets no problem usually?

Possibly. I hate presumptuous people on here and in life in general. No one is at liberty to do anything with anyone."

Definitely.

Makes me wonder what the hell some guys think us women on here are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called a sad fat deluded attention seeker today because I insisted on a social..he was an older chap"

And that's why we ask for a social first - who'd want to have sex with a foul mouthed bloke like that. He probably knew he was punching well above his weight contacting you. I certainly couldn't just meet and have sex even if did stick a bag on his head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed most guys tend to presume that i'll just meet and fuck them, even if i've never spoken to them. I think that attitude stinks, and i'm really starting to hate presumptuous people.

Are these the same guys with sod all profile and no pics I wonder??!

Had a quick check and most seem to have decent profiles, might be why they presume? Because they get meets no problem usually?

Possibly. I hate presumptuous people on here and in life in general. No one is at liberty to do anything with anyone.

Definitely.

Makes me wonder what the hell some guys think us women on here are?"

I genuinely think some guys on here believe that as you are on an adult site, you'll shag anyone who messages you without question. Fortunately these are in a very small minority but a few have got funny with me when I said I only meet socially (it is clear on my profile, not my fault they couldn't take the time to read it) then later post status updates moaning no one meets, this site is shit etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have always done social first apart from the one time spontaneous swap. We don't think the social puts anyone off.....they seem to be as happy with it as us m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed most guys tend to presume that i'll just meet and fuck them, even if i've never spoken to them. I think that attitude stinks, and i'm really starting to hate presumptuous people.

Are these the same guys with sod all profile and no pics I wonder??!

Had a quick check and most seem to have decent profiles, might be why they presume? Because they get meets no problem usually?

Possibly. I hate presumptuous people on here and in life in general. No one is at liberty to do anything with anyone.

Definitely.

Makes me wonder what the hell some guys think us women on here are?

Some guys are bloody desperate on here ! Im a guy and i always ask for a social first as ive turned up for meets in the past and simply had to say no thanks and leave which is alot more embarrassing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet for a social first unless logistics aren't feasible but by that time a rapport would have been built up on whatssap.

Don't ever feel obliged to change the way you like to meet if it makes you feel uncomfortable.

If people don't like the way I operate then they're most likely not going to be the one for me.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

ditto..people like to test boundaries...i like laughing at the test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if any men are reading this thread? Seems to be girls only in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Sorry Danny, didn't see you there. Not calling you a girl, honest!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed most guys tend to presume that i'll just meet and fuck them, even if i've never spoken to them. I think that attitude stinks, and i'm really starting to hate presumptuous people.

Are these the same guys with sod all profile and no pics I wonder??!

Had a quick check and most seem to have decent profiles, might be why they presume? Because they get meets no problem usually?

Possibly. I hate presumptuous people on here and in life in general. No one is at liberty to do anything with anyone.

Definitely.

Makes me wonder what the hell some guys think us women on here are?

Actually had someone think i'd been sat around on fab waiting for someone to come fuck me, hahaha.

Aw, yeah glad they are in the minority or else i'd leave this site and never come back.

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Always happy to meet for a social first as it puts the woman at ease and personally can't understand why a guy wouldnt be happy otherwise ... maybe its just me ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few guys who have turned down a meet because I have wanted to meet them in public for a drink first, one even told me its not a dating site, now I know its been about 20 years since I have been on a date but when did meeting someone from a sex site for drink before you shag them and never see them again become a date

Mostly I have found guys don't have a issue with meeting for a drink first though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Sorry Danny, didn't see you there. Not calling you a girl, honest!)"

No probs Amy ive been called worse !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always happy to meet for a social first as it puts the woman at ease and personally can't understand why a guy wouldnt be happy otherwise ... maybe its just me ????"

It's not, for me, about putting me at ease at all its more about a physical attraction and if we get on.

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I've had a few guys who have turned down a meet because I have wanted to meet them in public for a drink first, one even told me its not a dating site, now I know its been about 20 years since I have been on a date but when did meeting someone from a sex site for drink before you shag them and never see them again become a date

Mostly I have found guys don't have a issue with meeting for a drink first though "

Glad to hear that most guys dont have an issue as its guys like the first one you mentioned giving everyone else a bad name and ruining it

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Always happy to meet for a social first as it puts the woman at ease and personally can't understand why a guy wouldnt be happy otherwise ... maybe its just me ????

It's not, for me, about putting me at ease at all its more about a physical attraction and if we get on. "

Yeah of course thats a very important part of any meet too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first, unless I've got to know someone on here really well first and I know well click. If it leads to something then and there, all well and good, but if it's set up in the guise of a social, at least both parties have a get out if it's not for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy offer to take me out to dinner recently, bit too much that, I would consider that a bit of a date thing, a quick drink is enough to see if you get on. I find the whole chatting online quite awkward and a little tedious, I tend to just use it for first contact then arrange a social if both parties interested. Can find out so much more about whether you'll get on in an hour over a drink than endless messages on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Sorry Danny, didn't see you there. Not calling you a girl, honest!)

No probs Amy ive been called worse !"

It doesn't help that I mistyped your name as Fanny when I originally wrote that...

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By *leasureMaxDanMan
over a year ago

World Wide Web

I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet at clubs, solves all the problems.

See them, like the look of them, have a chat, if there's chemistry off we go

Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please."

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block' "

At a party and apparently he's great company

Not bad for a social reject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Sorry Danny, didn't see you there. Not calling you a girl, honest!)

No probs Amy ive been called worse !

It doesn't help that I mistyped your name as Fanny when I originally wrote that...

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lol probably not

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

There's a lot of women with the same opinion and values on here

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By *leasureMaxDanMan
over a year ago

World Wide Web

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block' "

I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block'

I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

Is your summary wrong then?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block'

I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

Now your just fibbing

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block'

I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

100's after just 7 wks on here?

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By *leasureMaxDanMan
over a year ago

World Wide Web

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block'

I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

100's after just 7 wks on here?

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Already mentioned, I've got no time to waste. Fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please."

That's your choice just like its my choice to have a social first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

Is your summary wrong then?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

Is your summary wrong then?

And I'm curious as to why, if you don't want someone to display a veri, you'd send one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really do want to meet someone who could become a regular FB but I just can't bear the thought of meeting right away with the intention of sex immediately, it's just not my thing.

Are there any men out there who can understand this?

yes...but while I social..I'd still be meeting other people for sex..regardless.

If that was a bother, then I know an an ulterior motive was on the cards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called a sad fat deluded attention seeker today because I insisted on a social..he was an older chap

Thankyou,men bloody baffle me sometimes

Any holes a goal I suppose

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By *leasureMaxDanMan
over a year ago

World Wide Web

"I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

Is your summary wrong then?

And I'm curious as to why, if you don't want someone to display a veri, you'd send one?"

You are just overthinkig it love, that's all.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block'

I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

100's after just 7 wks on here?

Already mentioned, I've got no time to waste. Fancy a fuck?"

Ummmmmm let me just think about that for a nano second. No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

Is your summary wrong then?

And I'm curious as to why, if you don't want someone to display a veri, you'd send one?

You are just overthinkig it love, that's all."

You do know don't you that if someone sends you a veri it shows on your summary, even if you don't display the veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

Is your summary wrong then?

And I'm curious as to why, if you don't want someone to display a veri, you'd send one?

You are just overthinkig it love, that's all."

rule one..never boast about how many meets you have had..its like me saying i get hunners of meets off other dating sites as opposed to this shitey site.

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By *leasureMaxDanMan
over a year ago

World Wide Web

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block'

I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

100's after just 7 wks on here?

Already mentioned, I've got no time to waste. Fancy a fuck?

Ummmmmm let me just think about that for a nano second. No thanks

Your loss hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block'

I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

100's after just 7 wks on here?

Already mentioned, I've got no time to waste. Fancy a fuck?

Ummmmmm let me just think about that for a nano second. No thanks

Your loss hun."

rule two..never say "your loss"

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over a year ago

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block'

I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

100's after just 7 wks on here?

Already mentioned, I've got no time to waste. Fancy a fuck?

Ummmmmm let me just think about that for a nano second. No thanks

Your loss hun."

Pmsl that's hilarious. Looking at all these lovely women commenting - we're the ones with the brains and looks - it's most definitely your loss. I think you'll need all the luck you can get now!!!!

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over a year ago

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block'

I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

100's after just 7 wks on here?

Already mentioned, I've got no time to waste. Fancy a fuck?

Ummmmmm let me just think about that for a nano second. No thanks

Your loss hun.

rule two..never say "your loss""

What's rule three? Don't claim to have hundreds of hidden veris when you only have one?!

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over a year ago

"I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

Is your summary wrong then?

And I'm curious as to why, if you don't want someone to display a veri, you'd send one?

You are just overthinkig it love, that's all.

rule one..never boast about how many meets you have had..its like me saying i get hunners of meets off other dating sites as opposed to this shitey site."

Aww leave him alone, he sounds kinda fun. Like the new Egomaniac. It's been a while.

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over a year ago

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block'

I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

100's after just 7 wks on here?

Already mentioned, I've got no time to waste. Fancy a fuck?

Ummmmmm let me just think about that for a nano second. No thanks

Your loss hun.

rule two..never say "your loss"

What's rule three? Don't claim to have hundreds of hidden veris when you only have one?!

think I essentially covered that in rule one..

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over a year ago

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block'

I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

100's after just 7 wks on here?

Already mentioned, I've got no time to waste. Fancy a fuck?

Ummmmmm let me just think about that for a nano second. No thanks

Your loss hun.

rule two..never say "your loss"

What's rule three? Don't claim to have hundreds of hidden veris when you only have one?!

think I essentially covered that in rule one..

Ooops sorry, I must pay more attention

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over a year ago

"I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

Is your summary wrong then?

And I'm curious as to why, if you don't want someone to display a veri, you'd send one?

You are just overthinkig it love, that's all.

rule one..never boast about how many meets you have had..its like me saying i get hunners of meets off other dating sites as opposed to this shitey site.

Aww leave him alone, he sounds kinda fun. Like the new Egomaniac. It's been a while."

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By *leasureMaxDanMan
over a year ago

World Wide Web

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block'

I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

100's after just 7 wks on here?

Already mentioned, I've got no time to waste. Fancy a fuck?

Ummmmmm let me just think about that for a nano second. No thanks

Your loss hun.

rule two..never say "your loss"

What's rule three? Don't claim to have hundreds of hidden veris when you only have one?!

Curious to know who writes the rules guys?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I have no time to waste for all this social bulshit. I am here to fuck, and it works for me. Keep all this social noncence stuff for Facebook please.

Yeh course it does - that's why you've the 1 verification!!! And it's men like you that give all the 'good ones' a bad name. One word now 'block'

I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

100's after just 7 wks on here?

Already mentioned, I've got no time to waste. Fancy a fuck?

Ummmmmm let me just think about that for a nano second. No thanks

Your loss hun.

Pmsl that's hilarious. Looking at all these lovely women commenting - we're the ones with the brains and looks - it's most definitely your loss. I think you'll need all the luck you can get now!!!! "

What she said!!! Wahaha

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over a year ago

I always say...if we can't get on with our clothes on then what chance do we have getting to the physical stuff?

I have no expectations when it comes to meeting women from Fab other than a good laugh together.

Plus, the sex is always better when you connect with someone!

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over a year ago

We're all adults on here, just make it clear on your profile you like to meet first not be dragged off caveman style. If you want sex straight away make that clear too. Just don't reply to those who don't meet your criteria, no matter how good looking or how big their cock is, at the end of the day it's your choice. There is always the block button. Personally I like to tease them first to find out what they would do to me if I let them

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over a year ago

"I always say...if we can't get on with our clothes on then what chance do we have getting to the physical stuff?

I have no expectations when it comes to meeting women from Fab other than a good laugh together.

Plus, the sex is always better when you connect with someone!"

Agree

I don't need a full night out to know if I like somebody just a few drinks and a chat

I couldn't just meet and fuck without talking to enjoy sex

If they can't stimulate my mind they will never stimulate my body and there is a different between sex and pleasurable sex

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over a year ago

We meet in a club, great place to chat and if the mood is right go and play in one of the play rooms. Or just stay in the bar and keep chatting

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

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"We meet in a club, great place to chat and if the mood is right go and play in one of the play rooms. Or just stay in the bar and keep chatting

Perfect scenario

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over a year ago

"We meet in a club, great place to chat and if the mood is right go and play in one of the play rooms. Or just stay in the bar and keep chatting

Perfect scenario "

That's why we only meet in clubs, if you meet what you think is a lovely guy and he turns out to be a phycho your free to walk away, he can find someone else to play with

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"I've got hundreds love, but the girls I've fucked have kindly asked me not to display them. Not sure why though

Is your summary wrong then?

And I'm curious as to why, if you don't want someone to display a veri, you'd send one?

You are just overthinkig it love, that's all.

rule one..never boast about how many meets you have had..its like me saying i get hunners of meets off other dating sites as opposed to this shitey site.

Aww leave him alone, he sounds kinda fun. Like the new Egomaniac. It's been a while.

Creep

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over a year ago

Lot of bullshit on this thread...mainly the white Knights insisting they have socials first...if the meets turned up and said "I'm so horny I'm gonna implode if you don't ease your cock into me" I'm SURE they'd say..."now now girl, I always insist on a social first"

Let's not berate the guy who was honest and said he's here to fuck, he has as much right as those who joined a year ago and haven't met yet...enjoy

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By *leasureMaxDanMan
over a year ago

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"Lot of bullshit on this thread...mainly the white Knights insisting they have socials first...if the meets turned up and said "I'm so horny I'm gonna implode if you don't ease your cock into me" I'm SURE they'd say..."now now girl, I always insist on a social first"

Let's not berate the guy who was honest and said he's here to fuck, he has as much right as those who joined a year ago and haven't met yet...enjoy"

Wise words from a very wise man

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over a year ago

Let's not berate the guy who was honest and said he's here to fuck, he has as much right as those who joined a year ago and haven't met yet...enjoy"

So when are we doing coffee....

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over a year ago

Let's not berate the guy who was honest and said he's here to fuck, he has as much right as those who joined a year ago and haven't met yet...enjoy

So when are we doing coffee....

Coffee....you'll be lucky to get a sip of it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time I have a meet I'm going to try that line

I'll get back to you and let you know how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gutted I missed this one

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over a year ago

Maybs I'm a bit odd but I enjoy the socials in their own right. I just enjoy meeting people. Sometimes it led to sex and sometimes it was simply to get to know the other person because we'd enjoyed good conversations on here. I guess I just liked the company of people on the swinging scene and having a good chinwag and a laugh.

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over a year ago

Next time I have a meet I'm going to try that line

I'll get back to you and let you know how it goes

I'd piss myself if you did and actually got "calm down dear, remember the rules of a social..."

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over a year ago

Next time I have a meet I'm going to try that line

I'll get back to you and let you know how it goes

I'd piss myself if you did and actually got "calm down dear, remember the rules of a social..."

I wouldn't I'd be gutted

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over a year ago

OP, yep, perfectly

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