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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...You get a message with just a smiley so you think ok, i'll have a little look, after all, not many women choose to reach out on here, then...you read the profile and they're requesting you pay for a hotel if you want to meet, remove every single strand of hair from the neck down, oh & the killer 'don't message me without a face pic attached or delete/block/crucifixion' line added for safe measure yet they have no face pic on show?! Or haven't bothered to send one themselves.

So, I think, all this demanding talk and apparent confidence must be coming from some super model right? Surely!!! Then you check the images & all you see is what I can only describe as a mess...i mean, come on ladies!! Really???

I know there's a whole man/woman ratio thing on here but seriously...Some of the ladies really need to look at themselves before throwing down the list of demands. Only on the internet I guess!

Of course, this doesn't apply just to women...I'm sure 90% of the blokes on here have the BIGGEST cock EVER & can 'fuck for England' I'm just speaking from experience & hoping she catches this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fab!!! What do you expect

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

You know the bit where you said the message was just a smiley but you thought sod it and looked anyway? If someone can't even be bothered to say hello properly why would you be surprised that they then want you to do all of the running when you respond to just that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I demand face pics, have mine up so people can tell what i look like and if they fancy me and i expect to be able to decide if i fancy them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know the bit where you said the message was just a smiley but you thought sod it and looked anyway? If someone can't even be bothered to say hello properly why would you be surprised that they then want you to do all of the running when you respond to just that?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You know the bit where you said the message was just a smiley but you thought sod it and looked anyway? If someone can't even be bothered to say hello properly why would you be surprised that they then want you to do all of the running when you respond to just that?"

Oh...not surprised in the slightest but we live in hope & when you come across such confidence i can't help but be intrigued...i'm either going to end up smiling or laughing my arse off so not much to lose really

Thoroughly agree though...no effort just equals the same back in my opinion.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"...You get a message with just a smiley so you think ok, i'll have a little look, after all, not many women choose to reach out on here, then...you read the profile and they're requesting you pay for a hotel if you want to meet, remove every single strand of hair from the neck down, oh & the killer 'don't message me without a face pic attached or delete/block/crucifixion' line added for safe measure yet they have no face pic on show?! Or haven't bothered to send one themselves.

So, I think, all this demanding talk and apparent confidence must be coming from some super model right? Surely!!! Then you check the images & all you see is what I can only describe as a mess...i mean, come on ladies!! Really???

I know there's a whole man/woman ratio thing on here but seriously...Some of the ladies really need to look at themselves before throwing down the list of demands. Only on the internet I guess!

Of course, this doesn't apply just to women...I'm sure 90% of the blokes on here have the BIGGEST cock EVER & can 'fuck for England' I'm just speaking from experience & hoping she catches this thread "

But if it's working why do they need to look at themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this OK?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All those demanding female wannabe supermodels ruining it for us genuine munter women!! FAB seriously going down hill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always makes me laugh when they expect to have a share in the fun but not in the expenses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like things to be fair and to be very straight forward - I would always expect to halves (after all we are seeking mutual benefit aren't we?). I often meet for quick social straight out of work - no make-up, no dimmed lighting - just me - what you see is what you get. Can't understand why people should pretend they are something they are not - I am 100% genuine lady eager to please her man - thats how I get my pleasure sub sub sub all the way m x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Some men will meet them, some men will pay. Therefore everyone gets what they want.

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"You know the bit where you said the message was just a smiley but you thought sod it and looked anyway? If someone can't even be bothered to say hello properly why would you be surprised that they then want you to do all of the running when you respond to just that?"

Ha ha ha soooooooo true! Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but not all bad eh - at least the effort to wink was made

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...You get a message with just a smiley so you think ok, i'll have a little look, after all, not many women choose to reach out on here, then...you read the profile and they're requesting you pay for a hotel if you want to meet, remove every single strand of hair from the neck down, oh & the killer 'don't message me without a face pic attached or delete/block/crucifixion' line added for safe measure yet they have no face pic on show?! Or haven't bothered to send one themselves.

So, I think, all this demanding talk and apparent confidence must be coming from some super model right? Surely!!! Then you check the images & all you see is what I can only describe as a mess...i mean, come on ladies!! Really???

I know there's a whole man/woman ratio thing on here but seriously...Some of the ladies really need to look at themselves before throwing down the list of demands. Only on the internet I guess!

Of course, this doesn't apply just to women...I'm sure 90% of the blokes on here have the BIGGEST cock EVER & can 'fuck for England' I'm just speaking from experience & hoping she catches this thread

But if it's working why do they need to look at themselves?"

Working? It didn't with me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"...You get a message with just a smiley so you think ok, i'll have a little look, after all, not many women choose to reach out on here, then...you read the profile and they're requesting you pay for a hotel if you want to meet, remove every single strand of hair from the neck down, oh & the killer 'don't message me without a face pic attached or delete/block/crucifixion' line added for safe measure yet they have no face pic on show?! Or haven't bothered to send one themselves.

So, I think, all this demanding talk and apparent confidence must be coming from some super model right? Surely!!! Then you check the images & all you see is what I can only describe as a mess...i mean, come on ladies!! Really???

I know there's a whole man/woman ratio thing on here but seriously...Some of the ladies really need to look at themselves before throwing down the list of demands. Only on the internet I guess!

Of course, this doesn't apply just to women...I'm sure 90% of the blokes on here have the BIGGEST cock EVER & can 'fuck for England' I'm just speaking from experience & hoping she catches this thread

But if it's working why do they need to look at themselves?

Working? It didn't with me."

No clearly not but enough profiles have these lists of demands accompanied by lots of verifications for me to think it works with some.

We've all seen the sycophantic behaviour that goes on in the forums imagine what it's like in messages then read the glowing verifications handed out ending with "treat this lady with respect" and similar commands......that's partly why the demanding profiles exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blame the ones that pander to it and jump through hoops accordingly.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"...You get a message with just a smiley so you think ok, i'll have a little look, after all, not many women choose to reach out on here, then...you read the profile and they're requesting you pay for a hotel if you want to meet, remove every single strand of hair from the neck down, oh & the killer 'don't message me without a face pic attached or delete/block/crucifixion' line added for safe measure yet they have no face pic on show?! Or haven't bothered to send one themselves.

So, I think, all this demanding talk and apparent confidence must be coming from some super model right? Surely!!! Then you check the images & all you see is what I can only describe as a mess...i mean, come on ladies!! Really???

I know there's a whole man/woman ratio thing on here but seriously...Some of the ladies really need to look at themselves before throwing down the list of demands. Only on the internet I guess!

Of course, this doesn't apply just to women...I'm sure 90% of the blokes on here have the BIGGEST cock EVER & can 'fuck for England' I'm just speaking from experience & hoping she catches this thread "

If you're hoping she catches this thread - good luck. Only 1% (ish) of the site use the forums.

Maybe send her a link to the thread. I'm sure she'll see the error of her ways.

She might think the error was sending a message though of course.

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...

Working? It didn't with me.

No clearly not but enough profiles have these lists of demands accompanied by lots of verifications for me to think it works with some.

We've all seen the sycophantic behaviour that goes on in the forums imagine what it's like in messages then read the glowing verifications handed out ending with "treat this lady with respect" and similar commands......that's partly why the demanding profiles exist."

This is true...I guess there are some really desperate chaps on here.

The verifications do make me laugh but not as much as the cheek of these women who decide they're 'hot stuff' just because a few desperate chaps have told them they're the 'Best Fuck Ever' just to get a round 2 out of them

You could blame the guys who pander to it but only one person wrote the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why someone writing treat this person with respect gets such a bad press.

They write the veri they choose & it's up to the recipient if they choose to show it.

Not really anyone else's business.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"...

Working? It didn't with me.

No clearly not but enough profiles have these lists of demands accompanied by lots of verifications for me to think it works with some.

We've all seen the sycophantic behaviour that goes on in the forums imagine what it's like in messages then read the glowing verifications handed out ending with "treat this lady with respect" and similar commands......that's partly why the demanding profiles exist.

This is true...I guess there are some really desperate chaps on here.

The verifications do make me laugh but not as much as the cheek of these women who decide they're 'hot stuff' just because a few desperate chaps have told them they're the 'Best Fuck Ever' just to get a round 2 out of them

You could blame the guys who pander to it but only one person wrote the profile."

We have been contacted by single men and couples who make demands too. Many men demand that I'm shaven....we don't meet them, lots of couples demand the same we don't meet them either. Lots demand that kissing is on the agenda or want me to receive oral sex.....we don't meet them.

We all make demands, its all about nsa sex for most of us.

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By *amparaWoman
over a year ago

biggleswade


"...You get a message with just a smiley so you think ok, i'll have a little look, after all, not many women choose to reach out on here, then...you read the profile and they're requesting you pay for a hotel if you want to meet, remove every single strand of hair from the neck down, oh & the killer 'don't message me without a face pic attached or delete/block/crucifixion' line added for safe measure yet they have no face pic on show?! Or haven't bothered to send one themselves.

So, I think, all this demanding talk and apparent confidence must be coming from some super model right? Surely!!! Then you check the images & all you see is what I can only describe as a mess...i mean, come on ladies!! Really???

I know there's a whole man/woman ratio thing on here but seriously...Some of the ladies really need to look at themselves before throwing down the list of demands. Only on the internet I guess!

Of course, this doesn't apply just to women...I'm sure 90% of the blokes on here have the BIGGEST cock EVER & can 'fuck for England' I'm just speaking from experience & hoping she catches this thread "
you are sooooooo right

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By *amparaWoman
over a year ago

biggleswade


"...

Working? It didn't with me.

No clearly not but enough profiles have these lists of demands accompanied by lots of verifications for me to think it works with some.

We've all seen the sycophantic behaviour that goes on in the forums imagine what it's like in messages then read the glowing verifications handed out ending with "treat this lady with respect" and similar commands......that's partly why the demanding profiles exist.

This is true...I guess there are some really desperate chaps on here.

The verifications do make me laugh but not as much as the cheek of these women who decide they're 'hot stuff' just because a few desperate chaps have told them they're the 'Best Fuck Ever' just to get a round 2 out of them

You could blame the guys who pander to it but only one person wrote the profile."
blimey again you are speaking the truth beware here cos you may get yourself banned because "they" wont like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I correct in thinking, if she was a hot little fitty, you would have the hotel booked and the wine cooling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

Working? It didn't with me.

No clearly not but enough profiles have these lists of demands accompanied by lots of verifications for me to think it works with some.

We've all seen the sycophantic behaviour that goes on in the forums imagine what it's like in messages then read the glowing verifications handed out ending with "treat this lady with respect" and similar commands......that's partly why the demanding profiles exist.

This is true...I guess there are some really desperate chaps on here.

The verifications do make me laugh but not as much as the cheek of these women who decide they're 'hot stuff' just because a few desperate chaps have told them they're the 'Best Fuck Ever' just to get a round 2 out of them

You could blame the guys who pander to it but only one person wrote the profile. blimey again you are speaking the truth beware here cos you may get yourself banned because "they" wont like it "

The truth is acceptable,you just have to be polite about it and not direct unsavoury comments to people in person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...You get a message with just a smiley so you think ok, i'll have a little look, after all, not many women choose to reach out on here, then...you read the profile and they're requesting you pay for a hotel if you want to meet, remove every single strand of hair from the neck down, oh & the killer 'don't message me without a face pic attached or delete/block/crucifixion' line added for safe measure yet they have no face pic on show?! Or haven't bothered to send one themselves.

So, I think, all this demanding talk and apparent confidence must be coming from some super model right? Surely!!! Then you check the images & all you see is what I can only describe as a mess...i mean, come on ladies!! Really???

I know there's a whole man/woman ratio thing on here but seriously...Some of the ladies really need to look at themselves before throwing down the list of demands. Only on the internet I guess!

Of course, this doesn't apply just to women...I'm sure 90% of the blokes on here have the BIGGEST cock EVER & can 'fuck for England' I'm just speaking from experience & hoping she catches this thread you are sooooooo right "

Just an opinion...right to some, wrong to others. I'll sleep well tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive goota agree with some of the Op's post .

Ive read these profiles that list thete demands myself and thought the same thing .

Swinging is a two way street and i feel all expenses should be half n half !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I correct in thinking, if she was a hot little fitty, you would have the hotel booked and the wine cooling? "

Not at all...she could be stunning physically but with all those demands? I wouldn't stand a chance...and quite happily too!

I'm here for mutual fun, not to serve some young lady who just happened to get her head stuck in her...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive goota agree with some of the Op's post .

Ive read these profiles that list thete demands myself and thought the same thing .

Swinging is a two way street and i feel all expenses should be half n half !

"

It's not even about the expenses to me, i'll happily wine & dine a girl i like just for the company with likeminded. It's the downright delusion that makes me need to change my boxers after wetting myself laughing!

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

I like topics like this, I get a bit of stick because of my profile text some call me arrogant and stuck up, I also get praise for it because I'm clear about what I'm looking for.

However, as much as my profile can sometimes read as a demanding list of do's and don't's, if I click with a guy, I will throw the rule book out the window. I came into all this with no expectations then I will never be disappointed.

I would happily go halves with someone and have even refused to accept the offer from a guy to go halves and covered all costs myself. It's the sort of person I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like topics like this, I get a bit of stick because of my profile text some call me arrogant and stuck up, I also get praise for it because I'm clear about what I'm looking for.

However, as much as my profile can sometimes read as a demanding list of do's and don't's, if I click with a guy, I will throw the rule book out the window. I came into all this with no expectations then I will never be disappointed.

I would happily go halves with someone and have even refused to accept the offer from a guy to go halves and covered all costs myself. It's the sort of person I am.

"
but it makes u sound like the meet is on yoir terms only ! Good sex works on both peoples terms being met !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive goota agree with some of the Op's post .

Ive read these profiles that list thete demands myself and thought the same thing .

Swinging is a two way street and i feel all expenses should be half n half !

It's not even about the expenses to me, i'll happily wine & dine a girl i like just for the company with likeminded. It's the downright delusion that makes me need to change my boxers after wetting myself laughing! "

Lol they might do the same to you. There's arrogance in both sexes.

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By *anDare70Man
over a year ago

kirkby

I sent myself a message and was still bitterly disappointed. I mean really? So I blocked and moved on :S

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

I'm doing something wrong here, it's usually always me that pays for hotels if the couple I'm meeting is from out of town (usually always-Blackburn's shit) as I'm the one that's not able to accommodate, I feel like they're my guests and always end up paying for the hotel, sometimes even dinner, it's just the way I am, I don't accept being paid for but will definitely allow going halves! This swinging lark costs me a bomb!!! Especially when I have to replace duvets in apartments like I did this weekend!!!! How many times and in how many ways can one explain that it wasn't urine, it was female ejaculation everywhere!?!?!?! Wasn't expecting it to happen and never squirted as much in my life!!!! hahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like topics like this, I get a bit of stick because of my profile text some call me arrogant and stuck up, I also get praise for it because I'm clear about what I'm looking for.

However, as much as my profile can sometimes read as a demanding list of do's and don't's, if I click with a guy, I will throw the rule book out the window. I came into all this with no expectations then I will never be disappointed.

I would happily go halves with someone and have even refused to accept the offer from a guy to go halves and covered all costs myself. It's the sort of person I am.

but it makes u sound like the meet is on yoir terms only ! Good sex works on both peoples terms being met !"

Equal terms is lovely. Shame a lot of men think they're getting a free servicing from women on here

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"...You get a message with just a smiley so you think ok, i'll have a little look, after all, not many women choose to reach out on here, then...you read the profile and they're requesting you pay for a hotel if you want to meet, remove every single strand of hair from the neck down, oh & the killer 'don't message me without a face pic attached or delete/block/crucifixion' line added for safe measure yet they have no face pic on show?! Or haven't bothered to send one themselves.

So, I think, all this demanding talk and apparent confidence must be coming from some super model right? Surely!!! Then you check the images & all you see is what I can only describe as a mess...i mean, come on ladies!! Really???

I know there's a whole man/woman ratio thing on here but seriously...Some of the ladies really need to look at themselves before throwing down the list of demands. Only on the internet I guess!

Of course, this doesn't apply just to women...I'm sure 90% of the blokes on here have the BIGGEST cock EVER & can 'fuck for England' I'm just speaking from experience & hoping she catches this thread "

I get why a lot of women are like that (because they can be) but some profiles do make me cringe with the demands...I guess it's another life and in some cases...a dream world! Each to their own! Demanding cunty profiles bore me to death personally or make me cringe...it's so much easier being positive than focusing on all the negatives and having 'NO' splattered all over your profile, like I said, I get it but I really don't see how it's attractive!!! Again...the infamous...each to their own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost count of the amount of men who think because they are young,reasonably fit with a working cock that I'm going to make myself available for them. Almost makes me think they message out of desperation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yea,nearly forgot. If you don't make demands (not talking about hotels,gifts etc), you won't get anything. Just be expected to suck cock like there's no tomorrow,take it up the arse and swallow a huge load

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think men probably do chase woman who they think will put out for them !

Some see the really attractive ladies as out of there reach so they go down the pecking order .

Hence why these slightly less attractive ladies get the offers ... And then get confident enoigh to start making demands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like topics like this, I get a bit of stick because of my profile text some call me arrogant and stuck up, I also get praise for it because I'm clear about what I'm looking for.

However, as much as my profile can sometimes read as a demanding list of do's and don't's, if I click with a guy, I will throw the rule book out the window. I came into all this with no expectations then I will never be disappointed.

I would happily go halves with someone and have even refused to accept the offer from a guy to go halves and covered all costs myself. It's the sort of person I am.

"

I've just read your profile & it comes across really well to me. It's not a ranty list of dos & don'ts at all but just says what you want & what you like

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think some men have a very low opinion of women if they think that having high standards is wrong if they are less attractive in their opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As John Merrick(aka The Elephant Man) once said "Do ugly people not deserve some love?"

Actually,I made that up but it's something I can imagine him saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As John Merrick(aka The Elephant Man) once said "Do ugly people not deserve some love?"

Actually,I made that up but it's something I can imagine him saying. "

U have a wicked sense of humour !

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"Oh yea,nearly forgot. If you don't make demands (not talking about hotels,gifts etc), you won't get anything. Just be expected to suck cock like there's no tomorrow,take it up the arse and swallow a huge load "

Not necessarily, I don't make demands and I get exactly what I want from this site and the people on it! I think things can be put more positively and focusing on what you prefer rather than what you don't, works just fine...after initial contact, rules/boundaries etc can be discussed privately...it's the manner and wording that a lot of people use in their profile that puts me off...like I said though, each to their own! Again! If it works for them then it does, my opinion is mine and I don't look twice at demanding cunts that wouldn't get looked at once walking down the street, let alone twice!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And another thing. I'm nice looking,nay attractive, bloody beautiful actually and I will fuck ugly men. Why? Because to me they aren't ugly. As John Merrick once said "Beauty is as beauty does". Ok,I made that all up but I think the message is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yea,nearly forgot. If you don't make demands (not talking about hotels,gifts etc), you won't get anything. Just be expected to suck cock like there's no tomorrow,take it up the arse and swallow a huge load

Not necessarily, I don't make demands and I get exactly what I want from this site and the people on it! I think things can be put more positively and focusing on what you prefer rather than what you don't, works just fine...after initial contact, rules/boundaries etc can be discussed privately...it's the manner and wording that a lot of people use in their profile that puts me off...like I said though, each to their own! Again! If it works for them then it does, my opinion is mine and I don't look twice at demanding cunts that wouldn't get looked at once walking down the street, let alone twice!!! "

You don't have to make demands. Your tuts are your bargaining tool Seriously though,I do think the demanding profiles are too much but they have verifications and maybe past experiences have made them bitter.

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