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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...a (what may or may not be) a vanilla partner to the world of fab and swinging

Ive seen a "vanilla" girl a couple of times. Shes not aware of Fab and I havnt mentioned anything about it or my interests on here. I was chatting with her earlier, bit of flirty banter and she said she wanted to try everything. Now theres vanilla "everything" and then theres the world of Fab.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? I dont want to corrupt the girl but want to test the waters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...a (what may or may not be) a vanilla partner to the world of fab and swinging

Has anyone been in a similar situation? I dont want to corrupt the girl but want to test the waters"

I asked R what his fantasies were, said don't be shy you never know...

Once he replied with similar ones to me I sent him a link to swingers club I'd often thought about going to

And here we are....

I do feel like I've maybe corrupted him a little though

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over a year ago

I just came out with it to my boyfriend (after dirty chatting him about stuff i've got up to), asked him if he'd have 3sums with me and that but he says he loves what we get up to privately and wants to keep most other things as a fantasy in his head. He lets me have my fantasies and fuck other guys to do them so i'm not bothered really if he joins in or not.

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over a year ago

I'd ask if they had ever thought about three somes and clubs etc... Wait for the answer and if suitable suggest the site to her to have a look at by herself.

If you want it to go somewhere with her, I'd tell her sooner rather than later you are on here or come off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd ask if they had ever thought about three somes and clubs etc... Wait for the answer and if suitable suggest the site to her to have a look at by herself.

If you want it to go somewhere with her, I'd tell her sooner rather than later you are on here or come off. "

Woaaaaaah hold up, I never said anything about it going anywhere with her. Why should I tell her about being on here? Im single I can do as I please cant I?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

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"...a (what may or may not be) a vanilla partner to the world of fab and swinging

Has anyone been in a similar situation? I dont want to corrupt the girl but want to test the waters"

Corrupt! You feel that what we do is corrupt? Interesting, that might be why you hesitate.

When she next says she wants to try everything just say "does that include group sex" or whatever your preferences are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...a (what may or may not be) a vanilla partner to the world of fab and swinging

Has anyone been in a similar situation? I dont want to corrupt the girl but want to test the waters

Corrupt! You feel that what we do is corrupt? Interesting, that might be why you hesitate.

When she next says she wants to try everything just say "does that include group sex" or whatever your preferences are."

Corrupt.....its hard to explain. You know when you meet someone and they just seem "nice", innocent perhaps. If one was to introduce her to this then you could say, light heartedly, that ive corrupted her.

And thats just my problem. What exactly is everything? I think I need to question her a little more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd ask if they had ever thought about three somes and clubs etc... Wait for the answer and if suitable suggest the site to her to have a look at by herself.

If you want it to go somewhere with her, I'd tell her sooner rather than later you are on here or come off.

Woaaaaaah hold up, I never said anything about it going anywhere with her. Why should I tell her about being on here? Im single I can do as I please cant I?"

You can do whatever you like.

I'd be careful what is said. If it's not her thing she might blab her mouth off to all her mates. Not good if you want your sex life to be private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...a (what may or may not be) a vanilla partner to the world of fab and swinging

Has anyone been in a similar situation? I dont want to corrupt the girl but want to test the waters"

I haven't done "everything" never will, so I guess I'm a bit vanilla too but what is "vanilla everything "?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"...a (what may or may not be) a vanilla partner to the world of fab and swinging

Has anyone been in a similar situation? I dont want to corrupt the girl but want to test the waters

Corrupt! You feel that what we do is corrupt? Interesting, that might be why you hesitate.

When she next says she wants to try everything just say "does that include group sex" or whatever your preferences are.

And thats just my problem. What exactly is everything? I think I need to question her a little more"

Yes you do. It's the only way that you will find out what she means.

I sort of understand what you mean about corrupt but perceiving women as "nice" when they appear innocent also implies that the not so innocent ones aren't nice.......just saying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...a (what may or may not be) a vanilla partner to the world of fab and swinging

Has anyone been in a similar situation? I dont want to corrupt the girl but want to test the waters

Corrupt! You feel that what we do is corrupt? Interesting, that might be why you hesitate.

When she next says she wants to try everything just say "does that include group sex" or whatever your preferences are.

And thats just my problem. What exactly is everything? I think I need to question her a little more

Yes you do. It's the only way that you will find out what she means.

I sort of understand what you mean about corrupt but perceiving women as "nice" when they appear innocent also implies that the not so innocent ones aren't nice.......just saying."

Its the quiet ones you have to watch out for as the saying goes

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