FabSwingers.com forum: women who don't meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation. "
why mail them if they say they dont meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation. why mail them if they say they dont meet ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to chat about all sorts, having good convo with loads here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good conversation can lead to a meet, just going straight to it doesn't work for most. There has to be some kind of connection

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Shouldn't this topic be titled 'Women who don't meet me'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A good conversation can lead to a meet, just going straight to it doesn't work for most. There has to be some kind of connection"
So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are those who say "no longer meeting" but that's fine. If this was just a site for arranging meeting people that would be odd but if it's a site for people with similar interests to share their thoughts and feelings and experiences then of course it's ok.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation. why mail them if they say they dont meet ? "

Whoop!! Well said...we make it perfectly clear on our profile that we don't arrange meets so men shouldn't complain if they haven't been bothered to read it. We are always up front about it so as not to lead anyone on and have actually bumped into people we've chatted to at Chams (where we do play with others)...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation. "

Agree with you , so just do what we do . Don't waste your time talking to anyone who doesn't meet . There's plenty of social media sites for talk ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation. "

but you state in your profile text that one of your "likes" is conversation

and that you are becoming interested in the "social side" of swinging......interesting hehe xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation.

but you state in your profile text that one of your "likes" is conversation

and that you are becoming interested in the "social side" of swinging......interesting hehe xx"

I'm on here with the hope of finding a woman to have sex with. After six months of nothing, beginning to give up. Have amended my profile. Thank you.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation.

but you state in your profile text that one of your "likes" is conversation

and that you are becoming interested in the "social side" of swinging......interesting hehe xx

I'm on here with the hope of finding a woman to have sex with. After six months of nothing, beginning to give up. Have amended my profile. Thank you."

OP you're looking to meet for sex - as are many, many others - including women.

Others are taking a break - sometimes temporary, sometimes permanent. Most will state on their profiles what they're looking for. If they don't? And you get a reply saying 'not meeting'? Then move on.

There are enough profiles on here looking to meet, chat, only meet at clubs, cam, use the forums, perve pics, or whatever - to enable people to browse and potentially find someone looking for the same thing.

Often what people are looking for is fluid - circumstances change, as do needs and want.

Look for those looking to meet and ignore those that aren't. It honestly is that simple.

Good luck.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Probably best to be honest - you'd be better off finding a mute hooker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation.

but you state in your profile text that one of your "likes" is conversation

and that you are becoming interested in the "social side" of swinging......interesting hehe xx

I'm on here with the hope of finding a woman to have sex with. After six months of nothing, beginning to give up. Have amended my profile. Thank you."
All you need is patience really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation. "

Then don't talk to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're upfront about not meeting then don't chat to them, simple really but if you've been chatting and they find out you're not for them then that's life, happens all the time on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say I'm not meeting on my profile yet I still get messages from people hoping to change my mind or assuming I don't mean it or just not even realising I wrote it. Then they grumble if I don't reply

What's the point in that??

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation.

Then don't talk to them"

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't often meet but if i put that on my headline i get more messages than usual.why worry about the ones who don't meet,we can all use site how we want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the op your profile is off putting your dislikes are smoking and drinking so you have alienated 99% of people on fabs no wonder you can't find anyone.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Probably best to be honest - you'd be better off finding a mute hooker."

BOOM!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation. "

some people like conversation before they get to the sex.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of women on here so meet but most like a bit of conversation first to see if there is a connection.

I do social meets first & the sex is always better after getting to know someone a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation. why mail them if they say they dont meet ?

If you take men (etc) off your 'looking for' list you won't show up on searches and it will cut down your mail.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation. why mail them if they say they dont meet ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ones that want cyber sex talk that do my head in!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation. "

Good for you, so don't talk to them then.

Sorted!

We're here for sex too, but between times I think it's fab whiling away the time chatting with people. There are women I chat to on here who would never meet someone like me in real.life, but that doesn't mean we can't have a giggle now and then.

They certainly enrich my life, so let them enrich yours too.

(Or not, if you prefer)

Mr ddc

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Shouldn't this topic be titled 'Women who don't meet me'?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation.

some people like conversation before they get to the sex.......

Some people even use conversation as a tool to decide if they want to have sex...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To the op your profile is off putting your dislikes are smoking and drinking so you have alienated 99% of people on fabs no wonder you can't find anyone. "

I'm neither a drinker nor a smoker. who'd have thought that a healthy lifestyle leads to a lack of sex?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I prefer to get to know someone before committing to meet them, so if they don't want to chat first, then they aren't going to get anywhere with me.

But I am also very clear if I don't fancy them and it will never go further than chat too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

appologists.

No end of em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation.

but you state in your profile text that one of your "likes" is conversation

and that you are becoming interested in the "social side" of swinging......interesting hehe xx

I'm on here with the hope of finding a woman to have sex with. After six months of nothing, beginning to give up. Have amended my profile. Thank you.

OP you're looking to meet for sex - as are many, many others - including women.

Often what people are looking for is fluid - circumstances change, as do needs and want.

Look for those looking to meet and ignore those that aren't. It honestly is that simple.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the point in talking to women who don't meet? I'm looking for sex, not a conversation.

Then don't talk to them"

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"To the op your profile is off putting your dislikes are smoking and drinking so you have alienated 99% of people on fabs no wonder you can't find anyone.

I'm neither a drinker nor a smoker. who'd have thought that a healthy lifestyle leads to a lack of sex?"

and that almost sounds like a sense on entitlement......

if you don't like the way someone does there swinging, you can do the same to them... as they seem to being doing to you... move on

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area

I'd agree with much of what has been said here:

I've chatted to many people on here. Some are now friends, some we later met and had fun. I find it curious the people on here who don't seem to think that fab is real-life. You wouldn't stop a stranger in a bar and expect them to shag you on the spot.

I guess that's the other point - if I haven't chatted to them, why would they want to go straight to bed with me? Or, me with them? They may be shapely/pretty/whatever, but they may also be an axe-wielding nutter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fab doesn't work for me. I can't get sex with women. Online or offline. I'm a nice guy with small pecs. Conventional dating doesn't work either. Would love to have a girlfriend. I give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you want sex, not a conversation with women & now you say you want a girlfriend.

Maybe you should take a break from here until you decide what you really want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab doesn't work for me. I can't get sex with women. Online or offline. I'm a nice guy with small pecs. Conventional dating doesn't work either. Would love to have a girlfriend. I give up."

And the common factor in all of the above is.....wait for it....YOU!

Have a quick look at yourself before blaming anything/anyone else.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Fab doesn't work for me. I can't get sex with women. Online or offline. I'm a nice guy with small pecs. Conventional dating doesn't work either. Would love to have a girlfriend. I give up."

If you're not interested in chatting to anyone, then no you're obviously not going to meet anyone.

On fab, as with life, if you put no effort in then you get no reward out.

Take some time away from here and re-evaluate what you want and your approach.

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By *irtydaddyfor youMan
over a year ago

corby

I enjoy talking to those that don't meet, as well as those that do. Often as an oldie I can answer a lot of questions that younger ones don't have the experience of. Like said on here a few times a conversation over weeks can lead to a meet and a great time for everyone concerned, single or couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You say you want sex, not a conversation with women & now you say you want a girlfriend.

Maybe you should take a break from here until you decide what you really want."

I know exactly what I want. A girlfriend. A woman to talk to. To have sex with. To make love. Women on here talk but I haven't had one meet. Yes I talk to women but it never goes anywhere other than friendship. I don't want friendship. I want to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You say you want sex, not a conversation with women & now you say you want a girlfriend.

Maybe you should take a break from here until you decide what you really want.

seriously and this isn't a dig if your just after a fuck you will have better luck pulling on a Friday night down the pub than on here

the real world much easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you ask to meet for a coffee first or are you expecting them to meet & fuck you without any social interaction first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You say you want sex, not a conversation with women & now you say you want a girlfriend.

Maybe you should take a break from here until you decide what you really want.

If you just want to fuck with no friendship then why not pay a prostitute, or pull a d*unk woman in a club? (Not a dig, btw, an actual suggestion). This is a really confusing post - if what you want is a fuck to tide you over till you find a girlfriend, I can understand why women aren't really going for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You say you want sex, not a conversation with women & now you say you want a girlfriend.

Maybe you should take a break from here until you decide what you really want.

I'll give you a blow job for 10 bob and a conker my blow jobs aren't really worth any more than that but its still the best offer your getting

I'd think about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You say you want sex, not a conversation with women & now you say you want a girlfriend.

Maybe you should take a break from here until you decide what you really want.

seriously and this isn't a dig if your just after a fuck you will have better luck pulling on a Friday night down the pub than on here

the real world much easier "

I don't go to pubs.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Where do you go?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you ask to meet for a coffee first or are you expecting them to meet & fuck you without any social interaction first?"

Yes of course I'd ask for coffee & a chat first. I'm not a social pariah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you've asked to meet but been turned down on here?

Why not go to socials then so people get to know you.

It can be difficult knowing what someone is really like online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You say you want sex, not a conversation with women & now you say you want a girlfriend.

Maybe you should take a break from here until you decide what you really want.

That's a little confusing, you want a girlfriend but you don't want friendship, you just want to fuck?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Fab doesn't work for me. I can't get sex with women. Online or offline. I'm a nice guy with small pecs. Conventional dating doesn't work either. Would love to have a girlfriend. I give up."

where the statement before "almost" sounded like a sense of entitlement...... this one "does"

why should "small pecs" be a deciding factor..... or maybe people, well the ones you are complaining about anyway, see past that and look at the individual as a whole.....

looking at an individual as an individual... what a radical concept!!!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"where the statement before "almost" sounded like a sense of entitlement...... this one "does"

why should "small pecs" be a deciding factor..... or maybe people, well the ones you are complaining about anyway, see past that and look at the individual as a whole.....

looking at an individual as an individual... what a radical concept!!!

Madness. It'll never catch on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You say you want sex, not a conversation with women & now you say you want a girlfriend.

Maybe you should take a break from here until you decide what you really want.

seriously and this isn't a dig if your just after a fuck you will have better luck pulling on a Friday night down the pub than on here

the real world much easier

I don't go to pubs. "

Well you'd better start going sharpish otherwise your stuck with my offer of a blow job and 10 bobs are hard to come by now days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've decided to mainly meet at clubs now as it's safer for me, don't need to know were I live etc but a lot of men don't wanna meet at clubs.

I also get messages cos they like you therefore you should meet or you should give em a chance, erm no! I'm on here for my pleasure I ain't been paid for it. Some men I think do need to pay for a hooker or summat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met more women on here than couples,for me it's the couples that have let me down ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you know what you want OP!

is a casual fuck off here whilst looking elsewhere for a girlfriend or is it a casual girlfriend who likes fucking?!

#confused

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Fab doesn't work for me. I can't get sex with women. Online or offline. I'm a nice guy with small pecs. Conventional dating doesn't work either. Would love to have a girlfriend. I give up."

but you say if someone falls for you you run a mile on your profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think you know what you want OP!

is a casual fuck off here whilst looking elsewhere for a girlfriend or is it a casual girlfriend who likes fucking?!

#confused

I think he's the one that's confused!

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Odd. Just odd!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably best to be honest - you'd be better off finding a mute hooker."

You too the words right outta my mouth ...

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