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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand people's curiosity in looking at peoples profile but it seems that the majority of people looking (overtly as opposed to being stealth ninjas) at mine are couples and TV/TS. Now, I've nothing against this at all - and there's nothing I can do about it of course. However, I can't get my head around out of the 28 couples who've looked at me, 23 of them make it clear in their profiles that they ARE NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MALES (that was done in the shouty style of a good percentage of them!). So. If yer not looking for single males, stop nebbing at my profile and shouting you're not looking for me! I'm trying to sleep here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some users state that they're not looking for single males in order to reduce the massive volumes of messages that they get, and prefer to do the looking themselves.

Some aren't looking for single males most of the time, but on occasion, might fancy a change.

If you're not happy with people looking at your profile, then maybe you should remove it entirely. You can't stop people from looking and besides, just because they've looked doesn't mean they want to shag you

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Maybe they saw a forum post and were intrigued by the poster?

Look again OP - and see if you spot any familiar forum names. Or if they're miles away from you.

On the plus side they won't be looking to perve your pics so that's one less thing to worry about.

A

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By *rivate lashesCouple
over a year ago

isleworth

We found we had days when we have nothing but couples, days nothing but TV/TS, etc

It seems to be random and adds to fun/intrigue lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you verified someone they're interested in and were checking out the opposition so to speak?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they saw a forum post and were intrigued by the poster?

Look again OP - and see if you spot any familiar forum names. Or if they're miles away from you.

On the plus side they won't be looking to perve your pics so that's one less thing to worry about.

A"

When I see a few forum users under each other on my LAM I try to work out what it was I said on the forum to pique their interest.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"I understand people's curiosity in looking at peoples profile but it seems that the majority of people looking (overtly as opposed to being stealth ninjas) at mine are couples and TV/TS. Now, I've nothing against this at all - and there's nothing I can do about it of course. However, I can't get my head around out of the 28 couples who've looked at me, 23 of them make it clear in their profiles that they ARE NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MALES (that was done in the shouty style of a good percentage of them!). So. If yer not looking for single males, stop nebbing at my profile and shouting you're not looking for me! I'm trying to sleep here! "

Oops...was going to take a peep as I like to admire others...didn't realise that it would be such a problem...won't now though...we've been told...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always flattered when someone looks at me, even if they're not for me, guess it strokes my ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We found we had days when we have nothing but couples, days nothing but TV/TS, etc

It seems to be random and adds to fun/intrigue lol

"

You two look SO alike....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some users state that they're not looking for single males in order to reduce the massive volumes of messages that they get, and prefer to do the looking themselves.

Some aren't looking for single males most of the time, but on occasion, might fancy a change.

If you're not happy with people looking at your profile, then maybe you should remove it entirely. You can't stop people from looking and besides, just because they've looked doesn't mean they want to shag you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curiosity maybe?

Sometimes I'll check out veri's profiles to see what kind of person someone's into.

If you're a guy and I've checked you out, it's not because I'm into you. LOL! I'm just getting an idea of the kind of guy the poster's been with.

Most don't match up to the poster's profile preferences. So If I think that I'm in with a chance I'll contact them with a pic and let them decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg u can't knock couples on here do u not know the unwritten rules ?

How dare u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people's curiosity in looking at peoples profile but it seems that the majority of people looking (overtly as opposed to being stealth ninjas) at mine are couples and TV/TS. Now, I've nothing against this at all - and there's nothing I can do about it of course. However, I can't get my head around out of the 28 couples who've looked at me, 23 of them make it clear in their profiles that they ARE NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MALES (that was done in the shouty style of a good percentage of them!). So. If yer not looking for single males, stop nebbing at my profile and shouting you're not looking for me! I'm trying to sleep here! "

It's most likely they are clicking through your veries you've left on others profiles to check out who they've met before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people's curiosity in looking at peoples profile but it seems that the majority of people looking (overtly as opposed to being stealth ninjas) at mine are couples and TV/TS. Now, I've nothing against this at all - and there's nothing I can do about it of course. However, I can't get my head around out of the 28 couples who've looked at me, 23 of them make it clear in their profiles that they ARE NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MALES (that was done in the shouty style of a good percentage of them!). So. If yer not looking for single males, stop nebbing at my profile and shouting you're not looking for me! I'm trying to sleep here!

It's most likely they are clicking through your veries you've left on others profiles to check out who they've met before.

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thats probably correct

Never thought of that if I'm honest

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I understand people's curiosity in looking at peoples profile but it seems that the majority of people looking (overtly as opposed to being stealth ninjas) at mine are couples and TV/TS. Now, I've nothing against this at all - and there's nothing I can do about it of course. However, I can't get my head around out of the 28 couples who've looked at me, 23 of them make it clear in their profiles that they ARE NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MALES (that was done in the shouty style of a good percentage of them!). So. If yer not looking for single males, stop nebbing at my profile and shouting you're not looking for me! I'm trying to sleep here! "

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By *ristolcream69Man
over a year ago

Bristol

It's mostly men that look at mine I don't know why that is

Am looking for couples & fems

A fem swinging partner is what I really want someone to go to clubs with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's mostly men that look at mine I don't know why that is

Am looking for couples & fems

A fem swinging partner is what I really want someone to go to clubs with "

Maybe they are checking to see if your bi

How will they know unless they look

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By *ristolcream69Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"It's mostly men that look at mine I don't know why that is

Am looking for couples & fems

A fem swinging partner is what I really want someone to go to clubs with

Maybe they are checking to see if your bi

How will they know unless they look

"

Your probably right sweets I guess they wouldn't

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I understand people's curiosity in looking at peoples profile but it seems that the majority of people looking (overtly as opposed to being stealth ninjas) at mine are couples and TV/TS. Now, I've nothing against this at all - and there's nothing I can do about it of course. However, I can't get my head around out of the 28 couples who've looked at me, 23 of them make it clear in their profiles that they ARE NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MALES (that was done in the shouty style of a good percentage of them!). So. If yer not looking for single males, stop nebbing at my profile and shouting you're not looking for me! I'm trying to sleep here! "

Well you seem popular, dont knock it

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