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By *lwaysup4it69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Ok people lets have a reasoned discussion about for and against bareback. The against reason with probably be similar. What about reasons for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im either or tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am for barebacking, share the goodness around

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By *lwaysup4it69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Same here shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

against its just way way to risky if you ont know the other persons sexual history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same here shag"
Nice one

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

For - feels awesome

Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up.

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By *lwaysup4it69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"For - feels awesome

Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up."

Crossing the road can be risky lol

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Oo a safe vs bb thread.

*grabs popcorn and pulls up a chair

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Ps safe all the way unless it's with someone I trust to do the same and get tested regularly.

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

For = only with each other as its a great feeling

Against = we value our health so prefer to protect as much as we can. So no BB with meets.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"For - feels awesome

Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up.

Crossing the road can be risky lol "

would you cross a road with your eyes closed..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friggin hell. How many more times????

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"For - feels awesome

Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up.

Crossing the road can be risky lol "

I know. I've got a scar to show it. However I didn't have to tell people that they may have caught a broken arm afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's hope people treat this thread seriously & don't start throwing mud at each other for their points of view.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I've seen lots of guys barebacking with their right hand in clubs, yet no-one says a word?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For - trust the person I'm with.

Against - pesky STDs and pregnancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For - trust the person I'm with.

Against - pesky STDs and pregnancy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For - trust the person I'm with.

Against - pesky STDs and pregnancy"

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By *lwaysup4it69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"For - feels awesome

Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up.

Crossing the road can be risky lol

I know. I've got a scar to show it. However I didn't have to tell people that they may have caught a broken arm afterwards."

Good answer lol

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By *lwaysup4it69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"Let's hope people treat this thread seriously & don't start throwing mud at each other for their points of view."

Can I ask ur opinion on it please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok people lets have a reasoned discussion about for and against bareback. The against reason with probably be similar. What about reasons for"

In an ideal world if the people we were meeting were guaranteed to be Sti free then yes we would love to play bare, we resort the choice of others who play bare to play bare it's their right to make that choice. You will always have those that disagree and that's their right as well , what we dislike is when people start bad mouthing others who play bare because they do not agree with it .

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"For - feels awesome

Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up.

Crossing the road can be risky lol

would you cross a road with your eyes closed..?"

now that would be daft. this thread is about sex without condoms; not about the autobahn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's hope people treat this thread seriously & don't start throwing mud at each other for their points of view."

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"For - feels awesome

Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up.

Crossing the road can be risky lol

would you cross a road with your eyes closed..?

now that would be daft. this thread is about sex without condoms; not about the autobahn"

both have a risk..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For~ great feeling of closeness when your in a LTR

Against~ the horrble nasty's you could catch and the risk of a knock at the door in a few years and being called dad when you open the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For......the feeling and the intimacy is so much better. So yes (but only with a regular/trusted partner....someone who I know sexual history for certain are sti clean).

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Against.....risk of sti etc...... So a random/first time meet...that's a no from me.

Others will take that risk....that's their choice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm totally forgainst it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't really much to discuss. I think most would prefer bareback. Everyone knows the risks of doing so.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

My last LTR was a woman, now I'm playing with everyone, I insist on rubbering up.

Each to their own but I don't want babies or STIs and have too many friends who are now HIV+ from the thrill of bareback

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By *urexIronBarMan
over a year ago

South Manchester

Definitely against bareback unless with my fiance. My sexual health means more than getting my end away.

Oh and rubber always in the wallet for those d*unken unexpected times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if someone can show they get tested regularly id be happy to bareback them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only to add that there's no such thing as 100% 'safe' sex - a condom won't stop genital warts for example. Not to mention condoms come off & break on occasion.

Obviously still a good think to do if you don't know the partner but safest thing is to know their history and swap tests.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I'm totally forgainst it."

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok people lets have a reasoned discussion about for and against bareback. The against reason with probably be similar. What about reasons for

In an ideal world if the people we were meeting were guaranteed to be Sti free then yes we would love to play bare, we resort the choice of others who play bare to play bare it's their right to make that choice. You will always have those that disagree and that's their right as well , what we dislike is when people start bad mouthing others who play bare because they do not agree with it ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Against it, in an ideal relationship, I'm all for it, but I don't want to catch an std, find out I'm pregnant and have the father ditch me, which is why I always play safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For bareback here. As others have pointed out there are risks with condoms due to breaking etc as well as bare oral, and they don't stop all stds anyway. So the first filter has to be choice of partner. We would play bareback but not with someone who practices 'safe sex' with many partners without getting checked out. Just wouldn't risk it.

End of the day any person in front of you could have lied about their previous so every new partner is a risk. Have to take each case as unique and go by their appearance, cleanliness, what they say etc.

Bareback is more fun. Condoms are a chore, can cause loss of erection, definitely sensation loss, they smell disgusting and cheapen the whole sexual experience.

Rather one bareback encounter per year than 100 with condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For bareback here. As others have pointed out there are risks with condoms due to breaking etc as well as bare oral, and they don't stop all stds anyway. So the first filter has to be choice of partner. We would play bareback but not with someone who practices 'safe sex' with many partners without getting checked out. Just wouldn't risk it.

End of the day any person in front of you could have lied about their previous so every new partner is a risk. Have to take each case as unique and go by their appearance, cleanliness, what they say etc.

Bareback is more fun. Condoms are a chore, can cause loss of erection, definitely sensation loss, they smell disgusting and cheapen the whole sexual experience.

Rather one bareback encounter per year than 100 with condoms."

So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For......the feeling and the intimacy is so much better. So yes (but only with a regular/trusted partner....someone who I know sexual history for certain are sti clean).

.

Against.....risk of sti etc...... So a random/first time meet...that's a no from me.

Others will take that risk....that's their choice!"

Can you really know someone else's full sexual history or do you go by what they tell you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always prefer to bareback! Feels so much better and love shooting my load inside them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's what everyone decides

But people who are against I hope they don't do oral as this is also a way of catching sti's

It does feel good going without

But i don't do bb with ransoms

It's a trust thing

And yea I'm aware of risks of giving oral

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Against : if they bare backing with you they barebacking with other ppl that makes the risk so much higher and is it really worth it ?????

Before I stopped using condoms with my partner we both got tested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always prefer to bareback! Feels so much better and love shooting my load inside them"

And also getting the phone call that you've knocked them up or caught an std from them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For...When in a relationship with someone I trust.

Against...When on a seedy website where some women have a meet a day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always prefer to bareback! Feels so much better and love shooting my load inside them

And also getting the phone call that you've knocked them up or caught an std from them? "

I rarely comment on bareback threads but always read them with interest and find myself making lots of private notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always prefer to bareback! Feels so much better and love shooting my load inside them

And also getting the phone call that you've knocked them up or caught an std from them?

I rarely comment on bareback threads but always read them with interest and find myself making lots of private notes "

Hahaha me too! "you're blocked, you're blocked you're blocked"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always prefer to bareback! Feels so much better and love shooting my load inside them

And also getting the phone call that you've knocked them up or caught an std from them?

I rarely comment on bareback threads but always read them with interest and find myself making lots of private notes

Hahaha me too! "you're blocked, you're blocked you're blocked" "

Good job I ain't into women then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ "

If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly can not tell the difference a covered cock feels the same as an uncovered one once inside to me so for me there are no pro's for bareback, going bareback when it does not even feel better seems a bit daft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest!

I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only .

Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy.

And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ?

Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous!

As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt !

Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones ..

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By *AJANCouple
over a year ago

Lisbon

Bareback only between us. And when we started dating we did tests during six months till we decided to remove the condoms. Yrs it feels good but we rather be safe even though condom are never 100% safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ

If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink."

I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof!

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

I don't bareback only time I do is with trusted partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly can not tell the difference a covered cock feels the same as an uncovered one once inside to me so for me there are no pro's for bareback, going bareback when it does not even feel better seems a bit daft"

I don't doubt what you say. All I (he) can say is when I used condoms years ago I found they regularly split during sex, and it goes from 'hmm that's alright' to 'omg fuck me fuck me fuck me yes yes yes' immediately. When they've split nobody ever said to stop and put a new one on, the basic sexual instinct takes over and wild horses couldn't stop us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof!"

Well not having sex is definitely a way of not getting pregnant or catching an std I'll give you that. Don't think many others on a swing site are going to follow your lead though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof!

Well not having sex is definitely a way of not getting pregnant or catching an std I'll give you that. Don't think many others on a swing site are going to follow your lead though."

Well I don't have anyone to have sex with at the moment so I'm all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friggin hell. How many more times???? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof!

Well not having sex is definitely a way of not getting pregnant or catching an std I'll give you that. Don't think many others on a swing site are going to follow your lead though.

Well I don't have anyone to have sex with at the moment so I'm all good "

Ahh bless ... Hope this changes for u soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof!

Well not having sex is definitely a way of not getting pregnant or catching an std I'll give you that. Don't think many others on a swing site are going to follow your lead though.

Well I don't have anyone to have sex with at the moment so I'm all good

Ahh bless ... Hope this changes for u soon"

Nahh it wont be doing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof!

Well not having sex is definitely a way of not getting pregnant or catching an std I'll give you that. Don't think many others on a swing site are going to follow your lead though.

Well I don't have anyone to have sex with at the moment so I'm all good

Ahh bless ... Hope this changes for u soon

Nahh it wont be doing lol"

U only have to ask ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof!

Well not having sex is definitely a way of not getting pregnant or catching an std I'll give you that. Don't think many others on a swing site are going to follow your lead though.

Well I don't have anyone to have sex with at the moment so I'm all good

Ahh bless ... Hope this changes for u soon

Nahh it wont be doing lol

U only have to ask ? Lol"

I wont be asking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest!

I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only .

Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy.

And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ?

Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous!

As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt !

Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones .."

It's your cock if you want them to covet it for oral tell them, safe sex is the responsibility of both of you

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By *urexIronBarMan
over a year ago

South Manchester


"

So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ

If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink."

Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size.

Also someone said they don't protect against all STI's such as genital warts, this is true but the chances are still massively reduced anf I'd prefer to be protected against the serious untreatable diseases.

As I said before my sexual health and self respect mean more to me than a self indulgent night of glory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always double bag it lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

in a swinging context... is there every an arguement "for" other than "because thats what I enjoy".....

not saying its what i do... because like any arguement its a case of judging the risks you are prepared to make....

but other that "thats whats i enjoy" there isn't any real other answer....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always double bag it lol"

Double bagging wont help it will only make it worse

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest!

I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only .

Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy.

And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ?

Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous!

As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt !

Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones .."
Oral sex is nowhere near as dangerous,in fact I consider it relatively safe.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.


"

So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ

If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink.

Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size.

Also someone said they don't protect against all STI's such as genital warts, this is true but the chances are still massively reduced anf I'd prefer to be protected against the serious untreatable diseases.

As I said before my sexual health and self respect mean more to me than a self indulgent night of glory"

Serious untreatable diseases????

What are you talking about??

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

It is a matter of choice.if you prefer to play Russian Roulette or play safe is all yours. As for me Barebacking stranger is too risky.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"

So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ

If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink."

That's rubbish...I only use condoms and have done for the past 4 years - coupla condom accidents where I picked up the morning after pill just in case and bought my clap clinic tests forward - no ankle biters for this girl

With regards to the OP, I've recently started barebacking with my lover...Pros: I'd forgotten how bloody awesome it feels having your man explode inside you...Cons: not with randoms off t'interweb due to aforementioned risk of pregnancy and clap

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By *anie1000Woman
over a year ago

Staffs


"There isn't really much to discuss. I think most would prefer bareback. Everyone knows the risks of doing so."

In a nutshell.

Well said.

Janie x

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By *agic wandMan
over a year ago

harrow


"Always double bag it lol

Double bagging wont help it will only make it worse"

Rubber on rubber. It's bound to split!!!

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

You just can't beat bareback for the feeling and its spontaneity, which is all very well in a LTR. However, where anything casual/NSA is concerned, 'safety first' is my rule.

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By *urexIronBarMan
over a year ago

South Manchester


"I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest!

I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only .

Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy.

And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ?

Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous!

As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt !

Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones .. Oral sex is nowhere near as dangerous,in fact I consider it relatively safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's hope people treat this thread seriously & don't start throwing mud at each other for their points of view."

Gosh, you're becoming cynical - how did that happen!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"For - feels awesome

Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up.

Crossing the road can be risky lol "

.....and that's why you don't cross a road with your eyes closed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ

If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink.

Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size.

Also someone said they don't protect against all STI's such as genital warts, this is true but the chances are still massively reduced anf I'd prefer to be protected against the serious untreatable diseases.

As I said before my sexual health and self respect mean more to me than a self indulgent night of glory

Serious untreatable diseases????

What are you talking about??"

HIV/AIDS

Gonerhea (which can cause infertility if left without treatment)

Chlamydia (which can cause infertility if left without treatment)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ

If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink.

Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size.

Also someone said they don't protect against all STI's such as genital warts, this is true but the chances are still massively reduced anf I'd prefer to be protected against the serious untreatable diseases.

As I said before my sexual health and self respect mean more to me than a self indulgent night of glory

Serious untreatable diseases????

What are you talking about??

HIV/AIDS

Gonerhea (which can cause infertility if left without treatment)

Chlamydia (which can cause infertility if left without treatment)"

Add to that herpes, HPV (and the oral, rectal and cervical cancers certain types cause) and hepatitis B.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't take long to the bareback police to arrive lol

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By *otHorny_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sticky Valley

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By *otHorny_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sticky Valley


"

So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ

If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink.

Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size.

Also someone said they don't protect against all STI's such as genital warts, this is true but the chances are still massively reduced anf I'd prefer to be protected against the serious untreatable diseases.

As I said before my sexual health and self respect mean more to me than a self indulgent night of glory

Serious untreatable diseases????

What are you talking about??

HIV/AIDS

Gonerhea (which can cause infertility if left without treatment)

Chlamydia (which can cause infertility if left without treatment)

Add to that herpes, HPV (and the oral, rectal and cervical cancers certain types cause) and hepatitis B. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all for bareback...no questions askesd!

I'm catholic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be condoms for the respect for the female xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In its simplest form

For - it feels good

Against - unwanted pregnancy or STI risk, or both.

The only true safe sex is no sex so alleviate the risks to yourself to your own standards or needs, nobody else's opinion counts. One can only look after ones own sexual health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has to be condoms for the respect for the female xx"

And surely respect for yourself also?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms all the way... too risky, I don't want to end up catching something nasty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has to be condoms for the respect for the female xx

And surely respect for yourself also?"

Definitely but I was thinking of the woman first xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has to be condoms for the respect for the female xx

And surely respect for yourself also?"

Nice figure btw xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm for,

Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm for,

Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier "

The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm for,

Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier

The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!"
The trick is pull out before cum.

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By *otHorny_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sticky Valley

Herpes gladiatorum is one of the most infectious of herpes-caused diseases, and is transmissible by skin-to-skin contact. The disease was first described in the 1960s in the New England Journal of Medicine. It is caused by cutaneous infection with HumanHerpes Simplex Virus type 1 (HSV-1),which more commonly causes oral herpes (cold sores). Another strain, HSV-2 usually causesgenital herpes, although the strains are very similar and either can cause herpes in any location. Tiny little blisters that burst bit like hair spots and your infected, no cure you live with painful blisters that come and go around your genitals.

So something to think about when naked with a partner or with a stranger.

So enjoy sex safely or NOT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm for,

Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier

The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum."

Is this a serious comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm for,

Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier

The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum.

Is this a serious comment?"

This place is such an education at times!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm for,

Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier

The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum.

Is this a serious comment?"
No but less chance of getting them pregnant tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm for,

Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier

The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum.

Is this a serious comment?

This place is such an education at times!!"
I know lol, but fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm for,

Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier

The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum.

Is this a serious comment?

This place is such an education at times!!"

It is but I would always think safety first for both parties xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are only as safe as the last shag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ

If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink."

Lol I must be infertile so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Herpes gladiatorum is one of the most infectious of herpes-caused diseases, and is transmissible by skin-to-skin contact. The disease was first described in the 1960s in the New England Journal of Medicine. It is caused by cutaneous infection with HumanHerpes Simplex Virus type 1 (HSV-1),which more commonly causes oral herpes (cold sores). Another strain, HSV-2 usually causesgenital herpes, although the strains are very similar and either can cause herpes in any location. Tiny little blisters that burst bit like hair spots and your infected, no cure you live with painful blisters that come and go around your genitals.

So something to think about when naked with a partner or with a stranger.

So enjoy sex safely or NOT "

"Enjoy sex safely" - what do you mean by this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Herpes gladiatorum is one of the most infectious of herpes-caused diseases, and is transmissible by skin-to-skin contact. The disease was first described in the 1960s in the New England Journal of Medicine. It is caused by cutaneous infection with HumanHerpes Simplex Virus type 1 (HSV-1),which more commonly causes oral herpes (cold sores). Another strain, HSV-2 usually causesgenital herpes, although the strains are very similar and either can cause herpes in any location. Tiny little blisters that burst bit like hair spots and your infected, no cure you live with painful blisters that come and go around your genitals.

So something to think about when naked with a partner or with a stranger.

So enjoy sex safely or NOT

"Enjoy sex safely" - what do you mean by this?"

Wear a full body condom and a respirator??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Herpes gladiatorum is one of the most infectious of herpes-caused diseases, and is transmissible by skin-to-skin contact. The disease was first described in the 1960s in the New England Journal of Medicine. It is caused by cutaneous infection with HumanHerpes Simplex Virus type 1 (HSV-1),which more commonly causes oral herpes (cold sores). Another strain, HSV-2 usually causesgenital herpes, although the strains are very similar and either can cause herpes in any location. Tiny little blisters that burst bit like hair spots and your infected, no cure you live with painful blisters that come and go around your genitals.

So something to think about when naked with a partner or with a stranger.

So enjoy sex safely or NOT

"Enjoy sex safely" - what do you mean by this?

Wear a full body condom and a respirator??!"

And gloves lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm for,

Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier

The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum.

Is this a serious comment?"

Sorry but are you all there?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm for,

Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier

The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum."

You can still transmit diseases and still get someone pregnant even if you pull out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm for,

Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier

The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum.

Is this a serious comment?

Sorry but are you all there?!

"
YEs I am how about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm for,

Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier

The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum.

You can still transmit diseases and still get someone pregnant even if you pull out"
Yes that's right as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we allways bare back with eachother and ive had the snip, as we do not swap for penetration we don't feel we have a problem

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby


"For = only with each other as its a great feeling

Against = we value our health so prefer to protect as much as we can. So no BB with meets. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy that introduced me to the lifestyle. Used to pay for a 8 panel std test every 3 months. This cost about $ 250 every time. He use to Take the results With him to all his meets. So he could bareback the couple or female.

When he suggested that I start doing that. I said " Why , isn't condoms cheaper " . He said " ohh , I never thought of that "

He didn't realize he was spending 1k a year just on test.

So if you want to bareback everyone you meet. Meet them at the clinic, pay $ 500 , get your results in 1 hour and have fun for a night. Or just buy condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Herpes gladiatorum is one of the most infectious of herpes-caused diseases, and is transmissible by skin-to-skin contact. The disease was first described in the 1960s in the New England Journal of Medicine. It is caused by cutaneous infection with HumanHerpes Simplex Virus type 1 (HSV-1),which more commonly causes oral herpes (cold sores). Another strain, HSV-2 usually causesgenital herpes, although the strains are very similar and either can cause herpes in any location. Tiny little blisters that burst bit like hair spots and your infected, no cure you live with painful blisters that come and go around your genitals.

So something to think about when naked with a partner or with a stranger.

So enjoy sex safely or NOT

"Enjoy sex safely" - what do you mean by this?

Wear a full body condom and a respirator??!

Blot bang rub lol

And gloves lol xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a 4 day ban last time i entered this debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a 4 day ban last time i entered this debate "

And you risk a further one if you mention or discuss it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea everyone else seems to get away with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely all for bareback but unfortunately it's not worth the risk when strangers are involved

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.


"

So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ

If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink.

Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size.

Also someone said they don't protect against all STI's such as genital warts, this is true but the chances are still massively reduced anf I'd prefer to be protected against the serious untreatable diseases.

As I said before my sexual health and self respect mean more to me than a self indulgent night of glory

Serious untreatable diseases????

What are you talking about??

HIV/AIDS

Gonerhea (which can cause infertility if left without treatment)

Chlamydia (which can cause infertility if left without treatment)

Add to that herpes, HPV (and the oral, rectal and cervical cancers certain types cause) and hepatitis B. "

Ffs they are not serious and not untreatable...daily mail isn't always right!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well take it from me herpes is a nasty arsed one to get, i got it whilst in long term relationship, took about 10 yrs for my body to keep on top of it without drugs, constant headaches leg back pain blisters . Not being able to have sex. I wouldnt wish it on anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ

If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink.

Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size.

Also someone said they don't protect against all STI's such as genital warts, this is true but the chances are still massively reduced anf I'd prefer to be protected against the serious untreatable diseases.

As I said before my sexual health and self respect mean more to me than a self indulgent night of glory

Serious untreatable diseases????

What are you talking about??

HIV/AIDS

Gonerhea (which can cause infertility if left without treatment)

Chlamydia (which can cause infertility if left without treatment)

Add to that herpes, HPV (and the oral, rectal and cervical cancers certain types cause) and hepatitis B.

Ffs they are not serious and not untreatable...daily mail isn't always right!!!"

So dying from HIV/AIDS/Hep B isn't serious then? And yes they are untreatable because they cant be cured, the treatment is merely for the symptoms and slows the progression of the disease.

Seriously, get your facts right before you start spouting bullshit saying that they aren't serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Careful , they will report u and u will get banned for being sensible : )

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, keep it

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Didn't take long to the bareback police to arrive lol "

Who's policing. There is no law against stupidity therefore nothing to police. On the other hand there is no law against pointing out stupidity either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't take long to the bareback police to arrive lol

Who's policing. There is no law against stupidity therefore nothing to police. On the other hand there is no law against pointing out stupidity either. "
I know but the thread is not about stds is it? lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size."

I once managed to fit a standard sized condom on my head and blow it up a bit with my nose without splitting, if a condom that can fit on a fully grown head doesn't fit your cock, you are going nowhere near my vagina with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral?

STI's can be passed just as easily that way...

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Compared with winning the lottery bareback sex has got safer!

Due to them adding a further ten number to the lottery the odds of winning the jackpot are now 45 million to one.

But there again you would probably be hit by lightning before claiming your lottery winnings as that are between one in 1,068,333 and one in 2,136,666 in the UK.

But if you are that one the odds count for nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all for BB. The feeling is so much better and I'm in this life style to enjoy sex, so wearing a condom does seem to be a bit of an irony in that regard when it means that I don't enjoy the sensation as much.

My view is that as long as all parties are tested regularly then, yes even then the risk is higher, but it's more of a calculated risk.

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By *urexIronBarMan
over a year ago

South Manchester


"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral?

STI's can be passed just as easily that way..."

Incorrect

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral?

STI's can be passed just as easily that way...

Incorrect"

That depends on you definition of easily.

STIs can and are spread by unprotected oral sex.

Also STI can and are spread by protected penetrative sex.

STIs can also be spread by non penetrative sex.

Perhaps you should get so guidance on just how STIs may be spread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral?

STI's can be passed just as easily that way...

Incorrect"

You might want to go back to school for a sex education classes if you're naive enough to think that STIs cant be passed through protected oral sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral?

STI's can be passed just as easily that way...

Incorrect

You might want to go back to school for a sex education classes if you're naive enough to think that STIs cant be passed through protected oral sex "

Someone somewhere along the line has misread my original post....oral without protection spreads certain STI's just as much as sex without protection...fact...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest!

I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only .

Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy.

And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ?

Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous!

As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt !

Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones .. Oral sex is nowhere near as dangerous,in fact I consider it relatively safe.

"

Load of crap...my fb has caught an STI twice from oral sex at a club...that was before I met him, so not from me, but from women that had quite clearly sucked other cocks before him...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral?

STI's can be passed just as easily that way...

Incorrect

You might want to go back to school for a sex education classes if you're naive enough to think that STIs cant be passed through protected oral sex

Someone somewhere along the line has misread my original post....oral without protection spreads certain STI's just as much as sex without protection...fact..."

I don't do oral or have sex so I'm all good

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

If you practise safer sex,and lots of us do,what difference does it make to us if others have bareback??

How can we be against it??

We have all the information we need to make a decision.

It is a bit like asking people if their for or against sunbathing.

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By *urexIronBarMan
over a year ago

South Manchester


"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral?

STI's can be passed just as easily that way...

Incorrect

You might want to go back to school for a sex education class so if you're naive enough to think that STIs cant be passed through protected oral sex "

I said incorrect because there not passed as easily via oral and not as many sti'd are passed via unprotected oral

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By *urexIronBarMan
over a year ago

South Manchester


"If you practise safer sex,and lots of us do,what difference does it make to us if others have bareback??

How can we be against it??

We have all the information we need to make a decision.

It is a bit like asking people if their for or against sunbathing."

He he quite true there but I use sun cream also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral?

STI's can be passed just as easily that way...

Incorrect

You might want to go back to school for a sex education class so if you're naive enough to think that STIs cant be passed through protected oral sex

I said incorrect because there not passed as easily via oral and not as many sti'd are passed via unprotected oral"

Of course there are! A friend caught the clap from giving oral to a woman, so yes you can get any sti just from oral alone

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Scrolled down to ask a slightly sad question of you all who say bareback is for long term relationships with people you trust (and it isn't an accusation or anything) - haven't you been stung before? Loving and trusting someone is no guarantee of an std free life, and cheating in marriages is at a self confessed (approximation) 50%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For - feels awesome

Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up.

Crossing the road can be risky lol "

People say this about riding the bike too, but when I get on the bike I put on a helmet and a full body covering of either kevlar or leather.

Doesn't seem much differ to slipping on a rubber.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest!

I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only .

Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy.

And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ?

Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous!

As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt !

Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones .. Oral sex is nowhere near as dangerous,in fact I consider it relatively safe.

Load of crap...my fb has caught an STI twice from oral sex at a club...that was before I met him, so not from me, but from women that had quite clearly sucked other cocks before him..."

Or more likely he was lying...

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real.

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over a year ago


"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real."

It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners.

If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you practise safer sex,and lots of us do,what difference does it make to us if others have bareback??

How can we be against it??

We have all the information we need to make a decision.

It is a bit like asking people if their for or against sunbathing."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real.

It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners.

If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safe"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest!

I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only .

Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy.

And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ?

Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous!

As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt !

Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones .. Oral sex is nowhere near as dangerous,in fact I consider it relatively safe.

Load of crap...my fb has caught an STI twice from oral sex at a club...that was before I met him, so not from me, but from women that had quite clearly sucked other cocks before him...

Or more likely he was lying..."

Yeah right, because you know him so well...he only does oral at clubs...or watches...but that tbh is none of your business...don't judge others by your owns standards...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral?

STI's can be passed just as easily that way...

Incorrect

You might want to go back to school for a sex education class so if you're naive enough to think that STIs cant be passed through protected oral sex

I said incorrect because there not passed as easily via oral and not as many sti'd are passed via unprotected oral

Of course there are! A friend caught the clap from giving oral to a woman, so yes you can get any sti just from oral alone"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest!

I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only .

Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy.

And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ?

Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous!

As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt !

Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones .. Oral sex is nowhere near as dangerous,in fact I consider it relatively safe.

Load of crap...my fb has caught an STI twice from oral sex at a club...that was before I met him, so not from me, but from women that had quite clearly sucked other cocks before him...

Or more likely he was lying...

Yeah right, because you know him so well...he only does oral at clubs...or watches...but that tbh is none of your business...don't judge others by your owns standards...

"

And he only ever has sex in clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real.

It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners.

If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safe"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For - feels awesome

Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up.

Crossing the road can be risky lol

would you cross a road with your eyes closed..?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real.

It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners.

If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safe"
Women also carry infections its not just down to the man tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real.

It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners.

If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safeWomen also carry infections its not just down to the man tho."

I know but chlamydia for instance am doesn't normal have symptoms in men and can result in infertility in women.

The clap doesn't normal have symptoms in women but does in men but isn't usually life changing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real.

It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners.

If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safeWomen also carry infections its not just down to the man tho.

I know but chlamydia for instance am doesn't normal have symptoms in men and can result in infertility in women.

The clap doesn't normal have symptoms in women but does in men but isn't usually life changing"
Yes you are right there and good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real.

It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners.

If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safeWomen also carry infections its not just down to the man tho.

I know but chlamydia for instance am doesn't normal have symptoms in men and can result in infertility in women.

The clap doesn't normal have symptoms in women but does in men but isn't usually life changingYes you are right there and good point."

Fortunately as men were at a lot less risk both of contracting and suffering long term effects. But I know I'd feel devastated if I ruined a woman's chance to have kids because I didn't get tested or was sensible.

I can't even imagine that level of guilt

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A new daily pill cuts virtually 100% of the risk for gay men from hiv. I don't think it's been tested fully on people other than gay and bi men yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm for,

Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier

The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum.

Is this a serious comment?

Sorry but are you all there?!

YEs I am how about you? "

Yes I am thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on my observations people seem far more careful with their sexual health in forums such as this than they are in the heat of the moment.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Based on my observations people seem far more careful with their sexual health in forums such as this than they are in the heat of the moment.

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Safe both in the forum and the heat of the moment been a few occasions at clubs where we have walked away cause the other guy didn't want to glove up

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

if this were the perfect world and the risks didn't exist im sure everyone would say bareback all the way as lets face it it does feel better, However the risks are real so its safe play and regular check ups for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ

If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink."

Terrence Higgins Trust provide free condoms. Can't think why??.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ

If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink.

I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof!"

So why r u on a swingers site?? Hv I missed something here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always double bag it lol

Double bagging wont help it will only make it worse"

Yep - the friction between the condoms makes them split. Terrible myth that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A paper bag for the head and a condom for your knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real.

It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners.

If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safeWomen also carry infections its not just down to the man tho.

I know but chlamydia for instance am doesn't normal have symptoms in men and can result in infertility in women.

The clap doesn't normal have symptoms in women but does in men but isn't usually life changingYes you are right there and good point.

Fortunately as men were at a lot less risk both of contracting and suffering long term effects. But I know I'd feel devastated if I ruined a woman's chance to have kids because I didn't get tested or was sensible.

I can't even imagine that level of guilt"
That's right as we got less chance of getting it, but as you say its always best to get checked to be sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as i love the idea of busting a huge nut and watching it leak out afterwards, then a few mins later going back inside and doing the same again, the thought of going for a check up a few weeks later to be told, 'sorry young man, you got the HIV', just kills it for me.

You can normally tell a clean woman from a dirty woman though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone for a nice cup of tea and a biscuit?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Anyone for a nice cup of tea and a biscuit? "

Sure, but keep the biccies in wrapper

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over a year ago


"Anyone for a nice cup of tea and a biscuit?

Sure, but keep the biccies in wrapper "

lol now that was sharp

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"You can normally tell a clean woman from a dirty woman though."

Really? How?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Against. It just isn't worth the risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i see this thread the advert where the fella buys a bargain basement parachute springs to mind, i cant quite link it but it just pops in my head everytime

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By *cotbbtopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Bareback is natural and feels better. Simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For: you save money not buying condoms

Against: you get galloping knob rot and it falls off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For - feels awesome

Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up."

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