FabSwingers.com forum: people getting fed up..

By *ichie21 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Noticed lately quite a few on here seem to be getting fed up with the bulls**tters, timewasters, dreamers, wishers etc. etc. If it looks to good to be true.. THEN IT IS!

In the words of Churchill (well almost) "Never have so many ruined it so much, for so few"..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people have always been fed up with the bits you say about. Probably never change it and as I am sure the dedicated forum posters will add to this, you got a choice etc etc. blah, blah, blah lol

How many times have I seen that in posts . . .

I guess going for verified and supporter types is an option, you can always block those that aren't, well I think so, I am having a bit of an indecisive day today lol.

Never get any time wasters myself [err well nobody at all actually lol]

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

We have never met any timewasters so wouldn't know, but I know I am fed up of hearing it all the time on the forums.

( A disclaimer...speaking for myself only )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were not fed up,we havnt had any trouble with timewasters fakes ect,fakes are easy to out anyway x

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm fed up with people being fed up with people being fed up with people being fed up with timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think we have a lot to thank the timewasters for lets face it we get out a hell of a lot more than we used to LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What bugs me is folk that put they are fed up of timewasters on their profiles. Whats a timewaster? If they are wasting your time then why meet? Surely you have to spend time getting to know someone a bit to know if they're worth you meeting. Is that wasting time?

I'm currently taking a break from swinging, does that make me a timewaster? What do they look like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have never met any timewasters so wouldn't know, but I know I am fed up of hearing it all the time on the forums.

( A disclaimer...speaking for myself only )"

we havent either as they havent yet turned up...lol

no seriously only the once a right pain in the arse couple who i think used us as a back up but had us hanging around the bars in newcastle waiting half the night while they were alledgedly having car trouble/etc etc etc

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

no more fake or time waster topics there is one every day nearly now thats annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have never met any timewasters so wouldn't know, but I know I am fed up of hearing it all the time on the forums.

( A disclaimer...speaking for myself only )"

| must admit I as well have never met any timewasters must be lucky I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fed up with people being fed up with people being fed up with people being fed up with timewasters.

I am fed up with em too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is a lifestyle for anyone who is genuine, it may not be a big part of thier everyday life, they may only indulge themselves occasionally but it is still a lifestyle when they do.

So like every other aspect of our lives there are things we have to deal with which we would rather not see happening.

Long queues at the shops

Rainy days

Obnoxious neighbours

Incosiderate or incompetent drivers

Naughty kids

Government laws

Taxes

an endless list

And everyday we deal with such things in order to survive and spend some time on what gives us pleasure, our families, friends, home, entertainment, car, pets or just relaxing in the bath.

We put the things we don't like to one side and get on with enjoying the rest of our lives, we have to learn to do the same with our swinging fun, yes there are idiots and timewasters, biggots and abusive people, but don't let them get to you, just brush it out of your mind and get on with enjoying the good aspects of swinging.

Puts soapbox away but not for long and goes back to watching Emerdale

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I am actually more miffed with those people who complain about the timewasters....

well if it so bad do something about it!!

be that not rely on ya profile.. or change it... or go to clubs.... or go to socials... or heck go into chat....

in the end just bloody change something...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am actually more miffed with those people who complain about the timewasters....

well if it so bad do something about it!!

be that not rely on ya profile.. or change it... or go to clubs.... or go to socials... or heck go into chat....

in the end just bloody change something...

could change me knickers but I like these red ones

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By *nothercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hmmm. Maybe Admin can write a short script that doesnt allow key words like: Timewaster, Single guy, Fake etc, but then would we have anything to read?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fed up with people being fed up with people being fed up with people being fed up with timewasters.

I am fed up with em too"

Snap, me too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fed up with people being fed up with people being fed up with people being fed up with timewasters.

I am fed up with em too

Snap, me too ."

ooooo if I wa single I'd snap u right up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never met any timewasters dreamers or bullshitters - we always manage to them out in the early stages ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm. Maybe Admin can write a short script that doesnt allow key words like: Timewaster, Single guy, Fake etc, but then would we have anything to read?

We could always discuss the weather?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fed up with people being fed up with people being fed up with people being fed up with timewasters.

I am fed up with em too

Snap, me too .

ooooo if I wa single I'd snap u right up

Nearly fell off my chair then lol .

But I must compliment you on your eye for spotting 'quality' .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a timewaster. And proud of it. If you're daft enough to message me after reading my headline then it's no ma fault!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never a true word said mate

i went to a gangbang it was arrange weeks before hand

i got invited at the last moment when i arrived i was the only guy to turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a timewaster. And proud of it. If you're daft enough to message me after reading my headline then it's no ma fault!"

It won't stop them pet: I have the same, just deleted message from 23 year from Barnsley wanting to meet!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a timewaster. And proud of it. If you're daft enough to message me after reading my headline then it's no ma fault!

It won't stop them pet: I have the same, just deleted message from 23 year from Barnsley wanting to meet!!!

Ok , we get the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid phone!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I haven't met the timewasters - 'cos they didn't turn up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sassy- I know it won't stop em....but that's half the fun :o)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sassy- I know it won't stop em....but that's half the fun :o)"

I also find there's something rather cathartic pressing "delete all"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sassy- I know it won't stop em....but that's half the fun :o)

I also find there's something rather cathartic pressing "delete all"!

It's a wonderful button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am still here after joining over a year ago, and am still enjoying myself.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

been back 9 weeks and it is funnier than ever how seriously SOME take all this..

enjoy it when it happens

react positively when it doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been back 9 weeks and it is funnier than ever how seriously SOME take all this..

enjoy it when it happens

react positively when it doesn't

I was tryin to be amusing- pity I'm not

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol

I think everyone complaining should get a life! What do you expect on a site like this?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"been back 9 weeks and it is funnier than ever how seriously SOME take all this..

enjoy it when it happens

react positively when it doesn't

I was tryin to be amusing- pity I'm not

I chuckled x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been back 9 weeks and it is funnier than ever how seriously SOME take all this..

enjoy it when it happens

react positively when it doesn't

I was tryin to be amusing- pity I'm not

I chuckled x

Thank feck someone got it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't met the timewasters - 'cos they didn't turn up!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are full of people moaning about the site lately, and most have alot of replys, i posted a thread the other day in the lounge stating 'we loved fabs' it got about 20 replys

The funniest thing is, do people actually think all these threads are read by the timewasters and will make them think twice about what they do...no i think not, they just have a bloody good laugh at them!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"The forums are full of people moaning about the site lately, and most have alot of replys, i posted a thread the other day in the lounge stating 'we loved fabs' it got about 20 replys

Nope, they wouldn't waste their own time reading them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't actually think that it is always about reading the forums, for some people just having somewhere to vent thier frustration is a good feature of the site and at the end of the day nobody has to read or contribute to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't actually think that it is always about reading the forums, for some people just having somewhere to vent thier frustration is a good feature of the site and at the end of the day nobody has to read or contribute to them."

quite agree having somewhere to vent is good, the problem is that like the thread yesterday about the poorly horse, some tend to see it as a good way to have ago at others which im sure puts alot off posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you just have to laugh at timewasters though and I have bit of fun with them!

Yesterday I got a message from a guy from Liverpool saying, "I'm in Brum tomorrow hun".

I live near Derby, so about equi-distant from Brum and Liverpool,I reckon.

So I sent him a message, asking for his home address, so that I could pop round and burgle him whilst he was in Brum!

See, no one gets Really offended, and its banter, so time not really wasted, as I had a laugh, and he might put a little more thought in,next time he sends a message!

Simples

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think it depends on what anger they are venting for me.....personally I get bored with the same " I got this mail from this man and he said boo, how bad is that" type of venting anger threads,or at the moment the "timewaster" threads bore me as there seem so many..... but the likes of the thread you are talking about The crap day/week they have had that is totally different.

I do think it depends on who posts sometimes as to what reaction they will get though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's also the way the person writes it to be honest. We all have crappy days, and yes, it's nice to vent your spleen. In my opinion if someone posts they've had a crappy day, the goldfish is sick and the sky is falling, they'll get a virtual hug from me and many others I'm sure.

What annoyed me personally about the thread yesterday with the sick horse was the implication from the poster that as she was a fundraiser for good causes, it was unfair she was having bad luck, and it was unfair because she wasn't Polish she was being denied a job, and unfair, and her husband worked so hard, and her horse was sick blah blah.

She may not have meant it that way, and yes, of course she's entitled to have a rant, just as I was to say all things are relative!

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