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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 mins depends how horny I am

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

For some reason I can hold on for a while ... Can give a specific time though ... If you get the angle right and can control yourself not too cum before she does ... Everyone's happy but I've on occasion gone off early I must admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can last a while

I also can out last the lady's on a few accounts but also am a quick reloader as like like to fondal after then get back into it but overall it's down to the person's in general and how they tick i can't prove that i do but to those of you that have tried me will know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies from how much foreplay I've had to be honest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's kind of sexy and very horny if they cum within about 5 mins ..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a 30 second man lol but I can go 10 times

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By *oasted cheese sandwichMan
over a year ago

Nearby

Normally til she's says 'don't stop, I'm cumming '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normally til she's says 'don't stop, I'm cumming ' "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one

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By *oasted cheese sandwichMan
over a year ago

Nearby


"Normally til she's says 'don't stop, I'm cumming '

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Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies. I guess 10 minutes would be about average. It depends on so many different things though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50-55 minutes.trying to break 60 minute barrier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want 15-20 mins but some guya seem to think pounding away for an hour is what every woman wants. No thank! I'd rather have repeats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50-55 minutes.trying to break 60 minute barrier "

Why? Friction and repetition are so booooring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on what has been going on prior to penetrative sex, then probably 5 minutes. 10-15 minutes for round 2. Round three can go on for hours. But by then I'm not bothered about cumming again. I'm just a sex toy by then!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I am a 30 second man lol but I can go 10 times"

is that ten times in 30 seconds lol xx only joking!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Majority of people on this thread sound to me like they're lying lol. I'm going to be honest and say about two minutes. I guess I just get so turned on it's difficult to control. I last longer when being wanked or sucked, though. And I can usually go again pretty soon afterwards, and I last longer the second time. But however quickly, or slowly, I cum, I wouldn't use that as an excuse not to do as much as I can for my partner. I love to give pleasure too, not just take.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one "

thank goodness an answer that doesnt belong to a pinochio!!!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

minutes sober, All night d*unk and on viagra

Bit of a pain sometimes as you almost have to wank it off in the morning to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one

thank goodness an answer that doesnt belong to a pinochio!!!!!!! lol "
Yes I am hot for my hand as the saying goes to last so long

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one

thank goodness an answer that doesnt belong to a pinochio!!!!!!! lol Yes I am hot for my hand as the saying goes to last so long "

think most guys last longer with a five finger shuffle lol certainly mrnorthy does i get fecking arm ache sometimes and end up saying "ffs i will ride you"

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Days, if given the opportunity.

But whatever suits the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a condom indefinitely.

Without anywhere from 5 mins to hours depending on self control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How longs a piece of string? Different with every woman and the build up.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"I want 15-20 mins but some guya seem to think pounding away for an hour is what every woman wants. No thank! I'd rather have repeats."

I usually last fucking ages and find there is a threshold duration before you get "do you like me?"....

But.... Lasting a long time doesn't mean you need to keep "pounding away".

I'm not trying to get to any imaginary goal, so I'm fine to stop, mix it up, try something else, change positions, add some role play...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"How longs a piece of string? "

Twice the length from the middle, duh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Majority of people on this thread sound to me like they're lying lol. I'm going to be honest and say about two minutes. I guess I just get so turned on it's difficult to control. I last longer when being wanked or sucked, though. And I can usually go again pretty soon afterwards, and I last longer the second time. But however quickly, or slowly, I cum, I wouldn't use that as an excuse not to do as much as I can for my partner. I love to give pleasure too, not just take."

I have never lasted as long with anyone as I do with my partner but have never cum as quick either ?

It seems I can last longer when she's on top and she controls how fast etc !

So timings ? Anything from her cuming once too losing count ? Does how long count when a smile is on her face ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How longs a piece of string?

Twice the length from the middle, duh!"

That doesn't give a answer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one

thank goodness an answer that doesnt belong to a pinochio!!!!!!! lol Yes I am hot for my hand as the saying goes to last so long

think most guys last longer with a five finger shuffle lol certainly mrnorthy does i get fecking arm ache sometimes and end up saying "ffs i will ride you"

"
Yes cos there is no preasure to perform kinda thing lol That's right sometimes you get arm ache so switch to the left one then back to the right hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I last a length of time, a different length each time depending on many factors. My attention is not focused on a clock or stopwatch at the time

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"How longs a piece of string?

Twice the length from the middle, duh!

That doesn't give a answer lol"

Yes it does!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had one occasion when i wasnt able to cum, nothing to do with the woman she was hot i had a toghtish foreskin and it had retrected fully, so even when i thought i was about to i just couldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50-55 minutes.trying to break 60 minute barrier

Why? Friction and repetition are so booooring."

I love repetitions. It's not just one off session. I just don't like cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about 5-10 min then pull out and rest for about ten I can keep it up for about an hour

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

have to leave the thread before my ego explodes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?"

Put it this way I can't stand it if a guy only lasts 5-10 min!

I love to tease whilst fucking and lots of othee things, fucking isn't just fucking I'm my world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I've had a couple of drinks ( alright, half a dozen!), then I can last a looooong time. After a couple of bottles of wine I once went all night without coming once. But it didn't bother me. I still enjoyed it.

Being "piss proud" also keeps you going longer. Makes for a nice Sunday morning after a sat night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who the hell watches the clock

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

....as long as Flik wants me to

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I last a length of time, a different length each time depending on many factors. My attention is not focused on a clock or stopwatch at the time "

I like this answer

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one

thank goodness an answer that doesnt belong to a pinochio!!!!!!! lol Yes I am hot for my hand as the saying goes to last so long

think most guys last longer with a five finger shuffle lol certainly mrnorthy does i get fecking arm ache sometimes and end up saying "ffs i will ride you"

Yes cos there is no preasure to perform kinda thing lol That's right sometimes you get arm ache so switch to the left one then back to the right hand "

ffs i tried that!!!! get two fecking arms aching then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well personally myself i think it all depends on the woman how long a guy last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about 5 mins of penetrating, but I usually like loads of foreplay first, love to lick until she can take no more, then bend her over and pound away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one "

Ladies and gentleman may I introduce you to Fabs resident stud, setting the bar high for the rest of us mere mortals. Cheers Shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"about 5 mins of penetrating, but I usually like loads of foreplay first, love to lick until she can take no more, then bend her over and pound away!"

Why do guys think that just because she's bent over they HAVE to "pound away".....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"about 5 mins of penetrating, but I usually like loads of foreplay first, love to lick until she can take no more, then bend her over and pound away!

Why do guys think that just because she's bent over they HAVE to "pound away"....."

its what my wife likes me to do, she likes it rough when im fucking, but gentle when licking etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I last a length of time, a different length each time depending on many factors. My attention is not focused on a clock or stopwatch at the time

I like this answer

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Me to! I won't meet if they are on a time schedule! Fuck that!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Oh my word, I always want a LOT more than most people are suggesting here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends very much on the situation - if I know I'm going to be naked and have all day, I'll last a few hours but if it's a "bend me over and fuck me now" moment, five minutes. Also depends on the position, doggy seems to make me cum quicker, anything else I'm in control! With my hand, 2 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I last a length of time, a different length each time depending on many factors. My attention is not focused on a clock or stopwatch at the time

I like this answer

Me to! I won't meet if they are on a time schedule! Fuck that! "

An interesting question occurred to me. Is it porns fault that guys are so obsessed by how big their cocks are or how long they fuck for?

So much porn depicts huge cocks and seemingly pounding away for hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my word, I always want a LOT more than most people are suggesting here! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my word, I always want a LOT more than most people are suggesting here! "

I'll give you the best 30 seconds you'll ever have

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.

Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.

Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.

"

That's THE way to fly

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"Majority of people on this thread sound to me like they're lying lol. I'm going to be honest and say about two minutes. I guess I just get so turned on it's difficult to control. I last longer when being wanked or sucked, though. And I can usually go again pretty soon afterwards, and I last longer the second time. But however quickly, or slowly, I cum, I wouldn't use that as an excuse not to do as much as I can for my partner. I love to give pleasure too, not just take.

I have never lasted as long with anyone as I do with my partner but have never cum as quick either ?

It seems I can last longer when she's on top and she controls how fast etc !

So timings ? Anything from her cuming once too losing count ? Does how long count when a smile is on her face ?

"

Before becoming a swinger I thought it was good if I could last 2 minutes. I did use some of that Chinese desensiting stuff from Lovehoney ( you really only need a little bit!) at first but after a while I started to last longer. Like the respondent above my OH knows how, when on top, to speed up to make me come. I also enjoy the doggy position until she has come, and then to speed up until I come at which point she usually does as well.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about taking Mrs P with me. We get grinding and if it feels like she's not gonna quite make it at the same time as me I withdraw and return to some naughty other stuff... working up to another attempt. We keep this circle of pleasure and excitement going for as long as I can bear it and it often works out well for both of us i.e. not too long but not too short and ending with us both cumming Although often I'm just too fucking horny and have to let myself go crazy on her... which tends to make her cum too lol

I like it to be much longer than 5 mins and tend to slow down if I'm getting too close as I'm savouring the feeling of being inside her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How longs a piece of string? Different with every woman and the build up. "

I would agree with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A quickie is about 15-20 minutes.

Anything else depends how much fun we're having. I can go for about an hour these days but then recovery time is longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything between 5 and 30 minutes. The 30 minutes is when he knows he's going to come and slows down. Average is about 15 minutes and I've had some men come,keep hard and carry on,then come again a couple of minutes later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To put a figure on it... probably between 15-25 mins actually fucking, depending upon the length of the hay rolling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A quickie is about 15-20 minutes.

Anything else depends how much fun we're having. I can go for about an hour these days but then recovery time is longer."

A whole hour of constant penetration?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To put a figure on it... probably between 15-25 mins actually fucking, depending upon the length of the hay rolling "

A change of positions helps too don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea. I completely lose track of time

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Depending on foreplay time, length since last time I came, what we're doing etc. anything from 20-40 minutes on average, usually longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I know is if I started to think about time it's probably not that great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A quickie is about 15-20 minutes.

Anything else depends how much fun we're having. I can go for about an hour these days but then recovery time is longer.

A whole hour of constant penetration? "

Could think of nothing worse! (well, obviously I can, but you know...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer short sessions of fucking with lots of sucking, touching and kissing in between. Fucking for more than a few minutes at a time is just boring!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one

Ladies and gentleman may I introduce you to Fabs resident stud, setting the bar high for the rest of us mere mortals. Cheers Shag "
Yes I always set the bar high, its the best way

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By *rKentMan
over a year ago

South East

I like to go for 25 to 45 mins.

Also love a game of two halves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A quickie is about 15-20 minutes.

Anything else depends how much fun we're having. I can go for about an hour these days but then recovery time is longer.

A whole hour of constant penetration? "

I can do longer than that if I get back to practicing my edging again lol I was capable of two hours when I was younger but that really hurt my prostate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And thanks for the criticism "can think of nothing worse" lol obviously we alternated depth and speed a lot to tease all the right spots. It's not like I was trying to hammer a nail with my cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.

Her"

You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.

Her

You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then. "

Anything less than an hour and I feel seriously short-changed tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.

Her

You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then.

Anything less than an hour and I feel seriously short-changed tbh"
Several sparadic qualities are good..a constant same old, same old pounding can dry me up

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.

Her

You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then. "
zAnytime gorgeous

Her

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.

Her

You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then.

Anything less than an hour and I feel seriously short-changed tbhSeveral sparadic qualities are good..a constant same old, same old pounding can dry me up

Her"

Then you ain't doin' it right :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure. But for scientific purposes I will get the clock out next time.. because that wont be sexy enough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.

Her

You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then.

Anything less than an hour and I feel seriously short-changed tbhSeveral sparadic qualities are good..a constant same old, same old pounding can dry me up

Her

Then you ain't doin' it right :P"
you reckon

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.

Her

You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then. zAnytime gorgeous

Her"

Get yer coat you've pulled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.

Her

You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then. zAnytime gorgeous

Her

Get yer coat you've pulled "
Its on waiting with heels on

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.

Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.

Her

You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then. zAnytime gorgeous

Her

Get yer coat you've pulled Its on waiting with heels on

Her"

Ooooooo

Heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.

Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.

"

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

On average 20 -40mins one woman i went 2 hours with long time cumming but when i did couldnt feel my legs for about 10 mins!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normally til she's says 'don't stop, I'm cumming ' "

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Oh my word, I always want a LOT more than most people are suggesting here!

I'll give you the best 30 seconds you'll ever have "

show off bet you fall short by at least one second!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I last 2 minutes sometimes I last up to an hour depends on what happened beforehand!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I like to go for 25 to 45 mins.

Also love a game of two halves! "

just knew some one would bring bloody football into it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a couple of minutes but I have the ability to carry on afterwards, which lasts a lot longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my word, I always want a LOT more than most people are suggesting here!

I'll give you the best 30 seconds you'll ever have

show off bet you fall short by at least one second!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol "

Sometimes, luck is on the playmates side and they get as many as 35 or more seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 pumps then I squirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.

Her

You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then.

Anything less than an hour and I feel seriously short-changed tbh"

I'll be honest... if you find yourself usually fucking for over an hour I'd say there's something going wrong... the natural dynamics of a shag kinda take 20-50 minutes, kiss and a cuddle and its time for round two... plus, if it's safe sex, the poor wee lass has gotta have a raw fanny by the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still in a sweat from a lovely afternoon meet today. The first fuck was about 15 mins the second about 45 - 50 mins. It was awesome. I love it when we go for ages. We fucked whilst sharing fantasies. Knacketed but still horny as hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a very interesting one for me, as I don't really have a great deal of experience with multiple partners (having been married for 20+ years before meeting my better half of 5)

Soooo... She is a multiple cummer and in 5 years has only ever cum once a handful of times.

It's normally 3 or 4 in a half hour session. We counted 13 in one of our all day-ers a few years back before giving up on keeping score....we don't bother now.

Luckily I can go for as long as it takes to make sure she is satisfied before letting go. I can then generally keep going or wait 10 mins or so before we are off again.

We are very well matched and this is a very interesting thread because it seems we are unusual. Tbh I thought most peeps were like us...seems not.

Also turns out I'm "very good at it" lol....who would have thought it...given my past history.

Anyway

Only recently, on a trip to Amsterdam, I did fuck her (in her words)..."like an animal" where it was all about me......I was going to cum after I'd thoroughly used her as my fuck toy....she told me after that she loved it and I have let go more since.... I find it hard not to make sure she fully satisfied before I release...perhaps doesn't make any sense..dunno

Not really a bad problem though lol

No Pinocchio untruths

Back in The Dam in a couple of weeks too

X

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

So we have quite a range from a few seconds to a few hours.

Even if my cock could last for 2 hours, I'm not sure I would have the physical stamina for that! It's like running a Marathon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we have quite a range from a few seconds to a few hours.

Even if my cock could last for 2 hours, I'm not sure I would have the physical stamina for that! It's like running a Marathon! "

It's a nicer way to keep fit than jogging though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others, it can depend on who I am with.

I can go for a long time. Usually have to slow down or stop on occasion to get my breath back. Before starting again.

Some women like a long fuck others don't. Have been complimented on my stamina several times.

Sometimes I don't cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one "

A stiff what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one

A stiff what? "

A stiff drink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say I have never timed it so I have no idea. When I get bored I want them to get off. Or if I'm having fun I want to carry on. *shrug*

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one

A stiff what? "

Bet I know what you're thinking

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?"

I see guys who cum speedily and others who last ages; some guys go on till I say "please cum"; whatever the length of time does not matter to me cos men are not robots and I always arrange to see two or more guys (separately) of a day/evening/night cos if one is crap the next one might be better. All I can say is I'm glad for lube!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to go for 25 to 45 mins.

Also love a game of two halves!

just knew some one would bring bloody football into it lol "

Do you get oranges at half time and the ref telling you back on the pitch ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.

Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.

"

This...and if either of us are clock watching we're doing it wrong.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Usually a couple of position changes and one or two breathers .. No idea how long in time that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who am with. Sensual for me is quicker xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No more than 5 minutes , 2 or 3 is best

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By *igdogxxxMan
over a year ago

nottinghamshire

45 min's then chuck my muck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?

Put it this way I can't stand it if a guy only lasts 5-10 min!

I love to tease whilst fucking and lots of othee things, fucking isn't just fucking I'm my world."

This I definitely agree with. It's the quality of it all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont know , by the time i reach for the Stopwatch , it's all over

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I prefer the licky / sucky stuff to real sex and I do get bored if a guy bangs away for ages - I tend to let it happen for a few minutes then push them away and say 'my turn' and return to sucking them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3hrs 47 minutes and 35 seconds precisely!

Oh wait, scrub that, I used compensatory tactics then!

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford


"Oh my word, I always want a LOT more than most people are suggesting here! "

Don't tell me a 3 day event

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Depends but can last for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm giddy I cum so fast it's a joke some times but it I go in nice and slow it has no limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of guys are telling porkies here haha

If there is a connection during the foreplay I find that five min max is enough before the female partner is having an orgasm

Sometimes I find it hard not to cum early, other times I can hold out until they come and on rare occasions I can't cum, not due to my partner at the time not turning me on or anything, I'm not to sure of the reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?"

Dunno, we don't normally do it in such a linear way with fucking being some kind of end point...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on time of day, stress levels, alcohol intake.

Anything from 5 to 15 minutes to a good 30 to 40 minutes although have been known to go for an hour or so without cumming and then just decided to stop and go to sleep. As someone else said that doesn't mean an hour of the same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no average time..sometimes am great..sometimes I'm not...I promise nothing in sexual terms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the situation, and what the expectations of the situation are.

One memorable session in a Swansea hotel with a gorgeous lady from Pembrokeshire (Hakin...???), who I lost touch with a few years ago sadly, was spread over 24 hours and I'd LOVE to one day find her again... I remember cumming around four times, but there was a lot of pleasuring each other in every possible way too...and we went out to get something to eat at some point as well...lol.

We spent the night at a lovely hotel near Cardigan as our first night together, and from memory we didn't get much in the way of sleep that night either

And there was also a memorable evening on a cliff top near Newgale... Oh the wonderful memories...

'Nina' - SB where are you...?

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Love the honesty shown here..... Well done all......

With me depends how into my pattner I am and how fresh I feel....

4- 5 mins...... If ok.... If she,s really got be going a lot quicker....

But with a little chill raring to go again.....but a little more sedate..

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

(Mr) : As part of a longer session (a lot happens before penetration!) about 30-60 mins, but with lots of variation of positions and variations of slow/fast etc.

Never been able to come quickly - especially with a condom - and met with a range of responses from the partners, but luckily not too many complaints!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if either of us are clock watching we're doing it wrong."

Or on your lunchtime

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Oh my word, I always want a LOT more than most people are suggesting here!

Don't tell me a 3 day event "

Hahaha oh yes, that is my sport of choice! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if either of us are clock watching we're doing it wrong.

Or on your lunchtime "

That doesn't count. And was watch watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my word, I always want a LOT more than most people are suggesting here!

Don't tell me a 3 day event

Hahaha oh yes, that is my sport of choice! ! "
as long as its the old style with long road and tracks , then a good steeple chasse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you cum before end of 90 second update on bbc1 then start worrying lol xx

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Oh my word, I always want a LOT more than most people are suggesting here!

Don't tell me a 3 day event

Hahaha oh yes, that is my sport of choice! ! as long as its the old style with long road and tracks , then a good steeple chasse"

Absolutely, a proper test of fitness training and endurance!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

It varies depending on how horny I am and how much foreplay we've had.

If we have had a really good foreplay session perhaps a couple of hours or more, and if I have been hard throughout, then I tend to last longer than if we get down to the penetration after 15 minutes.

Either way it's never longer than 10 minutes to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my word, I always want a LOT more than most people are suggesting here!

Don't tell me a 3 day event

Hahaha oh yes, that is my sport of choice! ! as long as its the old style with long road and tracks , then a good steeple chasse

nice to have a good stayer x

Absolutely, a proper test of fitness training and endurance! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and get it over and done with in about 2/3 mins.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"If I'm giddy I cum so fast it's a joke some times but it I go in nice and slow it has no limit "

I just kove the fact you get giddy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Varies really, but on average about 10-15 minutes. Sometimes it can go on a lot longer, but it can become painful for my wife if it goes on too long.

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By *urexIronBarMan
over a year ago

South Manchester

After good foreplay ~ 20 minutes of solid penetration

With no foreplay ~ 1-2 hours

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By *osforthMan
over a year ago

newcastle on tyne

I have a problem in this department. It gets more & more difficult for me to cum at all during penetration these days. Usually have to be wanked or sucked to completion. Think it's a consequence of getting older & less sensitive. On 2 meets in the last 18 months just had to give up, still both had fun just no happy ending for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can cum on demand and usually try to orgasm at the same time as my partner

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?

Dunno, we don't normally do it in such a linear way with fucking being some kind of end point..."

I never said it was linear, or an end point, I said the "penetrative part of your play time"

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.

Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.

This...and if either of us are clock watching we're doing it wrong."

So you lose all track of time and wouldn't know if it was 2 minutes or an hour?

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By *oosterboyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

All depends on the other person and the foreplay. Can go for at least 10 mins usually. I prefer a long sesh I'm not a cum and go type of guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?"

I'm quoting the OP because I can't quite believe some of the reponses on this thread. The OP asks, once the cock is in... how long do you last. There seems to be a lot of people here talking about 2-5 minutes. Some more people, like myself, quoting about 15-30 minutes. And a few saying 1-3 hours.

Are we all talking about he same thing in different ways? Or are we biologically different? This is so weird I wanted to make it clear...

1) A total make out session can run to hours.. but that's not hours of constant penetrative sex... it involves a lot of foreplay. Are the guys who think they can fuck constantly for an hour or more misreading the question as asking how long they can last during an entire make out session, rather than how long once penetrative sex begins?

2) Once the cock goes in and its a green light then it really doesn't take much time at all... seconds sometimes... depending on how turned on when you decide it's all go. It might be 30 seconds to maybe 3 mins max.

But if the green light isn't there from my partner I'll go for a couple of minutes and withdraw, go, withdraw, and so on... until I get the green light. Sometimes I don't need to withdraw and we just slow down instead. But, in essence, this is what I'd call the penetrative part of our play time. This part can last about 15-30 mins, although we're obviously not watching the clock as others have mentioned.

So the question here is... are the shorties just not waiting for the green light? Or are there no such thing as red or green lights for them? Or are they incapable of waiting for any green lights?

I don't want people to make the mistake of assuming that a good shag is a long shag... sometimes it isn't. So I'm not trying to make anyone feel inadequate. It just seems like a really odd distinction between people that I haven't come across before and I'm trying to figure out if it's just blokes getting crossed wires or if there are real biological differences at play here. V curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a problem in this department. It gets more & more difficult for me to cum at all during penetration these days. Usually have to be wanked or sucked to completion. Think it's a consequence of getting older & less sensitive. On 2 meets in the last 18 months just had to give up, still both had fun just no happy ending for me. "

I'm a similar age, and this is also my experience. Some of the most satisfying I've had sex has been without me cumming at all.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

It's all about enjoyment, not a performance xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's huge variation. The other night I was so horny after fucking C with her vibe and making her cum that I came pretty much as soon as I entered her. On the oppisite end the scale, she's been known to ride herself to complete exhaustion cumming 3 or 4 times and ive still not been done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So frustrating if a guy only lasts 10 minutes! I'm just getting started by then! Not bothered if he repeats as my build up will have subsided by then.

This is one of the biggest reasons I refuse repeat meets with some guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?

Dunno, we don't normally do it in such a linear way with fucking being some kind of end point...

I never said it was linear, or an end point, I said the "penetrative part of your play time" "

Penetration to orgasm doesn't always happen is my point, vaginal penetration by a penis isn't always the point...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got circumsized 2 years ago and find it extremely herd to cum during penetration. So I can last for hours

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"I got circumsized 2 years ago and find it extremely herd to cum during penetration. So I can last for hours "

That can make you less sensitive my foreskin is always back so im not as sensitive as i prob should be xx But sex is more than just the penetration if i have plenty of foreplay and get really horny that does help xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.

Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.

This...and if either of us are clock watching we're doing it wrong.

So you lose all track of time and wouldn't know if it was 2 minutes or an hour?"

Obviously I have some sense of time, but the distinction of whether something is 10 or 15 minutes, wouldn't have a clue. I have been thinking about it and I've got no idea at all what my average or ideal length of penetrative sex would be. Probably towards the lower end of people's estimates because I enjoy the foreplay and build up so much it doesn't need to last long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.

Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.

This...and if either of us are clock watching we're doing it wrong.

So you lose all track of time and wouldn't know if it was 2 minutes or an hour?

Obviously I have some sense of time, but the distinction of whether something is 10 or 15 minutes, wouldn't have a clue. I have been thinking about it and I've got no idea at all what my average or ideal length of penetrative sex would be. Probably towards the lower end of people's estimates because I enjoy the foreplay and build up so much it doesn't need to last long. "

Ideal woman and I love foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.

Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.

This...and if either of us are clock watching we're doing it wrong."
me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 mins 14.3 seconds exactly. every time since i was 16

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Nothing better than an afternoon or all evening session - mixing it up plus a few vino's or fizz!

Teasing and tantalisation, the build up is so important- mental stimulation followed by physical ecstasy ??

Obviously it includes all aspects plus some relaxation and massage!

The next day I certainly know about it - sometimes feels like I've been ran over by a bus but hey it's worth it!!

Likewise when a quickie is required, sensual massage to the right areas and penetration - ten minute wonder!

Funnily enough, more is always required mmmm

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

20 mins!!! Bloody hell, get yourself a dog . lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

5 seconds.......

.......after her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just depends on the lady...sometimes quick and then repeat..and sometimes slow....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure it's been a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can do tantric and hold an orgasm but only with people who appreciate it. Only problem once you hold it too much your never going to ejaculate that night but we are not talking hours of pounding away 10 - 15 mins then stop for more foreplay then more penetrative sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the licky / sucky stuff to real sex and I do get bored if a guy bangs away for ages - I tend to let it happen for a few minutes then push them away and say 'my turn' and return to sucking them "

Me too....prefer repeaters to stayers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mrs) take forever to climax so I think that puts pressure on my lover at the time to last longer. I'd be disappointed with any less than 10 minutes but I love the time between sessions where you can enjoy taking time with kissing and foreplay. I also have to admit to loving making a man go over the edge when he doesn't want to cum yet - love the power!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily I can come when the woman is ready for me to cum 10 mins 45 min what ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as she can stand it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.

Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.

This...and if either of us are clock watching we're doing it wrong.

So you lose all track of time and wouldn't know if it was 2 minutes or an hour?

Obviously I have some sense of time, but the distinction of whether something is 10 or 15 minutes, wouldn't have a clue. I have been thinking about it and I've got no idea at all what my average or ideal length of penetrative sex would be. Probably towards the lower end of people's estimates because I enjoy the foreplay and build up so much it doesn't need to last long. "

Well said, same for me too.

I've had penetrative sex which has lasted no time at all because of the build up of excitement from extended foreplay ~ at it was mind blowing

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By *r DeviantMan
over a year ago

Nowhere Land

For me it's not sex that i have a problem lasting its oral. I really have to concentrate particularly with my fb. Penetrative sex however can last anywhere between 30 mins to an hour. Unless a quickly has been organised but generally like to go 3 times on a meet

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?"

We don't understand the question.

With us our play is not sectioned off into individual parts.

We could be having penetrative sex then change to non penetrative then change again as the mood takes us

It depends on the partner and the mood

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Really hard to answer.

Like had been said above we vary it up. Also depends on what else we are doing at the same time as penetration.

We could be doggy style and banging away. Or she could be ontop licking my nipples as she slowly works her pussy up and down with some sexy kissing mixed in.

All varies each time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too long....I'm far to in control of my orgasms, I'd love one to just sneak up on me after 5 minutes fucking, completely grip me unexpectedly...lasting has its pros and cons, the main con is the dreaded 'wandering mind'......did I leave the oven on......

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