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Fantasies! Are they best left that way?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've recently acted out a fantasy of mine which made me think afterwards "wow that wasn't all it was hyped up too be" and think I maybe shouldn't have bothered with it at all! And slightly puts me off trying anymore as I don't want too ruin anymore for myself! Has anyone else felt that way?

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Thankfully, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we are working our way slowly through our fantasies and having the best sex of our lives.

Sorry you didn't have that experience op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not too sure if the reason was the person I acted it out with perhaps!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

The point at which fantasy and reality cross is a rare one...

I find it better not to build things up, then you're less likely to be disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not too sure if the reason was the person I acted it out with perhaps! "

That could well be the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. I have some fantasies that I know will never become reality but others I have definitely will one day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are some aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if they don't turn out to be what you thought, it just pushes me on to find more that are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not too sure if the reason was the person I acted it out with perhaps! "

Have to be nosey and ask what your fantasy was you acted out

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Hell no, had a fantasy played out tonight and i have waited years for a chance to embark on this adventure.

Would totally do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've recently acted out a fantasy of mine which made me think afterwards "wow that wasn't all it was hyped up too be" and think I maybe shouldn't have bothered with it at all! And slightly puts me off trying anymore as I don't want too ruin anymore for myself! Has anyone else felt that way? "

Yes, for the "not all its hyped upto be".

Hasn't put me off it or anything else, just that now I concentrate on the person rather than fixating on a specific act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20+ years ago I fantasised about a close friend of my mother's....constantly. When it finally came true, she was not the confident experienced woman I had Lusted after but was awkward, needy and required constant reassurance.......a valuable lesson learned.

When a fantasy requires two or more people to act it out but has only been played out in one mind, it well rarely go as imagined.

As others have said though, I have continued in my life long trend of experience what turns me on regardless of the furrowed brow of 'normal' society but with a touch more caution and a little less expectation.

I have had a threesome with two air stewardesses which wasnt anywhere near the playboy script of my youth......and had a threesome with a retired, slightly over weight couple and it was one of the sexiest nights of my life.

Life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some fantasies probably are best in your head and in reality won't ever be as good. For me, the mind is the most powerful sexual organ.

Some though will translate well into reality or may just happen, as right time, right setting, right people. MFF was one of mine, and I loved it at the time. We had a good dynamic though. I have others that may well just stay as they are , as fantasies In my head. I will talk about them, but possibly never actually act out.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Fun to try x

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By *te tMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Fun to try x"

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By *te tMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Even if they don't turn out to be what you thought, it just pushes me on to find more that are"

I love pushing it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't be here if the idea of acting out our fantasies wasn't a huge buzz - just the idea of making them happen is so much more intoxicating than 'leaving them in your head'. As others have said though, other people are key to making fantasies reality, and that's the hard bit. So the search goes on...

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We put our fantasy into reality best thing we ever did

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

we have tried a few things out that we have talked about for a couple of years.The first one was nice but not the earth-shattering expereinece we hoped for,but hasn't put us off trying

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Fantasies about things you would like to try - why not? Fantasies about people you would like to get together with - perhaps sometimes best left as a fantasy but sometimes the best thing you ever did - like me wooing my OH 33 years ago!

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By *aster n subCouple
over a year ago

pickering

Shaz had fantasised about becoming a sub being owned my a master and experiencing another woman for 20 years but never thought it would come true until she met me and now shes loving it .She always said she had a piece missing from her life . I think its just a case of finding the right person and being patient and a little luck and your fantasy can become a reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some definitely are.

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