FabSwingers.com forum: verifications...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've noticed that alot of people on this site say that they won't meet or even reply without actual personal verification by somebody else.

surely if everybody took this attitude nobody would meet anybody.... can anybody help me out with the reason for this (apart from the obvious reasons)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are various ways to get a verification...and start from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People put too much weight on them. It always comes across to me as someone wanting others to do their vetting for them.

And give it a little while and you will get told to get to a club or social soon enough lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also if you haven't got a verification within a certain time frame you'll be considered not serious. Basically you can't win. My advise is not give a shit about veris at all. Use your personality in messages and on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

no problem. I'll take that on board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also if you haven't got a verification within a certain time frame you'll be considered not serious. Basically you can't win. My advise is not give a shit about veris at all. Use your personality in messages and on the forum."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go have a read of the thread in the next room down from this. That will give you an idea of the perils that is a verification.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

cheers folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed that alot of people on this site say that they won't meet or even reply without actual personal verification by somebody else.

surely if everybody took this attitude nobody would meet anybody.... can anybody help me out with the reason for this (apart from the obvious reasons)"

I believe a lot of folk use the verification as a means to out time wasters. If someone has a number of verifications they obviously turn up from time to time. If someone has no verifications they may just be after the thrill of the chase and not actually want to go through with a meet. I've been let down twice now by people who haven't been verified. Unfortunately as a single male with limited verifications on this site it's hard to be picky when you are proposed a meet as they can be few and far between.

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

We don't care for any type of verification on here.

Some are left out of politeness, some are great and genuine ... Doesn't mean that person is for us.

Photo verifications are just as useless, being a graphics designer I have on many sites fooled admins as they have no way of knowing.

You'll find most talk crap on here anyway, get yourself to a club where the real players go ... Use this site to keep in touch with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We don't care for any type of verification on here.

Some are left out of politeness, some are great and genuine ... Doesn't mean that person is for us.

Photo verifications are just as useless, being a graphics designer I have on many sites fooled admins as they have no way of knowing.

You'll find most talk crap on here anyway, get yourself to a club where the real players go ... Use this site to keep in touch with them

cupids and adam and eves are near me. you know of any others? could you give me any tips from a single male perspective of how I'd approach the club scene?

thanks again folks

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

they are useful to see if someone actually meets but ive been messed about by people with lots

.i'll meet people that dont have any

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