FabSwingers.com forum: Feeling Meh...

By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

My naughty birthday celebration at AbFabs wasn't so great...

No one really showed up, either cancelled last minute or were no shows.

My date couldn't play due to certain circumstances that developed before we left for the club, so annoying.

Didn't fancy anyone despite it being a mixed night.

Had invited four separate guys to my hotel room today, all said yes, all verified, yet none came.

Am I now the female equivalent of the majority of single men here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up.

These things happen.

..and happy birthday x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I now the female equivalent of the majority of single men here?

No because you're somewhat attractive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dam, they must have needed there eye's testing not showing up. I'm sure things will get better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More fool them! Happy Birthday. Things will get better. x

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I would have turned up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would turn up as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww its disappointing when a special night doesn't work out as planned.

Chin up & Happy Birthday x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sod it, it's one night. Can't change it now. I've had some shitty ones, had some great ones. Happy birthday x

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Write it off and put something decent on to watch.

Sometimes it's just a bad night. I am sure you will have plenty more good ones in the future and have in the past.

Happy Birthday lovely x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I get you, my birthday weekend was a wash too. Hoped to see my man on the Friday (my birthday) but that didn't work out. Went to After8 for the Xmas party on the Saturday and no one was playing, it was practically a social so left disappointed.

Can you arrange something for another weekend, a belated celebration?

And happy birthday x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

That's really poo. What a bunch of rotters.

Here's to next time, eh?

Happy bee day anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a rather unfortunate series of events!

I'm not going to say I'd of turned up, cos I'm too old and far away.

I will say happy birthday though xx

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Thanks all. The abfabs night was Friday and Saturday night is the 4 no shows. I suppose just not my birthday to be naughty...

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

It's weird though when this sort of thing happens.

Not saying every guy is like it because there are lots who are decent, but as a proportion they are quite rare.

You get pestered by guys who promise the earth, claim to have similar interests etc such as group fun. You then engage with them in chat to out time wasters and check they are verified etc. then they don't turn up.

I get loads of guys messaging me, though nowhere near as many as the gorgeous OP does I'm sure. I wanted a threesome last November. Picked 5 guys who were interested in threesomes and gang bangs and had verifications plus either articulate messages or profiles. They all knew they were coming to a gang bang though I thought one or two might bottle it or have a genuine drop out reason. All five failed to turn up so I got nothing.

Even worse after the gangbang I was going to see a band but four guys had wanted to meet after if I wanted. So when the no shows left me frustrated I messages all the others who all said they were up for it after 11. After 11 when I tried to hook up with them in turn they all failed to respond. 9 in one night!

Luckily a horny trucker at Washington services was more than delighted to sort me out in the back of his cab, but until then I was about as frustrated and pissed off with men, who I'd decided were all arseholes, as you can get.

My sympathies with the OP but I can't imagine this will be common for anyone that pretty.

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By *te tMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"My naughty birthday celebration at AbFabs wasn't so great...

No one really showed up, either cancelled last minute or were no shows.

My date couldn't play due to certain circumstances that developed before we left for the club, so annoying.

Didn't fancy anyone despite it being a mixed night.

Had invited four separate guys to my hotel room today, all said yes, all verified, yet none came.

Am I now the female equivalent of the majority of single men here?

Keep smiling sexy, happy birthday x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to us all the time. We had three single guy meets planned for last Saturday and subsequently three single guy no shows...such is life on fab.

Happy birthday anyway fellow Gemini!

-Courtney

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

That sucks

Best laid plans and all that but sometimes people let you down

I was at Ab Fabs on Friday - if I'd know things were going badly I would have at least sung happy birthday to you

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Going to bed sexually frustrated

I received messages, but not my type...

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