FabSwingers.com forum: Manhandled

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate it personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if i can retaliate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I trust a man, yes

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Yes!!! No being held by the throat tho...and if they are going to pull my hair they have to do it properly and not from the ends!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being manhandled mind you given the chance i do it back theres nothing better

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

oh god yes, the rougher the better!! And don't forget the spankings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if there's complete trust, difficult to find with casual encounters

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

"Only if i can retaliate"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer consensual violence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By one man in particular yes,because he gets it just right.

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By *ionamTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Frankly I consider this a dangerous and deliberately inflammatory question. This is open to wide interpretation by the males involved and as the poster probably knows full well not all of which may have a happy sexual ecstasy outcome . It's deliberately provocative for "mild violence " gratification and justification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love Paul to be abit rough and manhandle me but wouldn't want another man to be xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To a certain extent, but usually with someone I know and trust!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here."
by men I trust yes but not my throat being held

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a bit of rough...nothing better than being pinned down and fucked hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but only with someone I know & trust.

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By *thyorksCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

Don't mind a firm rogering lol, prefer to be treated gently & softly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!!! No being held by the throat tho...and if they are going to pull my hair they have to do it properly and not from the ends!!"

I agree exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love it!! The rougher the better for me!

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By *hettoslutWoman
over a year ago

Brixton

I am naturally submissive and into pain so fucking hell YES to the point some men are put off by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete sub in the bedroom... but try it outside of it and I will kick you in the bollocks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Complete sub in the bedroom... but try it outside of it and I will kick you in the bollocks lol "

Haha ^ I'm the same

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

Yes please

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Complete sub in the bedroom... but try it outside of it and I will kick you in the bollocks lol

Haha ^ I'm the same

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By *iandbustyWoman
over a year ago

motherwell

Love it a bit rough with an other female and once I get to know a guy and trust him then yes love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When can I meet one of you sub ladies

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

With Mr N, very much so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was, she had a saying for the day I came back from deployment- if something in the house wasn't broken, we weren't doing it right! We were literally smashing each other off every surface we could find till we were literally exhausted. 9 months is a lot of built up tension!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Yes I do....the rougher the better - it seems to be only my OH who plays that way with me though.....we have only found one guy on here who did and he isn't playing anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

We love it occasionally

But always with the right people and lots of trust!

Monkey x

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By *exy hot wife 84Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

Yes! I love it! With name calling as well

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By *aster n subCouple
over a year ago

pickering

Yes if its done right by someone who knows what they are doing and are doing it to increase your intensity. It can go very wrong if they are wannabe doms that get off on causing pain and not thinking about the sub..

Shaz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love doing all the above, but the trust has to be there! I may be a kinky guy, but I'm still a gent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if its done right by someone who knows what they are doing and are doing it to increase your intensity. It can go very wrong if they are wannabe doms that get off on causing pain and not thinking about the sub..

Shaz"

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Love it, but only with Bradley.

- Amy. x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

There is a time and place for this type of play.......

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By *ollypops181Woman
over a year ago

exmouth

Shaz"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bad for this when half asleep cuddling.

Wake up in the night they're far away without thinking reach out drag them back across the bed into my arms as a little spoon, hug them tight, them promptly fall back asleep ad they're now awake and wondering what the fuck is going on.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"I'm bad for this when half asleep cuddling.

Wow....how sexy does that sound? I want some of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who... but in some situations ''Yes please''

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a right good tangle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't figure out why it's a dangerous and inflammatory question,arnt people supposed to have different sexual tastes or preferences or are we all expected to keep doing the missionary position in bed with the lights out once a week.

God help anyone who doesn't fit in with other people's idea of what's normal

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!!! No being held by the throat tho...and if they are going to pull my hair they have to do it properly and not from the ends!!"

Exactly this, but trust is very important. Everyones pains threshold is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't figure out why it's a dangerous and inflammatory question,arnt people supposed to have different sexual tastes or preferences or are we all expected to keep doing the missionary position in bed with the lights out once a week.

God help anyone who doesn't fit in with other people's idea of what's normal

Gimp "

I'm reminded of the people who cry "all PIV is rape!!!"

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By *rs s 85Woman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I love it.... Under the right circumstances, have to feel completely comfortable with the guy, but totally up for it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm i love a little manhandling

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

"I'm bad for this when half asleep cuddling.

That does sound incredibly hot as it goes.. and theres no way you would be going back to sleep straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only if there's complete trust, difficult to find with casual encounters

This..But so many guys can't pull hair properly. I like to grab a fist full of a ladies hair If she likes it too x

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By *te tMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Only if i can retaliate"

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By *te tMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I love being manhandled mind you given the chance i do it back theres nothing better

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By *te tMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I prefer consensual violence."

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"Only if there's complete trust, difficult to find with casual encounters

This..But so many guys can't pull hair properly. I like to grab a fist full of a ladies hair If she likes it too x "

We struggle to find people who like to play this way too

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By *te tMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Only if there's complete trust, difficult to find with casual encounters

This..But so many guys can't pull hair properly. I like to grab a fist full of a ladies hair If she likes it too x

We struggle to find people who like to play this way too

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

As with any type of play with the right person there is nothing hotter than being manhandled.

Get it wrong it's the biggest turn off and becomes a awkward ham fisted tragedy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only if there's complete trust, difficult to find with casual encounters

This..But so many guys can't pull hair properly. I like to grab a fist full of a ladies hair If she likes it too x "

Two hand fills grabbed tightly, pulling to tilt the head back, as you pound from behind...perfect

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Only if there's complete trust, difficult to find with casual encounters

This..But so many guys can't pull hair properly. I like to grab a fist full of a ladies hair If she likes it too x

Two hand fills grabbed tightly, pulling to tilt the head back, as you pound from behind...perfect

TAXI !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only if there's complete trust, difficult to find with casual encounters

This..But so many guys can't pull hair properly. I like to grab a fist full of a ladies hair If she likes it too x

Two hand fills grabbed tightly, pulling to tilt the head back, as you pound from behind...perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love doing all the above, but the trust has to be there! I may be a kinky guy, but I'm still a gent

Best kind!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love doing all the above, but the trust has to be there! I may be a kinky guy, but I'm still a gent

Best kind!!

I also like to take two long strands, twist it so it's tight in my fingers and pull on it as I look into her eyes and fuck her with her legs on my shoulders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only if there's complete trust, difficult to find with casual encounters

This..But so many guys can't pull hair properly. I like to grab a fist full of a ladies hair If she likes it too x

Two hand fills grabbed tightly, pulling to tilt the head back, as you pound from behind...perfect

Meant to say it was Ms posting... But Mr is adept at pulling hair and manhandling me exceptionally well

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By *ngelsdevilWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside

YES YES YES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very much so. What I don't like though is being thrown about like a rag doll!

I'm a very sensual lover/fucker generally and it's my most favourite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very much so. What I don't like though is being thrown about like a rag doll!

I'm a very sensual lover/fucker generally and it's my most favourite.

If only I were 5 yrs younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"I also like to take two long strands, twist it so it's tight in my fingers and pull on it as I look into her eyes and fuck her with her legs on my shoulders

Love this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I used the term manhandled specifically, I've read some disturbing things on here and, if it didn't provide mutual pleasure, I'm not interested, I do love to be very physical, I find it so erotic to pull her head back by her hair so I can snog her as I take her from behind, or to pin her down in missionary position as the passion and the tempo rises, also like holding her ankles tightly and opening her legs wide as I fuck her hard, but always conscious of the response I get and before any play, establish where the line is. If she's not enjoying it, neither am I, to be honest, I've yet to meet a lady that doesn't at some level.

With regards to being submissive, I love a lady who gives herself to me completely and likes to be guided in the knowledge that I will always be respectful and considerate. But, outside the bedroom, I want an equal, not a doormat.

I'm glad so many find this so horny, a five minute shag in one position isn't very satisfying for either party don't you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the right person yes

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Yes love it.

Throat holding whilst being fucked. Add in face/tut slapping. Tied up , restrained yep my kind of thing.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

"Yes love it.

Throat holding whilst being fucked. Add in face/tut slapping. Tied up , restrained yep my kind of thing.

Ok not tut but tit slapping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going against the grain here to say no.

Don't get me wrong being pinned down in the heat of the moment can be sexy. Even a playful spank but I'm not in to anyone near my throat or any pain at all.

I'm firmly in the sensual and erotic camp. Something that feels good shouldn't hurt me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used the term manhandled specifically, I've read some disturbing things on here and, if it didn't provide mutual pleasure, I'm not interested, I do love to be very physical, I find it so erotic to pull her head back by her hair so I can snog her as I take her from behind, or to pin her down in missionary position as the passion and the tempo rises, also like holding her ankles tightly and opening her legs wide as I fuck her hard, but always conscious of the response I get and before any play, establish where the line is. If she's not enjoying it, neither am I, to be honest, I've yet to meet a lady that doesn't at some level.

I'm glad so many find this so horny, a five minute shag in one position isn't very satisfying for either party don't you think"

yes please!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going against the grain here to say no.

Don't get me wrong being pinned down in the heat of the moment can be sexy. Even a playful spank but I'm not in to anyone near my throat or any pain at all.

I'm firmly in the sensual and erotic camp. Something that feels good shouldn't hurt me. "

Noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very much so. What I don't like though is being thrown about like a rag doll!

I'm a very sensual lover/fucker generally and it's my most favourite.

If only I were 5 yrs younger

Awwww 51 soon?

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"I'm going against the grain here to say no.

Don't get me wrong being pinned down in the heat of the moment can be sexy. Even a playful spank but I'm not in to anyone near my throat or any pain at all.

I'm firmly in the sensual and erotic camp. Something that feels good shouldn't hurt me.

Noted

I will take the hurt please.....if I am not bruised for days after then I am mildly disappointed

sure I like sensual sex but if I am playing out then I want to make it count and I love it rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very much so. What I don't like though is being thrown about like a rag doll!

I'm a very sensual lover/fucker generally and it's my most favourite.

If only I were 5 yrs younger

Awwww 51 soon? "

Maths not your strong point Breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going against the grain here to say no.

Don't get me wrong being pinned down in the heat of the moment can be sexy. Even a playful spank but I'm not in to anyone near my throat or any pain at all.

I'm firmly in the sensual and erotic camp. Something that feels good shouldn't hurt me. "

I think everyone has their boundaries.Plus something can feel great with one person and totally wrong with another. Dynamics play a massive part.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Love it. But I do put up a fight.

I like the power play involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love it. But I do put up a fight.

I like the power play involved"

Difficult fighting back when you're cuffed hand and feet together on all fours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Submission to power of being manhandled in a trusting relationship and conducted in a correct manner..pure pleasure.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Complete sub in the bedroom... but try it outside of it and I will kick you in the bollocks lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only if i can retaliate"

You're welcome to try and pull my hair......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love it. But I do put up a fight.

I like the power play involved"

I just tend to tickle till thier a squirming mess then quickly pin them while they can't fight back ^_^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Frankly I consider this a dangerous and deliberately inflammatory question. This is open to wide interpretation by the males involved and as the poster probably knows full well not all of which may have a happy sexual ecstasy outcome . It's deliberately provocative for "mild violence " gratification and justification"

You could be right.

But interesting that the overwhelming majority of responses in the thread are from women and the overwhelming majority of them enjoy it.

A thought provoking thread with maybe unexpected comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noted....

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"Love it. But I do put up a fight.

I like the power play involved

I just tend to tickle till thier a squirming mess then quickly pin them while they can't fight back ^_^"

You would have to be strong......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bad for this when half asleep cuddling.

I've experienced it plenty of times, I'm putting a pillow between us in future, I like you cuddling me but that's just a bit too tight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love it. But I do put up a fight.

I like the power play involved

I just tend to tickle till thier a squirming mess then quickly pin them while they can't fight back ^_^"

Yeah but then you fart and waft it in my face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love it. But I do put up a fight.

I like the power play involved"

guys who get the concept wouldn't want it any other way. Its more of a mind game than the physicality of the assertiveness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love it. But I do put up a fight.

I like the power play involved

guys who get the concept wouldn't want it any other way. Its more of a mind game than the physicality of the assertiveness. "

I'd say deciding that it's always about one thing is not getting it.

The reasons are different for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the chemistry with the person. There was a couple of people who i used to meet, where with one of them it was all sensual, intimate and all about the gentle touches, the teases and the soft kisses.

Then, there was another who i'd grab her by the hair, spank her, pin her down and fuck her hard from behind and more..

I'm not an either/or person. I like it everyway..just depends on the mood and the person.

Usually the way she kisses me and grabs my cock dictate that.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I can take a bit of manhandling, I especially like it when he holds me by the hair just out of reach of his lips while we stare into each other's eyes before he crushes my lips in a hard passionate kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a bit of rough...nothing better than being pinned down and fucked hard

Yep I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not my thing

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By *urexIronBarMan
over a year ago

South Manchester

Loose grip throttle and maybe a little titty slapping when on top, and, when ramming from behind paddle or firm hand spanking always works a treat as well as hair pulling. All smaller women should come with a 'fragile' label though ;p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love it but not with everyone. I'd have to trust the guy

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Of course. Silly question

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Hell yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very addictive rough sex ,but i like the women to take contol safe an hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MMM YES PLEASE!!! Add a bit of biting too

I enjoy it most with lots of kissing and touching after tho, tenderness.

OP I wanted to perv at your pics but your profile is hidden??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with Mr Mix, don't trust anyone else...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love rough sex, but only with my other half, and only during sex. Combined with some seriously dirty talk it is a massive turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I love this, but with someone I've built up trust with. I've had first meets where they launch into name calling and I can feel my facial expression saying "who do you think you're talking to?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it rough - yes yes yes, alternated with some gentle lovemaking and cuddling - makes me quiver all over, m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the roughness is extra exciting when I feel like I have handed over control to the man completely and is nearly on the edge of losing control - if he slaps me hard enough to sting and knock my breathe out, if he pins me down so hard I can't even struggle I just get so overwhelmed by feelings of gratefulness that he is using me to gain pleasure without actually inflicting serious pain. I haven't had to use my safe word yet, nearly did once but braved it out and felt really proud of myself - I am lucky that the men I have met have been excellent judges of where my thresholds are, m x

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