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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you guys feel about them?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

They're great fun.

Why would they not be?

A

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"How do you guys feel about them?"

What's not to like?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I am not keen on the house ones to be honest (her) as I feel there is pressure and not sure if I will like the people. I like the larger ones at a venue where we met old friends, but dont really play at them very often. More of a social thing for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good laugh, everyone loves a party.

Her

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I am not keen on the house ones to be honest (her) as I feel there is pressure and not sure if I will like the people. I like the larger ones at a venue where we met old friends, but dont really play at them very often. More of a social thing for us "

We've been to house parties and club parties.

We don't feel pressured at either because we adopt the same approach - there's never an expectancy to play. They are a great way to meet others, often as much a social event as play, and give you a chance to meet a lot of people at once.

If we were ever invited to a party where it was clear sex would be expected? We'd say thanks but no thanks!

A

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By *agic wandMan
over a year ago

harrow

Any party is a good party lol

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"I am not keen on the house ones to be honest (her) as I feel there is pressure and not sure if I will like the people. I like the larger ones at a venue where we met old friends, but dont really play at them very often. More of a social thing for us

We've been to house parties and club parties.

We don't feel pressured at either because we adopt the same approach - there's never an expectancy to play. They are a great way to meet others, often as much a social event as play, and give you a chance to meet a lot of people at once.

If we were ever invited to a party where it was clear sex would be expected? We'd say thanks but no thanks!

A"

This was one time that has totally put me off. He knew the couple and so we went, even though they were not really my thing and clearly did not want me there. I was very pressured, physically, by the fem to perform, just because I am bi. I did not indulge and to be honest it has totally put me off. Sadly, I ended up having a big go at one of the other guests who accused me of being a prostitute. Then spent the journey home and the rest of the night vomiting and physically sick with the disgust of it all. I am nothing if not extreme.

Agreed, at club parties, we never feel pressure and I am not the type of person to feel pressure in any social situation just because of my job and career experiences (not prostitution I may add). I can hold my own, but what unnerved me was the total disrespect of physical space and boundaries, by a woman.

But even last week, we had the opportunity to meet a couple at theirs and I said no because I could not face such a situation again .... horrible, horrible experience. We trust our instincts now ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can be wonderful

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We have never been to a house party but do like clubs mainly because we don't know anyone and therefore there is no expectation on anyone.....I think if you have accepted a house party invite there might be an expectation but, as I say, never been to one so just a view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have never been to a house party but do like clubs mainly because we don't know anyone and therefore there is no expectation on anyone.....I think if you have accepted a house party invite there might be an expectation but, as I say, never been to one so just a view."
The ones we went to there was no expectation, just like any other party, but with people having sex if they choose to.

Her

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By *ovelybumCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"How do you guys feel about them?"

The one we are all going to tonight is going to be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ambivalent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found them to be much more relaxing with more playing.

Like them better than clubs at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have parties at ours, always good fun

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We're hosting our first party in a few weeks, and there will be people playing but certainly no expectation of it.

If people just want to socialise that's their choice

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We like them, some of our most memorable evenings have been at private parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi. We have never been to a house party before. How do you get to go to one?xx

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Hi. We have never been to a house party before. How do you get to go to one?xx"

We've basically invited some of our friends, and sent messages to others we'd like to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmm all very interesting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi. We have never been to a house party before. How do you get to go to one?xx"

There are many listed on this site and others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love them that's why we host great fun need to attend more also

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I am not keen on the house ones to be honest (her) as I feel there is pressure and not sure if I will like the people. I like the larger ones at a venue where we met old friends, but dont really play at them very often. More of a social thing for us

We've been to house parties and club parties.

We don't feel pressured at either because we adopt the same approach - there's never an expectancy to play. They are a great way to meet others, often as much a social event as play, and give you a chance to meet a lot of people at once.

If we were ever invited to a party where it was clear sex would be expected? We'd say thanks but no thanks!

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been to one. Any invites out there?

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

We love a good party. Some great memories made...

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